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No doubt Larstrup has an interesting point of view on this. He usually does, so I look forward to hearing it. He is not a fan of mine, so I expect that perhaps his response...has nothing to do with me?

A question for Oz about cookies. After I visited the link he posted, I noticed that it came with a new cookie for boytoyvideo.com. The question is why do you-the video company I mean- need a cookie on my computer just because I visited a link Oz posted? Ridding oneself of cookies is not possible. But I often wonder why some auto dealer always has a cookie on me. Walmart, lowermybills, many others who I have never visited. I remove them and they come right back. I have set the browser to not allow third party cookies, but I don't think it does any good. Nonetheless, I am like Oz in that I never buy videos. So I don't need that boytoyvideo cookie, and they don't need me!

"Pity, actually, I could have claimed my escort costs from my insurance! " Perhaps the president will consider allowing that soon!

floridarob, mentioning addiction in response to a trip report could be inflammatory! But this is Pope Francis' trip report thread, so on that, it is for another thread

Tartegogo, since you asked, to me it is a case of you guys being on a different page and neither of you intends to be offensive about it. You can take the word "you" to mean Tartegogo, or you can take it in a more generic way. "If one wants to throw away his money, what's it to me?" Throwing it from the balcony, I think, gives it an indifferent twist. The suggestion is that however you do it, it is not worthwhile. But again, it is his opinion. You received some criticism for things in your trip report. You handled it very well. My suggestion here is that you resolve that you are confident that giving presents is a benefit to you. You like to do it. Who cares if floridarob doesn't agree with you? It just simply doesn't matter. You get to do what you think is the best thing to do. As for his criticism, consider that he is a different individual with a different personality. He expresses himself in a way that you don't. You can ignore him, or you can accept that his way of speaking is more direct, even more blunt, than others. It is not a reflection on you. What it does is affirm that we are a group of diverse individuals. If we all agreed, if we were always polite and kind, wouldn't this be a boring place? So chalk it up and move on. You have more people here agreeing with you than disagreeing. Your trip report has been very popular. One size does not fit all, so get used to it! Is that me being blunt? Anyway, you can disagree with me too. I won't be troubled, but I like it better when we see things in a similar fashion. Just not so similar as to be dull!

Cute, too.

Finally I can disagree with Tartegogo! floridarob has his own opinion, based upon his experience, and it isn't sick or hypocritical. It's just different from yours! I don't give presents, but I do tip. I never send money after I leave. That's just me and I wouldn't expect anyone to blindly follow my opinion. One example is tipping a go-go dancer. I will sit in a bar for awhile watching the guys, but I don't off one. I give the guy I liked best a tip though, just for pleasing me with doing his job. I don't see that as throwing money away, but someone else might. Okey-dokey with me.

Many years ago there was a bar on Folsom Street in San Francisco named the Stud. Not the current one. This one had a trough for a urinal, and it was easy for anybody to stand outside the toilet and watch guys pee. One night I was doing just that, and someone came in and placed a glass under me. So naturally I continued peeing. When I went back into the bar, he was standing there drinking my pee. He never acknowledged me in any way, but it was an odd pleasure to see someone drinking me. I thought that perhaps I could bottle the stuff and sell it! There is a market for anything, as one of our prominent members seems to have discovered!

My first gay bar was Dugan's Bistro in Chicago. It was such an eye opener for me as I finally realized that there were masculine, handsome gay men. I had only seen what was the obvious, the feminine guy with a swish. Dugan's had a very hot go-go boy dancing on a podium wearing nothing but a jock strap. My fascination with go-go boys began then. How could a guy get up on a stage and be openly proud of his sexuality? It was new to me. We followed the first visit there with a first visit to a bathhouse. I am still a lifetime member of Man's Country, if it exists anymore. I was so shocked at the open sexual activity. People were having sex everywhere, and I was fascinated. So, if places like these close, how does a young guy enter the gay world? Does he start with Grindr? Yuck.

