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But they ask for documents when you book. What do you do about that?

Well, I finally had sex with an Egyptian. Thanks to a member of this forum who sent me a link to an Airbnb he rented near the airport, I got a place with the usual no guest policy, but no security guard (just a camera). The place he sent me was not available, but I found another one that looked suitable. I’m heading to Rwanda tomorrow and I thought it would be easier to leave from here than to have to stress about Cairo traffic, which is absolutely insane. And then I might be able to host at least one guy while I’m here. The apartment is cheap - $98 for two nights. It’s small, but cute, and slightly funky. I have no idea where I am other than I am near the airport. It’s called Sheraton el Matar, or something like that. It’s big sand-colored apartment buildings and dusty streets with some unpaved areas. I checked in and messaged this cutie I met on Grindr in my first days here. We switched to Telegram and the first night he jerked off and came for me. The next night, I was feeling horny, so I jerked off while he watched. He is so hot. His dick is average length but really thick and hard. Slim, hairy body, really cute face, and very kind eyes. He said he understands English but doesn’t really speak it. I knew he was in Heliopolis and I could see I was near there, so I messaged him even though I had a whole new flood of disappearing penises, messages in Arabic, and guys who were not really my type to contend with (oh and the one hot, young guy who wanted to do a video chat so he could jerk off and cum for me) My friend in Heliopolis thought the “no visitor” policy meant no women. He said we could just sit and chat (meaning, that’s what my host would think we were doing). I was fine taking a chance since I’d had a lot of problems with the host giving me incorrect check in instructions and after giving them a little taste of New Jersey, they were adequately remorseful and at my service. I was worried about the security camera outside of my door, but if the check in instructions were all wrong, were they really going to be sitting there watching the camera? I was also worried about the two guys who were out front who helped me find the correct lock box for the keys (the box in the video they sent did not exist). So I went out and to my relief they were not there. I took a little walk and on the corner found a cute little Vietnamese restaurant where I had dinner while I waited for my friend to shower and head over. It was great to see him. He said he wanted to hug me and kiss me all over. I said I wanted to suck his cock. We did all of that. I usually don’t fuck on the first date because I hate going through all of that prep before I know if I will click with someone, but with a little pressure from him, I eventually let him fuck me. We showered and cuddles and he kissed me all over and before long he was hard again and fucked me a second time. I was wondering if he was never going to leave, if it was going to be awkward, if he was going to ask for money, I lied and told him I had an early flight so he finally left. No mention of money. I had a really nice time. Tomorrow morning I’m going to go out and explore and then in the afternoon I hope to be able to go to the Heliopolis Hilton spa for a facial before coming back and preparing to go to the airport. I am still getting messages on Grindr as I write this, but I think I am satisfied for now. If another cutie wants to jerk off on cam though, I’ll be happy to watch Oh, and by the way - how great to finally wake up the day after a US election to good news?!!!

I lived in Tokyo from 89-95 and didn’t have much luck at the cinema in Ueno. 24-Kaikan was the only sauna (in Asakusa) where gai-jin had a shot. The one in ni-chome didn’t exist (one opened right before I left but in a different location in ni-chome). But I had a lot of luck in the toilets in the BYGS building. Met a lot of guys, some regulars. There was a lot of anti-foreigner discrimination back then due to AIDS and not as many other foreigners. Now, I have good luck at 24-Kaikan in Shinjuku with both Japanese and other gai-jin. I can’t wait to go back!

