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my impression as well

don't get me wrong. Nothing sinister with having money and good job. What I wanted to say is that world , including Phnom Penh looks differently when looked at from AC'ed car then when taking a sweaty walk through downtown streets where sidewalks are basically parking spots and you walk on the street seeing and smelling how things are for those 90% you mentioned

dark, yes, but unfriendly ? Nothing scary there, just watch some idiots speeding on motorbikes many people are talking about but to be honest I never had such problems walking there

No, not the same case. Moonlight was and still is my favorite bar although, shock of shocks, it looks Jupiter starts elbowing it out in my heart and soul while Sunee Plaza never was my favorite place exactly for reasons you you described above . But when Good Boys were there , it was fun to visit. So next time you are in Pattaya try to see boys at NighClub but if you don't , don't feel that you trigger my wrath, lol

former Tawan boys were known for way of answering question 'do you kiss ?" , more than once answer was simply planting juicy kiss instantly

from my experience it may require some work and/ or bargaining but those rates are still achievable. Last year I had bar boy also freelancing on Grindr to laugh me off with plan 'no' when I suggested 1500 but still few minutes later message came 'where your hotel?" . Smart move as I gave him 1000 more at dismissal simply because I liked his performance a lot. ........ they do. They need to couple good looks with business acumen and as necessary condition they need to like us to some degree. I always recall Tawan boy called Boss from pre-covid time . When I asked him in the morning " did you get some sleep? " he answered matter-of-factly " no, but you don't pay me to sleep". that left me with only option ; to ask him ' are you coming tonight again ?"

tell me something I don't know

no wonder as this is princely sum fort massage in Cambodia. I had guy asking me 100$ for overnight and it was followed by quite a litany of apologies why he is so greedy. You must have fun seeing Cambodia from inside of family life but indeed you were kidnapped and while pleasant for sure, your vacation seems like being overtaken by their agenda. Your hosts are obviously well off so what you see is far removed from reality of still very poor country Cambodia is. Hope you managed to release your leash and do some sightseeing not to mention visit at least Space Hair or Toolbox bars. Watch your waistline with all that food they make you consume

because it was not. If he made his family living in some shack with no water and toilet in the woods because he couldn't afford anything better due to his love for new cars , that would be "stupid, unreasonable or weird".

too bad ferry from Pattaya is no longer running. It was 2 hours only

likely ransom was declined

all of them horny

Daddy , this is not Grinder , this is serious forum

On longer trip one can afford going days or perhaps weeks without sinful activities while on shorter trip we may consider it waste of time so spending per day is higher

That's too politically correct. We may understand their motives but if other people are doing something we consider stupid, unreasonable or weird, why stay silent ? One of my cousins recently commented that I should save some money instead of constantly travelling somewhere specially since I fully retired. With cold eye such comments makes sense but .... my response was " look who is saying that, guy who just bought Jeep Cherokee only to use it to go shopping and once a week to church plus occasional funeral" which was taken with full understanding that we are both stupid and enjoying life each in own way.

being low maintenance it's how I gather money to spend on boys

at end of day I don't blame them . with exception os bar stars most of them really need money NOW , much more than after tomorrow

I did not know Mr. Lehrer but this very quote made me missing him, God let Him rest in peace

I suspect that is a case with 98% of members of this forum

when I was returning from one of my trip border officer ( they are pretty nosy here ) asked me how , being pensioner I can afford travelling so often and that was my answer " I never had a car " , not exactly true in my case but he bought that explanation without blinking an eye

That's always the case of successful time together although on vacation sometimes we need to make hard choice - do something we travelled there for or , for sake of peace, compromise and look for something we both enjoy at expense of our own pleasure only. In Bangkok I can skip Grand Palace or Mahanakhon if that doesn't suit my companion but not nightly visit to some bar.

let him have it. With USA and China involved in talks things should quiet down soon.

those two ships so far did not sail off at all so he must wait patiently. If he gets Nobel Prize for that , I hope it won't be shared with Putin and Netanyahu,

good for both of you. 24000 is quite a sum. It's good to show a man a good time but even better if he will try to do the same. Hope that was your case. On margins of your comment I have one unrelated: it's consider common wisdom not to drag gogo boy to another go-go bar as he may not like an idea to remind him how he looks while on the stage. On my last trip month ago I had no less that three different boys who actually suggested they want to go to bar to see the show and based on reaction , enjoyed it

I adhere to this advice and what I noticed is that while compensation part seems to be adhered to, when comes to living arrangements , not quite , even if it was clearly settled. I always make disclaimer that if I bring another boy for that time I like to be left alone and undisturbed and room vacated until alarm is called off. Still had cases , I recall at least two, one of them quite recent , when it created offence and even triggered penalty from boy in form of sleeping dressed that night ( guest came during day).