Before one can change his mind to yes, there must have been a no first. In the first example, there was a clear no. Then he may have chained his mind, or else might argue that I gave him no choice, in which event, his no still stands. The second example is a nonverbal change of mind. In either case, it is my word against his, but the point is that I am trying to honor his wishes. I would have preferred the masseur to have verbalized his change of mind.

Part of the fun is the hunt! Especially in DC and NY the guy should be able to find someone on his own. The hunt, the chase, the catch! To be 34 and in the big city!

He has apologized: http://www.nydailynews.com/entertainment/lewis-hamilton-told-nephew-boys-don-wear-princess-dresses-article-1.3722005 Looking at his picture in the article, I wonder when he stopped being cute.

No, I don't know Gem 147, but I feel like we are old buddies. He's been signing on with regularity, but he has yet to post. I do know that he visited y profile page, so that almost makes us related. He is as reliable a lurker as some posters are reliaible at posting. So Happy Holidays to Gem 147. Perhaps someday you will feel motivated to post something, but, in the meantime, It's nice seeing you here almost every day!

Larstrup, please re-read what I said last week. And Merry Christmas!

So they say that no means no, especially when it comes to matters sex. But it's hardly a black and white question in my opinion. Years ago my date for Halloween stood me up, so I made eyes with this Asian gymnast who was dressed as a caveman. One thing lead to another and we ended up in my bed. I asked him what he liked to do, and he said anything but get fucked. Okay for me, no problem. But he did happily turn over and let me inspect the goods that cannot be fucked. I spread his bubble butt apart and couldn't resist chowing down. He liked this too. It went on for several minutes when he began saying excitedly "fuck me, fuck me!" I reminded him of what he had said earlier, and he said "fuck me" again. So I did. He liked it, I liked it, but should I have stayed with his original intent? Another example. My favorite Asian masseur of a few years ago, another hunky guy who gave a very sensual massage, without sex, but I could suck his dick and of course he always made sure I left happy. So one time he is over me with his butt near my face. He had never set a rule on that, so I pulled it a little closer and did my chow down thing. After about 5 minutes, I stopped for breath and he said "never do that again.!" Okay, I won't. Until the next time, when I was minding my manners and his butt kept getting closer to my face. But I resisted. Finally he just about sat on me and of course he wanted to get rimmed. Never do this again, or go with his obvious desire- unspoken though. I munched, and this time, he didn't complain. No, he didn't.

Recently when in Rio I had an eye infection. I needed an antibiotic eye drop, but it required a prescription. I was told to go to a facility right behind the Metro Siqueira Campos called UPA. They took me as a client without any requirement or request to pay anything. It was very quick and I saw a doctor who gave me the prescription. I wasn't there more than 20 minutes. No doubt he clinic is there for locals more than tourists.

I saw it in New York a few weeks ago, but it still has not come to the desert in SOCAL. It's a good movie, although a little long. Can you imagine if an older guy carried on with a 17 year old what the fallout would be these days?

Matt Damon isn't accused of abusing anyone, but he did speak his mind, and just for that certain people want to hurt his career. They are calling to have him removed from the film Ocean's 8. http://www.nydailynews.com/entertainment/movies/petition-remove-matt-damon-ocean-8-picks-speed-article-1.3715380 So it isn't just that they want to be empowered, they want to crush anyone who disagrees with them. I suppose in the age of Trump we shouldn't be surprised at anything. I think women have gotten a raw deal for a long time, but you don't crush people just for speaking their mind.

Tartegogo, I have enjoyed reading about your trip. I don't have any personal advice for you or any desire to tell you if you did anything wrong. Can't understand why others do, but you handle it well.

Well, have a great time. Does a "huge" apartment indicate that you intend to have a lot of guests?

No happy endings on the beach I suppose.

Fundino, are you related to LoveNDino over at Daddy's? He's a very popular poster there.

It's going to Broadway! In April. Can't believe it, but it got me back here to share the news! https://nypost.com/2017/12/14/donna-summer-musical-producers-are-scared-of-cher/

My dear friends, I will be taking a break from Boytoy for the holidays. Feel free to skewer me as usual, you know that I don't mind. It's been a pleasure.

So boy, he is not a new poster. I just wish he would post more often.