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kjun12

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    kjun12 got a reaction from AsianExplorer in Hotel full of escorts   
    The closest thing to what is discussed here was the Malaysia Hotel in Bangkok.  Unfortunately the owner has chosen to stop boys from hanging out on the patio. 
    Ah, what a great day it was a few years ago.
    I have never heard of a hotel in Japan dedicated to escorts but many boys are available in Tokyo.
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    kjun12 got a reaction from joizy in how is the scene in Mexico?   
    Perhaps if there was a sub-forum then it would be used more than you think.
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    kjun12 got a reaction from kokopelli3 in ‘Father Joe' still on a mission   
    I sent a donation today.  Sounds like a deserving organization.
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    kjun12 got a reaction from vinapu in ‘Father Joe' still on a mission   
    I sent a donation today.  Sounds like a deserving organization.
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    kjun12 reacted to Olddaddy in I can't follow my own advice   
    Last time I stayed in Boyztown Le Cafe Royale  was August 2018, the owner apparently a farang told his staff to charge me extra for spilt coffee on the bed sheets as I  didn't book directly thru his hotel and used a booking app so wasn't considered a customer,even though I stayed for 14 nights ,yep 14 nights and still wasn't a customer apparently 
    Unfortunately the old fool (I'm presuming he was old) didn't want to show his face so I sent him a email to shove his hotel.
    Never stayed there again, hopefully it's changed hands from August 2018 and better management are in charge 
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    kjun12 got a reaction from PeterRS in ‘Father Joe' still on a mission   
    I sent a donation today.  Sounds like a deserving organization.
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    kjun12 reacted to KYTOP in What's with all the cheating?   
    Of course cheating is nothing new in society or sporting events but 3 recent High profile cheating scandals makes one wonder if cheating is on the uptick. One wonders if it is  more prevalent in today's society. Have we lost a sense of right and wrong.
    The chess scandal were a player is accused of using Anal Beads to cheat and win. I guess someone would buzz his ass in some sort of code to tell him what moves to make. Wonder if he got a hardon playing chess with all the ass buzzing? 😝
    https://www.euronews.com/culture/2022/09/27/chess-grandmaster-denies-cheating-by-using-anal-beads
    Then there is the woman poker player accused of using a vibrating finger ring to somehow cheat at poker. She agreed to return some of her winnings to her opponent. Maybe she can take tips from the Chess guy with his anal beads.
    https://www.sbnation.com/2022/10/12/23400526/poker-cheating-garrett-adelstein-robbi-jade-lew
    Finally cheating at a Fishing Tournament. Shoving lead weights down the fishes' mouth to add weight and thus win the Tournament Prize Money.
     https://www.npr.org/2022/10/14/1129018076/fishing-tournament-cheating-felony-charges-runyan-cominsky-lake-erie-walleye
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    kjun12 got a reaction from floridarob in Bangkok's flawed plan to allow foreign land ownership   
    Thailand does not appear comprehend that the China, as well as the rest of the world is in financial distress and this makes it less likely that foreign investment will dig Thailand out of it's financial hole.  This is true for tourism as well.  I don't see either as a panacea for Thai financial doldrums.
    As long as Thailand is governed by military people who have little real understanding of economics we're in serious trouble.  Many Thai people are economically distressed and even hungry but the government is more concerned with purchasing fighter jets submarines and other military hardware.  Much like children with their toys they don't see the real problems or deal with them.
    Enough of my rambling.
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    kjun12 got a reaction from Axiom2020 in Tasting Asian Meat At Gray's Diner   
    Excellent posting.
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    kjun12 got a reaction from vinapu in City girds for flooding Wednesday through Friday   
    😄
    Just bring your waders.
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    kjun12 got a reaction from floridarob in City girds for flooding Wednesday through Friday   
    😄
    Just bring your waders.
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    kjun12 reacted to paborn in Gay Domican Republic ….   
    I doubt the spelling bee organizers grade on grammar. But, I am at a loss as to how this comic video, cute as it is, as anything to do with the DR.
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    kjun12 reacted to PeterRS in Accountability for Theft on a Massive Scale   
    Another thread in this forum has become more one based on history. One poster likes to cherry-pick and discuss only what he considers historical facts that make his country look good. Yet virtually all countries carry frightful historical legacies. The massacre of entire civilisations in Central and South America by Spain and Portugal, for example, cannot merely be brushed aside. The treatment of indigenous peoples by Britain, Canada, Australia, the USA and others must not be forgotten. Slavery and colonisation resulted in the degrading of humanity on a humungous scale, and it was all to increase the profits of slave owners and colonial masters.
    Another issue that deserves discussion is raised in a perceptive article in today's The Guardian. This is based on extremely valid comments made by John Oliver in Last Week's Tonight Show. In it, Oliver tore into the theft of national artefacts from many colonised countries - and others just too weak to fend off the thieves. He cites a 2018 Report commissioned by the President of France which illustrates that over 90% of Africa's cultural heritage now resides in major museums' "sprawling collections of essentially 'stolen goods'".
    Add in Latin America, the Middle East and Asia and you have looting an unbelievable scale. Rightly he focussed on the British Museum. In expanding its colonial Empire, Britain stole vast quantities of treasure. One of the world's largest diamonds, the Koh-i-Noor, was stolen from the Prince of the Punjabi throne when the British illegally jailed his mother and forced him to sign the diamond away in return for her release. The Prince was just 10 years old. That diamond eventually found its way into the crown of the late Queen's mother. British history tells that it was a gift to Queen Victoria. It was stolen!
    More important to the people of Greece are the Elgin Marbles. Carved 2,500 years ago and placed atop the Parthenon in Athens, the British stole them in the early 1800s. One of the more recent arguments for their remaining in the UK is that the UK is better able to look after them properly for the benefit of future generations. They presently reside in the British Museum in London. That's a load of rubbish! It has been proved that the Museum curators damaged the stone when cleaning it with wire brushes in the 1930s. But as Oliver pointed out,
    "if you're ever looking for a missing artefact, nine times out of 10 it's in the British Museum."
    That Museum has 8 million artefacts, most from other parts of the world. Only 80,000 can be displayed at any one time. Why gives Britain the right to retain stolen goods when it cannot have them exhibited for all to see?
    "It can be pretty galling for people to find that their heritage, which is often part of a vibrant present-day culture, is sitting in storage in the British Museum's underground loot prison."
    More recently we know how difficult it has been to trace back ownership of the art looted by the Nazis. Obviously returning artefacts stolen centuries ago is also a complex matter. As an article in The Smithsonian Magazine makes clear, when unravelling colonial history -
    "you're dealing with countries that existed when the object was acquired but they may not exist now . . . Provinence is very complex and people aren't used to processing a chain of ownership."
    Yet it's hard not to agree with Oliver when he talks about the plunder of nations' greatest treasures throughout history by colonial dickheads.
    https://www.theguardian.com/tv-and-radio/2022/oct/03/john-oliver-stolen-antiquities-western-museums
    https://www.smithsonianmag.com/history/true-story-koh-i-noor-diamondand-why-british-wont-give-it-back-180964660/
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    kjun12 reacted to Mavica in Prostate Cancer in Gay Men   
    Whether we be a top or a bottom, the prostate in gay men is hugely important to our sexual / social life.  14 years ago (when I was 59) I was diagnosed with prostate cancer ("PC").  Whenever we're told we have Cancer, we assume the worst; oftentimes, for good reason: the "end" is near!.  My PC was diagnosed as consuming 12% of my prostate.   Instead of "watchful waiting",  I  chose to have my prostate removed (it doesn't belong in me, get it out!). 
    Anticipating the Urological Surgeon's caution that it was likely I'd lose some length and firmness/rigidity of my dick post-op (which turned out to be an accurate prediction), I postponed surgery for a month so that I could visit Rio de Janeiro ... and I could have fun in Rio de Janeiro (GP, and some women for hire).  For most of my life I was a "top".  Most importantly, I wanted to fuck as many stunningly handsome guys as I could before surrendering my erection to the surgeons.  
    Post-OP, the removed prostate analysis revealed that it was 25% consumed by PC and had not, to the best of the knowledge of my Urologist, metastasized (thankfully).  Very lucky me!
    So, it's not been easy post-op.  I'm unattached, no partner.  My focus on sexual satisfaction has changed.  I enjoyed a spectacular period of time during pre-op which I enjoyed/excelled being a "top".  Fantastic memories, thankfully.
    Any others on this forum who have had PC, and surgery?  😁
     
