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Brought back a fun memory on soi paradise, patong, phuket years back. An exceptionally good looking guy from the deep south, Tailand. Every night at an exactly 8:30pm, he and his much older partner arrived at the bar. We locked eyes and said hi a few times. Mid April, early afernoon, went to aquarius sauna, walked around and suddently a tapped on my shoulder. It was the same guy, but a lot less cloth. We kissed and I quickly ushered him to a private cabin. Nice tight muscle, smooth with bubble butt without a fee. He looked so good. A long session of hard work and sweat, he thanked me. We chatted a bit before shower. His english was good. Same day, exactly at 8:30pm, same table with his partner, again we said hello. He visited me 3 afternoon. It was a memorable time in phuket.

Brought back a fun memory on soi paradise, patong, phuket years back. An exceptionally good looking guy from the deep south, Tailand. Every night at an exactly 8:30pm, he and his much older partner arrived at the bar. We locked eyes and said hi a few times. Mid April, early afernoon, went to aquarius sauna, walked around and suddently a tapped on my shoulder. It was the same guy, but a lot less cloth. We kissed and I quickly ushered him to a private cabin. Nice tight muscle, smooth with bubble butt without a fee. He looked so good. A long session of hard work and sweat, he thanked me. We chatted a bit before shower. His english was good. Same day, exactly at 8:30pm, same table with his partner, again we said hello. He visited me 3 afternoon. It was a memorable time in phuket.

After being invited to a function at the Australian embassy, I rushed out to buy a suit.
The rather unattractive tailor had me standing there just in my underwear as he measured me up.
He measured the outside leg very quickly but spent an inordinate amount of time on the inside leg, brushing up against my junk.
I don't think he was gay - just curious.
If this tailor in Bangkok is young and attractive, he can spend as much time as he wants on my inside leg!

