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With great difficulty. Remember that some families had Isaan roots but moved to other parts of the country for work. I doubt if there are many "pure" (sorry about that word) Isaan guys, even in Isaan. I also quarrel with the suggestion that all Isaan guys are well-endowed. Some are. So are some from the far south are, too. Circumcised ones from Muslim backgrounds. My advice is not to pursue this idea. But it's up to you of course, and others may differ. Thai guys are among the most beautiful in the world. Whatever the size of their appendages!

It's none of my business but I'm about to apply for a Thai Pass...and yes, I know the regulations have changed...but what specifically went wrong with your application in December? any lessons to be learnt?

Two important questions, but they may be too personal so ignore if you want. How old are you? and are you a falang? It makes a big difference. The thing about Babylon which set it apart from many other saunas was that it didn't. Well, not much. By the way, I agree with vinapu. When I first arrived in Bangkok- in the Good Old Days- I maintained that the best-looking guys worked in the menswear department of Robinson's on Silom. Always my first port of call on Day One! of course, many a 7 11 has a cute guy or two even today.

Me too.....and so Londoner became New Londoner. For a few days only! Can't bear to be without this forum , even for a day.

Remember Villa Rouge in Sunee? and K-Boys in Soi VC? Also Bangkok's Screw Boys (in its Soi Twilight manifestation). The Good Old Days!

True....but that girl was well-over six foot . I referred to her as an Amazon but her blonde hair suggested a Viking warrior from that rather good TV series. She'd have eaten some of the go go dancers alive. I left the bar when she climbed up on the stage and started dancing.

And further improvements now that the hated pass is less burdensome. Makes a difference to me, anyway!

Ask the guys. I recall a scene in one bar when rather good-looking six-foot Amazon entered a bar in Pattaya; the guys separated into two groups. Most of them clustered around her, the others shrank into a corner, apparently embarrassed. I know how they felt.

My experience was the same as vinapu's. If someone young was interested in a guy of my age, he was a mb. Yes, yes, I know that miracles do happen in saunas- or used to- but if memory serves, I found that Pattaya's Romeo twinks expected to be paid without my needing to ask.

Thanks. I'm so pleased you enjoyed Chiang Mai and recognised that it "life was returning". It's one of our favourite places, though I prefer Chiang Rai- similar but smaller and less commercialised. It is certainly a city where it's probably best to have a companion. The gay scene was quite something twenty years back but now....well, you were right to have your own entertainment available.

Your guy will be required to leave his ID at the desk. This is for your protection, ensuring both that he is of legal age and that reception can call you when he leaves to ensure nothing has gone wrong.

I can't be the only one desperate to receive some good news about entry so that I can start looking forward to my trip in July without anxiety, whether or not that anxiety is justified.

I loved that.....not just the stares from the falang couples but the response of the of the door man to your arrival on a motor-cy taxi. It's good to know that the snobbery for which my country is notorious also exists in Thailand.

I was a committed traveller to unusual and sometimes risky places across the globe until my late forties....and my advice is exactly the same as vinapu's. "Be brave and just go". The trips , journeys and encounters that stay in my mind are those about which I was a little unsure; perhaps slightly dangerous? difficult to reach? Off the beaten track? Today , they are the ones that provide the best memories for me thirty years on. Thailand is, of course, none of these things but it offers more than just Silom and Boyztown. Explore!

I noticed a number of gay Chinese porn clips that showed guys wearing masks having sex....how does that work for you?

Yes. I'm frightened of mobile technology (in fact , all technology) and am unable even to put a new SIM in my phone. I also wish to phone P the minute I'm on the ground and so an airport shop that provides them is essential, particularly if I'm to be under armed-guard at an ASQ hotel. Yes, I know that I could use LINE , as Z909 told me some months back...but, bluntly , it's not the same since P's internet connection in darkest Kamphaeng Phaet isn't reliable. That airport shop is crucial for my peace of mind.

Crimes are assuredly being committed in Ukraine and there are more to come. However, I doubt anything similar to the total destruction of Fallujah will happen. Prisoner of war camps will be established but I doubt that they will be as bad as Abu Ghraib. Ukrainians are white Christians after all. I notice that two misleading photographs have been circulating on SM. One is of the destruction of a tower block that turns out to be the one hit by Israel in in Gaza . Another is of a little girl shouting at invading soldiers. Later it transpired it was of Ahmed Tahini, a Palestinian girl confronting Israeli soldiers outside her home. According to western governments, some but not all invasions are war-crimes.

We in the West may be animated by the events in Ukraine; it's not the case in other countries, many of whom view the unpunished war-crimes committed by our governments in Iraq, Afghanistan and Palestine as no less reprehensible. Some countries, particularly poorer ones who do not share our (and Ukraine's) ethnicity are pointing out that while war-crimes committed on white people are considered worthy of condemnation and punitive action, those perpetrated upon peoples with darker skins or different religions aren't.

That is correct.....M*A*S*H* is still shown on TV here in the UK and deservedly so. when I think of the best of US TV, only The Wire has given me more pleasure.

I've never considered Pattaya a beach location....nor Jomtien, for that matter.

When I first arrived, back in 1995, I had exactly the same taste as Boy69, but over time, I found my tastes changing. I came to value experience and expertise as much as looks and found that older guys were often more reliable. I can recall thirty year-olds - Thais keep their youthful looks longer than we do- who provided a better service and certainly better company. I liked chatting to them. At the same time, I discovered that the cutest dancers of all, the most popular and in demand in Pattaya's go go bars, may not always "deliver" , particularly if a return to the bar and another customer were in the offing. I hated it when a guy would rush off after his shower. At the same time, I began to insist that my partner was gay....though I accepted that I couldn't expect complete honesty. I met P. in 2005 and he most definitely fitted Boy69's ideal....and mine. We've aged together (him better than me!) and looking at those early photos certainly remind me why I was so attracted to him.

I prefer the rainy season in Pattaya..... quieter (sic) which used to be a plus! And anyway, most of the pleasures available are of the indoor variety while the rain rarely lasts more than an hour or two. However, a visit we made to Krabi a few years back was a disaster; we had planned boat-trips to various islands including Phi Phi. Each day, we'd wake -up to glorious sunshine but observe clouds on the horizon. By the time we were due to leave, the rains had come. We spent much of the time in-doors. And no Phi Phi.

I go along with that. Anything extreme, extraordinary or "enhanced" has always been a turn-off. Controversially, I must add that enormous length or girth is also unwelcome....I know that for many, "size matters" but, for me, smaller than average is preferable. Am I alone in this?

How does it compare to Babylon in terms of opportunities for senior falangs?

In my early Thailand days, I encountered a guy with a mook in Adam's Apple, Chiang Mai. Innocent and ignorant, I thought he had some horrible VD I'd never heard of. Spoilt the occasion for me, naturally. I spent the next few days checking to see if I'd caught it off him! Only once did I off a guy with a silicon-enhanced penis (if "enhanced" is the right word). By then , I'd learnt enough not to fear a VD.....but it was still a distressing experience, particularly because in other other respects he was both cute and willing. I wouldn't wish to raise a controversial subject, but I feel the same about other forms of self-mutilation.....such as tattoos! Thais have such beautiful skin, i regard any such alterations to their bodies to be verging on the sacrilegious.