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TotallyOz

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  1. I loved the first episode of Dynasty. Not sure if it will pick up with fans but it did remind me of the good ole days of nighttime soaps.
  2. We want to know what the members think about the name. Some recent comments have let us to believe that a name change may be in order. We want member input. We will work on making the reviews simpler or moving some part to the forums. It is under discussion.
  3. TotallyOz replied to a post in a topic in The Beer Bar
    No, I think I was not clear. I do not think the the majority of members on either site like Donald trump the man. I hope most hate him. My point was that I do think the common thing that most Trump supporters have and that most of the active participants of Daddy's site has is the desire for an authoritarian role figure. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4rHuinnfVJo I have always said there is great value in both sites. There is value to having more site that discuss male escorts. My opinion has never wavered.
  4. TotallyOz replied to a post in a topic in The Beer Bar
    Lars, I am glad you brought this thread here and am happy it is an active thread. We provide a place for people to chat about anything they wish to chat about. However, to say we lack humanity based on that. People participate differently in different places. However, I can't think of many topics we don't allow and we don't ban people very often. I hope the participation is now low based on lack of humanity. I call the activity of the other site the Trump factor. His fans have one thing in common, they like authoritarians. This site is the opposite. We are the anti-Trump. I still hope there is a place for us as we are not going anywhere.
  5. That is good advice from Axiom. I'd split my time between those 4 cities equally. That gives you plenty of time to see the sites in the daytime and the gay life at night. There is less gay life in Chiang Mai and Phuket but there are still plenty to occupy your time. In Chiang Mai, do the Elephant Sanctuary for one day. It is the most amazing thing to do. http://www.elephantjunglesanctuary.com/ Also, in Chiang Mai, do the temple at the top of the mountain and maybe even go further up that mountain to the Hill Side Tribe. A jungle swing is fun, tons of outdoor adventures if you like that stuff. In Phuket see the ladyboy show and the Thailand show at night and go on an island hopper in the days. In Pattaya, the bars and boys will keep you busy but if not try the Tiger Farm. In Bangkok, oh my, so much to do and see. Take a day trip to Ayutthaya. Easy in 1/2 day. https://wikitravel.org/en/Ayutthaya
  6. The one rule I have had in my life that has been consistent is that when I have a BF that gets hooked on drugs, I'm done. Earlier in life, I tried to help, spent money, spent time, spent energy. But, in the end, nothing changes until they are ready for the change and the allure to the highly addictive substance is often more important than anything else in their life. With friends, I stay away from them when I find they are into drugs. It is not my scene and I do not wish to get involved in helping someone UNLESS they ask for the help. If they do not ask, they are not ready to change and your time and effort will be wasted. You can easily encourage, participate in the friendship and "pretend" the issue is not there. But, that is not helping either. The only time they will change is when they are ready to change.
  7. Having seen many websites and businesses change ownership, it is easy for things to fall through the cracks. I thought the response from Golden Banana was very professional and easy to follow. I see no issue with someone sending an email to find a rate for a hotel. I have done this tons of times. I am impressed with the Golden Banana and their response. Best of luck in your endeavors.
  8. JDD, in over 10 years of this site and I think it is closer to 15, I have never once had someone more difficult to deal with. Never. You attack people but when they attack you, you get upset. Threads you start seem to start off OK but most deteriorate. Why? I don't know. Is it all you? No. Is it partly you? Yes Does it always center around you. Yes. Thus, that makes it difficult.
  9. If you read that thread as being all about you, that is the problem! Yes, you cause shitloads of drama here. Yes, you beat things into the ground over and over and over. No, you are not the only one. Yes, you are the one that brings the drama from other site here over and over. Yes, I am sick of it. Yet, I give you chance after chance. But, my patience is running thin at this point. You make moderating a site difficult. I hate difficult. Either make it easier for me or move on. Simple as that.
  10. I hate the use of the N word in any thread. I hate drama and bickering. I hate people who don't know how to not read a thread they know will only cause issues. One thread removed. One thread moved to Sandbox. For those that can't stand JDD, stay out of this threads. Period. The use of the N word in any context makes my skin crawl even if used by a black man. I grew up with racists in Alabama and I left there 30 years ago for a reason. JDD, one more mention of drama at the "other site" and your gone. I hate the other site and I hate it even more when people bring that shit to this site. LAST warning. And, the Sandbox is closed for 2 weeks. Hidden from view for all. Oz at his wits end! If anyone doesn't like any of the above, tuff shit.
  11. I think the original thought was that often those details are inaccurate and this site would give more accurate details. And, often the guys ad doesn't give full information or those ads are deleted shortly after they are up and down and on another site. So, originally, this place was meant to be a place where truthful information flowed and stayed. But, perhaps that time has come and gone. If that is the case, we need to change with the times. I know Daddy doesn't vet anything. Should we go that route as well?
  12. the .pro is not the guys from Rentboy.com They have moved to a better name: http://rentboy.net jk
  13. I use Uber often and I also like the app GrabTaxi as they are often faster. Grabtaxi I pay cash. Uber I charge to my car. Both are great depending on the area and the time of day.
  14. The Review section on Boytoy is pretty dead. We rarely get them. They were started many years back and they may be a remnant of things past. However, I'd like some community input. I was thinking of moving all the old reviews to a forum here called Male Escort Reviews and then also let people post their new reviews in that forum. That takes away the vetting of reviews. So, there are pluses and minuses for each thing. What are your thoughts?
  15. Thanks. Always enjoyed seeing you as well. But, the older I get, the less I get out and go places. When I am in Bangkok, I tend to stay close to the BF of 14 years. What the fuck?
  16. SiamRoads has been around 10 years. Wow. That is amazing. Congrats. You are a very kind and generous man to do that site for all these years for charity. Can I call you Saint Moses?
  17. Many businesses build in a loss for a few years to grow the business, you know..... So, are you saying you make no money at all from the business? And, the boys make no money?
  18. You can't say it isn't a business. It is. It is just not a big business. You chose to take it small. That is called a small business. But, a business none the less.
  19. I am pretty sure I'll be there for the weekend of the 14th. I look forward to meeting up if you have time.
  20. I didn't connect those movies to him. I did know he was in the Pyscho tv show and loved it. Now, I have good memories of his earlier movies.
  21. Yes, he is great. He is a perfect choice for this role.
  22. 12? I hope that answers your question. Look, Moses posts on this thread because it brings attention to his workers and gets them business. That is great. I post for the same reason. I want them to get work as well. The only thing we disagree on is the wording. However, let me say that I totally value the service Moses does for these boys. I think it is great. He is pouring a lot of time and effort to help them. I truly do respect that. And, I guess I feel that my little tits here and there keep the thread going and people interested in it. Much the say way his sexy pics wants to entice us to hire one of his lads. I feel good services, sex or tour or massage or whatever, needs to be discussed and promoted. I want boys to work and to make money. When I ran this site, I was accused of pimping the guys on the front pages and I had never met them. It is part of the territory. I think Moses is savvy enough to realize that I want him and his boys to succeed. If that message is not the one being presented, then I do apologize for that.
  23. The first episode was last night and it is truly one of the first shows I have seen in ages that I totally enjoyed from beginning to end.
  24. I don't agree with one damn thing any of you people say on this site. However, I try to be polite when I know my opinion is the right one (which is always).

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