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  1. Along with the pimp/dealer, role conceived for Eric Roberts?
  2. Thanks! Pavol has had a self-created photo spread in my device album, and of the four is the only one potentially in my wheelhouse. He has had other monikers as you know. My taste however, particularly in Caucasians, runs to lean while pushing out considerably into the third dimension. High weight:height ratio, and I can scare up the resources to tithe at their altars. I suspect that your guys are really nice to be with and hella cute to boot. I do not gravitate to BelAmi types but there was a Czech or Hungarian years ago who grabbed my attention. I will attempt to add a photo of my preferred type from the public domain, simply to illustrate. Not an escort or anyone I personally know. I realize unrealistic, but I have had similar.
  3. If I had only thought of that and non-impulsively weighed the options ... Perhaps I might have done it. Framing etiquette can be just as effective, seething bypassed, if anything is likely to work. And being general allows me to include my imperfect self. It's more about navigation than indictment. Fortunately, no lung machine required, so wasted breath to spare as well as chuckling under it.
  4. I have planned my upcoming time in Zurich to focus on sights as well as side to Basel. Staying a few doors down from Paragonya so will of course check it out most days but keep expectations in check and bullshit-meter powered up. Not likely realistic to use the hotel room for encounters and haven't viewed any clearly cut-above candidates on the relevant sites. I think the strategy will be to compensate generously but infrequently at the brothel and according to the prospect passing the usual acid tests, taking my time. I have a lot of Brasil and Spain experience that might help, but in Zurich my rep will not follow me as it is a onetime destination.
  5. And what does a poltergeist want with cats?
  6. I've been to Sauna Fox and Clube Masculino P11. P11 was conveniently located and I walked there a few times in late daylight from south of Pelhourinho after getting the lay of the land. For greater security, vehicle transport, and vehicle transport home at night is of course the way to go. I also found it favourable for one-stop shopping since the other venues are scattered wide. I would no sooner complete a programa when another must-have popped into my sightline. Some Pelhourinho sights were closed for renovations. I need to return to Salvador Bahia to complete the top 10 and top or be topped by 10. Good to learn of the updated breadth of options, though.
  7. Are you seeing a pattern here, sanddunes? Your enthusiasm taking a body-check? In spite of your style of simply trying to share your process of the thrills chills spills of your extended visit? Besides, in the PW director's cut Vivian first morning is naked spread-eagled with her red curls tumbling over the pillows as she full frontal selfies. Yeah, I am confused too. Smartphones a quarter-century back? And me attempting to control the conversation?
  8. The skull-and-crossbones warning labels where warranted on my household products are more neutral. Mockery does not uptick the agenda of "idiot-proofing". Just to be clear, a few of us appreciate and support the cautionary label and how it particularly benefits the uninitiated. But I was referring to regular reminders about how some members here can score and others only need check the mirror and downgrade their self-perceived stock value. Unfortunately, there is an occasional tendency on forums for a response to appear to distort a previous contribution's essence. That partially accounts for my tenacity in refocusing the question at hand. It doesn't take a putdown that has the flavour of setting apart any one member according to characteristics that he feels he advantageously possesses. I am not alone in wanting to shut down that aggravation.
  9. But why the need to remind when the message is not generally lacking in abundance. Others' lack of reality testing, when that is the take-away though based on relatively little info (being anon. forum), will usually prompt micro-managing from respondents who possess particular characterological traits. Perhaps one of the traits is oriented to altruism. But I think it is also tempting to break out bigger guns when sensibilities or perspectives are offended. When it comes to libido, my sense is that it is appropriate to give a little more leeway for colouring outside of the lines viz free-style forum expression. What is the true functional purpose of declaring a poster's thinking is, or borders on, the preposterous? It seems tinged with righteous self-satisfaction. I think the enterprise calls for assessing how much the person you correct solicits your view and calls for fine-tuning what level of emphasis will best serve the thread.
  10. I am not seeking agreement regarding what my strategy would be with Miguel ... just "brainstorming". But I would give him a 50 with a note conveying appreciative gorjeta and 'Zap digits. But after the show ends. Maybe even knock on the dressing room door for a very brief exchange. I can say for certain that one guy in the lineup, at a minimum, will normalize Miguel exploiting you for mutual benefit even if Miguel is a fence-sitter. The group may also demonstrate hearty levels of mirth about your shameless puppy-dog fanmail. A small price to pay for potential groin gain. I think it is best to let the guy take the lead on the next move. I think by now you can sense I am living vicariously through you. But by all means approach this your unique way.
  11. I also agree about exercising caution. I meant chatting up adult locals of all ages just to be sociable. Establishing a comfort level for interacting. Hooking up with a new acquaintance is risky. But if you are sociable it might lead to more conversation and playing things out, without rushing and pouncing. The short game best takes place at your favourite bordel. I might also add that sanddunes started by expressing wishful thinking and never asked for a workable playbook. floridarob never implied he indiscriminantly goes rustling for off-grid dick ... he works this within his element. Every reader here knows the liabilities and the amber light rule. I suppose does not hurt to dwell on it at times. But how often do we need to be reminded that flattering lighting befits the pursuit of higher 1-10 scorers, better yet, throw in the towel? More than ever do M4M have the Adonis Complex all up in our face. Is there not a more appropriate forum for regular hook-ups, considering they represent the vast majority of encounters while the more prevalent agenda here is commercial?
