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I am not seeking agreement regarding what my strategy would be with Miguel ... just "brainstorming". But I would give him a 50 with a note conveying appreciative gorjeta and 'Zap digits. But after the show ends. Maybe even knock on the dressing room door for a very brief exchange. I can say for certain that one guy in the lineup, at a minimum, will normalize Miguel exploiting you for mutual benefit even if Miguel is a fence-sitter. The group may also demonstrate hearty levels of mirth about your shameless puppy-dog fanmail. A small price to pay for potential groin gain. I think it is best to let the guy take the lead on the next move. I think by now you can sense I am living vicariously through you. But by all means approach this your unique way.

I also agree about exercising caution. I meant chatting up adult locals of all ages just to be sociable. Establishing a comfort level for interacting. Hooking up with a new acquaintance is risky. But if you are sociable it might lead to more conversation and playing things out, without rushing and pouncing. The short game best takes place at your favourite bordel. I might also add that sanddunes started by expressing wishful thinking and never asked for a workable playbook. floridarob never implied he indiscriminantly goes rustling for off-grid dick ... he works this within his element. Every reader here knows the liabilities and the amber light rule. I suppose does not hurt to dwell on it at times. But how often do we need to be reminded that flattering lighting befits the pursuit of higher 1-10 scorers, better yet, throw in the towel? More than ever do M4M have the Adonis Complex all up in our face. Is there not a more appropriate forum for regular hook-ups, considering they represent the vast majority of encounters while the more prevalent agenda here is commercial?

A good start is to chat up, briefly and within reason, many average people you come across in public. Then it becomes second nature without fretting about response. The main impediments are their smartphone and our anxiety they can smell our agenda, when we actually need them to get the correct whiff without them worrying we are BuffaloBill-grade predators with designs on their skin.

Like everyone else, any garoto may be fundamentally homosexual, but can only act gay not be gay.

I actually was not speaking about labelling. I was referring to rigidity of ideas about sex. Labels are important for organizing experience. My objection is related to short-sighted pronouncements about the internal motives and subjective pleasure behind where cock cellular matter is placed. SolaceSoul shows evidence of grasping and thinking about it at a higher level. For anyone interested, the book "Tourist Attractions" is a good option centered on Brasil. It is a lot more than 20 words and a little more than 400 words.

I have no good reason to doubt it. I go for that type so I am usually communicating with them and I inquire about their fitness activities. And usually have 1:1 time off-site, as well as FB or Instagram access. Perhaps some want to play their cards close with me, or they worry I might show up at an event. Or I may be wrong place or time. In North America these types are candid with me, and the Brasilians "come across" as comfortable generally. In any case, many certainly look the part and that is the important thing. In 3 years I have intersected with just one, that I recall, and he had already been familiar to me as a circuit competitor. But it is just in the past 2 years that I have increased communication with new guys, with improved language mastery and mutual ID sharing. My longterm goal is to become a spray-tan and body-oil volunteer intern.

But what looks like an orgy to sandunes may just seem like a simple handshake introduction to tomcal.

Beginning July, Copa Airlines adds 2 new Brasil destinations to the current 7, from Panama. Fortaleza and Salvador Bahia.

Maximum S/M from a dependable real fit stud in the PM with trusted protection and he models 56 panties while I am bound? Where does this retail?!

Hehehehehe ... kkkk. By your final day you'll be your own expert. Mid-afternoon muscle may be hit-and-miss ... they may be training or busy. But 117 generally the sweet spot for swole. An actual "competitive" BB is rare, though. It is an expensive sport and the garotos often have other financial commitments. Some pursue personal trainer certification as that is more guaranteed income whereas competition rarely yields financial gain. In Brazil personal training (providers called "professors") is regulated and requires a Bachelors degree, usually 4 years at university level.

It's not as if there is only one arbitrary orientation continuum. Bisexuality can be just as legitimately on a binary of sex without compensation versus commercially provided sex. The guys I pay for are bisexual on the basis of actualizing one side of the polarity of paid or not paid. The gender with whom they have nonpaid sex is not relevant to me. So on that count they are simply: sexual. How bisexuality is conceptualized by the masses, on gender lines, is outdated and not reflective of the realities of fluidity and vastness of context. That said, theory and research that attempts to nail down the orientation of performative labourers just spins its wheels. Who fucking cares?!

Tomasian, you will need local currency for bus or metered taxi. Before I started using Über, I paid the set taxi price via credit card for the fare to my south zone. This would be right at arrivals and there is likely a broker on duty even very late. You get a voucher/receipt and an attendant escorts you to the taxi right there and you give the driver the voucher. If there is no booth with someone to take credit card payment you will have to pay the zone flat rate to the taxi using cash. There is usually a zone rate sign with the fares visible somewhere in the vicinity. Über is super easy ... I just wanted to alert you about aspects that can throw you off. Look, take the taxi option as that is just fine, zippy, and suits your instincts. You will need a SIM chip or roaming capacity to use an app anyway.

They have "tantrica", code for sensual and release. You might get dicked around on the price for an "upgrade". One strategy is to go with the flow, pay the set rate, and say you are in Rio indefinitely. Don't worry, they will ask, and want you happy and to return. Your package will tell the tale regarding your orientation. But just accept what happens. Nothing is guaranteed. Technically, the tantric method is aimed at full physiological orgasm, at a spiritual level intending to downplay it is commercial sex trade. 200 reais is a bit much for just massage and it is 100 for non-sexual one-hour with a trained masseur at 117. You will have to see it to believe it, but Douglas would not particularly stand out any more than others if he sold himself at the clubs with sauna and garotos.

