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[CuriosityDan]

Hello guys! Am in BKK at the moment and want to try a nice massage! It’s my first time and a bit anxious. Im currently looking at Jey spa and History of Massage but the photos are a bit dodgy (AI enhanced?) and no pics of guys in informal settings. Also do you know if therapists also agree to be given BJ HJ and even kissing? Or is it more that they do the BJ and HJ to you?

finally, how do you decide on the tip? Is giving the minimum OK? Thank you!!

[floridarob]

5 hours ago, CuriosityDan said:

Is giving the minimum OK

Yes

[mauRICE]

6 minutes ago, floridarob said:

Yes

Only if you're "scroogy", says Aunty Vin. Tsk, tsk. 😏

[floridarob]

1 minute ago, mauRICE said:

Only if you're scroogy, says Aunty Vin. Tsk, tsk. 😏

Yet Aunty scroogy  takes bus, row 74 and does own laundry and 69 baht b'fast....🤔

[mauRICE]

3 minutes ago, floridarob said:

Yet Aunty scroogy  takes bus, row 74 and does own laundry and 69 baht b'fast....🤔

Hey watch it, that's my lovely aunty you're talking about. He needs to save money to buy stamps for his collection.

[floridarob]

2 minutes ago, mauRICE said:

He needs to save money to buy stamps for his collection.

and a new calendar

[Travelingguy]

In a place like Jey Spa, I’m sure that the therapist would allow you to give them a blowjob or a hand job. However, they may not want to cum because they want to still be able to perform for other clients.

Kissing will vary from therapist to therapist. Also, some therapists will not bottom, but almost all of them will top.

History of massages isn’t exactly a full service establishment. You will very likely get soft service, but penetration is less likely.

 

[mauRICE]

57 minutes ago, Travelingguy said:

You will very likely get soft service, but penetration is less likely.

Ohh this is too easy. I'm going to leave it be.😏

[vinapu]

On 2/1/2026 at 2:40 AM, floridarob said:

Yet Aunty scroogy  takes bus, row 74 and does own laundry and 69 baht b'fast....🤔

While this is all true ( breakfast is actually 86 baht but that is irrelevant)  it's classic example of so called in logic  1/ 0 implication i.e. Based on true factors resoning is still false. 

I take a bus and train because as, former railway men of 10 years  I just love public transport. 

Row 74 logic is simple, nobody likes to fly I the back so probability of having empty seat beside is, much higher than in 40's. 

Doing own laundry is cost of traveling light, I'm in 2nd half of month long Asia trip and total weight of my luggage is 7.3 kg

As for breakfast, is not the cost saving, it's the love of vibe at Foodland

[vinapu]

On 2/1/2026 at 3:57 AM, Travelingguy said:

In a place like Jey Spa, I’m sure that the therapist would allow you to give them a blowjob or a hand job. However, they may not want to cum because they want to still be able to perform for other clients.

Kissing will vary from therapist to therapist. Also, some therapists will not bottom, but almost all of them will top.

History of massages isn’t exactly a full service establishment. You will very likely get soft service, but penetration is less likely.

 

I just wanted to say the same and good you were first. Broadly we can say that most of OP requirement can or can't be met based on given therapist preferences. And they may be tailored to customer i.e. guy who refuses to kiss me may gladly agree to that while with somebody else. Same goes with other tricks, BJ, HJ and full monty to name a few.

There's a lot of variations, one of massage guys I'm familiar with by his own admission will never bottom while in the spa but will when taken home. 

So OP, which stands for Original Poster, take a heart, talk to guy discreetly and see what happens, that chase is actually best part of experience. 

[floridarob]

1 hour ago, vinapu said:

While this is all true

ALL true, thanks.

 

 

1 hour ago, vinapu said:

I just love public transport. 

As do I... I've been taking the subway alone since I was 10 or 12 yrs old. Use public transportation in many cities I travel to but at some point, cost/convenience comes into play or the "so called in logic  1/ 0 implication" 

 

 

1 hour ago, vinapu said:

nobody likes to fly I the back

Try upfront, either mileage upgrades, mileage tickets from airline or credit card points....or what I've been doing for the past few years, buy the ticket FROM Asia or that side of the world- roundtrip, they're usually cheaper than buying FROM North America 🤔