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Bogota and Brazil July August 2019
Riobard replied to pauleiro's topic in Latin America Men and Destinations
A few reviews from Google Maps suggest the Poseidon facilities are not nice. -
Bogota and Brazil July August 2019
Riobard replied to pauleiro's topic in Latin America Men and Destinations
Two others in Chapinero with massage, and erotic entertainment certain nights, pique my interest. However tassojr wrote 4 years ago that Mediterraneo is dreadful. I wonder if Poseidon may be worth a peak ... -
Argentina and Rio de Janeiro July 2019
Riobard replied to Latbear4blk's topic in Latin America Men and Destinations
Regarding the Grindr guy ... some of us know his identity but we have no intention of alerting him, though the impression is that he values discretion. There is no point creating anxiety for a GdeP and it is his responsibility to manage the occupational hazards. I actually follow his IG. And I limit to 100 guys!! However, there are likely others on the Board who see it differently. We have been through this. You have barely begun posting photos and already the world is small enough that a guy can be identified. It also depends on how explicitly he advertises. He obviously sent the nude photos personally thru the text function. Maybe he posted his IG handle in the upfront profile; that also makes a difference, particularly if not private account. Maybe he told you to go ahead. I do not want to get into another argument about photos. I can say I do not need to see pics. However ... Whether or not the Grindr ad upfront denotes his MO, consider this. Somebody alerts him (without telling you) that a visting Argentinian American from DC has splashed his pics and role within the public domain, you then unwittingly book him, and somebody who considers you to be Public Enemy #1 of the day is face-to-face with you in a private space. I'm just saying think it through and whether and when you actually need to post photos. How many of 32,000 members are encouraging this? It seems to me there is only a handful and that there are other ways to share this information with a small group of trusted sympaticos. -
Bogota and Brazil July August 2019
Riobard replied to pauleiro's topic in Latin America Men and Destinations
These establishments are notorious for outdated or dropped social media accounts. Both Saint Moritz and Gigolo Erotic House just erased their IG accounts. They are probably under the same management. I assume that the problem is that pages are individual specific ... when the individual that exclusively accesses accounts moves on, the pages lay dormant or are removed. We also now have another new thread. Is the Colombia topic getting too saturated? Should it be city specific? Should basic venue information be centralized in one thread, but an individual poster's actual experiences, testimonials, upcoming visit alerts , etc be separate? I write this while realizing I myself am not the best example of following the material organizational suggestions. -
Official address #200 Augusto Severo, essentially #2 Joaquim Silva (not #8), with the entrance probably obvious but I suspect on Joaquim Silva. The official search engine name appears to be Lion's Rio Nightclub, perhaps an effective way around the name trademark.
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Thanks, different info sources use different wording. Every related or unofficial organization, it seems, feels obliged to summarize the info and crowd the net needlessly. What surprises me is my not being aware of these developments brewing for several years. Whatever the purpose of departure scan, my main concern is catching the flight back home if there is a glitch. A delay on arrival, unless a transit connection, is endurable at level of inconvenience and less likely financial impositions.
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Fingerprints recorded on entry in EES system as early as 6 months from now ... ETIAS is comparatively a cakewalk. NIGHTMARE! Imagine the queue wait times while exhausted from a long, often sleepless overnight, flight. Anyone here had the misfortune of fingerprint system with a residential building, gym, etc? I have for both. Typically putting tips on a glass surface for a scan. Consistently non-functional for routine subsequent entry thru the turnstile or other mechanism even when it all seems in order at baseline. And there is often the painfully slow process of accompanying data being typed into the system. Since EES will apparently replace passport, I assume the manual data entry approach because no passport means no quickly scannable data. And why one's passport would be not utilized to triangulate data is simply beyond comprehension. And fingers scanned on departure to return home??!! WTF!!?? Airport horror. Europe evidently wants to shut down tourism. This is likely something that should be piloted/trialled. As far as I know, it hasn't. This is just my initial reaction. I am NOT putting myself forward as an expert or as someone who fully grasp these developments.
