I met this Thai guy back in November, and we’re due to go travelling together in a couple of weeks. The plan is that I apply for a DTV by September, and he’s also talking about eventually moving in with me.
The long-distance relationship since November has been quite difficult. I sometimes feel like he isn’t fully honest, even about small things. I also don’t really feel very loved by him—for example, I often send him what I think are affectionate or sweet messages, but he rarely responds in the same way. I realise this could potentially be a cultural difference, as this is my first time dating a Thai man, but I’m not sure.
He also goes out at night quite often with friends and is usually unreachable when he’s out. Given perceptions about nightlife in Thailand, I sometimes worry in the back of my mind whether he might be cheating.
I feel confused and unsure about the situation, and I’m trying to understand whether my concerns are valid or if I’m overthinking things.