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    kjun12 reacted to Moses in Prostate Cancer in Gay Men   
    I had PC 5 years ago.
    Thanks to my habit to make yearly blood tests for cancer markers, it was recognized by PCA markers in blood when it was on 2d stage. Since it grows slowly, I had enough of time for MRT and other checks and tests including biopsy and unlimited sex within 1 year (I'm "top only"). 
    My oncologist told what best is prostate removal because tumor was located within prostate capsule and offered robotic operation with saving of penis nerve paths. I spend only 5 days in hospital because robots does surgery via holes in stomach. Indeed length became 1"-1 and 1/4" shorter. Also about 2 weeks after catheter removal (on 10th day) I had small urine leaks when had coughs or during stand up from low chairs, so there were pads in my pants for 2 weeks and I used them 2 week more "just in case". Such pads are invisible (only 2-3 mm thick) for to use, because leaking is just few drops "per case". 
    After surgery I had to make PSA tests every 3 months for to be sure what there are no metastases at fist 3 years, now every 6 month till year 7th, and also yearly KT scanning with contrast.
    Thanks to nerve saving robotic surgery, I got hardon back in full in 1 year, but had to use Cialis during that first year (first sex was in 3 weeks after surgery). Since prostate is removed, I have no sperm anymore, but have normal orgasms.
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    kjun12 got a reaction from floridarob in Savage Johnson   
    If you don't tune in to this guy you are missing one hot number.  I suggest you try him out.
    https://twitter.com/THESAVAGEJOHNSO
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    kjun12 got a reaction from traveller123 in Subscription to Brit Box   
    After trying the suggestions of traveller123 and fedssocr I have reached the conclusion that it is not possible for me to get britbox on my TV here in Thailand.
    While I was able to register an account in the US I could not port it to my TV. So I Cancelled my account.  Still I want to thank those guys who tried to help me with their suggestions:

