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And some occasionally go marching ☺️

My current ranked list
Bangkok
Other Thailand
Tokyo & Osaka
Taipei
Hong Kong
Planning to try Manila and give Saigon another try sometime, I'm also thinking about South America but not sure where to start with that, and it's further away for me so flights aren't great.

I completely agree with that. I wouldn't want a guy who is actually a top but agrees to bottom just so he can get some action. When I fuck a guy, I want him to enjoy it—or at least give me the impression that he is—rather than struggling through it with a grimace.

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This is my trip report for our two weekends in Bangkok. We are an older married couple and when we come to Bangkok we invoke the Bangkok Rule in our relationship, and have a great time at the massage spas. We don’t go to saunas or other bars, though I’m hoping we get to go to some of the drag bars this trip.
I am purposely not mentioning names for the most part except for one name of an exceptional therapist. It seems like that’s the unofficial rule here, please correct me if I’m mistaken. Otherwise I will attach the spa photos of the therapists.
First weekend:
We landed at BKK at 23:45, delayed out of Narita due to heavy storms there earlier in the day. Based on what I had seen in this forum, we booked Fast Track with the Sawasdee app along with a buggy and were so happy we did. We were at a very distant gate (they refund the buggy if you are at a close gate) and the professional “butler” met us at the gate and whisked us to immigration, taking us into the VIP lane to the far right. We waited about 10 minutes there but the regular lines were at least an hour, maybe 90 minutes, with some very unhappy looking people. 

Saturday morning:
We went to Stars and chose two “pretty boy” therapists. You know, the ones with the higher tip amounts. As I have heard others on this forum say, the pretty guys just don't try as hard for the most part. It was fine, and I bottomed for the first time in my life (with a condom, on prep). I liked it. Why did I wait so long in life to try this? Turns out, I am a power bottom after being a power top all these years.
The VIP room was nice. Not immaculate, but nice, lots of room, bed and massage table. This room became “my” room over the course of our stay as they got to know me at Stars, and I even imported guys from other spas by asking Stars to book them and come to “my” room. One of the VIP rooms has a large jacuzzi tub. They also turn on the AC before the session so the room is nice and cool, unlike Kman and 9-Teen. I am pretty sure that the air conditioners at 9-Teen are just movie props and don’t actually cool.
Saturday afternoon:
We walked through Silom and my husband went to Paradise (literally) and I went to 9-Teen, the smaller one. The guy outside, W, was a little older and had a nice smile and was more my type. A lot of the guys outside the spas were too young looking. I wanted a man - an older guy. I end up giving advice to the younger ones and worrying about them. Yes, I’m a daddy. W turned out to be one of the best on the trip, and was a good kisser and very patient with me. Not a lot of English (“yes” and “no”) but we made it work. I didn’t get the sense that he books up a lot so I’m mentioning him here. Have at him, boys!
The room was hot and the AC was not on until we walked in. We showered and the decent massage turned into sex of course (no mention of tip, so i gave him 1200 at end) and I experienced bottoming with a larger guy than the morning one. I’m guessing 7 inches, maybe a little less, but nice and thick, and always hard. He had a larger cock and I was a little worried about my second bottoming experience but turns out, the big ones feel even better, the little ones slip out, so now I’m a power bottom size queen.

