TotallyOz

Loved him then and love the new look. Of course, I am a hair guy so I miss those dreads but he is still as hot as ever!

I love Rio and I love Pharrell!

Of course it did, Tom is on his way!

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LzwQ8_H3DFw

Safe travels!

Knowing many from the prison system (prison ministry---long story) I can say that when you are in prison for life without the chance of being released that you deserve the same care you would be given outside of the system. And, I guess for Chelsea, I think he didn't deserve the sentence he received so I think he should be able to live the life he feels he should live. If you are in the prison and have a heart attack or have cancer, you are cared for. Why is this any different?

Yes, we should pay for it.

I guess I am just too left of this issue to let sleeping dogs lie. But, having been in the business of escorts for 20 years, I can tell that that escorts and clients are positive and you never know what you are going to get. They will not tell you. Assume that every partner you have is positive and then weigh the risks of sex with them. If you decide you will not have sex with anyone that is positive, join a convent. Give up gay sex totally. You will fail. If you decide that you want to have safe sex with someone that might be positive, then your numbers of potential partners are greater. If you decide to bareback with anyone and don't care if they are positive or not, then you have to accept the responsibility of that decision. I hate when others make decisions for me and I do not wish to tell others what to do sexually. Do what you are comfortable with. If you only want safe sex blow jobs, then go for it. If you want a bareback blow job, go for it. If you want anal sex with or without a condom and you have a consenting partner, go for it. You decisions about what and how you have sex are your business and not mine or anyone elses. As for me, I am still HIV Negative after over 20 years of coming out of the closet. If I choose to have sex with someone, I weight all the risks involved and then I made a decision that I can live with. If I go to a sauna and have sex with a guy that has had sex with 200 guys this month, I make a calculated risk assessment. If a sauna boy asks me how many partners I have been with, I'll be honest with him and tell him over 5,000. He can then decide if he wishes to have sex with someone who is more of a whore than he is. But, in the end, anyone who has sex with men is taking a risk. Hell, if you are having sex with women, you are taking a risk. If you wish zero risks, go to Thailand, join a Buddhist Temple and maintain your celibacy (hard to do with cute Thai monks). OK. Guys, I have said my peace. Have at me!

Drag and Drop. Or, click attach and choose that image from a location on your computer.

I accept. I'll gladly rule the land and have a house of 100 boys at my beck and call. Well, if I have that many, I won't be ruling the country as well as with only 50. So, as my first sacrifice, I'll rule with only 50 cute Thai boys in my abode. I agree with much of what you said. But, the way the yellow shirts stay in power is to keep the poor from being educated. It is a calculated plan. If they realize how much they are getting fucked over, they would riot. Much like the USA. The stupid people in this country don't realize they are getting fucked day in and day out by their rulers. Why? Stupidity as well.

I am a red shirt and I believe in democracy even if elected officials are corrupt. I also think the red shirt leaders have wisely sided on the side of the poor and in my view, that is what is needed. The yellow shirts have disrupted the country enough.

Good news is that Fred Phelps has died.. Bad news is that some of his family members are still around to carry on his hatred. http://www.queerty.com/breaking-fred-phelps-is-dead-20140320/

Happy Birthday and wishing you many many many more to come.

The yellow shirts want a country led by a committee as opposed to an elected Parliament. They don't think the people can be trusted. In other words, they are against democracy.

My first was the Gaiety and then Stella's and then Cats. There was another one on like 41 close to the Port Authority that was a bit rougher in the 90's. I can't remember the name. There was also a nice TS bar in Hell's Kitchen that would get an interesting crowd. I miss all those places. Good memories. Tom, if you were in Stella's in the 90's, we must have met as I was there 5 nights a week. LOL

UK sports sociologist, Dr. Chris Morriss-Roberts is delving deeply into the role penis size plays in the dynamic between teammates in sports. It may come as no surprise that Morriss-Roberts' research has determined that the bigger the athlete's penis, the higher his standing in the "cockocracy." The research suggested that men look at each other’s cocks, as a gauge to see how big or small they are, comparing themselves to the rest of the team or men in the locker room. The activity of checking out each other occurred irrelevant of sexuality and the type of sport; all participants noted that they looked at each other’s cocks in the locker room. This knowing of who has a large cock and who didn’t within a homosocial environment helped individual sporting males climb up a social hierarchy of importance. Those with the larger penises were revered and idolized by their teammates as a symbol of masculinity. These "large-cocked" individuals became a focus of camaraderie and team building within their sports environments. The cock became a focus on which to banter, create nicknames, and enjoy the fundamental basics of being a man. Two nicknames that were mentioned included "schlonger" and the "biggest dick in Scottish basketball." http://instinctmagazine.com/post/researcher-finds-penis-size-matters-team-sports

I am glad to hear about this. A more youthful look is very much needed. The last time I was there, I felt like the youngest guy there including those on stage. It has great potential.

OK. Has no one else fallen in love with the Goldbergs?

