Popular Post durian Posted Wednesday at 06:01 PM Popular Post Posted Wednesday at 06:01 PM I am 67, gwm. he is 50yo chinese malay. married 20 years but happy to play together. I used to be a military sauna hunk, he used to be a penang 'army bar' cock sucking bad boy. These days we are not so pretty, a bit larger, a bit balder, a bit slower, a bit more insecure and not as cute as we used to be. We still like gay sex. Bangkok is, on the surface, a little intimidating for us... but we would like to enjoy some sauna adventures. We love a steam room and a dark room and a play area. We are coming to KoKbang in january and don't want to rock up to the twinky pretty boy sauna and feel like two old dinosaurs who they won't let in. He likes a hairy bottom dad, I like a skinny bottom slutty twink. If you have the knowledge, which sauna do you think would be appropriate for us to enjoy? We were in amsterdam a few years ago and found that some venues have age limits, we don't know if that is the case in BKK but that said, there is no point in us turning up like something out of jurassic park to a venue where we will feel unwelcome. While I use the word unwelcome, I don't mean that in an unkind way, I mean that in a gay way where people of a certain age don't go to venues where other people of a much younger age gather.... Sorry if that sounds out of place, it's how my mind works. I am almost 70, I certainly don't look like I did in my 30's london sauna whore days, I'm not sure many young pretty boys want to see me naked in a small towel looking for a grope... But if I can find one, I want to fuck the arse of a pretty young thing (18+) and he wants to fondle a hairy chap and maybe stick some dick up him..... Advice welcome. cheers, Mike and Tris. (BKK jan 26) a-447, Olddaddy, tm_nyc and 2 others 4 1 Quote
vinapu Posted yesterday at 01:58 AM Posted yesterday at 01:58 AM 7 hours ago, durian said: I am 67, gwm. he is 50yo chinese malay. These days we are not so pretty, a bit larger, a bit balder, a bit slower, a bit more insecure and not as cute as we used to be. I'm shocked, how it can be I wonder ? Olddaddy, durian and Mavica 3 Quote
Gottab Posted yesterday at 08:25 AM Posted yesterday at 08:25 AM Im not sure where I would recommend. Many of the saunas can be difficult to navigate, uneven floors, tight winding stairways and a lack of adequate lighting. If you have no mobility issues I would suggest Krubb or Sauna Mania. Krubb is over 4 floors, so lots of steps, but it has a nice bar on the top where you can have a drink, a dip in the spa and check out all the talent. Sauna Mania isnt on as many floors and is a bit more rough around the edges, but it is closer to the gay area so gets more western tourists, so you wont feel out of place there. Honestly there are so many to choose from, its not as simple as the old days with Babylon/everywhere else. I havent even touched on the huge number of gay onsens that have sprung up in recent years. WhTever you choose I hope you have a great time. vinapu and durian 2 Quote
Lotusleaf Posted yesterday at 11:18 AM Posted yesterday at 11:18 AM Heaven sauna is one you should try. You won't feel out of place there and will most likely find what you are both seeking. http://heavensauna.com/ Sauna Mania is also worth a visit. Mavica 1 Quote
Gottab Posted 15 hours ago Posted 15 hours ago Heaven is probably a good choice. There are so many in Bangkok, it's one Ive not gotten to. Quote
durian Posted 8 hours ago Author Posted 8 hours ago On 10/30/2025 at 9:58 AM, vinapu said: I'm shocked, how it can be I wonder ? Not as shocked as I am when I look in the mirror and miss the fit military lad I used to be... On 10/30/2025 at 4:25 PM, Gottab said: WhTever you choose I hope you have a great time. thank you On 10/30/2025 at 7:18 PM, Lotusleaf said: Heaven sauna is one you should try. You won't feel out of place there and will most likely find what you are both seeking. http://heavensauna.com/ Sauna Mania is also worth a visit. thank you 7 hours ago, Gottab said: Heaven is probably a good choice. There are so many in Bangkok, it's one Ive not gotten to. thank you Quote
ChristianPFC Posted 7 hours ago Posted 7 hours ago There are no age restrictions in gay saunas in Bangkok, however the R3 group discourages older by higher entry prices. A friend is of similar age and looks and likes 39 underground sauna. Quote
nikba2515 Posted 1 hour ago Posted 1 hour ago With a good personality and luck, anything happens at the sauna, lot of fun & lasting memories. To guarantee the fun and the type you desire, the best option is to hire. Both online and bar have plenty of choices. Quote
Olddaddy Posted 7 minutes ago Posted 7 minutes ago 1 hour ago, nikba2515 said: With a good personality and luck, anything happens at the sauna, lot of fun & lasting memories. To guarantee the fun and the type you desire, the best option is to hire. Both online and bar have plenty of choices. I don't agree Sauna is better if you want to have a fun time ....with someone who wants it and is horny 🔥 I mean you could spend hours walking around getting no one ...but ..that's part of the game If you just want a quick fuck with no emotion then pay4play ... Wham Bam thankyou mam ! Quote