Cairo - Update I changed my screen name on Grindr to something in Arabic which hopefully translates to “no expiring photos”, but they continue, and the flood continues. I’m probably over 300 guys who have contacted me by now. And then there are also guys on Romeo and Blowers. It’s getting out of hand. I automatically block anyone who writes hello in Arabic with no profile photo or any other information. Total waste of time. If I don’t like their photos, I’ll just delete and if they contact me again after no response, I block. I have to find a way to manage the deluge. Not a bad problem to have. The problem of how to hook up continues, but there are signs that something may happen… A guy who was theoretically near me in Zemalek has contacted me several times. Huge dick. Not the prettiest cock, but it is gigantic. He messaged me once and we chatted a bit, but I was still reeling from the flood of messages and nothing came of it. Last night he messaged again and told me he could host. I asked him where he was and it went something like this. Where can you host? Zemalek. Where? Google it. To which I replied, forget it. But he persisted. I said, I am in Zemalek. I know where it is. Where are you in Zemalek. He answered 26 of July. I said, that’s a long street. I’m one block away from 26 of July. For all I know, he could have been a block away. He messaged me again tonight and insisted he was interested. I asked again where he was on 26 of July and he never answered. We are tentatively set up to meet on Wednesday. I just messaged him and told him I would walk up and down 26 of July and see if I could find him. He’s a dentist and speaks good English, so hopefully he will get it. We’ll see. Another guy who is older and looks like my uncle (in his younger days) has also been very persistent. He also has a huge dick. Even though he is not a hot young type, he is someone who could easily slip into the hotel I moved to for two nights so I could explore downtown Cairo. And that is what he suggested. He said I could meet him in the lobby, but don’t speak and he’d just get on the elevator with me. He said he has done this before. And a third, really hot guy said he could host in Dokki, which is on the other side of the Nile next to Zemalek. Turned out he was a masseuse, which is fine because I could like a hot massage with a hot guy and a happy ending. He charges 2,500 EGP, which is about $45. I paid $160 at the Marriott for a massage with zero fun, so I’m fine with that. Oh, forgot, this morning a guy with a huge dark brown dick messaged me. He also lives in Dokki and is from Oman. He said he wants to fuck me with his brother. I told him I only suck, and if his brother is anywhere near as big as he is, there’s no way either of them are going anywhere near my ass. We’ll see. In the meantime, I have had a few guys who jerked off for me on cam. One on Grindr, the other on Telegram. The guy on Grindr had me do a video chat while I was at a restaurant. When I realized he wanted to jerk off I asked if I could call him after dinner. To my surprise, when I got back to the hotel, he was still waiting and his dick got hard in seconds. He asked to see my body and then I just sat back and watched while he jerked off into a tissue and shot a huge load. He was really cute too. I feel bad for these guys, they are so horny and sexually frustrated. I don’t know who is gay and who is just horny, but could this explain all of the beeping on the roads? Is it sexual frustration being taken out in traffic? I also had an interesting experience that I thought might lead to something. Claude recommended this restaurant near my hotel for dinner. I went and it was an old school bar that stunk of cigarettes and after I sat for a few minutes and was ignored, I got up and walked out. On the little alley outside of the restaurant, two guys were sitting on plastic chairs outside of a souvenir shop. One of them commented on my mullet and mustache (yes, I’m rocking a 70’s look as I approach 70). Somehow we ended up inside of his shop and then he offered me tea. When I declined, he said I would shame him, so I accepted. And then we ended up in a little room upstairs where they sold perfumes and lotions. He sat across from me with his legs spread wide open. He was 20 years old, really cute, and actually fun to talk to. I was waiting for the “Are you married?” question or some other signal, but nothing happened. Finally, I thanked him for the tea and the restaurant recommendation and told him I’d come back to buy something before I left Egypt. He was super sweet and I was amazed that there was no pressure to buy anything. We just chatted, he recommended a restaurant nearby, we walked about the lotions and perfumes and I left. One funny thing - he showed me one bottle with camel milk that he said was good for your face. I said, “Camel milk? How do they get that?” And made a gesture sort of like someone jerking off a camel. Yeah, I was having a horny senior moment and forgot that camels were mammals and there were also female camels that gave milk. I thought they jerked off the camels and bottled their sperm. Not sure how funny he thought that was, but I thought it was hysterical. All in all, I came here not expecting to meet any guys and have been surprised at the volume and hotness of them. I didn’t even think Grindr existed. Not only Grindr, but also Romeo and Blowers (not as active, but more active than where I live outside of SF). I don’t need volume, but would be happy if I met one or two guys I could suck off once or twice before I leave. Other than that, I am really enjoying Cairo. I’m here for a month (off an on), so I am taking it slow and easing into it, but I love the downtown “Paris of the Nile” area, and I also really liked Zemalek as my base. If you’ve been thinking of visiting, I highly recommend it. People are warm, flash big smiles, friendly and hospitable. And the culture and history are fascinating. It’s more than pyramids and mummies, but it’s that too. If only they were as open sexually as Bangkok. This could be a sex pigs paradise with these hot men and big dicks. Mohammed Ali Mosque in the Citadel

