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My first gay experience was in a massage center back home, and its a gay one that is tucked away and hard to find too. That makes me secure, and i usually goes during the day, lunch hour or after work but a bit early (4-5pm) where there is usually less other customers around. For a truly discreet experience, id say outcall to your place or to a hotel room would be the best,

I believe the bar wont let this issue jeopardize their entire business, especially when they are quite hidden away in patpong rather than soi twilight. If its true that the mamasan and even the bar intend to scam client, wont be long before people start to avoid this bar and stick to bars that gets good review. If its just the boy that act on his own, the mamasan/bar should take action or similar thing will happen as well. Customer will just go to other bars. I have yet visited this bar, but based on stories here, im having a mixed feeling. Probably will still go for the late night show that most people here recommended, but probably wont be offing anyone unless the boy is super hot that id take him anyway even if he is a dud lol

Though why on earth he went out soaking wet in the middle of shower is confusing too lol

One more reason i can think off, back home, if u want to work in this kind of business, there is always a mafia/gang that control the business, and they can always resort to mistreat, abuse, asking huge amount of money etc by extorting the fact that they know where u live and where your family is. Maybe i watched tv too much but its not far from truth in some countries

Money and its practically legal to do this sort of work in bangkok/pattaya. So more customer, higher income, less worry about police etc. and there are many who prefer to work outside the country so people back home wont know that they did this "universally shameful job", higher chances of meeting people they know in their own country.

I once saw a old drunk japanese being rude in a bar too, and promptly escorted out from that bar

Exactly. Though i can understand people wanting a privacy for doing the real businesses lol

My guess is the bites u got will last for a while, maybe a week or so, it might be worsen when it got irritated by say heat or clothing rubbing against your body. And a link to a website that seems to agree with this https://www.terminix.com/blog/bug-facts/how-long-do-bed-bug-bites-last

I believe u can have your luggage and everything inside shrink wrapped at the airport. Probably that would be enough.

One way to think like them is to imagine would we as a gay guy, desperate for money, would go with a girl and if we do, would we be able to perform and enjoy our time with the girl?

Funny that you mentioned animal world vinapu, since if you go to parks or tourist area where there are animals around, for example temples where monkeys lived, u can see multiple signs that prohibit us from feeding those animals, mostly to protect them from being dependent on tourist for food instead of finding the food on their own. So similarly, i go with that principle for human too, gives them something for doing nothing, and theyll come back for more, and do it frequently enough, theyll be too dependent on that easy way to get money

Such a shocking news indeed. Very sad to hear such news. Makes us realize how fragile human being is and how we should make full use of our life. I am sure lurker had done exactly that, and not letting his health issue getting in the way of having fun in bkk till the very last minute. Wish his family members has been properly notified. And to think that he did recorded his last few days here, he will be forever remembered.

In my language we have that saying but a bit more specific, goes in right ear, goes out left ear

Stay calm as bed bugs while gross and nuisance, they are harmless and doesnt carry diseases. https://www.webmd.com/skin-problems-and-treatments/guide/bedbugs-infestation Hope the link above will help you out further. For back home, if u believe they travelled with you, u can always call exterminator to get rid of them totally.

Im not size queen either but need one that is always hard, otherwise ill move to the ass lol

I have had several very severe heartburn attack even though im still in my early 30s. Had them since my 20s. Ive googled few remedies and stumble upon apple cider vinegar mixed with honey. Work wonders and the results was quite immediate too. Just 2 tablespoon acv with honey to taste, and filled the mug with water. Drink after meal (lunch and dinner) i did them for 1 week straight and the heart burn and burping gone. Making them is a nuisance if you are travelling so when im travelling, i just take gaviscon with me, not really ideal but its a great quick fix.

If they follow real japanese onsen or spa, then it is always has separate utilities for men and women. And if its not gay, u better watch your manners lol

Yup, mono, herpes, strep, some food related viruses, and the risk is higher if someone in the mix have open sore or ulcers.

There are so many other diseases that could spread through bodily fluid, cold is one of them but so is hepatitis B.

Ive visited eden spa twice during my stay there, took different masseur each time, both session was great. Will definitely go there again if im in town.

My last exp arranging to meet bot directly works great actually. 1. I already of the boy directly from bar, so its a repeat off so to speak (twice) 2. I didnt arrange the next meeting during the first meeting, in fact its about 2-3 days gap in between. 3. In all three meeting, i still include off fee since i took the boy during his working hour, 9-10pm. 4. The boy can speak good english, have a smart phone, and motorcycle for transport. All 3 offed was in 3 different hotel, and all i did was text the boy sometimes after lunch to ask his availability that night, and text him my location using line share location about 30min-1hour before the promised time. In both cases, he arrived exactly on time. I dont arrange for afternoon meeting because he says he has day job to attend to and i wanted him for long time anyway.

I noticed similar thing paul, the boy usually put some money there when they were offed.

You are right that i would like to think that way just to make it easier for me to let it go. As i said before, only if the reason the theft happens is due to my carelessness.

Im guilty of both. Never been to babylon and dj station or any other dance club or sauna for that matter. I have been to sauna a few times before, once in my home country and the experience have been mixed. I did enjoy my time in sauna in tokyo famous 24kaikan and osaka houkuken though, its full of guys with lots of action, great facilities and one of the cheaper option for sleeping too. But my experience in alexander in HK is a bit boring, and being denied entry to hutong was also a bad experience. But, reading christianpc blog on all the sauna in thai which some of them have special shows intrigue me actually. Maybe ill visit those sauna some day, just for the show. Just the fact the show time is random annoys me a bit lol. I do agree that babylon is a bit far from most gogobars and public transport, which also my one reason for not going there yet

Yup, not alone lol, and nothing worse than whole office gossipping about my night boy haha. Hence it will remain a fantasy everytime i spend my night alone in a hotel lol