I had a chance to travel for one month to Tunisia back in August and sample many of the wonderful young Arab men available. Here are some of my notes:
Tunis: When I arrived, the messages on Grindr began to light up considerably. As I did in other countries, I would ask to video chat and most chose not to. It was clear in two instances that the men were contriving something as they insisted that I come to their place in the far rural section of Tunis. I agreed in one instance to meet, but decided to arrive two hours before. I sat at a café and watched the area. The young man in question arrived with four of his friends. The man sat at the bench in the center of the park where he wanted to meet, and his four friends scattered around the park. At that point I got up and took a taxi back to my hotel. I texted the guy and asked why he did not come alone as requested. When I showed him the long-range photo I took, he said he would report me to the police. Obviously, he would not and could not since he had no information. He proved the point that Grindr in Tunisia can be dangerous. I stayed the first week in a tourist hotel on Ave Habib Bourguiba (hereafter AHB) which is the main avenue in Tunis. Guests were not allowed back at the hotel so I had to try other venues. I had stayed in Tunis six times before, and usually frequented the three centrally located movie theatres where there were always some men available for action. Unfortunately, these movie theatres have now become strictly legitimate and do not allow any gay action in them at all. I also tried the Belvedere Park and Tunis Zoo which was where you could usually pick-up men and use the woods. Sadly, there were just families during the day and no men out in the evening. I had previously had good luck at both places. For this trip, I was able to find young guys only by walking the AHB. There are benches all along the central pedestrian section of the Avenue. Get yourself something to drink and just sit and watch the people. Inevitably, there will be some young guys that will walk up, sit down, and start a conversation clearly for money. In three instances I asked where we could go. In all three they took me to one of the theatres. So, while the theatre itself had no guys available, you could go in separately and then find each other in a quiet area. The biggest theatre in Tunisia (over 500 seats and three levels) is right on the AHB and is called Cinéma Le Colisée. I used to have great fun in previous years with guys in the lower section there, but now you need to find and bring your guy from outside. The second place to meet guys is at the corner where AHB crosses Rue de Marseille. Get yourself a coffee at the corner Patisserie Naouri and sit to watch the guys come by. If you smile and want to talk, you will need to get up and go chat as the servers are very careful to not allow bystanders to interfere with guests. The third place to find guys is at the east part of AHB where it meets Place du 14 Janvier 2011 (this is where the famous Clock of Habib is located). Get yourself a coffee from the corner Pomme De Pain and sit to watch all the boys gather in the park next to it. The park is located between the Pomme De Pain and the Café La Fontaine. You can have a conversation with the guys and most will know a place nearby in an alley or side street where you can do the deed. Almost all the guys at the first three places were active, while the guys at the corner park area were active and passive. I later returned on my exit from the country to stay one more week in an Airbnb that had a private entrance. In that case, I took guys back from the third location park with no problem. 
Sousse: I stayed in an Airbnb with private access. You can easily figure out the places to stay by reading the reviews of places on Airbnb. If a gay had a problem bringing back a guy, you will see that he compliments the owner for the security of the place and the night guard. He likewise compliments the owner for private access to signal to the rest of us the option to bring a guy back. I stayed in Sousse three weeks this time, but have also stayed six times before. The main road for finding guys is along the see wall pedestrian area starting at the northern end on Ave Hedi Chaker (hereafter AHC) where it meets the Hotel Riadh Palms, and then simply walk down the sea wall pedestrian area south past the Place Bou Jaaaar and down the Habeeb Burgioba Street (hereafter HBS) until you get to the Claridge Hotel. I walked that several times a day and you can always find young men. I found guys this time for service at two places. The first was by sitting with other gay men at the famous Café La Sirene at the Place Bou Jaafar. Sit there at the outside covered tables, have yourself an orange juice, and just watch the many many guys that parade by. If you are interested in a guy, you can ask him to join you and the staff will have no problem. The second place is the Café Jus Glaces at the corner of HBS and Rue Palestine. Sit, get a drink, watch the boys, and invite some to sit at your table. Do a google maps search and it will even show you ME sitting at the bar watching the boys go by. The go-to bar for guys keeps changing every year it seems. It used to be a bar on the northern end of Sousse near Mongi Slim, but this time it was closed. As for where to have sex, Airbnb was the way to go this time. I was able to invite many men back with no problems. Now, I did have two guys that showed me ID and they were clearly 19, but they looked much younger and I did not want to risk it. So, I asked THEM where we should go. In one instance the young man had me pay for an unofficial one-hour hotel. It required him to first talk with the clerk with me outside, then he waived me in, I passed the money to the clerk, and off we went to the room for an hour. The same happened with a second guy who took me to another place. I was very cautious because I would not provide my ID to get a room as is normally required by law. So I told the young men that I had no ID and they knew a place to go. It went so well that I always first asked a guy if he knew of a place to go. If they did not, then I would use my Airbnb.  Interestingly, several other guys told me they come to Sousse from the rural areas to make some money for a few days. If they don’t get a room, then they have to stay on the streets or in a Hamman. The final place for me was the legit theatre on HBS known as Cinema Le Palace next to the Bar Tapas. This smaller theatre shows legitimate movies and is VERY frequented by couples to make out. However, there always seemed to be at least one guy for sex there in the afternoons that you could meet in the smallest bathroom stall I have ever encountered. Interestingly, the two young men who run the theatre for their family (an old man or old woman always takes the money) were both available for blow jobs when I was there. One is a bit strange with glasses, and the other seems to dye his hair a different color each time I visit. 
GRINDR: Be warned it can be dangerous. 
SEX: Most of the guys are active, like to get sucked, will fuck, and many will also kiss. Tunis and Sousse both had passive guys, but they were usually dressed with lipstick and overtly effeminate. As you will note from police reports, Sousse especially has very young guys for trade. In turn, Sousse is very active in arresting those who pay for underage sex. Two German men were arrested the week I was there because one of them took back an underage boy to his apartment and was reported. Stings are the norm and money/bribes will not help out. As one French gay couple told me, there are weekly stings that are set-up precisely to entrap foreigners who prey on the underage there. There are plenty of young boys/guys that are available of legal age. 
PAY: The street guys usually wanted 30-50 Tunisian dinars ($11-$18 USD) for a quick blow job. When I took a guy back to my place, they usually asked for 50-75 dinars ($18-$27).

LANGUAGE: Arab and French, although the boys seem to know German and English as many gay tourists come from Germany and the UK. 

Exactly. I'm willing to pay the premium for blue eyes and/or blond hair. Plus they often have that muscle tone without being too 'roidy looking.

Just a few of the guys to give you an idea. It’s a shame you can’t screenshot on Grindr anymore 😭

I was traveling with a fellow content creator so we combined forces to pull as many dudes as possible. So it started with hitting up guys via X especially long time Jamaican followers saying that I was going to Jamaica. So I already had quite a few contacts before going (even though this didn’t really matter later). Through the organizer of the Gay orgy he was able to reccomend me an apt in a central location, with security that wasn’t intrusive. And it was extremely convenient to bring guys over. 

