vinapu

I think you are spot on with that assessment . All of your activities together are initiated by you and he just plays along. Having quiet time at home he ensured that some of that time is for his pleasure. Often when outside with boys we forget that whether we like or not , they are playing unintended second fiddle for pure financial reason. Waiting for us to buy them something doesn't do much for their self esteem. I learned that lesson form quasi boyfriend I took from Pattaya to BKK in Jun 2015 when noticed that he takes pleasure if I let him to go to cash register and pay. It was still my money but it was him who was paying, small ego booster I guess. Ever since quite often when with boy I let them to settle a bill / and keep a change, LOL / By the way , that boy also had chosen whey protein jar as a parting gift .

good for you! Happy sunburns !

somebody in charge clearly doesn't like trees and shade

Always when looking at the mirror put your glasses on first

nothing stops you from taking your own advice but others will be better served by reading and applying PeterRS's suggestions above. Nothing personal here as I wouldn't even go near boy who could pass for younger than 24, not my department , not to mention that I don't supplement my memory with pictures of people I meet.

you forgot to take your chilling pills this morning?

we would be better served if you try to calm the waters instead dousing more gasoline on the fire. Watching too many horror movies recently ?

that's very unfortunate. One would think that gays are gentler part of humanity but is seems to be wishful thinking at the moment by what we can read on the forum

Abdismaili, Khortose gave you a plausible answer already

While your experience is zillion times bigger than mine, I'd wouldn't be that extreme and I was dealing couple times with boys extremely reliable including even one who knocked to my door at 10 p.m. on the dot as he promised day before.

I find this gossiping beneficial as well and recall quite a few cases when boys briefed about me by their friends went that extra mile / going long time with customer for first time ever, reducing their tip request after consulting what I paid last boy etc. / Some of specific are very detailed, one of BBB boys was briefed what side of bed I prefer and admitted to being instructed that he must shower with me because I like that and informed that he will be invited for a breakfast in the morning. Another Arena boy was told not tu turn TV in the room without asking me etc. So if we think we are kind of unknowns while entering bar or massage it's not always exactly a case.

Welcome to the forum Perhaps you did not execute Vinapu's rule #1 - always pick up only guy who smiles at you or at least tries to make an eye contact with you ? It also helps to talk to boy , not just a mamasan who may tell you what she thinks you want to her just to land a deal. Sorry to hear your experience there was bad but don't get discouraged easily. For me it's between Senso and Arena which place is the best and I'm not excatly born yesterday when comes to BKK massage places.

no, find soi Twilight and visit as many bars as you can squeeze to make your own mind what you like the best out of 6 bars there. Show you looking for may not be performed at present at Dreamboys but Try XBoys ans midnight show at Screwboys on the Patpong side / opposite from Soi Twlight across the Suriwong /

keep in mind , there's also your own country where you can be asked where you are coming from , what you did there and can we please see your camera / phone ? One may have a lot of explaining if they found some pictures of boys who may be 24 but to officer's eye may look 17 like many Asians

have fun in Pattaya and don't forget about us

perhaps that was the whole idea

you both are on the roll with your advises in this thread , 110 % agree with you , leave whole thing to the pros.

BurBoy is not a bar boy. I second what samebb said above , in bars you meet real people in 3 dimensions and nothing beats having ability to get closer to your intended off. Like Rush of Bangkokbois blog fame once exclaimed ' placing hand on boy's leg is responsible for more offs than all mamasans and smiles together".

what about the boys ? Worth trouble of getting in ?

somebody needs to do the cooking I guess

that the good news By the way , are you planning to treat us with trip report? No pressure , God forbid, LOL

+1

so it looks Scooby's cooling heads therapy worked

don't worry , Troy and Rome are even older

true, but if you look over 50 in their eyes they still will charge you enhanced , ''over 50" admission