Also this therapist was enthusiastic and aimed to please. I had a couple of p-spot orgasms and then a penile orgasm, shooting all over his chest as I rode him. He seemed like he might cum too but I remember reading here that it can blow the rest of their day, so I slowed down a bit. I was experimenting with positions and trying to figure out what would work to keep him from going into piledriving / jackhammer mode. I guess some of you guys like that because they all seem to do it. I like it slow and steady and like to feel the head of the guy’s cock against my prostate, slowly grinding and teasing it. Now I’m a power bottom size queen control freak.
All the therapists seem really focused on you having a cock orgasm, and then the session is over. Nope, been there done that, I want the multiple p-spot orgasms, so get to work and take me to paradise and let’s cuddle at the end. And I paid for 90 mins and that’s what I’m getting even if we sit here and talk about cats. Meow. 
A word about douching:
I was super concerned about this. What to use, how to do it, where and when to do it. One of you mentored me but for the sake of his privacy I won’t mention who told me how to douche. For me, this is what worked:
Smaller travel douche from Amazon. Squeeze the bulb then let it suck in purified water from a bottle. Squeeze out any air, lube it and your butt, and insert (feels kind of good once it gets in there, hmmmm again this bottoming thing is pretty great) and swish around. Expel, do it again until all clear. I did it about 2 hours before my appointments but I had trained my bowels on early morning movements and then would book spa appointments for about noon.
Here’s the douche I used: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0D94B9KWH
I had tried larger / anti backflow ones at home and those were a disaster and would have taken up too much luggage room. Way too big and too easy to over douche, causing all sorts of yucky problems. 
Use purified water which is really important. Your bowels do not have the acids your stomach has to kill harmful bacteria. Do NOT put tap water up there.
I did avoid spicy food (well toned it down, guy’s gotta eat) for the most part and figured i might have to take an anti-diarrheal at some point but did not. I read on here that some guys take heavy duty stuff that shuts down their digestion but I dont want to walk around looking like Buddha. Lots of fiber pills and water.

Going to bed the first night, my prostate was pulsing like a hungry baby as I thought of the day and looked forward to more tomorrow.
 

I like it a lot so far.  Just met up with the local legend and we had a great dinner and walked around the complex.  Gonna be a fun night. 

Wednesday night update...

I don't think there's going to be any bar time tonight.  My Grindr guy and I are still going strong... I mean it's almost a week.  I can't remember the last time a guy's been in my life for a week.  Let alone one where I don't have to hit the ATM.  Don't know what he sees in this old bag o' bones, but it's been nice.  He's from Tokyo so tonight I found one of those Japanese spots where you cook your own meats at the table.  He loved it.  Owner was from Japan so they got to speak in their native.  When we got back to my Airbnb, even though we were full as hell, we burned some calories.
So it's 10pm now. He has to teach in the morning so he's in the Grab on the way home.  Me... I'm sitting here trying to encourage myself to go out and expand my now infamous rankings. But it might have to be put on hold until I get back from Pattaya.  I'm beat.

BTW the restaurant is "Tokyo Beef."  Well worth trying.  And it's near Senso.  I haven't been there yet.  Was odd to see a gay massage place with no boys out front.  I definitely wanted to pop my head in, but yeah, he doesn't know about that part of my visit so we kept walking.

So I gave Banana until about 11.  A few dancers closer to the twink look did join in but yeah, none that got my juices flowing. The twink waitstaff had some promise, and I know I can off them, but the night could've been a win if they were part of the show.
I popped my head into 2 others and kept moving... Jupiter had a drag show and no guys in sight.  And Tawan... I DID see 3 guys but none that I'd reply to on Grindr.  So yeah it was a short night. I almost popped back into see the muscle twink from last night at Super A but just called it a night.  Again, don't read in to my not getting into these places. It's a Tuesday night and I wasn't horny tbh haha... have had plenty of free fun with my Grindr guy and plus I got that "massage" in this morning.  So it would've taken someone on Bieber-level to get me horned up tonight.  Not many Bieber lookalikes in BKK.
OK, the new list... getting longer.
1. Dreamboy
2. Freshboy
3. Super A
4. Goodboy
5. Banana Boy
6. Hotmale
7. Tawan
8. Natureboy

I can’t put Jupiter in there yet because all I saw was drag… and I had more than enough drag tonight at Banana.

