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I don't even consider this good manners, it's simply in our best interest to keep our boys happy particularly for those of us who like long term offs as opposite to more business like " you cum , I go " approach. We are usually handsomely rewarded if we show we care, is not about good sex only. One of memories I cherish is when boy woke up in the middle of the night to answer nature call and on return to bed not knowing that I'm awake kissed me and whispered " I like you". Had he said "I love you" I'd likely laugh loudly but this was moving moment for me.

Often before we enter bar or restaurant I give them some money and let them pay a bill. It's fun watching waiter's reaction when I push the bill in boy's direction and boys seem to like it either, particularly part when later on they are giving me a change and I tell them 'keep it '. Letting them to choose venue is not only important for reason you mentioned but also not all of them appreciate food we are fond of and some are uncomfortable in restaurants which they consider farang's territory.

quite a built, I'd like him too. Looks very kissable and lickable You are right, sometimes it pays to be adventurous and arrange for meeting without any preconditions just to see what happens. It can be great fun to try to convert top to bottom or other way around even if attempt will not work at all.

Taking it word for word you are correct but at times I have an impression that those labels are loosing their strength from being overused. Once during party I commented unfavorably on quality of Jerusalem's tap water and for that I was called anti-Semite by one of guests. No, neither of us were drunk. So I guess we need to reserve using big words for suitable occasion to avoid an inflation IMHO

with BoyzTown around the corner? It's day dreaming and I know you guys have very long day at this time of year in Scotland

I'm Bangkok fan and was in PTY only once / two days last year / , staying at Le Cafe Royale. Will return for 3 days at end of year to Le Cafe again. If staying longer would move to another hotel for another 2-3 days, likely in Sunee area. I was not that impressed with Pattaya at first glance but it was actually you or anonone commenting on my thread who asked me to give Pattaya a chance so I decided to follow advice and return.

hope Thai's economy fame as being "teflon" one will prove to be accurate. If junta will avoid any first page antics like arresting people for reading '1984' there's hope tourists will return. I, for one keep my plans for Dec firm, hell or high water, but having personal experience of living under military rule certainly helps not to have any illusions but not no get scared easily as well. Since troubles started last Nov we had steady stream of visitors posting here and no one's vacations were affected by them. Sure if one is coming strictly for sex shows in soi Twilight those plans are ruined for time being but is easy to arrange substitution in our own rooms.

Very funny post NIrish, I guess more alcohol than homophobia was at source of that incident as under influence people are getting more outspoken. Your reading of said sign is likely correct as too often we / all visitors, not just gays / forget that private moments are supposed to be left for private settings. No, you are not selling your your gay soul for a familiar food in Pattaya as I don't see any issue here, gay acceptance battle in Pattaya and in fact Thailand is largely won battle as far as visitor sector is concerned. We need to remember that some people criticising homophobic businesses in the second breath don't see anything wrong in their ranting that there are too many Russians or Arabs in the Sunee for example. No I'm not pointing it at anybody and I'm not of either nationality but at times I wonder if people ready to boycott " no queers welcomed" business out of conviction would be equally calling for boycott of place with ' No Russians / Arabs etc. / welcomed' with the same fire.

it looks both you and a447a had a best of luck recently in Pattaya, congratulations !

Since you are in Bali try healthy late night lifestyle - take tour for climb of Batur volcano. It's done at night so you can see sunrise from the top. Done last year and I'm still smiling at memory. I like your levelheaded look at your relationship with the boy. Both sides are doing their part and both are always happy, if boy is smiling all the time I'm sure you are too. I don't think you will ever be in position to post here how you were disappointed with boy and how he cheated you like some of our esteemed contributors in the past.

It may be an issue and is one of reasons on every trip I 'm changing hotels every 2-3 nights. Not that I care what people on verandas and bar stools are thinking but at times boys were complaining about being tipped less that boy I had yesterday so obviously telegraph was working. But for couple days stay any place in Boyztown is nice for me just to soak in the atmosphere. Not many places like that in the whole wide world. It's actually very good that people have different feeling about the same thing, keeps everybody busy and life colorful.

While I understand why people are treating themselves with nice hotels on vacations personally as long as hotel is clean, A/C and plumbing works and is close to main attraction and transportation it works for me and I'm glad not spend too much on such a qualities. I like your note that boy would feel uncomfortable being stared at so even if we don't care about us being stared it's nice to remember we are not alone.

and probably telling him final good bye on departure home as well...

I wouldn't mind to hear what you did not like about Ambiance / service . room size . noise, etc.? / as I was thinking about it for my next trip.

stats are telling what our contributors noticed as well.., I found readers comments to this table interesting too.

I'm sworn butterfly as well but after a447a post in "five days to go " thread about his experience with boy he bought 'device' for and how much joy having steady companion was , not to mention bar hooping savings in monetary terms and now you showing sign of weak knees I started thinking that it may not be that bad idea to have somebody warm and permanent for length of stay. No disappointments , no need to chase luck , known quality are all pluses . As long as one keeps his head cool, feet on the ground and hands firmly on his pockets it may even be worth trying. Let me think about it. Enjoy your adventures and thank you for keeping us updated.

quite possible not only you record every meeting but some boys do that as well and it's why he was so fast with answer

if Cafe Royale was sold I hope new owners will honor all reservations made previously and hotel will still exist in Dec.

I agree with your comments about Potato Famine. It seems that we humans have short memory and often forget about our ancestors suffering and also their sinister deeds. Many mass murderers from deep past now we call Great and built them statues. But this is another story. As for our thread if that was sign Shamrock had placed it changes whole perspective and I will not be faulting them for this kind of discrimination. No place in that area would like be know as gathering place of young boy's, . likely they meant ' too young '. "admirers" and their prey. And probably none of us would like to be seen in such place either. As this sector of "entertainment" was decimated or went deep underground no need for sign anymore and there's none as williewillie noticed.

Our discussion here on this thread attracted attention and found it's way to popular bangkokbois blog as Sunday Funnies #80. Link below. I recognize even part of my own post. I sense that in his opinion some of us are not principled enough, I'm not being sarcastic just stating fact. It may be valid point but again discussion of how much tolerance for enemies of tolerance will have no end. IMHO in reality of Pattaya where one can be gay in the open those battles are not worth fighting, just ignore homophobic businesses and let everybody and his brother know why and who they are. It should work - I passed several times by the Shamrock last November and did not notice any notes we are talking about so it possibly worked out already. In a sense, owner of then place adjacent to Boystown would be very brave to keep such notes posted, imagine note in soi 6 ' " no unaccompanied ladies allowed " http://bangkokbois-gay-thailand-blog.com/2014/06/29/sunday-funnies-80/

It's nothing to laugh at firecat, this contribution of yours really helps local industry, after all chances boys spent tips in multinational hotels or restaurants are none. They will eat locally, smoke local cigarettes and invite their friends for Mekhong whisky not Balvenie or MacAllan.

sooner hotels realize that good internet is as crucial as working A/C better for them. Even if we don use one this should be available 8 days a week / 25 hours a day. I guess they took Michael's custom for granted, hence sloppy rush to fix trouble

did you look into mirror when posting ?, just curious

sounds like me, massage in the morning, longer one in the afternoon and nightly visit to Soi Twilight either with boy already arranged or to pick up one

I think it says it all, as long as he tried to create rapport one can't ask for more, usually it works and even if sometimes not I'd still be leaving happy knowing I got my money worth and plus. I found over the years that more experienced boys know better what buttons to press but newbies are more enthusiastic so whoever I choose I'm winner somehow. Your report confirms again that when comes to service HERO boys are hard to beat.