And also I’ve seen “soft bottom” which I assume means oral bottom and “hard bottom” which I guess means anal. I’ll ask if anyone else contacts me. The disappearing penises continue flooding my inbox. 🤪

I asked a guy who identified as a soft top and he said oral only. 🤷‍♂️

Does anybody know what “top hard” vs “top soft” means? I’ve seen these terms several times on Grindr.

In the taxi? The problem is where to go. So many men, no place to go.

I arrived in Cairo last night after a long but pleasant flight (Qatar Air business from SFO - 10 stars). I knew I could not host, but thought there might be a chance that I’d meet a few nice guys who might show me around, so I changed my Grindr profile to mostly non-sexual saying I was looking to meet locals for conversation and to see some interesting places in Cairo. I know it’s a long shot because most closeted guys are very wary about being seen in public with older foreigners, but I also wanted to avoid what actually happened. No lie, I must have received over 200 messages between last night and tonight and most of them were expiring dick pics, some accompanied by faces and bodies. I tried changing my profile to be more explicit (no expiring photos) but that didn’t stop them. Finally, I changed my user name. Could be that everyone who was going to contact me has, or that fixed it. At least it’s not the constant barrage of expiring pics. It is frustrating because a lot of the guys are guys I would love to meet. The body types and dicks are exactly my type, but since I can’t host and they can’t, my options are limited. There is a guy who lives nearby in Giza who can host who I might take a chance with, but honestly, I am feeling overwhelemed by all of it - the flood of messages, and also Cairo itself. I decided I’m going to take it slow and see who is still around and interested after a few more days. I rented an Airbnb for a month and they were very clear that no visitors are allowed. There’s a security guard in the lobby. Because I am in Zemalek but want to explore downtown Cairo a bit, I used miles to book a nice hotel for a few nights there. I doubt I’ll be able to have visitors, but am hoping maybe another hotel guest will be interested. I will also see if I can find a hammam where I might get a little extra service. I had a massage at the Marriott today but it was strictly professional (and very good). I was able to request a male therapist, which was nice. I came with low expectations in terms of sexual activity, so I will be fine leaving without hooking up with anyone, but I was not prepared for the flood on Grindr. I’ve also been contacted on Romeo and Blowers. I’ll report back if anything happens. If anyone has any tips they’d like to share, please do - DM me if you don’t want to share publicly.

I can only report my experience today at the Marriott in Cairo. Nothing happened beyond the massage and my imagination. I tried “accidentally” letting my hand hang off the edge of the massage table so it might “accidentally” brush up against his crotch and he moved it up onto the table. Message was clear whether he understood my intention or not.

Is there "another side" you want to share with us on what we've all seen?

Sounds like you prefer European guys. You can find them all over Latin America - I haven't been to Brazil, but I think many Brazilians are European, and yes, Argentina and Uruguay, but also in many other countries to a lesser degree. In Argentina most people are of Spanish or Italian descent. Other countries might be more mixed with Indigenous people and Africans.

Great report. I'm heading to Cairo at the end of the month and staying in an Airbnb where it was made clear that there are no guests allowed. But my plan is to find a hotel with a gym and pool to hang out and work out and possibly have some fun. I'll be staying in Zamalek, so I'll check out the Marriott.

I don't know if it's the best, but I always stay at the Renaissance Jaragua. Beautiful property with an amazing pool, nice gym, spa and nice rooms. They allow guests, you just have to register them at the desk. I feel a little odd doing it, so I'm very selective about who I invite. I play at the Cine Lido and on my last trip, went to a motel with a guy. I'm guessing if you want to be closer to the action, this is not for you, but it is my hotel of choice.

