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TotallyOz

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  1. Yes, I did. Most of the guys have friends in different cities. That did not surprise me.
  2. I would enjoy seeing him again but seeing on a regular basis is not going to happen. I like more the bad boy types and he was just too sweet. Agree!
  3. Overnight just finished. He was on time and very cute. A bit more feminine than I expected. Sex was excellent both last night and this AM. He wanted to swim early this AM which we did. He left my place early as he was meeting a friend in Bangkok this morning. Overall, well worth the money and the rate was the cost of a one-night hotel for me in Pattaya and without the added travel time for me. He said he would come anytime for 2-3 days for the same rate to just let him know.
  4. The heart wants what the heart wants. I'll let you guys know how this turns out after the weekend.
  5. I don't really like to negotiate. I usually just say yes or no. I have been thinking about this but the boy asked if this rate was too high. I have not responded yet as I needed to think.
  6. I met a guy on Hornet that I like but in Pattaya and I'm in Bangkok. His Pattaya rate is 3,000. What rate would be best to bring from Pattaya to Bangkok for overnight? He asked for 8k. LOL
  7. I cannot see your password. All member information is stored in a database. What stijntje is referring to is when he requests a forgot password, the password is sent to him as opposed to a link to reset the password. In 2019, I assume that every place I type information is stored on their system. I do not use the same password for multiple sites. This site is SSL secured. We pay for that each year and follow industry standards for securing sites. However, I always assume that when I register on a site that the site will have information about me. I know right now I can see every IP from each member, all emails, your browser, etc. I cannot see your password.
  8. I didn't see this thread start out as advice. I saw it as someone doing something different than I had seen and I asked questions and clarification. Having read on my own, I did not know there were alternatives to the daily dose. Now, I know that is an option. I appreciate the OP broaching this subject and sharing his insight. Everyone should read their own research and do their own due diligence. Talking to friends outside of the USA and even to my doctor in Bangkok who is a specialist, he did give credence to those that take it in short cycles as opposed to daily. In the end, everyone has to decide how best to lower their own risk vs the risk of harm done. I have made a decision for myself as I have worried for a while about the long term side effects to daily doses of any medication and effects on my body. Feel free to keep debating but I appreciate the OP information about something I have never known was an option.
  9. And, now this: https://pagesix.com/2019/02/24/jussie-smollett-reportedly-has-evidence-to-dispute-police-claim/
  10. TotallyOz replied to a post in a topic in Gay Thailand
    Off topic, but I'm old. When I lived in NYC, I loved the guys from Stella's Bar. They were typically Latino hustlers and often a bit rough. My favorite was this Puerto Rican who looked like a younger Ricky Martin. He was sexy and fun. But, we both lived so far away from that part of town that we had to get a room to have sex and often picked a cheap 20 USD short time room. His ass was just as sweet but the old condoms in the garbage and the unclean sheets made me feel sleazy. Not sleazy enough to not see him again multiple times in the same place. But, he also didn't say that I was so cheap that I got a discount. Normally, guys don't give a fuck where they fuck as long as they get paid.
  11. TotallyOz replied to a post in a topic in Gay Thailand
    Not true. I have worn my boa and they loved it! They even called me darling.
  12. https://edition.cnn.com/2019/02/24/entertainment/jussie-smollett-terrence-howard-speaks/index.html Watch the video at the bottom of this with Jussie and the kid. Adorable.
  13. TotallyOz replied to a post in a topic in Gay Thailand
    I agree with your rationale. However, I tip the same no matter the hotel, massage place, short time hotel or in the park near the trees. I had a few good sexual experiences in the car lots in Pattaya at night, a quickie but still, I tipped the same. I never had a Thai boy expect a larger tip based on my room. That is not the same as boys in Prague or Brazil. Still, I also tip the same and I always negotiate the rates in advance. I never wait until someone sees my hotel.