Guys, this is just too weird for me. Something is awry. I don't believe that the USA can know that I had a Vanilla Latte for a treat at Starbucks today and not know where a plane went. I just don't believe they are telling us everything.

And, there is a tie between Wayout and Twinklover both with 13 right guesses. Congrats to both of you! Way to go!

THE FULL LIST OF Winners: BEST PICTURE “12 Years a Slave” BEST DIRECTOR Alfonso Cuaron, “Gravity” BEST ACTOR Matthew McConaughey, “Dallas Buyers Club” BEST ACTRESS Cate Blanchett, “Blue Jasmine” BEST ORIGINAL SCREENPLAY “Her” BEST ADAPTED SCREENPLAY “12 Years a Slave” BEST SUPPORTING ACTRESS Lupita Nyong’o, “12 Years a Slave” BEST SUPPORTING ACTOR Jared Leto, “Dallas Buyers Club” BEST ANIMATED FILM “Frozen” BEST CINEMATOGRAPHY “Gravity” BEST COSTUME DESIGN Catherine Martin, “The Great Gatsby” BEST DOCUMENTARY FEATURE “20 Feet from Stardom” Nominees to be determined BEST DOCUMENTARY SHORT SUBJECT “The Lady in Number 6: Music Saved My Life” Malcolm Clarke and Nicholas Reed BEST FILM EDITING “Gravity” Alfonso Cuarón and Mark Sanger BEST FOREIGN LANGUAGE FILM “The Great Beauty” Italy BEST MAKEUP AND HAIRSTYLING “Dallas Buyers Club” Adruitha Lee and Robin Mathews BEST ORIGINAL SCORE Steven Price, “Gravity” BEST ORIGINAL SONG “Let It Go” from “Frozen” Music and Lyric by Kristen Anderson-Lopez and Robert Lopez BEST PRODUCTION DESIGN “The Great Gatsby” Production Design: Catherine Martin; Set Decoration: Beverley Dunn BEST ANIMATED SHORT FILM “Mr. Hublot” Laurent Witz and Alexandre Espigares BEST LIVE ACTION SHORT FILM “Helium” Anders Walter and Kim Magnusson BEST SOUND EDITING “Gravity” Glenn Freemantle BEST SOUND MIXING “Gravity” Skip Lievsay, Niv Adiri, Christopher Benstead and Chris Munro BEST VISUAL EFFECTS “Gravity” Tim Webber, Chris Lawrence, Dave Shirk and Neil Corbould

I have not had time to tally up the totals for all. I'll try to get that that next weekend and announce the final winners. So sorry for the delay in this.

I have been taking a 120 hour intensive class in NYC for the last month and it has been a real killer. (thus why I haven't been around too much, my apologies) It is about 8 hours a day of class and then 5 hours at night of prep work. The goal is to get a certificate to teach English overseas. I have considered the Peace Corps for a few years and was interested to see if I would be able to learn what I need in order to do this program. Well, it has been HELL. LOL But, I chose to take the class in NYC as I had some other business in the city that last 3 weeks as well and thus, I am in the Big Apple. Anyway, I was observing a class last week and found it interesting. This cute boy came up to me after the class when I went to bathroom and said, "hey, you are TotallyOz (insert my real name) aren't you?" I said yes, how do you know. He said I have seen photos of you because you took my brother to Carnival for many years in Rio and he had met me a few times at the beach. We chatted about his brother and he said that his brother had a big photo of me and him on his bedroom wall and talks about me a lot. I was shocked and happy. He said, so do you want want me to come to your hotel? I said,well, what do you want to do. He said, "I need some money for me and my girlfriend in NYC." I asked him if he was active or passive and he said he was active but would do anything with me. I said how much did he need and he said 200 US. I said, "that is a lot" he said,"yes, but I can stay all night and we can have sex as much as you want." I said OK. So, he came over and we had fabulous sex. He was much better than this brother and sweet and cute. But, when sex is done, I am also done and wanted him to leave. I told him we could go downstairs and get the money and he said he thought he was spending the night. I said it was OK if he wanted to leave. He said, "well, I need some help with my homework from the English class and if you help me tonight, after that we can get even dirtier than before." (his English was broken but that is the gist). I helped him and he was right, it was even better the second time but as I am old, I needed a Viagra to keep up with a 20 year old. So, in a big city, I met the brother of a boy I first met over 12 years before in Rio and while I have kept in touch with the brother over the years and taken him to Carnival and a few other places, I never imagined that he would remember me. I have had 2 overnights with the brother. We Skyped with his brother one night which came as a total surprise to him but he was very cool with it. Tonight, I took him and his girlfriend to a nice restaurant as they are both here to learn English and loved conversing with an old man from NYC. I have 2 more dates with him while I am in NYC and each time I see him, I fall a bit more for him. But, he is not gay (his brother is) but he likes girls. The sex is great and he has made what was a really hard trip for me, fun and enjoyable (at least in 30 second spurts here and there). And, he is getting good grades in his English classes. Plus, I grade him an A plus every time I see him.