BKK Feb 2026 Trip report - Let Me Tell You Something

[GoldMember]

Prologue

I’m at BKK airport starting to write this report. I want to hold on to the memories while they are still fresh as this trip was as always eventful and fun. 

This is probably my 12th trip to my Beloved BKK. I use this forum to maintain all the wonderful memories that I don’t necessarily share with other people. First report was 2013! I was still in my late late 20’s no husband no kids! I am now 41yo, Married + 2.

I was supposed to fly to Rio for Carnival. Had everything booked. A month ago my best friend told me he decided not to come since he is not mentally at his best. I understood but was disappointed since I was waiting a long time for this vacation. I could go alone, but I didn’t feel comfortable being alone and parting in Brazil. I needed compensation and BKK was chosen easily as the best compensation money can buy. The price for direct TLV-BKK Economy with El-al was a sky rocket of 1800 USD. Decided to maximize my situation and for 2200 USD fly business with Etihad so I had an Abu Dhabi connection. 

All of the things I prebooked were with cancelation windows till the very last minute cause the Iran situation was shadowing my trip. Actually it still is, since once the first bomb is launched - Israeli air space will close. I will be calm only when the plane lands safely home. I have a backup plan of entering Israel by land border like Abraham did 4000 years ago. I really hope I don’t have to use it. Let's hope Trump waits just at least another day. Or he may have ditched the idea, who knows.  

I planned a lot. Planning makes me happy. I prebooked 6 massages for a 6 day trip! I informed V of my arrival. V is an old BKK friend that I managed to maintain some sort of contact with. If anybody is bored and want to read an overly detailed report of my first meeting with V, be my guest. He is already married in recent years and lives outside BKK with his husband. Although they are in an open relationship he told his husband he is meeting friends. He was with me the first 2 days, till I flew to CNX and he went back home. More will be explained later on the reason to fly to CNX for 1 night only. 

Flights were great, passport control too was cool with priority lane. Landed at 11:30 AM last Wednesday. 

I decided that this trip was not going to be like all the other ones where I turn into a sex addict seeking guys all the time. That decision lasted at least until passport control in Suvarnabhumi. 

I am boarding now to Abu Dhabi, Will continue actually writing about my trip soon.  

[Olddaddy]

1 hour ago, GoldMember said:

planned a lot. Planning makes me happy

Love planners 

I plan every detail of my life and trip ,it's the only way to go, 

From travel 🧳 insurance to transport, or from massages to mopeds , from drinks to dicks ! plan , otherwise plan to fail !

And please don't blame me !!;

I'm  being blamed for everything from dumping rubbish in my condo building 🏢 to shouting out in my apartment by the building manager!!

 

[vinapu]

7 hours ago, GoldMember said:

 

I planned a lot. Planning makes me happy.

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I decided that this trip was not going to be like all the other ones where I turn into a sex addict seeking guys all the time. That decision lasted at least until passport control in Suvarnabhumi.   

Hope you returned home safely, Too bad we missed each other  by few days, It would be nice to catch up after all those years

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I know people who take as much pleasure in trip planning than in trip itself so I'm not surprised 

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as for abandoning your old ways, nice try  but I doubt it worked . There's something in Bangkok air which makes us less composed than we wish,  to say it mildly.

[Kiwi306]

I was disappointed that we missed each other too. Maybe on your 13th trip.

[GoldMember]

5 hours ago, vinapu said:

Hope you returned home safely, Too bad we missed each other  by few days, It would be nice to catch up after all those years

Indeed. Next time

[GoldMember]

1 hour ago, Kiwi306 said:

I was disappointed that we missed each other too. Maybe on your 13th trip.

Amen to that! 

[GoldMember]

Day 1

Writing this from the Etihad lounge at Abu Dhabi. Just a few hours more and I’m home. 

After landing at BKK, exchanging money and taking a taxi, I arrived at the So/ hotel. The reason I chose this hotel was cause I got hotels.com credit. The terms of the credit was that I got two nights credit with a limit of 500 usd a night. And any unused credit gets lost. I wanted the largest room in Silom that 500 usd can buy. I knew that my first 2 nights were with V so better use it when he's with me so we enjoy the space. I would have booked Le Meridien but cancellation terms were not warzone friendly. 