Tomasian's bus #2018 will not be in service when he arrives.

Interesting question about the hour. I usually do a double programa elsewhere for 125-135% what I might pay for a single. Works well since I prefer more time with one guy than a shorter time with two separate consecutive guys, and I like foreplay as much as heightened "resolution". This would never fly in a strip club, but garotos are more flexible. They may feel undervalued if you lowball for a single session. Not that I would know ... I do not nickel-and-time on 35-minute dates. However, once their date rate threshold is comfortably reached, their egos and salary goals seem to withstand receiving a lower time-contingent amount. I do not have the "cuckold" fetish or something similar that sets one back 1 large the first hour, 2 large for two hours, 3 for 3, etc. I would assume Acyr has "game-changed" the programa concept to include suite amenities time, which may actually be extra minutes without amenities functioning fully. But the idea is more consistent with a spa experience. To my way of thinking, I would be accepting of the 125-135% calculation with the right guy because I would not be paying double for the suite at MR's. But my sense is the standard programa arrangememt will be the main driver, conferring a little bonus to the client. I think my playbook is more like Sandunes'. Assessing and handling the cantelope for texture and ripeness, never giving the guy a pink slip.

Good coverage here ... I will just add markets as you said you enjoy. Two daytime weekly vast open air produce, meat, fish, flower, snack markets take over the street at or near Gloria Metro (where 117 is). Indicated on image are the locations. Mid-morning to mid-afternoon. Ignore the yellow streak over Museu MRV.

For Tomasian, note that vamosgay.com has a fairly up to date listing of Rio bars and clubs. Be aware, though, that many of us experienced visitors would not venture to locations outside of Zona Sul. Places like Boate 1140 not recommended. For the size of Rio, options are limited and there is no strongly identfied gay district like other cities.

The pic here and the 1st face pic RM are good, but based on the entire portfolio he would not make it even into my $R150 category. There are guys at more conventional rates that I think are better looking. Just my opinion, no offense. This is one of the reasons I don't shop from images. If he can command those USD amounts locally it must be clients who cannot show their face in a gay establishment, or perhaps his more Caucasian admixture adds BOVESPA value.

Hehehe ... kkkkkk. Let's un-muddle this for newbies. The club reception should see your locker key to add the suite charge to your tab. You can go jointly with the garoto to make the booking so your key does not need to leave your person. If there is a waitlist, your name and locker number will be recorded on a sheet along with the garoto name to elevate the chances one of you will hear the alert informing you can pounce from the starting gate, as your suite key is provided and your suite is ready. Similarly you have the option yourself to bring the suite key to reception following your "massage". If you do not witness its return you can quickly verify the fellow turned it in if he dashed out of the suite prior to you in order to not miss one second of customers' window- shopping. Nobody will be offended. Note that the time of death is computer-recorded when the staff has the suite key back in hand. Sometimes I send the garoto to return the suite key if I need an extra minute or two to bathe, adjust and smooth out my crinolines, or simply to ambulate safely. Massages can leave one all flustery and disoriented. If he is less familiar to me I take a second swinging by reception to verify all is in order. If a garoto hoodwinks you and you get dinged with extra house charges, it is possible the house was in cahoots or sloppy in their tracking. But it is essentially on you. It is not rocket-science to avert such occurrences.

Favela excursions and hangliding have in common being 'extreme sports'. Statistically low-risk, but not for the risk-averse. Travel insurers may be more phobic about heights than you. Check the fine print before leaping.

I think I can tell when YOU are in joke mode vs serial. I am not seriously trying to reinvent volunteerism. Just one peeve?

I was on the other platform for a year prior to being Anne Boleyned. I was never aware of sights on my dowry but my time was not compensated. Nobody appreciates volunteers anymore.

I won"t be there in May, for a change, but it is typically very warm. The only time I used a jumper was two or three July evenings one year. Some garotos prefer to penetrate your bottom with their package than your skull with their tongue. Personally, I do not recommend trying to stratify service cost according to how "vanilla" on the flavour continuum. Even if you think you are getting that idea across, you may not be relating well to how the guy thinks. I am often in the mood for vanilla, have accumulated a 3-figure quantity of encounters, and only get lower temporal-based rates for sessions of longer duration. There is also often an inverse relationship between the accepted offer and his attempts to extract more ... once you have the cabin key his mission is accomplished and it is open season from there unless perhaps you project major Crocodile Dundee 'tude. But good on you if you can swing it. Über works at that hour. Haul your luggage up two levels to Departures ... Porta D, and fire up the app. The large elevator is visible as you get to Arrivals where folks are waiting for passengers. The driver may still ring you up and proclaim in Portuguese he wonders where to retrieve you, because the signal tracker has less than 100% specificity and some users fuck up in terms of going to the official pickup level. Or the driver may have driven someone in to Arrivals and caught your request signal from the app at that time. Say "Partidas Porta D". D is "day", not "dee", and drop the Aussie accent The driver may continue to speak at length. Catch his digits, put in your Contacts +55219xxxxxxxx, and text your location, as indicated, via Whatsapp. You may get approached by the taxi system or a broker even up at that level. Try to relax and be flexible about your tastes. DJs are not curating according the preferences you describe and the volume will be cranked up far higher than Gay Village's Unity anyway.

Good point ...