Oh god drag queens follow an AI stage show intro. Bad start. 😆. didn’t expect laser and fog though? Kind of impressed! 
annnd more drag. Ugh. 
Part 3: 2 of the guys as dancing condoms. I think that’s the act. 😆

I assumed so. But get em on stage. It’s like On Golden Pond on that stage rn. 😆

Reporting live. 
 
why not. Instead of trying to recall stuff. Let’s come to you live from the ‘Kok. Currently 1 of 3 customers sitting at Banana. I was drawn in when I saw 2 cute twinks wearing Banana shirts on the street. 5 guys currently stoneface on stage. None are those twinks. They’re bus boys I guess. Dang. Oh well I’ll hang for a bit.  No twinks on stage all gym goers. None my type. But night is young. They are not.
I like the banana layout. But yeah a little too old and muscly for me. I’ll give it til 1030 to improve. 

Checked the ferry off the list. Pretty awesome for a buck.  Tomorrow I might do the tourist boat day pass.  This city at night is just unbelievable.  

it's a little odd to me tbh that the low end shops and the nicer ones have the same rates... basically 600/700 for the room and 900ish for the tip for full service.  I had to play my own music.  The lightning was less than relaxing and the AC wasn't on when we went into the room.  No candles.  It was very bare bones.  But I liked the kid so all was forgiven.  I guess places make up for what's lacking by providing extra services the fancier ones don't.

LOL there's something about ordering a human being by a number I don't want to get used to.

I'm ok ordering a McDonald's value meal that way... but yeah just gets on my conscience a little when Big Mac is an actual person.

Just got back from my Tuesday morning blow.jo... uh massage.  Neo at The Sun Massage on Soi 6. I'd seen him on the streets constantly ... it's like he was stalking me. And I have no problem with that if he was.  Cute little Myrimar (I'm sure I'm slaughtering the spelling) guy with a big smile.

We run hot/cold with each other... when there's no business she's nice, when they have money, she's a bitch and tells me there's no one I'll like 🙄

Spent the day with my Grindr guy yesterday.  It’s worked out quite well while I can spend the day with him and still have a little fun at night.  😉 we checked out this really cool little spot in a residential neighborhood called Hidden Bangkok Bistro.  I saw it on YouTube.  Awesome views as the boats go by with soft music, nibble on an appetizer. I had an orange smoothie that was fantastic.  Unfortunately, it was drizzling for most of the time. But still definitely worth checking out.

I used to work in the hotel business.... I stay at Hilton/Doubletree/Conrad/Waldorf etc... at Tarntawan prices when not busy/full. 

Many GM's I know or we have mutual friends, means I end up with nice upgrades/extras as well.... Even at a Hampton Inn in Mexico City I'm going to this weekend already upgraded to a 1 bedroom suite, When I was in Las Vegas at a Hilton, 1 bedroom apartment and the GM gifted me 2 Cirque de Solei tix, in Bali they treat me like I'm one of the owners, lol

I hope some day soon...

I hope some day soon...

OMG has it changed.... Trump is strangling the people literally.... not allowing oil/gas into the country... their elec infrastructure has all but collapsed, that's only the positive side of the story....he should be tried as an International terrorist.

Brazil is still on my to do list.  Colombia has been awesome... so I'd imagine the energy is similar if not better.

It's still new.... it was Brasil for me for a long time, I got Brasil'd out..... 

Indonesia for me now, exploring India more... hospitality in high end hotels even better than Thailand. 

Bangkok is probably my new favorite. It was Prague for a long time.  Berlin is great if you love 'em blond and blue like me.  Bogota and Medellin in Colombia held the top spot for me until BKK.  Montreal and Fort Lauderdale are the only 2 hotspots in North America.  Atlanta's scene has pretty much died out.

I like Phnom Penh where  Space Hair bar in my headquarters.  Siem Reap and GOD bar there   is runner up

I love going to Bangkok for the massages and the "extracurricular activities." Just wondering if any of you have suggestions for your other favorite destinations where stamp collecting is affordable and plentiful.
I live in the US and my go to spot for a quick getaway is Mexico, but I would love to find other spots around the world that are worth visiting too.
Please include whatever details/suggestions you can think of, like is scene more focused on spas or online.
For Mexico, Mexico City specifically, the spas have been primarily more S services, but I've had good luck with H services online, usually using https://mx.mileroticos.com/escorts-gay/ 
Thanks!