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Day 10 My guy decided to skip the breakfast and in the morning went back to mom and dad. Deluxe Villa doesn’t offer breakfast but next door is small, modern café offering American breakfast for 5 $ so I went there. Did not linger too long , while breakfast was tasty , music was too loud and AC set too low to linger longer. At 9.15 my tuk tuk arrived and we set out for grand tour. First stop – famous bamboo train I already described and posted pictures from in this thread on page 7. My Cambodian Dream - Page 10 - Gay Cambodia - Gay Guides Forum Then some ancient wooden residence , more than 100 years old. Must be popular place with locals as owner was busy guiding tour of what looked like college students. Thing which drew most of my attention was quite impressive collection of Cambodian money with quite a few rarities ( I know a thing or 5 about those things ) . Next stop was Banan temple , ancient structure on top of the hill so requiring bit of climbing. Because today is last day of 3 days long holidays place was crowded with locals , both praying and just sightseeing. Then , closer to the city mountain with Killing Cave and Bat Cave. Killing Cave is chilling testimony of Khmer Rouge atrocities. They were keen to save bullets and other killing tools so people condemned to death were just thrown to the cave by natural opening in ceiling. We are not talking about XII century but goings only 50 years ago. In the cave is memorial – stupa with remains of some of the victims. Mind you , local commander of Khmer Rouge in Battambang was apparently quite humanitarian in comparison to his more devoted colleagues from other regions. Bat Cave on other side of mountain we left for the end for simple reasons. Spectacle of millions bats leaving cave at dusk to , presumably , get some fresh air starts about 5.30. I was one of thousands gathered there. No doubt because of holiday , bat in charge decided to speed up a bit and flu-out started shortly after 5. I’m not big fan of nature, which normally is at it’s best on the serving table , well roasted , but must admit it was fascinating. Fly-out seemed never to end , I was watching it for 15 minutes and it was squadron of bats after squadron flying and flying . After 15 minutes I suggested we can go as no doubt later on traffic to unload the crowds of spectator would be enormous. I was told that it lasts about 1 hour. At the hotel when paying him his fee driver surprised me by asking if I have riels instead of USD. Unfortunately I did not and blamed him directly – why you quoted your price in USD if you wished to be paid in KHR ? After refreshing in hotel I went to the center to eat some , surprisingly tasty hamburger. Had a walk here and there but after such busy day I went to hotel and soon collapsed on the bed , sleeping till morning without interruption. Too much perhaps for old man thought I.

I got it but don't forget I left my guy in the restaurant with his drunken Khmer-American 'friend"

wow, what a dose of hypocrisy !

better to be lost in Cambodia than to lose virginity there

January, July and October, it makes 3 trips. If somebody must feel shortchanged , it's better you then me . You still have a chance but remember I'm not competitive

preferably in separate, subject devoted thread

balm to my ears

hope it's just gossip. What I'm saying ? should say hope it's just fucking gossip. Great bar and most progressive shows in all Thailand . If they close it will be real loss unless closing means relocation somewhere close

take a bus and you wont be stressed. My last two trips from Pattaya to Swampy were in heavy rain and new are , I survived both trips easily and anxiety free, 150 vs 1600

kidding you not, I'm surprised I'm not in the picture somewhere as I was passing by roughly around time you took it .

I just click on my phone so credit goes to Samsung

2026 it's great so far when comes to the items you mentioned. Three trips to Thailand and region and no end in sight with another trip already planned for 2032. Two out of them unplanned, first spoon almost broke my left arm trying to force me to come in July and then 18past19 almost broke my right leg trying the same in Oct. extremely happy I succumbed to the force ! I found few great boys , in fact on almost every trip I find a gem about existence of I was not aware previously. Some of them sadly turn disappointing on subsequent trips but it still leaves me great memories of original encounters. As for comparisons - I'm not competitive and don't feel shortchanged is somebody had even more fabulous trips then me, 2026 seem to be for me Year of Cambodian Boys as out of 5 best overall, 4 were Khmer. Negatives - definitely steady rise of airfares - my October fare was 38.46 % higher than my January one. Most unpleasant situation- losing wallet, literally hours before taking off for October trip but that generating pleasant one after return as it found a way back to it's it's rightful owner with no financial hard in between. Travel highlights - being able to return to Uzbekistan after 49 years and to Hungary after 37. Most sensational meetup - Olddaddy at Schatzi's. Most sensational occurrence - myself steadily, trip after trip , becoming big fan of Jupiter , bar for years I did not like and visited max once per trip. Most disappointing - reverse situation with Tawan, my most favorite for half generation and now, thanks for relentless tip request pummelling bar I try not even to pass by, not to mention enter. Most puzzling - encounter with one mentioned above Cambodian guys. In my notes made morning after I indicated 5 stars, rare happening . Still can't recall what was so fantastic but hey, if I need to trust somebody , it must be myself first. so many boys and still lesbian, life is mysterious indeed, sigh and smile

