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Tomcal

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    Tomcal got a reaction from hornyfrog in Where is Trilingual now ?   
    i understand why these guys let this happen to them! like everyone they want to be loved! many have never felt that emotion in their lives but...when a “relationship” starts on a cash basis, I never have seen it become love on the $/younger guys part!  The best test i still think is if you want to test if he is really in love with you then tell him:
    Older guy/Client “I have lost all my money in the stock market! but at lest we still have each other!”
    Garoto:  Gone like the wind! :-)
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    Tomcal got a reaction from hornyfrog in Where is Trilingual now ?   
    Tri did not move to take care of his aging parents! he moved to the basement of his sisters house because he was broke! because of spending everything on his Brazilian BF!
    no one moves to the basement of a home in kansas City after living in SF and Rio unless they are in dire straights! just saying!
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    Tomcal got a reaction from Mavica in Where is Trilingual now ?   
    Tri did not move to take care of his aging parents! he moved to the basement of his sisters house because he was broke! because of spending everything on his Brazilian BF!
    no one moves to the basement of a home in kansas City after living in SF and Rio unless they are in dire straights! just saying!
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    Tomcal got a reaction from Primeone385 in sauna on outskirts of Rio   
    i don’t think the locals who are the support of the sauna would like 4 Foreigners showing up at the same time! it would raise havoc with their pricing, because no matter what they say,  Americans in particular, just have to pay more then the going rate because they feel guilty(Axiom)and that really pisses the locals off!  so imho no more then 2 americans should go there on a particular Sunday! but then again i have been wrong before...like when i thought FloridaRob was a top! LMAO
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    Tomcal got a reaction from PeterRS in Where is Trilingual now ?   
    Tri did not move to take care of his aging parents! he moved to the basement of his sisters house because he was broke! because of spending everything on his Brazilian BF!
    no one moves to the basement of a home in kansas City after living in SF and Rio unless they are in dire straights! just saying!
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    Tomcal got a reaction from Latbear4blk in First trip to Brazil, April 2023   
    i always tip the waiters/Bartenders and locker room attendants! pointe has one waiter in particular who is very good(and is a good waiter! LOL) junior doesn’t pay him to be a waiter there but he can go up to a room with clients and keep what they pay him! it evidently works for both because they have had this arrangement for over a year! and i think he is the best waiter at any of the saunas!  
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    Tomcal got a reaction from Mavica in First trip to Brazil, April 2023   
    i always tip the waiters/Bartenders and locker room attendants! pointe has one waiter in particular who is very good(and is a good waiter! LOL) junior doesn’t pay him to be a waiter there but he can go up to a room with clients and keep what they pay him! it evidently works for both because they have had this arrangement for over a year! and i think he is the best waiter at any of the saunas!  
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    Tomcal reacted to Riobard in First trip to Brazil, April 2023   
    And that’s why you are most likely to be nominated as specifically representative for Sampa Gay Pride parade flag-bearing each year. 
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    Tomcal got a reaction from Eric B. in Quick trip to Rio   
    !I am going back to Rio the end of May but for only 4 days!  I now can fly free(except for paying the taxes due on the ticket) and since i now live in So. Florida is is a 8 hour overnights flight so i am going to try and go monthly!  
    i met several new guys on my last trip in March and decided to go spend a long weekend with them! 
    i got a different apartment in Ipanema then usual with 2 bedrooms and 3 bathrooms across the street from the beach on Posto 8! since i am always on a late night flight i pay for the extra day so i can stay until evening before leaving for the airport. 
     
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    Tomcal got a reaction from hurstwickham in Quick trip to Rio   
    !I am going back to Rio the end of May but for only 4 days!  I now can fly free(except for paying the taxes due on the ticket) and since i now live in So. Florida is is a 8 hour overnights flight so i am going to try and go monthly!  
    i met several new guys on my last trip in March and decided to go spend a long weekend with them! 
    i got a different apartment in Ipanema then usual with 2 bedrooms and 3 bathrooms across the street from the beach on Posto 8! since i am always on a late night flight i pay for the extra day so i can stay until evening before leaving for the airport. 
     
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    Tomcal reacted to SolaceSoul in Sao Paulo/Recife...First Time   
    Sorry, but the truth — and mirrors — are often painful.
    A fun sobering mental exercise: sit at the corner café in any prominent gay or gay-friendly neighborhood in the world (Farme do Amoedo & Rua Visconde in Ipanema, for example), and watch the many same-sex couples — and even the same-sex friends! — stroll by. Almost ALL of them are “twinning” — same build, physical features, age range, even dress. 
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    Tomcal reacted to SolaceSoul in Sao Paulo/Recife...First Time   
    This part should be thumbtacked to the top of this forum, because WAY too many posters here want to believe that (1) this rule does not exist, or (2) they are somehow the exception to that rule.
    “Twinning” is, by far, the most common denominator in dating, sexual and romantic attraction is same-sex situations and relationships. This is worldwide. In the limited pay-for-play situations and environments, money / power / influence is the great equalizer — meaning, if you don’t look the part of someone that you’re attracted to would more than likely be paired with, then your money overcomes that major hurdle.
     