V and I met at the hotel lounge. Even at the age of 40, he still is in perfect shape. A perfect V muscle torso. What had clearly changed was his financial situation. When I met V he was kinda broke. He arrived at the So/ lounge with a new Tumi suitcase and branded expensive clothes. He acknowledged that his financial situation changed dramatically as his partner is very wealthy. 

Room was not ready at the time so we decided to leave the luggage and go to the hotel pool. We spotted a hot couple working out at the gym near the pool and both acknowledged their hotness. V and I started getting close and physical at the pool and enjoyed the time together until our room was ready. 

Only at 4PM our room was ready which was poor performance by So/. It was a 100 sqm suite. The hotel now is not what it used to be. It is more tired and a bit old. Not the chic it had in the past but still a great hotel and I was happy not to pay anything for that very big fancy room.

In the room V and I enjoyed the hot tub and the bed till evening. Sexual chemistry between us is great because V lets me do whatever I want with him. Then we slept a little. When we woke up V wanted to eat Thai at Silom Complex. Dinner was great. As I always do, I paid for it but this time he told me he also can and wants to pay so I let it be sometimes.

Back in the room I got a text from the hot couple we saw at gym near the pool. They suggested we go out, the four of us, which we happily agreed to. We went to DJ station and already there things started to get warm. Afterwards GOD, there things got really hot including a toilet scene of which the 4 of us play until people outside get upset that we occupy the toilet for too long. GOD was packed and great that night.  

Since I have some experience on clubbing with V I know that when he does drugs, he wants to party all night. That night he told me he wants to do E which I told him was fine by me but that he should know that I am leaving the club not a second after 3AM cause I don’t wanna go to sleep too late. I told him he is more than welcomed to stay and come back to the room whenever he wants. At 3 AM I told him I was going and he decided to come with me which took me by surprise. The couple wanted us to stay and have a foursome later but I told them I was tired. That was only partially true because I was planning on having fun with V in the room. The reason I didn’t want a foursome is that I had a clear preference to one guy of the couple over the other and was hoping to get him alone later. And in addition that would have put me the only top on 3 bottoms which may sound hot. But, I usually prefer a more even ratio so that I can share the cardio with someone.   

V and I left the club at 3 AM. V was wild with me, allowing me to do whatever I want. He wore the lingerie I bought for him and let me film some of our sexual activities. At about 5AM I went to sleep tired, happy and calm.  

This concludes my first day. No transactional fun this day, but I knew that the day after I have 2 massages so I was fine with that.

[vinapu]

3 hours ago, GoldMember said:

Amen to that! 

Amen from Jupiter ?

 

Glad to hear , as usual , you did not waste any time while there. It's how vacation should be

[GoldMember]

Day 2

Writing this from the flight back home. 

Woke up at about 10:30 AM. I missed breakfast. V already left the room. He told me the night before, that he has stuff that he needs to take care of and that he will be back in the evening. This was perfect for me since I had lots of plans. 

Grindr Served me well this trip. After waking up I got a text from the preferred part of the couple we partied with yesterday. He told me he came back from the party earlier and that his husband his out at an After party. He also told me he is now horny. I suggested coming taking care of his needs. He told me he needs to ask permission from his husband. His husband gave him permission on the condition that I fuck them both later. I gladly lied that I have no problem with that. 10 mins later I'm in the room with this euro muscle having a great morning and happy that I got exactly what I wanted. I was hesitant to cum since I have 2 massages on the menu for today but I decided this guy is more hot than both masseurs so he is worth cum spending. 

After that surprising turnout, I went for a workout at So/ gym in order to get my muscles sore for the massages on the menu for today. 

I originally booked just a single massage with Yuya for this day. A couple of days before the trip I remembered that SSense had faboules masseurs in the past and just checked what's on the menu. I saw Singha of which I knew from previous trips and got horny. Decisions made from home are really funny because they are disconnected from the reality of what can actually fit well. I contacted SSense and apperntly Singha was fully booked the entire 6 days of my trip. That made me even more horny and I told them to put me on wait list and to update me if someone cancels. Three days later, I get a text while in the taxi to Ben Gurion airport that he is available for a massage two hours before the massage I already booked with Yuya. I thought of it a bit than decided YOLO and booked it. 

