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2 hours ago, vinapu said:

first, he cut my session short

second , when I visited Senso about 2 weeks later he went to trouble of making sure he doesn't even look at me  in the lobby.

I got the hint and took another guy

Maybe he took it the other way around. That you dont like him thats why you didnt take his offer.

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2 hours ago, spoon said:

Go to prime massage in silom 6. Mixed gender center, low chance of extra, take oil massage and enjoy. They have plenty of male masseurs and use rotation. Always had great massage there. 

Thanks for the recommendation. This is actually on my list. So many things to do here in BKK! I'll look up at how late they close. Thanks again!

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5 hours ago, vinapu said:

not quite secret  language , being massaged you suppose to lay still , it you start getting close to his skin , he gets  a signal. Don't sweat over this , all will come naturally.

Hahaha you are right. Im probably overthinking it. I was supposed to check out Silom 6 yesterday but the drag shows are so much fun I forgot all about the massage. Lol 

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2 hours ago, vinapu said:

Unless of course we already scratched his knee or something.   

Is this like a secret signal or something? I need to know more of this secret massage language please!!

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3 hours ago, BiggusDikkus said:

I'm sure the surprise of it all and the fact that a straight female friend was on the other side of the curtain heightened the experience.

Certainly! I wouldnt know what to do if a massuer offers me extra service during a massage session. I'd probably get so nervous, I'll put on a nervous smile, waive my hands and shake my head vigorously. Hahaha but Im sure my other head will be in a totally different state. Lol

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5 hours ago, 12is12 said:

As in many other areas in life, certainly when it comes to for-pay services, the best thing would me to clarify upfront exactly what u want.     (-:

Agree! How do you say "no extra service"? In a polite but clear way? 

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16 minutes ago, BiggusDikkus said:

You can walk into almost any gay massage parlor and ask for exactly what you described above. Or you could walk in, say you'd like an oil massage, play dumb about any extras and see how far the therapist will go. Think of it as an adventure.

 

I thought about this too, they will probably tease until the last bit of hesitation in your body is gone then go for the kill and you are left with a 3000+ baht bill. Hehe I dont have that kind of money for an orgasm. Haha

I honestly does not want a thumb up my ass or someone caressing my crotch. I am a prude like that hahaha but whats exciting for me is the feeling thar it may or may not happen and I can do the rest up in my head (my actual head) hahaha 

I'm glad your friend had an awesome time! I bet the unpredictability of the situation made it hotter than the actual deed. Imagine comming in thinking its a clean-no-hanky-panky massage and the therapist is so into you that he couldnt keep it profesh. Haha that's something.

 

Thanks for sharing! It was a fun read!! 

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1 hour ago, reader said:

I can second what Vinapu suggests. If you wish to remain in the Silom area, try Silom Soi Six. You'll find six all-male shops (soon to be seven) and none charge a minimum tip. I was a regular there on last trip and found they guys to be friendly and fun to be with. Don't be shy about discussing your message in advance with the guy who catches your eye.  Some of the shops have en suite showers and all appeared clean and well maintained. One hour oil usually starts at 500 bht.

Saphan Kwai is a good area to explore if you're up to doing a little traveling and walking. In addition to the places Vinapu mentions, KK Massage (associted with K-Man) has a huge stable. One-hour oil 400 with min tips 700-1,000. My experience there says stick with the 700 baht guys.

Good luck!

 

 

Awesome input! I really appreciate that you included the prices. At least now I have an idea if I am they are charging me too much. Thank you again! I will certainly check out Silom Soi 6! 

7 hours ago, vinapu said:

no place will force you to use full set of extras, try one of places in Silom soi 6 , I don't think they have min. tip policy and if they do it will be  at lower  end . Alternatively travel to Saphan Kwai and there you have G-Beat  or Kman right beside station , both with low min.tip policy

Great! This is a starting point, thanks for your response. I will look into it! Will they ask you point blank if you want an extra service to go with the massage? Its my first time here in BKK hence I'm anxious about things that could easily turn south. Hehe

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5 hours ago, vinapu said:

no place will force you to use full set of extras, try one of places in Silom soi 6 , I don't think they have min. tip policy and if they do it will be  at lower  end . Alternatively travel to Saphan Kwai and there you have G-Beat  or Kman right beside station , both with low min.tip policy

Great! This is a starting point, thanks for your response. I will look into it! Will they ask you point blank if you want an extra service to go with the massage? Its my first time here in BKK hence I'm anxious about things that could easily turn south. Hehe

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Great! This is a starting point, thanks for your response. I will look into it! 

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Like, sure I want a massage that is relaxing and a little exciting but not the full on extra service exprience. A massage that's a bit sensual but still a clean relaxing massage. I've been searching the internet for hours now but it seems that the gay-centered massage parlors are already assuming that I want to go all the way based on their prices. Like 1000 baht for the service and a minimum tip of 1000+ baht.. Help! Any recommedations?