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When I heard that they were building (now have built) a suicide barrier at the Golden Gate Bridge, I assumed it would be like other ones I've seen, such as this bridge in Toronto: Or on top of the Empire State building: I was shocked when I recently saw what was recently installed: This new "barrier" seems to be completely ineffective, since whoever jumped into the nets could easily jump again from those nets. When I googled as to whether anyone had actually been saved by that barrier, I didn't find that anyone had, but did come across this article by a psychiatric RN: https://www.statnews.com/2023/05/10/golden-gate-bridge-anti-suicide-net-cost/ "...Spending $400 million to save 30 people a year is a misuse of funds. The current population of the Bay Area is about 3.3 million. While money certainly can’t buy happiness, at $120 per resident, $400 million can buy an awful lot of therapeutic help and crisis intervention for those who need it — particularly given that 85% of those who choose to jump from the Golden Gate live within an hour’s drive of the bridge...". Delving into the subject further, I found that even effective barriers, such as that on that Toronto bridge, don't lead to an overall drop in suicides. https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC2897976/ "...Although the barrier prevented suicides at Bloor Street Viaduct, the rate of suicide by jumping in Toronto remained unchanged. This lack of change might have been due to a reciprocal increase in suicides from other bridges and buildings. This finding suggests that Bloor Street Viaduct may not have been a uniquely attractive location for suicide and that barriers on bridges may not alter absolute rates of suicide by jumping when comparable bridges are nearby...". It seems to me like a sad mis-use of funds--big $$ which could have helped people simply wasted away.

I actually tipped him $10. Just rudeness. Where does Clark Reid live?

Have any of you sent messages to an OF creator? I subscribed to the account of a local porn star (who lives here in Los Angeles). I sent him a message with a tip, informing him I lived in his area and asking him basically if he'd be amenable to escorting. Notwithstanding the tip, he didn't even answer yes or no, now two days later. I've never PM'd someone on OnlyFans before, so I don't know if this lack of response is typical, even when I paid him to read my message.

I've been to quite a few countries whose language I don't speak. Due to the language barrier, the OP may want to go on more guided tours, and group tours can be done quite inexpensively. I don't think he'd have any trouble visiting the museums and castle and Chapultepec park, for instance. Teotihuacan probably needs to be visited by tour in any case, and there are plenty of English-language tours. I think that a lack on language skills would make it difficult to bargain for the trajineras on Lake Xochimilco, but, since he's traveling alone, it might come out cheaper to take a group tour anyway. I often use the Get Your Guide website to find tours, when I'm not using Tours by Locals (in other words, for group tours). https://www.getyourguide.com/-l194/?cmp=brand&cq_src=google_ads&cq_cmp=16360301027&cq_con=142705030736&cq_term=get your guide mexico city&cq_med=&cq_plac=&cq_net=g&cq_pos=&cq_plt=gp&campaign_id=16360301027&adgroup_id=142705030736&target_id=kwd-370090078524&loc_physical_ms=9030971&match_type=e&ad_id=628039657567&keyword=get your guide mexico city&ad_position=&feed_item_id=&placement=&device=c&partner_id=CD951&gad_source=1&gclid=CjwKCAjwrIixBhBbEiwACEqDJf_Bk6oJc_Dj9HYDih8p8dYECcbrL2BFuQJpADHHOtjJggI1oJq1yhoCI9wQAvD_BwE

I always found CDG a bit of a mess. Not quite as bad as LHR, but not easy to get around, either. DFW is at least as big, but so easy to get around. Are other posters enthusiastic as CDG as Skytrax seems to be?