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Small gym bag or knapsack, often doubles as flight carry-on ... double slider zipper with holes large enough in the sliders that the shackle of a small padlock can fit through. Most everything put in except shoes that might be a little soiled. No employee is likely going to try to cut open the bag with a knife or take and stash it for the remainder of his shift.
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Part 1: Yes same problem ... it sometimes annoyinging pops up repeatedly while typing. At least I figured out how to disable the sound. Frankly, I don't see the point of this added reaction notification because you see those alerts in the bell icon anyway. Part 2: I don't seem to have that problem. I rarely go to Inbox ... just to see if my own sent msg has been read, I think.
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DICK-stractions in Santo Domingo
Riobard replied to BlkSuperman's topic in Latin America Men and Destinations
I would add that it is important to have fun, particularly directed to those who obviously have the capacity to creatively soak it up in "safe" play settings, and not be so concerned with entertaining the Board or taking risks to assess risk. -
At the risk of sounding contrarian, the relationship is not particularly robust. Sweden's neo-abolitionism is regressive. Feminism has the potential to override sexual liberalism when it comes to commercial sex work. Prostitution is not illegal in many nations that would be considered to be sexually conservative.
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DICK-stractions in Santo Domingo
Riobard replied to BlkSuperman's topic in Latin America Men and Destinations
Well, Casa Sanchez does appear to be single-friendly after all ... -
DICK-stractions in Santo Domingo
Riobard replied to BlkSuperman's topic in Latin America Men and Destinations
With apologies, not to overlook Discovery Hotel or Casa Conde Hotel Boutique, also in the area and mentioned by other posters previously, that would serve the same purpose and perhaps even more economically. -
DICK-stractions in Santo Domingo
Riobard replied to BlkSuperman's topic in Latin America Men and Destinations
I forgot to mention that an Airbnb host typically provides linen for one person, unless you formally stipulated additional legit guests on the reservation. Often, for a week or so, you get the bare minimum and there is no easy system for replenishment. There is a self-service directly across from Apolo Spa Sauna. -
PS: I mention NAMBLA not because anyone here referred to it, but because man-boy love advocacy has bled into societal views of gay sex and likely into attitudes about gay men purchasing commercial sex. I also forgot to mention that there is some evidence that attitudes towards prostitution change for the better once it is legalized. Therefore, the nonsexual advocacy focus does not rule out that a general shift in society being more sex-positive follows.
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Fair enough. The right to sexual autonomy is the one piece that applies to all providers and clients alike. I do think, though, that the widespread negative attitudes towards Johns and the conflating of buying sex with exploitation and with pedophilia, particularly in terms of views of gay men's role and MO in prostitution, will militate against visibility. NAMBLA is not your friend on this issue, and they may want a place at the table, helping to fuck it up. The message "we want to do what we want with our bodies" is a one-note argument pitted against deeply ingrained moral attitudes. A cursory look at strategic focus does not seem to highlight the value of punters' out-ness, and organized John self-advocacy is unlikely to galvanize society into taking action for fairness. Right-to-work in chosen field, protection and de-stigmatization of commercial sex workers, and pummelling misinformed well-meaning policy makers with academic data-driven educational material appears to be the approach favoured by advocates and their supporters, rather than putting the spotlight on the ickiness of sex. The placard "stay out of my business" or "all sex is good" does not require much intellectual effort and does little to disabuse do-gooders of the false assumptions that promote criminalization or neo-abolitionism. A coordinated effort to reach out individually to lawmakers, your consituency politicians, etc, with well organized and succinct credible data to shift their viewpoint is more challenging but likely to best hit the mark. There must be a way to contribute that helps you suck up remaining in the shadows. I think there is scope for absorption into SWOP, DecrimNY, etc, without raising anxiety that putting a face to punters will detract from the current momentum.
