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I am now over 70 and overweight. The only people who might possibly want to have 'free' sex with me look like me and I am just not interested in that. So if I want a cute 20 year old who is willing, perhaps even keen, to have sex with me (top or bottom) these days, I am going to have to pay them. And that is a price I am happy to pay, even if it is only for a few weeks a year when I am back in the warmth of Thailand where the opportunities can seem limitless ! Paying for sex usually means that each gets what they want out of the encounter! 😅

For me at least, this is as good a Trip Report as I have ever seen on this forum. Great writing style, humerous and entertaining; sexy without being smutty. Happily following now .

In Boyztown, naked show boys appear in BBB, A Bomb and XBoys, but in Dream Boys, Toy Boys, Classic Boy Bar, etc there is usually not a cock in open sight. In Jomtien Complex, currently the nearest you get to public nudity is perhaps late night in M Bar where the towel dancers and other show boys can occasionally get a little careless (again with tips and drinks to encourage such carlessness haha) It is really only poor old Sunee Plaza where, in their two remaining agogos, Winner Boys and Nice Boys, boys can get fully naked on stage (suitably induced by tips and drinks of course). But long gone are the days when Sunee's many other bars had fully naked boys parading about

Closely trimmed front, fully shaved ass 😋😋

Check out the possibility of threesomes! I was surprised to find that one of my regulars had the hots for a couple of boys who also worked in his bar. He jumped at the chance to have an excuse to lure them into the room with us, one at a time. Worked quite well both times. I was happy to take the lead in directing interaction between the three of us, knowing full well what this regular lad of mine liked liked. He was super appreciative afterwards. I had started by asking my regular lad which of the other boys in his bar he fancied, and he was also asking me who else l liked. I had been seeing my lad over several trips and he knew that I was talking about experimenting with him rather than looking to replace him! 😅 Will only work in a minority of cases I suspect, but it has to be worth the ask!

It varies hugely for me. Shortest is the simple transactional sex that is often to be found when taking boys from, say Hornet. They arrive at the room knowing they have a job to do and once the job is done they are off. 30 mins to an hour perhaps? With my regulars things are usually more leisurely, relax and chat, a swim in the hotel pool perhaps, and quite often going to eat together afterwards. 2hrs + (often ++). And, depending on how 'busy' they are with other bookings, they might come out drinking and dancing with me well into the night, in which case I might top-up my normal 1.5k ST fee with another 500 baht before they actually go home (I am paying for their time as well as use of their bodies! hahaha) Then there are the 'new boys' that you meet in a bar, and drink and flirt with for a while before heading back to the room. They are new to you, and you are new to them. Each sizing up the potential, and desirability of the other for repeats. So some can prove just 'shag-and-go' one-offs, while others will linger and try and turn in a good performance in the hope that you will want to see them again.

Thats what I tell the boys about me! 🤣 If they want gold then go for old(ies)!

Yes Pikky Bar is probably the cheapest in BTown, but I think the boy drinks are more expensive than customer drinks (in Toy boys they are the same I think - equally expensive!). And while Pikky is a good place to sit out front and watch the world pass by, it also seems to be a retirement home for money boys past their prime! 🤣 Although one or two gems to be found

Sadly boy drinks in most of the bars in BoyzTown were currently mostly within that 240-300 baht range (September 2024). Four drinks in Toy Boys, for example, was in excess of 1,000 baht. Nice Boys in Sunee Plaza was also around 300 baht. Jomtien boy drinks were still in the 150 baht range. Notwithstanding those prices, if a boy comes to sit with me for a drink and makes an effort to flirt and engage with me, then I usually give them a tip (usually 100 baht) in addition when I leave; more if there was any hands-on activity between us. I can understand why so many now choose to take the risk and find their boys on the Apps., when you can actually spend more money looking for the right boy, than actually paying the lad for sex later!

My typical holiday is 21 nights, occasionally longer and I try and have a succession of room visitors, mostly as singles, but often as threesomes; maybe a couple of afternoon/evening short-times and usually a long-time. I try and 'perform' for each, but consider myself lucky if I can manage to 'cum' once a day. But I am getting older (71) and my energy levels are not what they once were. If I try and squeez in two ST a day, then I try and ensure that with one I will top and the other I will bottom. With my long-times I either just cuddle and sleep, or arrange a threesome where I can play until I tire and then watch the other two go at it until they finish. Not everyone's style I suspect, but it works for me and makes up for the months of lonely celibacy back home between trips. So as to 'days off', well I try to have none, but tiredness/tummy troubles ususally conspire to enforce a 'day off' maybe once a week. For those days I revert to paying a boy 'cash for cuddles' or even just nurse/house boy for the day. I do plan 'short days' when I am back in my room when the bars close about 1am, but I try also to include some 'party nights' when I take a few friends clubbing or to karaoke. But I am finding that I can physically (and financially) manage less and less of those.

