Recommendation for Massage Place in Bangkok? My one shot at this..want to make it count!

[tomaruj72]

In January my boyfriend and I will be travelling to Thailand on a holiday.  He has given me the 'green light' to have a 'spicy' massage so I want make my 1 time count!  I am verse and cannot decide what I'd want to do (T or B) but I want the option there.

Ideally I am hoping for a place where I have all options available a fairly reasonable price.  I know it will cost a bit for the 'spice' and I am going to factor that into my travel budget.

I will be lost on the nuances of negotiating a tip to get the extra service so I have seen a youtube video about The Prince, where you go in and choose from a menu before the service.  That would be nice so I don't have to negotiate in the room later. 

This is my one shot to enjoy a nice young muscular guy outside my relationship so I am really hoping every thing I want can be possible (oral, me to bottom and/or top, kissing, rimming....you name it).  Seems like I'd have to choose a gay masseusse to get all I want but if you wank in off the street yo a place like The Prince..you just choose then and there so that might limit things.

I am white and will be 53 then so I hope age won't be an issue?  I'm in decent shape and fit so I hope that helps.  I assume they will have condoms there?  How long a session is not too rushed but not too long?

Thanks for any suggestions and advice!  There is a LOT to read through!

[vinapu]

sessions in spas are 1 or 1.5 hr, some places are offering 2 hr. as well. You decide on length beforehand, they will ask you . I suggest you go for 1.5 hr as it's easier to shorten long session than to extend short one ( room may be needed for next slut, er. customer)

Don't sweat it, all will be clearly written on the menu and captain will answer all questions you may have . They hear it all so don't be shy and tell them what you are looking for. 

Arena, Senso, Prince, Jey Spa and VCK club are yo although places to go as they will have boys on display although Jey seems to be moving into booking based operations.

Yes , they will have  a lube and condoms, usually also mouthwash but nothing stops you from bringing and using your own if so desired ( I always carry small bottle of mouthwash with me in case they run out )

[ichigo]

13 hours ago, tomaruj72 said:

I am verse and cannot decide what I'd want to do (T or B) but I want the option there.

Just do both, I usually do. Not every boy can though, so best to ask first.

[tomaruj72]

14 hours ago, vinapu said:

sessions in spas are 1 or 1.5 hr, some places are offering 2 hr. as well. You decide on length beforehand, they will ask you . I suggest you go for 1.5 hr as it's easier to shorten long session than to extend short one ( room may be needed for next slut, er. customer)

Don't sweat it, all will be clearly written on the menu and captain will answer all questions you may have . They hear it all so don't be shy and tell them what you are looking for. 

Arena, Senso, Prince, Jey Spa and VCK club are yo although places to go as they will have boys on display although Jey seems to be moving into booking based operations.

Yes , they will have  a lube and condoms, usually also mouthwash but nothing stops you from bringing and using your own if so desired ( I always carry small bottle of mouthwash with me in case they run out )

Thank you for the info!  I will shortlist to the ones you suggested!  I was thinking 1.5 hours.

I'd be happy to book the right guy in advance.  I'm worried I'll be very shy and nervous in the moment and choose poorly.  Maybe I'll just have a list of what I want in my pocket (in Thai) so I can just hand it to them.  

 

Ichigo, That's a good plan.   I am a bit worried I'll be too nervous to get hard but I am guessing they are skilled enough to solve that problem.  

[tomaruj72]

A place like Jey's is 1250B for a aroma massage (90 mins).  I assume the masseuses tip is on top of that?  Is it negotiated in the room or beforehand?

[vinapu]

1 hour ago, tomaruj72 said:

A place like Jey's is 1250B for a aroma massage (90 mins).  I assume the masseuses tip is on top of that?  Is it negotiated in the room or beforehand?

 

yes , shop charges fee for massage , boy's tip is extra

They will tell you what  minimum tip of booked boy will be ( it may vary from 1500 to 3000 depending of boy)  when you do booking. Feel free to tip more if you inclined so but bargaining it down will not be well received as minimum is minimum. 

You may be  shy or nervous  but don't worry they saw it all.

Whether you shy and nervous or calm and composed there's always chance w that boy of your choice  will be disappointing, at least in your opinion. There's no magic ball showing you who will be the best, just go with your guts.

When boys are presenting themselves make sure you go for those who seem to try to catch your attention ( smile , eye contact , wave ) , if you notice boy is trying to avoid your eyesight , better skip him 

[jimmie50]

Something I have learned from reading posts on this site is to have several boys in mind, even when booking in advance online.  Your first choice might not be available during your visit or on the day you are planning to schedule a meeting on your trip.  

[vinapu]

1 hour ago, jimmie50 said:

Something I have learned from reading posts on this site is to have several boys in mind, even when booking in advance online.  Your first choice might not be available during your visit or on the day you are planning to schedule a meeting on your trip.  

my personal record is three, 1st choice - went home to see parents, 2nd choice - sick today, 3rd choice- already booked for whole day. I gave up and never tried to use the same place again although I understand it's not their fault. It's why I prefer just walk and see what's on the shelves.

On the same token I advise not to be too attached to see particular boy in  his bar - he may be not available for this ort that reason. Always as you said above - have few boys or perhaps even few venues in mind before venturing out.

[Kiwi306]

I am seriously thinking of visiting Arena before I go home. Please could you inform me whether it is cash only or whether some parlours will accept cards?

[vinapu]

On 8/1/2025 at 7:49 AM, ichigo said:

Just do both, I usually do. Not every boy can though, 

I suspect not every customer either

[vinapu]

11 hours ago, Kiwi306 said:

I am seriously thinking of visiting Arena before I go home. Please could you inform me whether it is cash only or whether some parlours will accept cards?

Arena for sure it will be cash. Other, more classy  facilities like Prestige , Klover, Jey or VCK  may accept payment by card so better ask them . There may be surcharge for car payment.  Boy tip is still cash only wherever you go.

as for Arena, just GO !

 

[siriusBE]

On 8/1/2025 at 11:43 PM, vinapu said:

if you notice boy is trying to avoid your eyesight , better skip him 

Works almost 100% of the time 👍