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vinapu

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  1. not so sure. Shy people may find it off-putting. Normally in bar one can see this guy is smiling at me so may be interested in meeting , that one is clearly avoiding my eyesight so better to leave him alone and other one has blank stare, so better don't engage him unless his look is stunning. Test I apply in Jupiter is tipping guy red note during walkabout and watch his reaction during second one or when they are on the stage. If there's trace or even broad smile , there's chance. If he still avoids my eyesight , better to leave him alone. Painful was when one short-lived crush actually made grimace from the stage which I read as ' fuck off you old troll" or something. But that brought benefit - one less to chase
  2. that makes you local and locals have much more access to information where fun can be had than tourist on 3 days lay-over. In my city before advent of apps and social media boys of fun used to congregate on very unassuming side street downtown , not far but definitely not in gay area. One wouldn't find it by chance as there were no single bar, restaurant or store there and that was brilliance of the place - deserted of passerby's even in a broad daylight. I second Kuala Lumpur is worth visiting and when I was 3 years ago there was Grindr and I was even kind of stalked by guy who seemed to stay in the same hotel . Since I had local guide , I have him a pass, lol. How we landed from Africa in Malaysia in one thread? That's beauty of this forum shortening distances it seems . Oh, I know. Olddady led us there
  3. management idea is that it is customer who is supposed to make first move , not the boy. It's why they seem looking distant during their walkabouts and it's why it suddenly changes when you invite them over
  4. from my experience fact of having girlfriend / wife and /or kids not necessarily affects boys performance. Quite opposite , at least those with dose of responsibility realize that good service may mean good tip and coveted repeated business. One of quite well known guys told me outright that his new girlfriend doesn't mean him working in men's sex business as long as he brings money home. I leave aside question of how straight really some of those boys are. Sadly I sensed that some of otherwise very nice and personable guys with children are not exactly good fathers and cringe when asked how their offspring is doing. In some cases it may be because mother is blocking child's contact with father but some seem not to care much. For girls chasing wrong guy fully knowing that he is no good , I doubt it is endemic to Thailand. It happens everywhere and stories about that appears quite often.
  5. I'm surprised too as they are available in 99% of 7/11 in Bangkok , always where refrigerated drinks or food is. But there they are in bit different wrapping - white and blue , without the snake. They have more use than just providing refreshing and I always make sure I have at least two in the room, just in case there's need to wipe some residue after sinful activities . Boys seem to like it too.
  6. Even if boys looks were always superb , for years I did not like that bar and I was quite loud about that here on the forum , mostly owing to disinterested look of most of boys. Now I'm big fan , more or less for the same reason - I like to be left alone while in bar and Jupiter seems to deliver that too. And boys start broadly smiling as soon as you invite them for a drink. My last offs from there were all between perfect and excellent
  7. I watch those clips too and can tell one thing for sure - they are not necessarily current so if you don't see boy there , don't assume he is absent. On the same token , if you see boy there ,don't assume he will be walking again today as clip may be few days old , if not more. How I know ? Own experience , seeing boy on the clip whom I saw logged on Grindr in Pattaya few days already. Suspicion reinforced when one of my friends reported travelling with one of their boys and I saw guy in question ( boy , not my friend) on most recent clip. Also show boys are quite often absent from the clip as they may be preparing for the show at the moment.
  8. Yes, September in my month of patience
  9. for sure he is but certainly has more pressing issues of reuniting with Cam and settling in than updating us here. I, for one , am waiting patiently for an update
  10. it looked more that just a drizzle but what one can expect in September in Thailand ? rainy rain
  11. all that food is nice but what about boys over there at Ko Samui ? or you become lesbian which happens to me from time to time too but cheer up, it's easily curable. I found that one of 7/11 musts is to size up guys working there
  12. only animals are drinking water
  13. with snacks I'm 127.64% with mauRICE and if I need one , which is quite rare I opt for fruit, red dragon and mandarins being my favorite . ........... thank you for pointing out Mansome drinks , somehow I never noticed them on the shelves , not that I look for cold drinks in store , other than beer and ocassionally... ....... indeed canned coffee, specially when I'm walking a lot
  14. what about IQ ?
  15. I can confirm, tip for one of their boys was quoted as 2500 for 1.5 hr. When I spot him on Grindr and asked what his rate is , response was 5000 for 1.50 hrs for hotel visit
  16. specially that there are more user friendly, cheaper and non-invasive ways in Thailand to enlarge, at least temporarily , one's dick
  17. lets wait for reports from those recently arrived or about to depart if indeed there are problems or just scaremongering
  18. what bar she is from ?
  19. not me. I carry diving licence with me as a mean to identifying me something should happen. I have passport on me only when absolutely and positively necessary i.e. taking flight or exchanging money
  20. just to be clear , when I commented to your post I meant " both do suck". I hate both but my favorite cold drink is hot tea which may explain why
  21. we are talking and jimmie50 is flying in meantime
  22. taking ARL while cheapest option not necessarily means bad one - all of us probably were stuck in Bangkok legendary traffic
  23. while probably you are right I must say that in my almost 40 trips since Swampy opened I can't recall single issue of problem with ARL other that occasional crowing which may happen everywhere

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