Regarding that Gay sex is illegal, it’s rarely enforced and I’m not trying to be colorist but I was told by multiple people because I’m not black I was basically untouchable. But if some sorta crime happened in my apt (theft, etc) from gay activity, it would basically be ignored. 
So when I reached Kingston my Grindr was literally on fire, it’s was a slew of non stop messages of guys wanting to link. And if you have a big ass and can take dick. They will not leave you alone in the best way possible. Yes there isn’t public approachability like in SD but the Apps are literally filled with guys wanting to link up 24/7.
 
First night was with some Twitter followers and then the orgy organizer pulled up with two tops and was basically being fucked till we hours in the morning. As I was traveling with my other gay friend (a OF creator) I took a nap around 5am and he got around 6 dicks within a 4 hour time frame. 
 
Next day it was more guys from Grindr and J’acked. I had this gorgeous 11 inch dude came in through the blowers and we fucked for almost 3 hours and actually ended up TREATING ME to dinner. Was really fun and I went back to the apt. Then got ready, with more guys coming through via Grindr and Twitter for the orgy that night. 
 
We arrived Sat night to the orgy house, there was prob around 20 dudes there and as the out of towners everyone wanted a taste. We were there from 10 to 4. A guy I met there with a massive dick wanted to fuck some more so he came back home with us and we fucked till around 7am. Still on the fuck high me and my friend went on Grindr and two guys came through and literally spent all of Sunday with us just taking turns fucking while we were bringing more and more Guys through. 
 
That’s basically the Jist, I can give more details and answer more detailed questions if you want. 

we should start to laugh rigth here
Level of jobless is now lowest in history because Russia now is on historical demographic low - echo of WW II and dark times of transition from USSR to Russian Federation in 90's. Even salaries of couriers are above 1500 USD per month after taxes (just 5 years ago it was about USD650). Russia stimulates foreign citizens to work here, first of all - from Russian-speaking countries: citizens of such countries do not need visa or job permit - they just buying patent and registering in tax and pension depts, after it they have free medical service and insurance here.
At past week my order from supermarket has been delivered by men from African country with bad Russian, I think one of African students who is part-time working here.
What else they may "claim"? Ukraine had 19 or 20 waves of mobilization at past years, Russia one only in October 2022 for 4 weeks. Borders of Russia are opened and everyone may leave if he wants. Borders of Ukraine are locked for males age 21-64 years.
But Zelenskiy climes Ukraine lost since 2022 40,000 soldiers and Russia 1.5 mln. After that "Ukraine's clime" read as a stupid joke.
I do not deny what some nervous males left Russia, they did, esp. in October 2022 - about 1 mln of males immigrated within one month, 70% returned within next year, about 300K are living now in Kazakhstan and Armenia mostly because Russians do not need any visa and do not need even travel passport and may live there just with regular ID and there are no any real border formalities for to cross Kazakh or Armenian border. These Russians are main source of forbidden by western sanctions western import: they buy to addresses in KZ and AM and sell to RU - one of the reasons why sanctions doesn't work.

It is twice more than in Moscow now: cheap Ukrainian boys dropped market prices drastically. More than half of market are now Africans, Ukrainians, Colombians, Cubans, Vietnamese, some Philippians, Cambodians, Lao and Belarusians.

Wow, I always use this method to verify good and brief introduction. Luckily, haven't had any issue and only use a designated phone. Good option to find provider with less time, convenient and at the market price. "mature guy with open minded enjoy receiving services from guys 18-25" written in three languages

Haven't seen them at the bar or any entertainment scene in Pattaya. My last October trip, met two Russian on Grindr " I was approached and probably due to what I wrote on profile" and it seems more choices than the previous visit. A good surprise and I had fantastic time. Within the past 5 trip, I met at least one. I found them to be very discreeted and most stayed with family.

Haven't seen them at the bar or any entertainment scene in Pattaya. My last October trip, met two Russian on Grindr " I was approached and probably due to what I wrote on profile" and it seems more choices than the previous visit. A good surprise and I had fantastic time. Within the past 5 trip, I met at least one. I found them to be very discreeted and most stayed with family.

I may need to add a visit to Pattaya to my upcoming trip. When I was in Bkk a few months ago there was an absolute stunning shirtless guy working as a greeter in front of one of the bars, we got to talking and he was Russian. If someone of his calibre is available to bring back to my hotel, I wouldn't think twice about dropping 10,000 for the privilege ;) Any Pattaya locals got any input about the Russians working the bars there?

