I mostly top actually, but of course in a place full of men I'm very attracted to can't help but want to give up the cheeks lol. I did end up paying one guy about $117 usd, very sexy and decent company, we spent the afternoon at a beach club (my treat ofc) but unfortunately he had trouble staying hard even with a cock ring. Told me he would come back and finish the job (I knew it was b.s. and I did try and get him back without paying anymore but no dice) Also, today was my birthday and the cutest Latino boy hmu around midnight after the first guy left (very fit, about 5'1, brown skin, and so very handsome) and gave me my birthday cake, I had a good time, he spoke English very well, completely free 😊 Guess it just takes patience and being on grindr at the right time.