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I got rid of it for you. You inadvertently typed in the code that produces it. You typed the letter B followed by a semicolon ). That produces the smiley. I changed your semicolons to periods.

For me, the most embarrassing kind of fart is when you didn't fart at all, but your shoe somehow rubbed the floor, producing an almost identical sound. Have you ever noticed that you can never get your shoe to do it a second time? Now everybody thinks you just ripped loose with a loud one. Why are we discussing farts anyway? "When you fart in an elevator and only one other person is in there with you, everyone knows who did it." - George Carlin

"You know why God put a smell in it? So deaf people could enjoy it too." - Redd Foxx

As far as I know, the only people who have the access necessary for removing posts are GayThailand and me. Neither he nor I removed any posts. If anyone's posts are missing, feel free to re-post if you wish.

That's just what I would do if I were you.

Did you see the pinned thread about possible site disruptions while servers are being changed? If any posts are missing, that's why. Nobody removed any posts.

The following appears in THE GUARDIAN: _____ Turkish Girl, 16, Buried Alive for Talking to Boys Death reopens debate over 'honour' killings in Turkey, which account for half of all the country's murders Turkish police have recovered the body of a 16-year-old girl they say was buried alive by relatives in an "honour" killing carried out as punishment for talking to boys. The girl, who has been identified only by the initials MM, was found in a sitting position with her hands tied, in a two-metre hole dug under a chicken pen outside her home in Kahta, in the south-eastern province of Adiyaman. Police made the discovery in December after a tip-off from an informant, the Turkish newspaper Hurriyet reported on its website. The girl had previously been reported missing. The informant told the police she had been killed following a family "council" meeting. Her father and grandfather are said to have been arrested and held in custody pending trial. It is unclear whether they have been charged. The girl's mother was arrested but was later released. Media reports said the father had told relatives he was unhappy that his daughter

That's precisely what I have been trying to say.

Yes it does. Many thanks. If you get a chance to talk to the same group, ask them what "zeed" means. I see that one all the time too.

Neither do I. That's not my complaint. My complaint goes toward those who condemn smokers because of their clothes. For example, lvdkeyes complains about being seated next to someone whose clothes smell of smoke and he has no way to move away from it. What is the smoker supposed to do about it, keep himself locked away at home? I'm certainly not willing to do that. There are all kinds of annoyances that can happen when one is in a public place. Unpleasant odors is one of them, but by no means the only one. I've been stuck next to people who have terrible body odor, the guy who falls asleep next to me and thinks my shoulder is his pillow, the guy in front of me who reclines his seatback as far as it will go when there is hardly any room in the first place, the guy at the window seat who wants to get up every two minutes but won't trade seats. Do I need to go on? There is all kinds of rudeness out there. That's the way it is.

I think the religious fanatics cause more harm and misery in this world than all other causes combined.

I didn't say anything is wrong with it. Don't misunderstand. I only meant that I think you are a very sympathetic person. It was meant as a compliment, not a put down. But I think you are wasting tears when it is for a phony baloney. Yes, I cry at movies too. My tears usually start to flow as soon as I see the ticket and popcorn prices . . .

I was fortunate enough to see it on Broadway with the original cast. It must be 20 years ago by now. It's a terrific show and well worth seeing.

I don't see it that way. I don't see anyone saying anything to indicate they would intentionally smoke where others would be subjected to it. The closest exception to that is Xian, who wants to at least be left alone about it in his own home and certainly does not appreciate someone grabbing the cigarette out of his mouth. It works both ways. Some say, "Why should I be subjected to the stale smoke odor of your clothes?" On the other hand, I could say to one of the complainers on this thread, "Why should I be subjected to the sight of you manhandling boys, in full view of everyone, in Jomtien Complex?" I have the option of looking elsewhere. He has the option of sitting elsewhere.