I have a small group of 'regulars' that I try and see every trip. Lads that have given me great sex, and/or warm companionship and/or are fun to take out to the clubs etc. There are one or two key members of that group, others on the fringe that drop out or who are, for various reasons replaced. They are lads that I keep in loose contact with in the long months back home and who I am really looking forward to hooking-up with again on my next visit. Notwithstanding them, I also love visiting the bars and 'interviewing' new boys, looking for that spark that makes my tired old cock stir, getting them back to my room, and seeing how we get on together. Some prove passing ships, others I am keen to see again. Over many trips I have yet to find the one lad that can make me foresake all the others (old and new), although I get very close to, and get very fond of, one or two of my group. But I am only a holiday visitor and probably behave like one; perhaps if I was to spend longer living here, or even live here, then 'the one might' emerge?

Given that most bars charge almost as much for soft drinks as they do alcoholic ones, there should be less pressure perhaps on the boys? I regularly stick to soft drinks until, say midnight, when I may have a couple of beers. So I have no difficulty at all with the boy drinks I buy being soft drinks, the boys still get their commission and often seem quite grateful that they are not being pressed into alcoholic drinks. However, in places like Stonehouse or Sinlapin, or one of the many other late night (mostly Thai) clubs, it is usually the Thai customers themselves wrapping 100 baht notes around a shot glasss and handing them up to sigers/dancers on stage Of course once you hit the karaoke bars later on and the whisky bottles emerge, then all bets are off! 😂 There the whisky drinking games (rock, paper scissors etc) can get boys very drunk very quickly. But in 25 years I have never experienced spiked drinks.

Well at least they are using condoms! 😂

I have yet to visit Boyfriend Karaoke, but it will be top of my bucket list next holiday. I am a fan of Karaoke bars in Pattaya. Yes they can be expensive, but they can also be such huge fun, especially if you take a small group of boys with you to share your whiskey. Most karaoke bars are geared up to female (and Ladbyboy) customers, but gay customers, there to spend baht, are almost always welcomed, and many boys will be happy to be called down and will happily flirt with you and your boys to varying degrees. THey are almost always straight boys, but quite a few will be prepared to be 'gay for pay' if there is baht-a-plenty on offer. Over the last few years I have had some amazing boys from Karaoke Bars who are prepared to do almost everything back in the room, although a very few will bottom. Sometimes 1:1 with me, sometimes 1-2-3 with by boyfriend. Just depends on which boys you call down and how you get on with them. I have found the boys of Diamond karaoke the most gay-friendly so far, but there again I have not tried Boyfriend Karaoke yet! When the main boy bars close, Karaoke bars await you for as long as your money and energy last out. If its not already daylight when you emerge, you haven't been doing it right!

A few years ago I went for an oil massage on Second Road and was directed onto a matress in a big room and curtains drawn around me. At that point I had no idea who would do the massage. The shop employed mostly ladies but with a number of ladyboys and boys. In the end it was a cute young Cambodian boy who drew back the curtain and came to do the massage. He directed me to get undressed and lay face down on the maaasage table. A small thin 'modestly' cloth was draped across my bum. At this point my gay experiences in Pattaya were very limited, but this lad was seriously cute, had an infectious smile and a reasonable basic English. His massaging around my bum were already reaching parts down below, and when he told me to turn over my erection was there waving at him. He simply draped the small modesty cloth over my all too obvious 'tent-pole' and proceeded with the massage. He brushed against it once or twice and when I suggested he 'take care' he claimed he couldn't, but refused with a smile and a chuckle. Captivated I was back again the next day, and this time on turn-over and he patted my cock as he put the modesty cloth over it. Again he said he could do no more. The next couple of days passed similarly his hand resting on my cock a second or two longer than perhaps necessary as he pulled the cloth over. The first 'breakthrough' came when, after me complaing how horny I felt, and him again saying no to a hand-job, he this time said it was ok if I relieved myself as he massaged me. Sounded a bit odd, but as I was a horny as hell I did just that as he massaged around the tops of my thighs brushing my balls as he did so, and he then used the modestly cloth to mop me up when I had finished. The second breakthrough came the next day, when on me offering a 1k baht tip, he did actually give me a successful hand-job. And further massages again this holiday continued similarly. Next holiday we resumed, and a further breakthrough. For an enhanced tip, not only would he give me a hand-job, but he opened his trousers, dropped his pants and allowed me to not only return the favour, but after some hesitation allowed me to give him a BJ to completion. Then, if either of us were taking too long to 'finish', a well-oiled 'magic finger' came into play; first knuckle, second knuckle and then, eventually, the whole digit. Took me ages for him to give me access to eat his ass (yes on the massage table as well!), but he absolutely grew to love that particular little extra (he should have been paying me! haha). Two years later and we were by now having unashamed short-times in my hotel room with me fucking him! The wonder of that is that he always claimed to be straight (has a wife and children). Even now, (and yes I do still see him pretty much every trip) we not only have short-times but even occasionally sleep together. Looking back, though, for me some of the very hottest, horniest moments were within that curtained mattress area, and the will he do this today, or won't he do this, frission between us.