This hotel specifically caters to gay clients, is in the Zona Rosa, and it goes for just $351 for 5 nights including a full buffet American breakfast. I would strongly recommend this over the bad neighborhood hotel. It also has AC and 4*, unlike the other hteol. For any hotel, I would e-mail them prior to ask what their policy is on guests. https://www.booking.com/hotel/mx/plaza-florencia.html?aid=356980&label=gog235jc-1DCAsooAFCD3BsYXphLWZsb3JlbmNpYUgzWANoiQKIAQGYATG4ARfIAQzYAQPoAQH4AQKIAgGoAgO4ArqniLEGwAIB0gIkYzRkOTNjZjctODJmZC00Y2UyLTkzNDItMWEzNTBiY2Q2NjNk2AIE4AIB&sid=d92961fe114ebf7e8cf1d89b05fe9bbd&all_sr_blocks=18583302_238804586_2_2_0;checkin=2024-05-12;checkout=2024-05-17;dest_id=-1658079;dest_type=city;dist=0;group_adults=1;group_children=0;hapos=1;highlighted_blocks=18583302_238804586_2_2_0;hpos=1;matching_block_id=18583302_238804586_2_2_0;no_rooms=1;req_adults=1;req_children=0;room1=A;sb_price_type=total;sr_order=popularity;sr_pri_blocks=18583302_238804586_2_2_0__599999;srepoch=1713509357;srpvid=48cf2feb88830178;type=total;ucfs=1&#hotelTmpl

I guessed that maybe the reason he saved all of his money for the premium cabin might be that it's uncomfortable for the OP to sit in a main cabin seat. If that's not the case, I most certainly agree that I'd save the $$ for the hotel. If legroom is the issue, many American Airlines "Main Cabin Extra" seats (i.e. the exit rows) have even more legroom that some 1st class seats, and it costs only a bit more for non-premium customers to buy those seats, compared to a first-class upgrade. If seat width is the issue, though, then 1st class always wins out. If he needs to have a place to bring men in for sex, he could buy a room at one of those "motel by the hour" places you mentioned (I'm sure the escorts know where to find such places). I once picked up a man at the beach in Acapulco (many years ago, when it was safe), and the Hilton would not let him through. We had to find a sex motel to do the deed. If one intends to bring a guest into the room in Mexico, one should always ask about their policies before-hand. Some places will allow the visitor if said visitor will leave his government-issued ID (i.e. citizenship card) at the front desk, to be collected on his way out.

Well, did you realize that Mala Vecindad means "bad neighborhood" in English? 😉 The neighborhood is indeed a tad spicy, and you'll need to take the metro to the Zona Rosa unless you want a long walk. It goes for $20=$30 a night. I don't think it has A/C, but those who stay there seem to be happy enough. Its reviews are generally positive on Tripadvisor.com: "I love the concept of making something mexican and modern at the same time. I love the place, the decor, the blankets, everything is very hipster and at the same time very mexican. The breakfast is gooood and plenty, not like the regular artificial eggs and apple in plastifoam that you find in hotels of this price. The street is not elegant but you are literally 50 mts from Metro Revolucion, half a block from the metrobus and 3 blocks from Monumento a la Revolución. Ah, and 20 minutes walking distance to the Zocalo. I found some comments in Booking of people complaining about the location, and yes is a tough"barrio" but nobody bothers you directly. If you want to try the real Mexico (not the tourist version of Condesa and Polanco) you can go to Caldos de Pollo (big plates of Chicken soup around the corner of the Hotel) and the Cantina about 30 mts (the food is ok, the drinks are good and cheap, and you have a jukebox to put some music, is the real deal with working people and bureacrats getting out of the job). The hotel has Great value for your money. Want to pay more for nothing go to Condesa. Want to get a real taste of the country, stay here...". Well, if you take a taxi from the airport, the taxi driver will probably get a chuckle when you tell him you want to go to the Mala Vecindad! 😄 Oh, barrio is another word for neighborhood (essentially synonymous with vecindad).

If you have extra time, take the bus and spend 2 nights in Taxco. Executive bus travel in Mexico is very comfortable, reliable, and safe: https://viajes.etn.com.mx/search/t-ciudad-de-mexico-central-sur/t-taxco-taxco/30-Abr-24/p/A1/departures Note: 270 Mexican pesos is about $16 US. https://etn.com.mx/english/servicios-a-bordo.html