Thanks for this. And eye candy for sure! I have seen so many hot guys at the onsen/sento. And you are right, when they have it, they flaunt it. I went to a sento in Nagoya and this guy had a beautiful cock which he kept semi-hard while in one of the lie flat baths. When it started to go down, he'd touch it and swell it back up again. It was so hot. I had a direct view to him. Then he got up and walked around with it hanging freely. He caught me looking at him but didn't seem to care. And of course, nothing else happened. I did have one encounter at Thermae Yu in Shinjuku and it seems there is the possibility of things happening there, but I've learned after going to many on recent trips, chances of anything happening, no matter how cruisy it feels, are slim to none.

I have decided Mexico is one of my favorite places and set a goal of one new place each year. It's easy to get to, the people are friendly, the food is great, and the men can be hot. If you haven't been to Queretaro, I highly recommend it - beautiful historic center, cafe culture and lots of international cuisine. I didn't have much luck with the men, but I loved Queretaro. My new place for next year is Durango. Hoping to meet a hot Mexican cowboy.

I've been surprised as I get older that there are guys who are attracted to me specifically because of my age and body type. Well, at least outside of the US. I met a beautiful guy in the DR who only wanted to be with older men, and not for pay. He said younger guys are always trying to sleep with him but he has no interest. And the only quality guy I met in Medellin was the same. Great body, handsome, super nice, and only interested in "mature". I felt both were out of my league, even in my younger days, but my age turned out to be an asset. Not sure about the wining and dining, but I wouldn't write it off.

Well, as I said, I have never worried about it. Maybe because I generally avoid crowded spaces, and don’t spend a lot of time in CDMX. To be clear, this whole conversation started with the racist who was disparaging Mexicans and Thais and somehow became about the dangers of Mexico because two Chinese guys were robbed at gunpoint. My point is simply that in my experience, I was robbed twice in Bangkok, and had a few other close calls, but nothing has ever happened to me in Mexico and my first trip there was in 1983. This is my experience. I love Mexico. I recognize there are dangerous places there, just like there are dangerous places in many US cities and elsewhere in the world, but in general, Mexicans are warm, hardworking and trustworthy.

I just chose the most popular on this forum. Most European countries are dangerous if we’re using robbery as the measure. Sure, it may not be at gunpoint, but losing all of your money, passport and especially phone can be devastating. I’ve never worried about pickpockets in Mexico. I am extra careful in Europe.

I learned that lesson. Point is, I was robbed twice in Thailand but never in Mexico. And I had other close calls.

Mexico City used to be very unsafe. The first time I went there, I was terrified and only in transit, so I stayed at the airport. But I have been many times since, and have not had a problem. Meanwhile, I was robbed twice in Bangkok. Once a guy I brought back to my hotel took $300 out of my wallet while I was in the shower (he left me $300 fortunately, which I needed for my next trip). The other time, I had a chain stolen at Babylon without even realizing it. You might not get held at gunpoint in Thailand, but you can definitely get robbed.

The woman who helped me get my visa overnight ran an agency that did the fast track thing. When I told her I was an ESL teacher and had had many Vietnamese students over the years, she said she would get my visa fixed free of charge - Merry Christmas! So to thank her, I signed up for the fast track thing. I didn’t want any more problems. It was totally worth it. You definitely don’t want to run into an immigration agent who decides they need a little extra cash that day. Personally, Vietnam is not a country I am interested in returning to, even though the food was amazing.

I’m just saying, pointing out one case does not prove that Mexico is any more dangerous than Thailand, Brazil or Colombia.

Yes, those things happen. I think you like to go to Thailand. Haven’t people been robbed and murdered there? As I said, I’ve never had a problem in Mexico and never felt unsafe.

I got my Vietnam visa online. Did it months in advance. When I went to the airport, they wouldn’t let me board the flight because my passport expiration date was wrong. I know it wasn’t my mistake. I was lucky enough to be in a FB group for Vietnam travel and I posted there and a woman from San Jose was able to contact the embassy in HCMC and get my visa corrected. I was able to fly the next day. Point it, you can probably apply online. But be very careful. A friend told me the same thing happened to her daughter. Also, Hanoi was a disappointment. Way too many motorbikes and not much to see.