Massage number 1: Singha from SSense. 
This place is cheaper than the new fancy ones but the facility is more than good.  I Booked a 2H massage. They explain minimum tip for B2B is 900 and that's it. Singha is the full package - Asian muscle god, nice and engaging. I won't review his massage skills because who the fuck cares about that lol. Extra services were very generous and he also complied to my request that he lays on the bed and I pour oil on him and play. Lot's of body contact, muscle worship, oral play, kissing. I rate this the best massage this trip competing very hard with the last massage of the trip. 

After massage ended I left happy and satisfied directly to the next massage. I wasn't horny at all but a man's gotta do what a mans gotta do. 

Massage number 2: Yuya from The residences. 
The new genre of massage places that also include Klover and History are kinda cool in my opnion, They hire guys only by the way they look and hope the rest will be OK. That kinda fits my need. Everything here is on the more expensive side. I knew this beforehand so I wasn't surprised. Place is impressive, clean and new. Yuya is as hot as it gets in the genre of Asian muscle hairy guys. Other than that, I can't state anything too impressive. He was fine and nice but compared to all five other masseurs I didn't find him to too sexually engaged in making me happy. He wanted 3K for B2B. I told him I prefer just HE and that he takes of his shirt and I touch his muscles. We agreed on 2K. All and all I did leave that massage happy and satisfied. But in retro spect, this one is the only massage I would not repeat. Nothing wrong just not thrilling enough. as always, YMMV. 

That was the third time cuming that day in about  6 hours so I was done with sexual activities for the time being. and by the time being I meant about 90 minutes. 

Went to CentralWorld to eat my favorite Taiwanese dumplings and stroll a bit and went back to the room to meet V in the evening. I told V I wanna try Maxwell Onsen and he agreed so we went there together. That place was packed and we had to wait 20 mins to enter. Inside was a full Asian buffet and some of the best Thai and Chinese muscle guys the town had to offer. I was not that horny it was more of an intellectual excursion and I had enjoyed what the buffet had to offer. V had his share of fun and attention as he always gets. After about two hours we left. I will say that this place is implicitly ageist. It is not written anywhere but I didn't see anyone over 50 although you never exactly know age with those Asians and their fucking amazing skin.

After Maxwell's we went to have a drink and dance a bit at DJ station and to my request we called it a day at midnight and went back to the room. On the way back I got a text from an offline Grindr profile with no pic face pic and a single AI muscle torso as a picture. After some texting he sent me his pictures which I was suspicious about because it still had a vibe like someone asked the ChatGPT to render an Asian muscle god. I showed V his pictures and he said he didn't know him. I stayed suspicious while taking to him and told him I'm with V and the next night in CNX but we can meet in 2 days. I really thought it's a scam and at some point he will ask for my credit card number but we kept texting until I will actually meet that impressive beast. 

My Second night was also last night with V which was exactly the amount of time I wanted for us so we had some night time play and went to sleep at around 2 AM.

As the wheels of the plane now touch the ground, I'm happy to be back home. For all that I care, now the war can start. Although I really hope it won't. For many reasons, but also since then I'll be drafted like I was last time. so let's keep fingers crossed that a peaceful solution will surprisingly occur. 

[vinapu]

38 minutes ago, GoldMember said:

For all that I care, now the war can start. 

better not

[forrestreid]

Thanks for the report GoldMember.

Just one question- you said in it that with Yuya: “He wanted 3K for B2B. I told him I prefer just HE”.

what is HE in this context?

 

 

[GoldMember]

1 hour ago, forrestreid said:

what is HE in this context?

Happy ending.

In the slightest chance that this term is unfamiliar to anyone, it means him jerking me off till I cum. 

[GoldMember]

Day 3

Writing this after the first night back home. Only now after a good nights sleep I realize how tired I was returning from that trip.

V and I woke up together around 9 AM, this time making it to breakfast. As my entire experience with this hotel, breakfast was absolutely fine - But, it used to be WAY better. At breakfast V had a serious talk with me about his drug problem. I was surprised of his awarness and efforts to change his lifestyle. To my understanding it is his husband who is very aware and helping him to deal with it. He told me the reason he sometimes disconnects from the world (including me) for several months is that he thinks the gay lifestyle, social media and Bangkok is too much of a temptation that can easily regress his progress. That was a refreshing and honest talk I am not used to having with him.  After breakfast we go to the gym together. I love watching V workout, he is so determined as if his life depends on it. My flight to CNX was at 2PM and his flight back home was at 6PM. After workout we play a little together, have a shower, pack, and say our goodbyes. I promise him I'll come again next year. Hope that is true. At 12PM I check out and book a taxi to DMK.