  14. TotallyOz replied to a post in a topic in Gay Thailand
    Scooby said exactly what I wanted to say in a much more elegant way than I could say it. I like nice hotels and do not mind spending money on them. I don't understand people buying 4-6 drinks in on a bar when it is much cheaper than a 7/11 but I don't drink and not my thing so I don't criticize. I also never spend money on nice clothes. Not once, ever in my life. It is not my thing. But, I do like nice hotels and tipping boys what I feel they deserve. Anyone who makes money gets to decide how they spend it. I was criticized on here for years for spending money on hotels and thus why I stopped posting those experiences. In the last 3 months, I have stayed at three Intercontinental Hotel in 3 different locations in Thailand plus one in Singapore, one in Hong Kong and one in Tokyo. I loved those stays. But, too much bitching on sites when I tell others about this that I often just don't post the details. I never posted to brag but to inform. However, some do not see things that way.
  15. It would be awkward. What I did was went to Club 117 and pick out my 4 sexiest regulars and told them to invite friends. They did. The bartender went. A drag queen or two and we had a full booth. The boys are smart and know they get free booze and an expensive ticket. I reserved my booth through the Intercontinental Hotel so they did the book and the payments. That was not a smart move as they added a service charge but it was easy to deal with. At the end of the night, I paid for extra booze on an American CC. It was not a cheap night but we were buying lots of bottles. And, did I say I had many sexy Brazilian boys giving me tons of attention. I loved it and did the same thing for 3 years in a row.
  16. I rented a private booth a few years back for Scala Gay and did fuck in it while watching the show. Several guys also had full on sex in my VIP area while I watched. It was well worth the money I spent on privacy. I had three nice asses shoved on my dick before I came. Boys wanted to be sure I was happy as they had never been to this event and they had a full bar for free with their friends. I think I was allowed to invite 12 guests in the room but it was pretty open for us to bring cute guys in when we found them on the floor.
  17. I didn't see anyone trying to debate you or say your opinion was incorrect. I had never heard of this as an option and asked for clarification. I am checking on this with my doctor but as you say, it may not be very known to him.
  18. I am thinking of moving from my pre-paid to post pay. It is a one-year commitment but a bit cheaper. Do most use prepaid that live in LOS or do you now use postpay?
  19. Never heard of On Demand. "Participants can choose whether to follow the on-demand dosing schedule (sometimes referred to as ‘event-driven’ or ‘event-based’ dosing) that was validated in the IPERGAY study, or to use daily dosing, which is more commonly used in other parts of the world. On-demand dosing involves taking a double dose of PrEP (two pills) from 2-24 hours before anticipated sex, and then, if sex happens, additional pills 24 hours and 48 hours after the double dose. In the event of sex on several days in a row, one pill should be taken each day until 48 hours after the last sexual intercourse. At enrolment, on-demand dosing was chosen by 54.6% and daily by 45.4%. The number choosing on-demand is much higher than in the Belgian and Dutch studies, reported below." http://www.aidsmap.com/On-demand-dosing-as-effective-as-daily-dosing-in-first-year-of-French-PrEP-study/page/3312313/ And, another useful link: https://www.iwantprepnow.co.uk/how-to-take-prep/
  20. @Lucky A few cookies never hurt anyone - so said someone who has never been on a diet.
  21. @Kevie770 Mine told me the same thing. You start and you always take.
  22. Perhaps I am ignorant and I apologize. But, I never knew PreP could be used this way. I assumed once started, you took it daily without interruptions.
  23. I am an optimist. I hope it is all one big mistake. BTW: Adam, great dick pic of him. Shit, he is hot. Could this be why I trust him so much?
  24. I have been to every major city in Brazil and found beautiful twinks in each one. I like Rio for the variety and the saunas are the best to find them. I like Porto Alegre for the light skinned. I like Sao Paulo for the city and the ease of getting everywhere. Any city has good parts and bad parts. I tend to prefer Sao Paulo over the others as I like the NYC vibe. I like bars and restaurants and malls. I also like Salvadore and found some of the most amazing guys there but on the beach and not the bars.

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