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    Tomcal got a reaction from SolaceSoul in Quick trip to Rio   
    !I am going back to Rio the end of May but for only 4 days!  I now can fly free(except for paying the taxes due on the ticket) and since i now live in So. Florida is is a 8 hour overnights flight so i am going to try and go monthly!  
    i met several new guys on my last trip in March and decided to go spend a long weekend with them! 
    i got a different apartment in Ipanema then usual with 2 bedrooms and 3 bathrooms across the street from the beach on Posto 8! since i am always on a late night flight i pay for the extra day so i can stay until evening before leaving for the airport. 
     
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    Tomcal got a reaction from BlkSuperman in Quick trip to Rio   
    !I am going back to Rio the end of May but for only 4 days!  I now can fly free(except for paying the taxes due on the ticket) and since i now live in So. Florida is is a 8 hour overnights flight so i am going to try and go monthly!  
    i met several new guys on my last trip in March and decided to go spend a long weekend with them! 
    i got a different apartment in Ipanema then usual with 2 bedrooms and 3 bathrooms across the street from the beach on Posto 8! since i am always on a late night flight i pay for the extra day so i can stay until evening before leaving for the airport. 
     
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    Tomcal got a reaction from Axiom2020 in enjoying Brazil!   
    one of the São Paulo guys staying at my apartment this week runs a profile on grinder that generates 3 to 4 clients a day l  He is a Top with a 10”’dick with a 8-1/2, circumstance! He is always hard and doesn’t usually use medications !  really nice. guy, he comes back to the apartment around.9ish and joins us for dinner,  he also likes to sleep.close and cuddles up tight!  the boys working at the clubs all want to have sex with him so it’s been great going to the saunas with him! there has l been lots of : and 4 ways the past week!
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    Tomcal got a reaction from Primeone385 in enjoying Brazil!   
    Oz they are guys who no longer work in the saunas or relatives of boys who did and they introduced me to their brother/cousin/friend
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    Tomcal got a reaction from Tomasian in enjoying Brazil!   
    i got to Rio last Friday morning and was staying in a different Airbnb in ipanema then i usually do because the one i stayed at got sold!  By 3:00 pm i had 2 cousins show up and the fun began and hasn’t ended! i have been to Brasil somewhere around a 100 times and this is definitely one of the best trips ever! 2 Brazilians came up from SP to stay at the apartment for the week.
    Pointe sauna was packed Friday night and had a lot of new faces! Saturday was also good there, Sunday i had a party at the apt.  for 10 guys and monday back to pointe.   Tuesday i went to 117, but while it was fairly packed there was a lot of the same faces i have seen for quite a few years there and 117 tends to get more muscled BB types(although it still draws from all groups i prefer the guys from Pointe but this can change fast so it’s worth  checking out both places!   this trip i have probably done 35% sauna guys and z65% non sauna guys. but there were a lot of new faces this trip!
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    Tomcal got a reaction from SolaceSoul in enjoying Brazil!   
    one of the São Paulo guys staying at my apartment this week runs a profile on grinder that generates 3 to 4 clients a day l  He is a Top with a 10”’dick with a 8-1/2, circumstance! He is always hard and doesn’t usually use medications !  really nice. guy, he comes back to the apartment around.9ish and joins us for dinner,  he also likes to sleep.close and cuddles up tight!  the boys working at the clubs all want to have sex with him so it’s been great going to the saunas with him! there has l been lots of : and 4 ways the past week!
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    Tomcal got a reaction from TotallyOz in enjoying Brazil!   
    Oz they are guys who no longer work in the saunas or relatives of boys who did and they introduced me to their brother/cousin/friend
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    Tomcal got a reaction from SolaceSoul in enjoying Brazil!   
    over the years in going to Brazil i have done 3 sets of identical twins. several sets of brothers and uncle nephew(they were always like jus one or 2 years apart in ages).  all were fun, i have stayed in touch with many of them.
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    Tomcal reacted to KYTOP in enjoying Brazil!   
    Oh my I am so jealous. Enjoy.
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    Tomcal reacted to caeron in enjoying Brazil!   
    Always enjoy your Brazil reports.
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    Tomcal reacted to scott456 in enjoying Brazil!   
    Congrats on one more good trip!
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    Tomcal got a reaction from KYTOP in enjoying Brazil!   
    i got to Rio last Friday morning and was staying in a different Airbnb in ipanema then i usually do because the one i stayed at got sold!  By 3:00 pm i had 2 cousins show up and the fun began and hasn’t ended! i have been to Brasil somewhere around a 100 times and this is definitely one of the best trips ever! 2 Brazilians came up from SP to stay at the apartment for the week.
    Pointe sauna was packed Friday night and had a lot of new faces! Saturday was also good there, Sunday i had a party at the apt.  for 10 guys and monday back to pointe.   Tuesday i went to 117, but while it was fairly packed there was a lot of the same faces i have seen for quite a few years there and 117 tends to get more muscled BB types(although it still draws from all groups i prefer the guys from Pointe but this can change fast so it’s worth  checking out both places!   this trip i have probably done 35% sauna guys and z65% non sauna guys. but there were a lot of new faces this trip!
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    Tomcal reacted to SolaceSoul in Some Specific Brazil Questions   
    Pretty much any pharmacy on the main drags in Ipanema (Rua Visconde de Pirajá) and Copacabana (Avenida Nossa Senhora da Copacabana) sell them. There are pharmacies / drogarias on every block there. 

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