Popular Post joizy Posted Sunday at 06:37 PM Popular Post Posted Sunday at 06:37 PM Yesterday, I took the ferry from Reggio Calabria to Messina, Sicily, right across the strait. It was a 30-minute, easy ride. A lot of new men contacted me while I was there, but I didn’t meet anyone since they were either visiting and could not host, or they were outside of Messina. I’d formerly had guys from Messina contact me since on Grindr you can’t really tell if people are in Calabria or Sicily (it just shows distances). I contacted one of them and told him I was there, but he never got back to me even though he read my message - not uncommon for Grindr. When I returned to Reggio, several guys contacted me almost as soon as I got off the ferry. One was TGTBT - too good too be true - really cute young guy with a beautiful body, amazing bubble butt and huge dick. I asked him where he was and he said Reggio. And then that was it. He didn’t respond to any of my messages. I’m sure he was catfishing me. I will never understand that behavior, but it happens. Maybe someone I rejected earlier trying to have some fun with me. Another guy, 29 years old sent a photo of a nice cock and had several face photos on his profile. He wanted to come over, I sent him the address and he said it would be about 20 minutes. Then he asked if he could bring a friend. I asked what he wanted to do and he said I could suck them both. I’m not a fan of threesomes, and this sounded especially weird, but I figured I’d go for it. I’d have a story to tell. He said he wasn’t sure if his friend was coming or not, which made the whole thing even stranger. When he arrived, I went down to let him in. I didn’t recognize him at first - he looked more German than Italian (or at least my idea of what Germans look like) - he actually looked like my cousin when he was younger, who was half German/half Italian. We came up and he wanted to sit and chat, which was fine with me. He told me he didn’t think his friend was coming. He showed me a photo of the guy on Grindr, and he was definitely not my type. Turned out he was not a friend, just some other guy he met on Grindr who he invited to join him in coming to my place. Ok, strange, right? But this guy, Bruno, turned out to be really nice and very interesting. I opened a bottle of wine, he ran out to get some tobacco because he forgot his, and we sat and talked and drank wine and he went out to the balcony to smoke a cigarette and we talked some more. One interesting thing he said to me was as an older gay, I have so much experience to share and then he proceeded to ask me questions about what it was like when I came out, what it was like living through the 80s and 90s, how it felt being older, etc. I really enjoyed talking to him. We also talked about his coming out experience, life in Calabria, and life in Turino, where he lives now. Finally, we went into the bedroom and had sex. I discovered that he had also catfished me and the dick pic he sent was not his own, but still he had a decent-sized (average) cock and I didn’t mind that he had lied. Our conversation confirmed a few things I had been thinking about why I am getting hit on here more than I have in other places, including at home. First, because there are no bars, baths, etc., there really are no ways for guys to meet each other beyond Grindr, which seems to be the main app in use here. People like me (visitors) are popular because usually we can host, where guys living with families (including wives) cannot, and since we’re not from here, they can be more discreet and not be discovered by people they might know. This part of Italy is much less accepting than the north, where people are more open about their sexuality. We talked about the “daddy” fetish, and Bruno said it’s because people see daddies as kind of virile. So they have a fantasy about being with a daddy. Even though I’m an oral bottom, I still fit into that fantasy, but I imagine if you are a top you’ll make out even better. And then based on what he said when we first started talking, I suspect there is more of a respect for age here than there is in our youth-obsessed culture in the US. I was really struck by him acknowledging that he had things he could learn from me. Even though this is a relatively small city (about 160,000 people), I have really been busy. It’s been so much fun. And even though this was not the best hookup sex-wise, the conversation was incredible. It was so nice to sit, drink wine and talk. I’m off to Napoli for a few days tomorrow, so we’ll see what that’s like. Stay tuned. bkkmfj2648, msclelovr, khaolakguy and 3 others 6 Quote
12is12 Posted Sunday at 09:26 PM Posted Sunday at 09:26 PM Joizy, u r like a present that keeps on giving... FunFifties, donJ, joizy and 1 other 2 2 Quote