It's still new.... it was Brasil for me for a long time, I got Brasil'd out..... 

Indonesia for me now, exploring India more... hospitality in high end hotels even better than Thailand. 

Please be careful with video calls on the gay pick-up apps.  
More than once I chatted with someone super sexy on Grindr to have them try to get me on a video call and/or move me over to another app to chat more.  I always declined as I was very aware of the https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Pig_butchering_scam
I would suggest that you be very cautious - as I have read that these "supposedly sexy guys who want to meet you" are sometimes working in a scam center trying to "pig butcher you" for your eventual financial slaughter via capturing your biometric data.

A tip I have is if you find an MB is to try and get on to another platform asap and don't discuss to much on Grindr. I got banned from the app, and I think it was talking to an MB and discussing Money.

from time to time my profile says i am 'generous and rewarding'  That's the hook i use when I want a MB to find me.
I prefer being approached rather than make the move for a MB.
I've found Gridr can be picky what 'financial' terms you use when in that MB arena on the app.
Other than that I just list my pervertions and fetishes to see what that attracts.
I don't have face pics on my profile but available to send when I am comfortable.
You should also check out the hornet app, that is quite popular but a little more social than sexual imo
I also have HEEYSAY app here in vietnam.

stop  thinking about old days , long gone. Think about future , like coffin or urn problems

I've stayed at the Hampton, no problems with guests with a Colombian ID or passport, the key being if they're Venezuelan and don't have the proper admittance stamp in the passport or a Colombian ID, they won't let them stay.... I'm talking from experience.

Basic hotel, decent location, but the girls at reception have attitudes  when people bring local "visitors" with them, male or female.... I didn't care, but a friend that was traveling once with me in his own room, hated it, said they made him feel so uncomfortable, my attitude was fuck em. 

Having said that, I haven't been back, I get discounts at Hilton because I used to be a GM of hotels, but would still hesitate to go there unless I didn't have any other options, I'm not a huge fan of Airbnb, but do stay in one in MDE.

I heard you, you are looking for an hotel. But I also read that you have experience with airbnb. Let me recommend you the place where I stayed last November/December for 40 days.
https://www.airbnb.com/rooms/1333490682799401496?guests=1&adults=1&s=67&unique_share_id=a282fb12-6d2b-4fee-83d7-8ae9d4fa473b
You can see the pictures, they are accurate. The place is in a recently gentrified area right in the middle between Poblado at the south and Laureles and Centro to the north. It is a recently gentrified former industrial area, around the Museo de Arte Moderno. You have everything you may need in a 10 minutes walk area, countless restaurants options, many of them very good/excellent.
Their visitors policy is extremely liberal. Your boys can use the parking for their motos. They have to register with their IDs, but many times they were only asked for the number and did not have to show it. Most importantly, no questions ask. They can stay for a few minutes or overnight. There is 24 hours security (two desks, one at the entrance and one at the garage) and cameras, everything new and recently built, almost not used.

I arrived in Medellin on a late flight at almost midnight and I was already a little hungover from a night in Cancun prior and met up with a regular there, so I went to the airbnb after clearing Immigration (no line) and Priority bags came out fast, got an Uber and straight to the apt to unpack, catch up on messages and SLEEP.

SO I knew Wed night I'd be busy since I was well rested... one of my regulars for a few years came over, the one with the big ass... he's apparently vers now and after a few drinks, I said you must have someone to invite over and he did, and boy was he a wild, fun one..... when he arrived we had some more drinks and played a drinking game with cards, that require you to do truth or dare stuff and some involve taking of pieces of clothes, taking an extra drink, etc....

Then I don't know how long we had sex for, but they left at 630am, just about the time another guy I knew just finished work and showed up minutes after they left, I was still in the lobby of the airbnb.... so we continued until about almost 11am I think it was....

I love latins/Brasilians... so much entertainment and NOT shy at all.

I brought them little sombreros from Cancun especially for this picture, lol

Not easy keeping these hours, so I was in recovery mode all day Thurs, only went to the lobby to pick up a food delivery 😬

AFAIK the gay scene in Prague is now dead.
I first went there about 20 years ago and had a great time at Drakes, but  Prague's gay life was on its last legs when I was last there back in around 2017.
Drakes was virtually empty and Escape was basically all that was left. It was a lot of fun but it closed not long after I left. (Was it something I said? 😂)  In any case, it was too expensive to survive.
The Action Bar in Budapest was also a lot of fun, but that, too, closed in 2017.
Thank God for Asia!
 