One might wonder, why go to CNX for one night? Especially in a trip that is a short one. Well, I have a good friend that left the country and now she and her husband and kids live in Pai. She's an old friend - we studied our masters together and became good friends. Her leaving the country made me sad. She asked me to come visit her in Pai which I said hell no because that's too much of a hassle. She could not come to BKK since her parents were exactly visiting her on my trip dates. Then I suggested we meet in Chiang Mai. I knew that CNX can be fun so I had my share of hidden interest. She talked to her husband and parents and they decided to make it a family trip. I wanted to minimize my stay in CNX So flight was booked for the afternoon and return was booked for the morning. That way I have one night with my friend but minimize the time away from BKK. 

Flight DMK to CNX went easy and I checked in to Club One Seven at about 4PM knowing I will meet my friend at 8PM. For those unfamiliar with it - Club One Seven is a gay sauna which also is some sort of hotel. At approximately 2 minutes past 4 PM I'm already in that place's sauna, nude, getting a blowjob. Guys there were in all of shapes and sizes and variety was good including my own preference. Facilities include pool, Jacuzzi, wet and dry sauna, a dark area and cabins. Really all you can ask for. At about 19:30 I left the sauna happy and satisfied. I read some mixed reviews regarding the sauna so YMMV.  As for the hotel, I took a private room which was kind of shitty with a too stiff mattress, a shitty room layout and I also think SQM was smaller than the 23 SQM that was promised. But I didn't care that much, just one night to crash there. In retro spect I should have booked elsewhere and just come to spend the evening there. 

Evening came and I went out with my friend and her husband. We had a great night out at the market, night bazar and 6ixcret Bar. The drag cabaret show at that bar is a very impressive one. At 1AM we called it a night and I went to sleep at my stiff mattress. Grindr Also was active and tempting especially one guy in perticular but at the end of that evening I was tired and decided it's time to go to sleep. That was not an easy decision to make and I was proud of myself LOL. I went to sleep thinking about the AI muscle figure who Iv'e been texting to and wants to meet me tomorrow in BKK. When I was in CNX he sent me his IG profile and that's when I realized this is not a scam and that guy actually exists and I might meet him the day after. 

[forrestreid]

2 hours ago, GoldMember said:

Happy ending.

In the slightest chance that this term is unfamiliar to anyone, it means him jerking me off till I cum. 

I know what Happy ending is, but I thought that you were talking about the route to get to that place. I actually thought it was a typo for HJ and  that is why I drew your attention to it. Happy to be corrected.

[vinapu]

1 hour ago, GoldMember said:

I promise him I'll come again next year. Hope that is true.

what about this year ? it's only February

[Enchanted_Elixir]

2 hours ago, GoldMember said:

In the slightest chance that this term is unfamiliar to anyone, it means him jerking me off till I cum. 

HE is understood differently by people on this forum, for some (most I guess) it refers to HJ only, whereas for others they seem to understand it as all extras including penetration. Needless to say that has caused some confusion here in the past… 

22 hours ago, GoldMember said:

Massage number 1: Singha from SSense. 
This place is cheaper than the new fancy ones but the facility is more than good.  I Booked a 2H massage. They explain minimum tip for B2B is 900 and that's it. Singha is the full package - Asian muscle god, nice and engaging. I won't review his massage skills because who the fuck cares about that lol. Extra services were very generous and he also complied to my request that he lays on the bed and I pour oil on him and play. Lot's of body contact, muscle worship, oral play, kissing. I rate this the best massage this trip competing very hard with the last massage of the trip. 

 

I’m not surprised that Singha was fully booked for 6 days straight. He is their #1 masseur. Knott used to occupy that place but he hasn’t climbed in the ratings since he returned a short while ago. You will notice that most of the guys in their top 4-5 are quite hunky, reflecting no doubt the demands of their Asian clientele. Last time I was there some clients were posing with Singha so they could publish the pics on XiaoHongShu (Rednote) later.

Ssense remains a good option in this market segment with their quality control and competitive pricing.