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    kjun12 reacted to Lucky in In Thailand Right Now, Do You Wear A Mask Or Not?   
    Don't be an idiot. I am expressing my opinion.
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    kjun12 reacted to gayinpattaya in In Thailand Right Now, Do You Wear A Mask Or Not?   
    no? You choose how to live your life. I will choose how to live mine. 
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    kjun12 got a reaction from bucknaway in Is Thailand's Gay Nightlife Overpriced?   
    I very much enjoyed Bucknaway's comparison of the two countries.  However, I have never felt unsafe in Thailand.  Never been to Brazil and I would like to enjoy all the hot men whose pictures I've seen.  Unfortunately, Brazil seems to be unsafe and I'll just pass on it.
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    kjun12 reacted to Londoner in Is Thailand's Gay Nightlife Overpriced?   
    Brazil has a racist and homophobic PM, backed by deranged US-style- evangelicals. I've always wanted to go, ever since I saw Black Orpheus fifty years ago.... but I'll stick toThailand.
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    kjun12 reacted to RobinHood in Vietnam Bar Boys   
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    Well i've lived in thailand for 22 years i am not a once a year tourist inventing gay fantasies in thailand for forums, drama queen i'm straight acting unlike you, judging from from your bitchy comments, you seem dead against any good advice to tourists, i was a victim of bad advice in this forum 3 months ago regarding sunee plaza hence my posts here to correct the nonsense promoting the area. If you ant to write bitchy comments please do, camp people by mature are bitches.
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    kjun12 reacted to RobinHood in Vietnam Bar Boys   
    I blamed covid & floods not ethnic  groups try reading my post, then i merely stated a fact boystown and the 2 sois next to it are becoming  indian & muslim areas & as neither culture respects gay people should i be happy they are taking  over the area?? you are aware homosexuality is illegal in all muslim countries bar 1 or 2 with the death penalty in many, is it good thing in your view that boystown is becoming a muslim area??????? do you agree with muslims views on gay people, do you share these views if not get off your high horse.
     
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    kjun12 reacted to RobinHood in Vietnam Bar Boys   
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    Rarely do those who base their pugilistic ability on lifting weights win bar fight or a street fight. It's determined by totally different skills and experience.Regarding Vietnam boys, you're either incredibly unlucky or making this stuff up as you go along.
    You claim that you're "...not against Vietnam.." but in the same sentence caution us to" ...say no & move on..." if we ever find ourselves thinking about going with a Vietnamese."
     
    my point is this if these 2 vietnam boys i met over a period of 3 years  were willing to start a fight with someone who is very fit, one wonders what they do to older guys in there 70's, i am tring to warn the older guys to avoid them, as for being incredibly unlucky well 22 years, hundreds of wonderful times with great thai  guys, 2 terrible times with 2 vietnam guys, 100%  says alot and i have talked to alot of mammasans on this issue & they say the same thing thai  customers would not OFF them.
    So either you know  more than the mammasons & me who have lived here for 20 years, as for making it up, give me a break i am trying ro help not hinder people, forums are supposed to give good advice.
    Vietnam is a troubled country & volitile something you cant seem to grasp, wars etc, of course modern day kids are affected by the killings there & in cambodia, thailand is the land of smiles no wars & there culture is different & there is less poverty here & crime, if you want to look at veitnam through rose colored glasses good look to you.
    Thailand is a wonderful country & peaceful no fighting etc & thats a great reason to live here, hovever their are dangers here & the vietnamese are them, they will not join queues at airports or at borders or taxi stands they go straight to the front, they are very antagnostic people, probably from their tortured history.
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    kjun12 reacted to RobinHood in Vietnam Bar Boys   
    IN  22 years of living here and hundreds of GOGO boys & wonderful fun,  i have had problems with only 2 boys from bars both vietnam & both trying to extort money, their is a air of violence around them, i lift weights, but getting into arguments or fights in thailand is a very bad idea the laws here are very severe for fighting, the thai bar owners are aware of there problems but still employ them, always ask where the boy is from, & if they ever say vietnam no matter how good looking they are, please say no & move on thai & laos boys are the best followed by cambodia, vietnam boys are great if you want to train to be a kick boxer or psychiatrist, & no i am not against vietnam i have slepts with nice guys in the uk from vietnam, but bar boys here are a menace from vietnam.

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