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DICK-stractions in Santo Domingo
Riobard replied to BlkSuperman's topic in Latin America Men and Destinations
Enjoy! Make sure one of you controls the steering wheel while scanning the Photo file. DUIPimping can be hazardous. -
The trick will be to make strange bedfellows compatible bedfellows in a reality where a particular position to shoot for on the gradient from Prohibitionism to Decriminalization may be more realistic or appropriate for MSW versus MSM, or vice versa. Technically, Decriminalization is a long shot at the outset for a nation state in which Prohibitionism currently reigns because it is the most relaxed, extreme, and has minimal precedent globally. It would be fallacy to assume or expect gay men to lobby any more than hetero men for punter advocacy simply because a drive for LGBTQ rights including marriage equality exists and worked. That wave is not so surfable here. The analogous argument here for legal equality, apart from protecting women and self-determination, is to have what particular other countries have, not what the majority of nationals have (as in legal union). However, the American sentiment is not so predisposed to mirroring other nations. Where Prohibitionism exists globally, the USA thought of it first. It would be misguided to pursue an offshoot of sex work legitimacy pertaining specifically to gay men because the leaders and charter challengers risking visibility and putting themselves out there have been, and will continue to be, predominantly female sex workers. It makes the most sense to support that movement because whatever shift in the legal framework occurs will likely depend on that rising up continuing to gain momentum and will (sadly) perhaps benefit the male-to-male faction comparatively more. Piggy-backing on the hetero without confounding decision-makers with the sexual orientation piece may be prudent. One challenge for the gay players will be to reconcile with a possible (initially, anyway) shortfall in progression, a one-step shift to Neo-abolitionism (aka Nordic Model), that drives workers underground to protect clients, a situation far riskier for female than male sex workers. Abolitionism, essentially Neo- plus punters' impunity, is perhaps the level to realistically aim for in the longer term for a country with a huge population. That shift in the legal framework reduces the gender discrepancy in safety. Regulation is costly and unwieldy. New Zealand has the population of Alabama, not much more than Nevada. The larger the country, it seems, the greater the risk of being chopped up jurisdictionally as opposed to uniform Decriminalization. Abolitionism, while appropriate to maintain as a concept but problematic where the loaded term "slavery" buttresses the Criminalization argument, leaves wiggle room to combat trafficking. You have to leave in something that keeps most groups happy. If the legal framework shifts to Legalization and Decriminalization, fine, but I am not sure regulation will be of any use to gay commercial sex. We see a trend towards private ad- and app-based in places like Brazil with a longstanding gay brothel history. I am not sure a regulated brothel model would fly in North America. Moreover, it would be localized, likely state-specific, and leave many punters in the lurch.
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DICK-stractions in Santo Domingo
Riobard replied to BlkSuperman's topic in Latin America Men and Destinations
I would say for safety and perhaps non-fluency in Spanish, hotel option best, since there are several accessible and ID deposit is required. Private dwelling likely better for expanding selection of guys who are self-conscious about the commercial sex work label. -
DICK-stractions in Santo Domingo
Riobard replied to BlkSuperman's topic in Latin America Men and Destinations
Casa Sanchez looks quite nice. Though not a 'gay hotel' like Adam, it is apparently gay-owned and gay-friendly, presumably accustomed to same-sex couples using the lower courtyard pool and rooftop hot-tub, outside pool table, etc. However, being gay operated says little about tolerance for the parade of sex work guests for which some of us want an unencumbered privilege. As I reported earlier, locals less comfortable about being seen obviously in a "get down" role in a hotel context might be more easily persuaded to come in for a drink and billiards (how inocuous and macho is that?!) or swim or jacuzzi, breaking the ice, and eventually moving towards the privacy of the room. Similarly, Palacio has a rooftop sunning and pool area. You might even pack a few extra swimsuits. TAU Casa Conde by Paco's (aka Grand) would be a place to which you would have to be more direct inviting the guy to your room, and entering is publicly more visible. While not necessarily a great place to stay, it would be affordable to some as a secondary base exclusively for sex. It is more definably geared for that, for female guests of male punters (but sex hetero tourism is usually highlighted over MSM), though a regular hotel. -
Perhaps his experiences of sacrifice putting himself thru school and go-funding his whorehouse helped pave the way for the current generation of working ativos.