+1 I'm also big believer in that advice, Chicken with cashew nuts , too spicy for one , it always will be too bland for some other and other way arround

in strictly monetary terms yes but what about entertainment ? Massage spas are very utilitarian : enter, choose, deed , pay , good bye while in bar one can linger and have fun for few hours. I for one still like bars and I'm willing to fork out for their offerings. Actually you post made me missing Dreamboys , even if , like emiel's, it not one of my most favorite bars

future site of garden of earthly delights Deluxe Villa and it's pool my bungalow Battambang Central Market waterfront on busy Sunday afternoon this dish was not wasted

train at Phnom Penh station first class car first class seat of first class passenger view from front of train Pursat station

most likely although it was discussed before we ordered anything and I disclaimed I don't eat seafood , two out of 4 dishes were seafood. One thing is sure , I did not go bankrupt as it was not expensive place , aimed at locals , not tourists but still some food was wasted which I don't like , specially in poor countries where chances are many people go to bed hungry.

Day 9 At 5.30 am , phone started making noises so I did quick refreshing, prepared some coffee, finished packing that little I carry and walked to train station 10 minutes away. Few words about Aurora Delight hotel , not really luxurious but for a price certainly adequate. AC and shower worked , they provided a kettle but not tea , coffee, sugar , water etc. Location was clean and quiet despite it being very central. Safe worked but it was probably few years ago. There are two trains leaving in the morning , 6.40 to Battambang and 7.00 to Sihanoukville so it pays to make sure one boards proper one. Once inside , I was impressed. Thore were refurbished former Hokkaido Railway carriages and certainly both classes were quite comfortable with 1st class being very comfortable. What I liked the most was , at least for those seating in the first car, ability to observe tracks train was rolling on. All in all very pleasant trip. Was not very packed but considering that is was 2nd day of 3 days holiday it was expected , whoever wanted to go went already and returns will start tomorrow. On few provincial stations on the way there were bilingual banners clearly indicating that if one plans to board train at this station should buy a ticket from website or call given number to inform crew train should stop there, wow! Mid way train stopped at Pursat , we were clearly informed that stop will last 10 minutes and in front of station were few stands where we could buy some food and drinks. I treated myself with 2 fish cakes at 1000 riels a piece and they were surprisingly tasty. Can of Coca cola - 2000. Interesting 6.5 hrs , we rolled into Battambang station about 10 minutes late greeted by few remorks and taxis but since my hotel was close I just decided to walk there as a mean with acquainting with the area. My hotel Deluxe Villa was collection of bungalows with small pool in the middle of courtyard . Room very spacious with full sized refrigerator and bank sized safe which unfortunately did not work. You may recall that I was hoping certain guy from Phom Penh visiting his parents in the area will join me so I sent him message I’m in the city. Answer was fast and clear ”I’m so happy, are you coming here or you want me to come to you “ Opted for 2nd option and he promised to be here at 6 pm Shower and I set for a walk, City center was about 10 minutes walk, quite pleasant with river bisecting it. Interesting architecture of central market although I saw cleaner places in my travels. Certainly pleasant place but with certain provincial feel, Siem Reap feel more metropolitan in comparison and no wonder with those hordes of tourists. Upon returning to hotel I arranged driver for sightseeing tomorrow – I did not want to keep my guy for the day , let him enjoy his time with parents. He arrived as agreed at 6.p,m and I must say it created some buzz in the hotel – super hunk visiting old crippled troll, WTF ? you could see in eyes of receptionist and maintenance guy. Those knowing smiles will be accompanying me for next 2 days, even if I will maintain celibacy. I was hoping we hit the sheets , at least for a while but my guy had other idea, he wanted to go out to eat and drink so off we went. He found quite busy restaurant on other side of river, we got the last free table. I ordered , what else? Chicken with cashew nuts, he took advantage of occasion and ordered 4 dishes and I don’t think he eat more than half of what they brought. This happens quite often in Thailand and Cambodia and I’m not fun od such waste but kept quiet . It was still fun with lively atmosphere, chatty waiters and live music. I must admit it was good idea of his to come there. At one point , after few hours situation become bit awkward as another oldie appeared, obviously well known to my boy who asked if that guy can sit with us. Sure , why not. Guy turned up to be Khmer from California. Was already quite drunk and certainly very possessive. It did not take long before it was clear who is third wheel here and it was me. So when my guy said he wants to stay bit longer and have few drinks I opted out, paid for what we consumed so far, told him I will be waiting in the room and walked out. It was interesting as it was dark, I was in area of the city I never visited before and still found my way to hotel without any problems. It was great idea to do that walk as I sobered up a bit and not long after I arrived , my guy showed up. He told me other guy was too drunk to he packed him to taxi , ordered another one for himself. I was glad to take back possession of what was mine, he, he. He got his share of drinks and as result was not very active but did not mind at all of me being more energetic and it was exactly what I was looking for. I’m glad my plot to see him in Battambang worked.