There are very few countries for which it's safe to drink from the tap: US, Canada, Australia, New Zealand, most of the EU (not all), UK, Israel, Japan, South Korea, and Singapore would be the only places I can think of off-hand. We were even advised not to drink the tap water in Qatar, and that's a pretty wealthy country. Anywhere else you use bottled water, even to brush your teeth. Water pressure won't be a problem at any hotel with at least 3* (usually). The Mexico City subway is very efficient and cheap. The gay life is centered in the Zona Rosa. When I went to MC, I stayed at the Hilton Mexico City Reforma, which was one of the best hotels I've ever enjoyed, but it might be a bit pricey for your budget (and you'd have to take the metro to the ZR, or a rather long walk). If you want to be closer to the action, the Galeria Plaza Reforma is in the Zona Rosa, and you can get a nice room for $140 a night (4* hotel). I'm assuming, that as an infrequent traveler, you don't have status with any hotel chains. When we travel to places where I don't know the language or need help with logistics, my fiance and I have had great experiences with Tours by Locals. They charge per guide, though, not per person, so are rather pricey if traveling alone (best if 2 to 4 on the trip). If you don't like being in a big bus tour, though, it's certainly more personable and flexible. In terms of what to see, Chapultepec park is a must. Assuming you get a reasonably early start, you could visit its castle, anthropological museum, and modern art museum in one day. The anthropology museum is one of the best in the world, so I'd plan on 3 hours there. Do the national palace, cathedral, Templo Mayor, and Frida Kahlo museum on another day. Do not miss taking a day tour to Teotihuacan (usually done as a group tour), which is a world wonder. In terms of gay guides, you might find one on: https://www.travelgay.com/mexico-city-gay-tours Once you have your dates firmed up, you might want to contact an escort on your favorite website such as rentmen.eu to ask if they'd be up to being hired as a tour guide, I suppose. https://www.galeriaplazahotels.com.mx/en/reforma/

This is a travel vlogger who, at the time of this video in 2022, had visited some 65 countries. The only one where he was mugged (at gunpoint and knifepoint) was Colombia. Sometimes the US State Department knows enough to give good advice... 😉 Oh, and he's really cute--he's 27, and presumably was 25 when this video was made. The story of his mugging in Colombia is about half-way through the video:

Not surprising. Some people still had lingering fears, especially in early 2022. China didn't drop it's poorly-informed "Zero-covid" policy until late 2022. It wouldn't surprise me if Shanghai's airport makes it into the top 10 for 2024.

I feel a song coming on.

It may be that newbies aren't allowed access to that forum. Try again after a few weeks have passed, and you've contributed more to the forum.

Well, if you like that idea and really want to save money, you could fly out of Tijuana at the cross-border express terminal (park your car in the US, walk across the border to the terminal), and avoid departure taxes! Fly first-class on Aeromexico (a good airline) for $609! Flights 1 Round-trip ticket $568.30 Seats TJXQRO Round trip 1 Premier seat Included Trip extras TJXQRO 1 Carry-on baggage(33.1 lb/15 kg) Included 1 Cross Border Express (CBX) Pass $20.00 2 Checked baggage(32 kg/70.5 lb) Included QROTJX 1 Carry-on baggage(33.1 lb/15 kg) Included 1 Cross Border Express (CBX) Pass $21.00 2 Checked baggage(32 kg/70.5 lb) Included Total $609.30 USD

Another not too expensive idea is a tour I've always wanted to do, a road trip in central west Mexico, taking in San Miguel de Allende Guanajuato Queretaro Patzcuaro Zacatecas ending in Guadalajara/Tequila

To answer your question, in the immortal words of the late Senator Ted Stevens:

Any European river cruise is clearly out of budget range for someone with only $3000 or so to spend. I feel Colombia is tough for an infrequent traveler. That being said, I see business fares on American Airlines for around $1200, so if he wants to travel business class but still keep costs to around $3000, it could be done. It looks as though Brazil has decided to forgo requiring visas for at least another year from US/Canadian/Australian citizens. Wise decision for them, since reinstating visa requirements would significantly reduce tourism income. https://abcnews.go.com/US/wireStory/brazil-postpones-visa-requirements-us-canada-australia-time-109086597 "...Brazil’s government has extended exemptions to tourist visa requirements for citizens of the U.S., Australia and Canada until April 2025, extending a program aimed at boosting tourism that had been scheduled to end Wednesday..."..