  12. A good start is to chat up, briefly and within reason, many average people you come across in public. Then it becomes second nature without fretting about response. The main impediments are their smartphone and our anxiety they can smell our agenda, when we actually need them to get the correct whiff without them worrying we are BuffaloBill-grade predators with designs on their skin.
  13. Like everyone else, any garoto may be fundamentally homosexual, but can only act gay not be gay.
  14. I actually was not speaking about labelling. I was referring to rigidity of ideas about sex. Labels are important for organizing experience. My objection is related to short-sighted pronouncements about the internal motives and subjective pleasure behind where cock cellular matter is placed. SolaceSoul shows evidence of grasping and thinking about it at a higher level. For anyone interested, the book "Tourist Attractions" is a good option centered on Brasil. It is a lot more than 20 words and a little more than 400 words.
  15. I have no good reason to doubt it. I go for that type so I am usually communicating with them and I inquire about their fitness activities. And usually have 1:1 time off-site, as well as FB or Instagram access. Perhaps some want to play their cards close with me, or they worry I might show up at an event. Or I may be wrong place or time. In North America these types are candid with me, and the Brasilians "come across" as comfortable generally. In any case, many certainly look the part and that is the important thing. In 3 years I have intersected with just one, that I recall, and he had already been familiar to me as a circuit competitor. But it is just in the past 2 years that I have increased communication with new guys, with improved language mastery and mutual ID sharing. My longterm goal is to become a spray-tan and body-oil volunteer intern.
  16. But what looks like an orgy to sandunes may just seem like a simple handshake introduction to tomcal.
  17. Beginning July, Copa Airlines adds 2 new Brasil destinations to the current 7, from Panama. Fortaleza and Salvador Bahia.
  18. Maximum S/M from a dependable real fit stud in the PM with trusted protection and he models 56 panties while I am bound? Where does this retail?!
  19. Hehehehehe ... kkkk. By your final day you'll be your own expert. Mid-afternoon muscle may be hit-and-miss ... they may be training or busy. But 117 generally the sweet spot for swole. An actual "competitive" BB is rare, though. It is an expensive sport and the garotos often have other financial commitments. Some pursue personal trainer certification as that is more guaranteed income whereas competition rarely yields financial gain. In Brazil personal training (providers called "professors") is regulated and requires a Bachelors degree, usually 4 years at university level.
  20. It's not as if there is only one arbitrary orientation continuum. Bisexuality can be just as legitimately on a binary of sex without compensation versus commercially provided sex. The guys I pay for are bisexual on the basis of actualizing one side of the polarity of paid or not paid. The gender with whom they have nonpaid sex is not relevant to me. So on that count they are simply: sexual. How bisexuality is conceptualized by the masses, on gender lines, is outdated and not reflective of the realities of fluidity and vastness of context. That said, theory and research that attempts to nail down the orientation of performative labourers just spins its wheels. Who fucking cares?!
  21. Tomasian, you will need local currency for bus or metered taxi. Before I started using Über, I paid the set taxi price via credit card for the fare to my south zone. This would be right at arrivals and there is likely a broker on duty even very late. You get a voucher/receipt and an attendant escorts you to the taxi right there and you give the driver the voucher. If there is no booth with someone to take credit card payment you will have to pay the zone flat rate to the taxi using cash. There is usually a zone rate sign with the fares visible somewhere in the vicinity. Über is super easy ... I just wanted to alert you about aspects that can throw you off. Look, take the taxi option as that is just fine, zippy, and suits your instincts. You will need a SIM chip or roaming capacity to use an app anyway.
  22. They have "tantrica", code for sensual and release. You might get dicked around on the price for an "upgrade". One strategy is to go with the flow, pay the set rate, and say you are in Rio indefinitely. Don't worry, they will ask, and want you happy and to return. Your package will tell the tale regarding your orientation. But just accept what happens. Nothing is guaranteed. Technically, the tantric method is aimed at full physiological orgasm, at a spiritual level intending to downplay it is commercial sex trade. 200 reais is a bit much for just massage and it is 100 for non-sexual one-hour with a trained masseur at 117. You will have to see it to believe it, but Douglas would not particularly stand out any more than others if he sold himself at the clubs with sauna and garotos.
  23. Tomasian's bus #2018 will not be in service when he arrives.
  24. Interesting question about the hour. I usually do a double programa elsewhere for 125-135% what I might pay for a single. Works well since I prefer more time with one guy than a shorter time with two separate consecutive guys, and I like foreplay as much as heightened "resolution". This would never fly in a strip club, but garotos are more flexible. They may feel undervalued if you lowball for a single session. Not that I would know ... I do not nickel-and-time on 35-minute dates. However, once their date rate threshold is comfortably reached, their egos and salary goals seem to withstand receiving a lower time-contingent amount. I do not have the "cuckold" fetish or something similar that sets one back 1 large the first hour, 2 large for two hours, 3 for 3, etc. I would assume Acyr has "game-changed" the programa concept to include suite amenities time, which may actually be extra minutes without amenities functioning fully. But the idea is more consistent with a spa experience. To my way of thinking, I would be accepting of the 125-135% calculation with the right guy because I would not be paying double for the suite at MR's. But my sense is the standard programa arrangememt will be the main driver, conferring a little bonus to the client. I think my playbook is more like Sandunes'. Assessing and handling the cantelope for texture and ripeness, never giving the guy a pink slip.
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