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I agree. There are those places in Colombia but not as organized or plentiful as Brazil and Thailand. A lot of people use the apps and, or meet people in a regular bar and that’s where you run the greatest risk.

It sounds like you were a very good friend to your new acquaintance. I have an American friend of many years that lives part of the year in Medellin. He owns his own condo and speaks fluent Spanish. He met a guy on Grindr a few years ago that drugged him and cleaned out his apartment. He is very savvy and cautious and it still happened. I wonder if the Escort Sites are safer? It may make sense to delete any banking apps from your phone to prevent easy hacking--but if drugged you may become unable to resist giving the kidnappers the required info to reinstall the apps and access your accounts. I've traveled to Colombia many times and never had a problem but they do happen more there than other places unfortunately.

I stumbled upon this two part podcast where an Australian describes the horrors of being locked up for months in a Cambodian prison. It genuinely sounds like he didn't commit much of, if any crime and yet was still locked up. I doubt conditions are much better in Thailand or many South American jails. It gives you a bit of pause to realize that when you travel to these countries you are at the whim of their justice system and despite behaving yourself there is always the potential of being swept up into something. Recently it seems that Venezuela has taken to rounding up random Americans to use as bargaining chips--definitely one country I'll not visit any time soon. This podcast even makes me leery of returning to Cambodia where I have previously enjoyed Siam Reap.

I assume you stayed in an AirBnb right? Did you clarify the guest policy before or just search one out that didn't have a doorman?

In Rio now. Only been to 202 Thursday/Friday. Both nights found hot twinks though other types available as well. Guys are happy with 150. I chatted with the locker room attendant there tonight. He is a very nice guy who keeps an eye on things. He has done that job for 4 years. Before that he was a Sauna boy for something like 16 years before the years caught up with him. Both Junior(the owner) and his son working at the front desk tonight. All in all feels like one of those old family run hardware store in the midwest where you can walk in and chat up the staff and ultimately find that little (or big) thing you were looking for and leave with a good feeling.

I have been to Mexico City many times and ridden the Metro as well. Never seen this nor sought it out--but locals insist it's true. Usually on the last car on the train and only certain lines. i wish I could give you more info. Mexico City is great and so huge that probably everything imaginable has happened at one time or another. I still remember arriving at the height of rush hour one time and a large group of feminists were protesting topless at a fountain on one of the major streets.

I like staying in Chapinero--but other friends like fancier neighborhoods. One should be aware that staying in Chapinero the weekends near the clubs can be quite noisy. I love to have a good time but when I want to sleep--I want to sleep. In general up the hill in Chapinero will be quieter but still within walking distance of the clubs.

It's a challenge some times--but in the end people actually care less than you think they do. As gay men without family ties we have a lot more freedom to travel than a lot of our straight co-workers. A number of them live vicariously through our travels--hence the questions. I'll admit it would be hard to say month after month I'm going back to Thailand or Brazil(weren't you just there last month?"), but at the end of your life when your co-workers are nowhere to be found it's important you pursued the things that made your life happy and not lived your life for them. I'm fortunate in the case of Brazil I practice a sport (kitesurfing) that has world class conditions on the northeast coast so I have a good reason to go there frequently. I always include a stop in Rio or Sao Paulo for a few days "to break up the trip." In the end you'll find your own way to answer(or deflect) their questions but you should pursue your life without guilt or shame and enjoy!

you can find plenty of twinks on Grindr--just set the filter for your age range...

I am staying in El Poblado. I highly recommend it as it’s generally secure with a lot of police on the streets and tons of dining choices that you can walk to. A plus is that you can walk to several gay venues. I have stayed in Laureles before and it’s nice but pretty quiet and residential. One consideration when picking an airbnb or even a hotel in El Poblado is the noise factor. Read the reviews carefully to see if people complain about it because bars and clubs can be loud on weekends, or you can be on a busy street with traffic noise. Another possibility is to stay at a hotel and use short term hotels for your local encounters.

I am in Medellin now. I got an airbnb and have no problem hosting guys. I don’t have a reception or guard. I am careful and lock up things but honestly none of the guys I’ve met seemed the least bit threatening. Lots of hot choices online. Since you are probably the guy’s only client for the day they are more willing to cum and not charge extra like in the saunas in Brazil. i agree with @floridarob about the food choices. In general food more varied and higher quality than Rio. I really enjoy Medellin. If it had a beach it would be perfect!

Hello there! Nice to hear you’ve been enjoying Medellin! I’ll be there on Friday for a week. Still undecided between a hotel or Airbnb. I’ve been there before and done both. Any particular hotel you might recommend that isn’t too much a hassle with guests? Would love to meet up for a drink or a meal if you’re going to be around next week at all!

Frequently the owner's son is working at reception. I was there recently multiple times over Carnival and didn't have any issues. They are generally pretty good about letting you review your charges. I find that at 117 they generally present you with a total amount--followed by an eye roll or look of frustration if you ask to see the breakdown. As I mentioned in another thread I was over charged 3/3 nights at Lagoa in SP--so always review your bill!

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