Some former porn stars aren't that private, and let their real names be known. I find it interesting to find out what they're willing to share. Some go on to become real estate agents or personal trainers. I was amused to look up one man in his early 30s who quit the business over 5 years ago. He doesn't say what he does for a living, but his Facebook page is one self-righteous Bible and/or other Christian quote after another, using the original King James translation, of all things (not even the New King James). Some people go from one extreme to another. Among his quotes: The way of the wicked is an abomination unto the Lord: but He loveth him that followeth after righteousness. Proverbs 15:9 KJV Fools make a mock at sin: but among the righteous there is favour. Proverbs 14:9 KJV Judgment is coming for everyone. You might know what I’m going to say now: “Are you ready?” That can become almost a cliché. Are you ready? We all – Christian and non-Christian - have one of two events in our future: we’re either going to die and face judgment as Hebrews 9.27 says, or we’re going to be alive at the second coming of Jesus and then face judgment as 2 Corinthians 5 tells us. That’s it - one or the other. There are no other options.

Unlike the petty crime (street muggings) in Brazil, the crimes in Colombia can be much more serious, which is why the country is rated Level 3, unlike Brazil's Level 2. The only Level 3 country I've ever visited, to my recollection, is Egypt, and that's because the sights there are unique. I would advise avoiding Colombia, except perhaps on an escorted tour. My only visit to Colombia was on a cruise ship tour of Cartagena. I won't be traveling to Venezuela, Colombia, or Guyana unless the situations there improve. Country Summary: Violent crime, such as homicide, assault, and armed robbery, is widespread. Organized criminal activities, such as extortion, robbery, and kidnapping, are common in some areas. Terrorist groups and criminal organizations continue operating and carrying out attacks in Colombia. They may attack with little or no warning, targeting transportation hubs, markets/shopping malls, local government facilities, police stations, military facilities, hotels, clubs, restaurants, airports, other public areas, and U.S. government facilities. Demonstrations occur regularly throughout the country and can be about a variety of political or economic issues. They can shutdown roads and highways, often without prior notice or estimated reopening timelines. Demonstrations and road closures may significantly reduce access to public transportation and may disrupt travel within and between cities. Protests can become violent and can result in fatalities and injuries.

Well, I found a R/T on Iberia (can also get credit on American if you have an account with them) nonstop LAX to Madrid from $1374 including both carry-one and checked luggage (if you have no checked luggage, you can get an even lower fare) for May 14 to 24. You visit a lot of Spanish cities in that time. You could keep your costs near $3000 if you stay in more basic accommodations. May is beautiful in Spain. Sun's up until 10 PM. That would be my choice. You could easily go to Barcelona as well, for example. Spanish trains are excellent and quite fast. Bonus is that although the weather is pretty much as good as it gets, it's not the most crowded time of year. Your outbound flight 14may 17:50 LAX direct 11h 5min. 13:55 MAD +1 day CABINTurista FAREÓptima 651$ Your return flight 24 may 2024Select another flight 12:40MAD DIRECT 12h 25min. 16:05LAX Operated by: Details Turista605$ Get the best deal Básica 605$ Equipaje de manoIncluida 1 pieza hasta 10 kg (56x40x25cm). ComidaIncluida. Check in your bag Óptima 705$ Equipaje de manoIncluida 1 pieza hasta 10 kg (56x40x25cm). Equipaje en bodegaIncluida 1 pieza hasta 23 kg y 158 cm. ComidaIncluida. Selección de asientoGratuita desde 24h antes del vuelo. CambiosPermitido sin coste, salvo excepciones. Travel more comfortably Confort 750$ Equipaje de manoIncluida 1 pieza hasta 10 kg (56x40x25cm). Equipaje en bodegaIncluida 1 pieza hasta 23 kg y 158 cm. ComidaIncluida. Asiento delanteroIncluido. Prioridad de EmbarqueIncluido (Grupo 2). CambiosPermitido sin coste, salvo excepciones. Turista Premium1.340$ Promotion Business Class4.288$ You can also add a voucher refund to your fare so you don't need to worry if anything unexpected happens. Add it later as an extra. Total price 1.374,00$