They are free to do what they want outside of bar and working hours but fact is , it was clear prospective guy lost his enthusiasm upon learning I'm just upstairs. Perhaps he did not want anybody from bar to see he is entering or emerging from hotel , no matter what time - just my guess. Due to language barrier we couldn't discuss issue at depth

I agree with you that it's disgusting but mamasan's main job is to get off for the boys by whatever means she seems fit I guess. I noticed few times that buys were grimacing when she was groping them but at end of day it's up to boys to assess her as despicable , productive or anything in between. Why I'm saying that ? at least two boys from there I know said they like her and Freshboys is noy my hunting forest so my statistic sample is small and still ...

tonic ? My favorite drink is 74 % of gin and 26 % of gin

Wat Ounalom busy with worshippers in the morning Tonle Sap meets Mekong evening cruise

Day 8 Quite pleasant morning weather wise, feels like spring , very un-Cambodian weather at least for few hours. Taking advantage of the pleasant air I took long walk to a train station to buy ticket to Battambang for tomorrow. First class 15 $ , 2nd class , only 10$. Of course I opted for the First ! Due to holiday morning surprisingly quiet, walking to my favorite restaurant Dolce Vita across Silver Mount hotel I started having feeling it may be problem to eat this morning. All restaurants on the street were closed. Only busy places were temples as people went there to pray for dearly departed parents. Finally , across Wat Ounalom , in the small mall I found western style bakery which was opened so I could get a tea with sandwich. Not exactly very tasty but at least expensive for Cambodia. Then walking by Kandal market I spotted barber and went to get my long planned haircut. Stupidly I did not ask how much so he charged me 20000 (5$) , most I ever paid in Cambodia was 3$ and had haircuts there for 5000 ( 1.25). Still that 5$ is about 1/3 for I’d pay at home , if that little so no complains. Happy Holiday barber ! Upon return to hotel I packed and checked out at noon. I moved to Aurea Delight hotel in Central Market area, idea being I can walk to train station tomorrow morning to catch my 6.40 train. I got room immediately and feeling bit sleepy after last night at Space I actually did the laundry and fell asleep till at least 4. That served me well as after waking up I felt I’m back to full health after last few days being quite so, so only. At 6 pm I took sunset river cruise , always pleasant undertaking in Phnom Penh where two mighty rivers -Tonle Sap and Mekong meet right in front of Royal Palace. I had some meal aboard abut as usually with those meals aboard, not particularly tasty but at least I got filled with something . Walking back to hotel I bought some provisions for tomorrow’s train trip, 2 cans of Hanuman Black beer being a must. At 9 p.n. I took Bolt to Space bar, if only to see what serious holiday means for business. No customers at all and only one balding guy there. Got him a drink, gulped myself two and that was weekend evening in the bar. Few customers showed up when I was ready to go so at least opening made sense for the bar. Not that I was surprised as boys yesterday told me that there won’t be staff tomorrow ( means today). 4000 remork to the hotel and off to bed but not before setting alarm for 5.30 am

neither of you is a gentleman I venture to suspect

have fun you both !