The following appears in THE NATION: _____ The Gay Story that's Real By Pawit Mahasarinand Special to The Nation February 5, 2010 'The 4 Sisters' begs to show the honest side of life on the other side In this prolific year of queer theatre, "Chan Phuchai Naya" ("I Am a (Wo)man"), Dr Seri Wongmontha's adaptation of Broadway hit "Boys in the Band", is currently running at Aksra Theatre. Later in the year, Scenario will stage the Thai translation of another Broadway classic, "La Cage Aux Folles", at Rachadalai Theatre. In between, a much smaller production, "The 4 Sisters" by Life Theatre, has no television stars in the cast, and is receiving less attention from the media. But it's worth our attention and attendance because it's the only one of the three that's entirely based on true stories of Thai gay people. "I have many gay friends and know that what we're watching on TV and in the movies are not the true representations of them," says director Bhanbhassa "Khru Ning" Dhubtien, who was last year acclaimed for her title role in "Nangfah Niranam" and her staging of compelling drama "Water Time". "Most frequently, they're comedians on screen, but I want the audience to have a chance to look at them as human beings. And so I asked Shogo [Tanikawa, Life Theatre's resident playwright] to write a play based on the true stories and experiences of three gay friends [who are also professional actors] - Apirak 'Yo' Chaipanha, Sun 'King' Tawanwongsri and Setthaphan 'Graph' Sernthaisong - whom I'd like to see share the same stage." The play is set in a cabaret bar, which is going out of business after 30 years. Khru Ning adds, "Although the play is generally classified as a comedy, has quite glossy PR photos, as well as some entertaining cabaret performance sequences, we also show some true problems these gay characters are facing. One of them is having trouble showing his true sexual identity in his office - he just can't step out of the closet. Another is getting older, sick, past his prime, and about to retire, without any family member to take care of him. And the last one is a wannabe who's trying his best to become a star of the show but after many attempts not succeeding yet. "The play started out as 'The 3 Sisters', but then Shogo suggested we should have a woman character so we added this character who's the daughter of the bar owner. It's to be performed by Heen [sasithorn Panichnok, a co-founder of Life Theatre whose performance in films 'Chandara' and 'Talumpuk' made her famous]. Another straight character is a Karen waiter, portrayed by Shogo [who's Japan-born and Thailand-bred]." On screen, some actors have delivered great performances of gay characters and are prone to winning major awards - Tom Hanks in "Philadelphia", for example. Kru Ning, who teaches acting and directing at Chulalongkorn University and is a permanent member of New York City's Actors' Studio, comments, "The audience may be more excited, perhaps, if we cast straight actors in gay roles, and it can be a selling point. I don't look at this issue in that perspective though. In this case, it's these three gay actors' own stories and I think it's fair to give them a chance to portray them as who they are, not as comedians." "The 4 Sisters" is already the third production from the 10-month-young group Life Theatre whose three core members are the playwright Shogo, the director Khru Ning, and the actress Heen. "I used to have this kind of small theatre troupe when I was working in New York. I think it's practical and fruitful and each and every one knows his role and work accordingly. Shogo and Heen worked together and I like their chemistry and the work that came out of it so three of us formed Life Theatre last year, and it's working smoothly." "The 4 Sisters" will be the first production at the new Blue Box Theatre, a studio space at M Theatre - a praiseworthy vision of Dreambox's artistic director Daraka Wongsiri. In fact, large and small performance spaces sharing the same roof is a standard practice in theatres and performing arts centres all over the world, yet not common enough here. "Daraka is very kind in renting this new space to us at a very reasonable price. It's also a little larger than the other two spaces our previous two productions were in [Crescent Moon Space and Makhampom Studio]. It seats about 70 people, so it's very intimate and fits the setting of the play. We'll get enough audiences to cover the cost, and don't have to perform as many shows as when we're in smaller spaces. Plus, audiences already know M Theatre, so it's convenient for them as well." Good news for our English- and Japanese-speaking readers, like in all plays by Life Theatre and productions by Shogo, "The 4 Sisters" will be performed with Japanese and English subtitles, making sure that language is not a barrier to enjoy contemporary Thai theatre. Details "The 4 Sisters" opens on February 19 and runs until February 19 and again from February 26 to 28, at 7.30pm, with additional 2pm matinees on Saturdays and Sundays. The venue is Blue Box Theatre, on the 2nd floor of M Theatre (New Petchaburi Road), with free parking at nearby Manoonphol Building. Tickets are Bt350 (Bt200 for students), bookable online at http://www.BananaBooking.com, and by calling (080) 2600 7716. Check out http://LifeTheatre.webs.com for more details.

I'm with Xian on this one, although I don't think I would have tossed a cup of coffee into the person's face. Why waste a good cup of coffee? But if someone had done that to me anywhere he would have quickly realized he just made a big faux pas. If it occurred in my own home I would keep my coffee, but I would also immediately show him where the door is and make sure he uses it.

Well, you seem to be the only one who did. GT, I'm surprised you still have difficulty spotting a troll. You usually sympathize with guys like this, which is commendable, but at least save your sympathy for someone genuine, not an obvious phony. He hasn't violated any posting rules though, so until he does he still gets to post. I have a feeling you cry at movies. Go to see "Taking Chance." At least you'll cry over a true story.

He could also ask for more . . . a lot more, more than one would be willing to pay. You wouldn't be having that discussion with your second or third choice. If it backfires, that's the end of your first choice. Also, it has been my experience that the money boys couldn't care less about the luxury hotels, expensive meals, travel costs, etc. As far as I can tell they have only one concern . . . how much money they'll make. In my opinion, I think someone prepared to make this kind of offer already knows how much he is willing to give the boy. Obviously he knows he will be spending a lot of money on the entire experience and the money for the boy is a part of that expense. I think it would be a mistake to start negotiating with the boy over how much he'll get. I think it is best to simply explain what you want, what you expect from the boy, what your offer is, and let him take it or leave it. Believe me, he'll take it.

By the way, normally I would never allow personal attacks, but I don't consider "troll removal" to be personal attacks.

No posts indicate that anyone is angry . . . just amused that you actually expect people to swallow this nonsense. If you no longer wish to post on this board, that's your decision. Now run along, have a good cry, and we'll see you around. In fact maybe we'll stare . . .

I don't know why I am even posting on a thread about social skills when it is obvious that I have none . . .

That's quite reasonable. 1000 baht per day will likely be acceptable for a long-time stay such as you propose. I would say 1500 baht per day is certainly more than enough. Also, make sure he has pocket money each day so he doesn't have to come to you for every little thing. I think you are already know that in addition to what you're going to tip him, you are responsible for all his normal expenses while he is with you. I always advise giving him the tip at the end of your stay, when it is time to say goodbye.

I agree. You have no reason, at least no reason that makes much sense. If you have psychological problems, and whether your posts are true or not it's obvious that either way you do, then the next logical step - go to a psychologist. In case you hadn't noticed, I'm not the only one around here who thinks you're full of baloney. Also, I'm not going to delete your posts. What did you expect when you wrote them? For someone who can't handle being looked at, you sure seem to enjoy calling attention to yourself. If GT wants to delete your posts, that's up to him. "The bigger the lie, the more people will believe it." - Josef Goebbels

"It's not that I'm so smart. It's just that I stay with problems longer." - Albert Einstein