This is my experience on Grindr. It may not be yours. I’m offering this as a report for those who may be interested. I know there are a lot of “Medellín experts” here. I am not one. This is my experience so far…
I arrived on Tuesday and as on my last trip here, Grindr immediately exploded.
I’m 66, in fairly good shape, but I am old. And I am only interested in sucking. I will bottom after I get to know someone and occasionally, I will top if the ass is right, but my profile is pretty clear what I am looking for initially.
That didn’t stop everyone from writing though, so my Grindr strategy here has changed from looking to filtering.
The Good News
Older men are very much in demand.
A lot of guys are open to just getting sucked.
This is a high volume Grindr population. It definitely seems to be the app of choice.
The Challenge
Even though my host said I could have visitors (I asked if I could have friends over for lunch or conversation), there is a security guard at the door until 4 and I don’t want to bring multiple guys in, so I am saying I can only host after 4. Much of the interest seems to be earlier in the day. I’m guessing people are working or studying nearby who then go home (I’m in Laureles).
People don’t read. I can’t tell you how many ugly asshole shots I have received. I honestly find the anus to be the least attractive body part. There are some pretty ones, but most are hideous. I’m also getting messages from guys who are hundreds of miles away.
People don’t understand no reply, and some don’t understand no. 
There are a lot of flakes (it’s Grindr).
My Strategy
1. Block - I don’t even waste time anymore since I’m getting so many hits. Blank profile with “hola” message? Immediate block. Asshole shot? Immediate block. I’m trying to keep track of the possibilities and weed out the time wasters.
2. I’m not chasing - if someone is interested, they will make it work. 
3.  My profile is clear - I have clearly stated on my profile that I am not interested if they are not in Medellín or an escort. I have clearly said what I am looking for and when I’m available. It’s not working 100%, but at least I am trying.
4. Patience - I am not looking for quantity. I’m looking for quality. Colombian men are incredibly sexy and I can wait for the right one. 
I’ve been working with Chat GPT since my stay in Reggio Calabria last year where we identified success factors for someone like me (older tourist who is an oral bottom).
My ideal city is smaller pool; fewer tourists; people living at home so the ability to host is a plus. Medellín is not my ideal city. But it excels in other ways - it is high volume and people are attracted to older men. And the men are incredibly hot.
The challenge has been to weed out the time wasters and find a way to meet those who match what I am looking for. I’m here for a month, and at my age, I’m not exceptionally horny, so I’m taking my time. I have about 20 guys in my queue who are potentials.
I think I will have fun here, but because of my limitations, it’s going to be slow going. I’m not going to be taking 100 loads a day or going wild, but I hope to meet a few quality guys who I can see more than once.
I’m staying in Laureles and I really like it. It’s a beautiful, green, quiet neighborhood and there are a lot of restaurants nearby. It’s very walkable and feels safe. The weather has been perfect, and I am enjoying the experience of “living” here.
So there it is. If you’re thinking of coming and not depending on escorts for fun, Grindr is definitely hot. If you’re younger, a top or verse, you’ll have even more possibilities, but I am very happy with the prospects for the month ahead.

Grindr, gay Romeo and hornet are best options to find Russian MB. Most are young, discreet  and stay with family. Pattaya is better than Bangkok and Phuket. Young, slim, smooth with babyface. The first guy, the communication was short and very direct to the point however it was a great surprise. It was his first tryout. His willingness to service and accommodated big tool were priceless. He visited me late afternoon at 6pm for a week.  His asking price was low and on the last visit I stuffed an extra fund "double"into his packet and thanks him for wonderful time.  Profile on applications, be sure to express your interests and willingness to compensate for service. The second, third and other were very entertaining guys. 
 
 
 

Grindr, gay Romeo and hornet are best options to find Russian MB. Most are young, discreet  and stay with family. Pattaya is better than Bangkok and Phuket. Young, slim, smooth with babyface. The first guy, the communication was short and very direct to the point however it was a great surprise. It was his first tryout. His willingness to service and accommodated big tool were priceless. He visited me late afternoon at 6pm for a week.  His asking price was low and on the last visit I stuffed an extra fund "double"into his packet and thanks him for wonderful time.  Profile on applications, be sure to express your interests and willingness to compensate for service. The second, third and other were very entertaining guys.