I stayed 2-3 nights in each capital. All four countries are - to slightly differing degrees - homophobic.

In all four I got grindr messages from circa 30 young guys looking for daddies. 2-3 were for pay, asking for 30-70 euros. 

No public face pics. Most dont send them even privately, even expiring. 

 

Tirana (Albania) - major tip: if u want to have sex, rent an airbnb. Guys dont come to hotels, period. They wont even be seen with you in a cafe.

A guy drove me in his car 10 minutes out of the city to nature. I agreed mainly because it reminded me of mischevous yesteryears a long time ago. It WAS fun.

 

In Skopje (Macedonia) also no willingness to come to hotels; in Podgorica (Montenegro) and Belgrade (Serbia), a few agreed.

Important to know: in all 4 cities the hotels had no problems with visitors showing ID.

 

In Belgrade there was no panic about being seen in public. I met for a moment with a one guy, but quickly parted ways because he was too effiminate. Then I had a long cafe conversation with a guy who converted to Anglicanism in order to become a non-celibate gay priest.

Could have never imagined that a grindr hookup would lead to a discussion about Edward the 6th and Archbishop Cranmer..... (-:

Are they more top or more bottom?

For Tirana I can confirm that most guys dont want to come to hotels. Managed to convinced a couple of pretty dominant Albanian tops to come to my room though. Love Albanian guys.

After number three there was a security guy from the hotel walking in the hallway in front of my room. And receptionists were giving me looks. But nobody said anything to me or the visitors. Was the Maritim Hotel. 

Next time I would definately go for an Airbnb as there were dozens of hot guys that I missed out on...

 

3 hours ago, polysome said:

Are they more top or more bottom?

The one in business is strictly Top. The free one on Grindr or other sites is bottom and very girlish.  Guys in those countries are big and tall, especially Serbian. They have an impressive tool. A combination of Turkish mixed with European with roughly 25% Muslim populations. 

How do you find the Tops for pay ? 

On 5/15/2025 at 1:16 AM, Heba as-sa3udeya said:

How do you find the Tops for pay ? 

I'm strictly top. Been told by a fellow traveler, mechanical and unenthusiastic.

20 hours ago, nikba2515 said:

I'm strictly top. Been told by a fellow traveler, mechanical and unenthusiastic.

Tirana, Albania, met a very wholesome college kid at a supermarket with a boyish face and creamy porcelain like body "most guys are hairy with facial hair". He was on a ladder putting stuffs onto the shelf, I was mesmerized with his backside, so round and beautiful. His English was poor and I kept asking him all sort of questions just to kept his attention and hope, hope and hope he caught on my interest. He did, and it was the highlight of my trip in Tirana. I did everything but No penetration. He didn't suck nor rim. I spent an eternity on his butthole with high hope, strong desire, poking&poking on pink hole, knocking on the door and he didn't allow it to happen. I'm sure, deep in his soul, he wanted but somehow he blocked it, nevertheless, I enjoyed every inches of his beautiful body.  The same incident happened in Sarajevo. 

On 5/12/2025 at 3:29 PM, 12is12 said:

I stayed 2-3 nights in each capital. All four countries are - to slightly differing degrees - homophobic.

In all four I got grindr messages from circa 30 young guys looking for daddies. 2-3 were for pay, asking for 30-70 euros. 

No public face pics. Most dont send them even privately, even expiring. 

 

Tirana (Albania) - major tip: if u want to have sex, rent an airbnb. Guys dont come to hotels, period. They wont even be seen with you in a cafe.

A guy drove me in his car 10 minutes out of the city to nature. I agreed mainly because it reminded me of mischevous yesteryears a long time ago. It WAS fun.

 

In Skopje (Macedonia) also no willingness to come to hotels; in Podgorica (Montenegro) and Belgrade (Serbia), a few agreed.

Important to know: in all 4 cities the hotels had no problems with visitors showing ID.

 

In Belgrade there was no panic about being seen in public. I met for a moment with a one guy, but quickly parted ways because he was too effiminate. Then I had a long cafe conversation with a guy who converted to Anglicanism in order to become a non-celibate gay priest.

Could have never imagined that a grindr hookup would lead to a discussion about Edward the 6th and Archbishop Cranmer..... (-:

Did the Airbnb meet ups not concern you a bit? I know things can happen anywhere, but does that give anyone else pause especially if they aren't sharing photos. 

???

I stay on in hotels....

On 5/12/2025 at 10:13 PM, polysome said:

Are they more top or more bottom?

More top from experience

On 5/18/2025 at 1:26 PM, nikba2515 said:

Tirana, Albania, met a very wholesome college kid at a supermarket with a boyish face and creamy porcelain like body "most guys are hairy with facial hair". He was on a ladder putting stuffs onto the shelf, I was mesmerized with his backside, so round and beautiful. His English was poor and I kept asking him all sort of questions just to kept his attention and hope, hope and hope he caught on my interest. He did, and it was the highlight of my trip in Tirana. I did everything but No penetration. He didn't suck nor rim. I spent an eternity on his butthole with high hope, strong desire, poking&poking on pink hole, knocking on the door and he didn't allow it to happen. I'm sure, deep in his soul, he wanted but somehow he blocked it, nevertheless, I enjoyed every inches of his beautiful body.  The same incident happened in Sarajevo. 

What a lovely story. How do you guys get away with just taking up so much time while a man works? I always feel bad like I'm going to get them into trouble. Also, did your gaydar tell you he's curious from the start or did you flash cash towards the end?

14 hours ago, TheBossBabyback said:

What a lovely story. How do you guys get away with just taking up so much time while a man works? I always feel bad like I'm going to get them into trouble. Also, did your gaydar tell you he's curious from the start or did you flash cash towards the end?

I saw the guy and really like the wholesome package, young, tone body with beautiful behind, and randy looks. Flooded him with questions to figuring out if there is a possibility. Staring & screening his entire body and hopefully he understood my inerest. I handed him my contact, he looked at it and gave me a big smile....a wonderful sign and waited for a ding on whatap. Instead of asking for his contact, I handed him my number. Best when the guy initiated by sending the message first, it indicated his interests.