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spoon

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  1. Not sure if i wanted the mamasan and waiters there undressed lol
  2. Dont fret. Im a believer of second chance and if you are open to take him again, he will remember that you tip him well and most likely will perform much better to compensate. But then again, i will reserve this for those guys that i really like but our first encounter was not as good as i hope. Almost always, my second encounter was better, and many times they become my regular. U might caught him in his bad day, or he is also trying to learn what you like and not. They arent mind reader so first encounter can be awkward. The subsequent encounter can be more rewarding especially if you tip well the first time despite it being less than satisfying.
  3. I enjoyed my chiang mai trip very much. Hope you will too
  4. One of the massage place just posted in line that they are open tonight. Another one posted the masseurs pics post with a black and white color
  5. Then u just need to find a horny bottom who found a room or mattress and put their ass up lol
  6. If he does it outside, he probably can keep all the tips to himself
  7. Mamasan there uses laser, u just point to the boy u want and mamasan will call him for you.
  8. Surely someone who pays 23k for a night in capella can afford that no?
  9. Sorry to burst the bubble, but mamasan told me joey only goes with girls.
  10. Im sure its the case as she already planning another trip next year
  11. Nope, suablack. He is in the one championship. His next fight is at lumpinee stadium but tickets already sold out for that night lol
  12. There is one muay thai fighter that ive been following in IG. Would love to watch if he ever fight.
  13. Do you know if he is returning to working back in jupiter or elsewhere?
  14. If i were travelling with someone i know and trying to create opportunity to venture out late night, i would "retire" to my bedroom early too.
  15. Just came across this in IG. Only open weekend nights with shows. Anyone has been there can report?
  16. Alight at siam station to change to silom line to bang wa.
  17. Cat meat is expensive. But common among poorer section?
  18. spoon

    September

    Someone told me this wise word, money you dont spend is not yours yet. How true, but doesnt mean you should spend like there isnt tomorrow. It just means if you die tomorrow those money will go to someone else.
  19. Thanks for sharing this! I never heard of these type of shows available in pattaya. The only one ive heard before, and similarly, targeting chinese lady and tour group is the pattaya cruise show, which is quite heavily marketed through social media. Is the male performers (i know you mention which have the good looking ones) has decent muscular build as well or typical lean body? Or twinkish?
  20. Thats about 5.5k baht a day. As a comparison, im quite sure i spend 8-10k a day during my travel, though my trip is more of a week at a time.
  21. Happy to report both nation has agreed to a ceasefire. Even more happy that it happened in malaysia https://www.reuters.com/world/china/thailand-cambodia-agree-ceasefire-malaysia-pm-2025-07-28/
  22. Geez, so many to pick what to say. Luckily, most people here already says a lot so ill try to cover what people havent said yet. First. No request of money by text when you are at home, but keep complaining about no customer. For me, if the guy is one of my regular guy, thats something i would appreciate to know. But since you've only took him once, so if its were me, id be put off already. Even guy who i took once, but kept bugging me daily to come to his bar, would make me think twice revisiting him on the same trip lol but this is just me. Like @ichigo mentioned above, why settle with one guy when there are so many choices in bangkok? Second. Requesting to spend a day with him for 5k. Not sure if i miss anything, but from reading your post, he asked you to spend a day with him for 5k, or did he asked to spend your whole trip with you for 5k a day? Or did he just mentioned his day rate is 5k and you assumed/ or you yourself wanted to take him for the whole month? Anyway, why i asked might have something to do with his refusal to negotiate the rate. If he is the one who asked you to take him off bar for your whole trip which is a month, i figure he should be more willing to accept a discount. I dont want to go into how much money is worth the rate for hin as i know nothing about him and his quality of service and i dont think all guys in the bars should only charge a fixed rate, regardless how popular they are. You yourselves should be the best person to judge how much he is worth for you, or how much you are willing to pay him for his company. If you were the one that asked him about staying with you for the whole 30 days when he brought up the daily rate topic, then before he even want to think about accepting lower rate, he probably think about all the things he need to change, any plans or future customer who already told him they are coming, or maybe a trip back home for a sister birthday he might miss etc so his 4k a day request might be what he think the rate that is worth all the trouble. As you say, he is straight, so spending a month with another guy might not be his first choice, despite the money, unless the money is worth the hassle.i suppose? Third. Did you go further in details with him what does staying for a whole day really means? Basically the arrangement. How many sex a day? What is your plan for the day and the night? Will he need to pack his clothes and basically move in with you and stay for the whole month, or he is allowed to go back to his apartment daily? Seems like petty but i think this discussion is important to have before i even consider taking someone on a long term hire. Usually if its my regular, a lot of these questions i already know the answer to, and he probably already know what im expecting of him too, so my discussion will probably more on logistical things during daytime. And by having this discussion, you could see his reaction on your demands and plans, and can probably see if hiring him all day long term is a good thing or not. Going straight to negotiating rate for me, is a tad forward and seems to tell him that he cant do anything to earn more, just what you are willing to pay. Lastly, all the behaviour you see after you insist and 2.5k and him at 4k, i see that as he already gave up on the idea of you hiring him daily, in fact maybe even for you to continue to be his customer, so he just taking as much as he can before he bails, or you bails, whichever comes first. If you still want him, he would just stick to that 5k overnight rate you gave him. If not, at least he already extracted as much baht as he can from you so he can move on too. To him, why stick to one customer when there plenty more to come. My advise, only do long term hire with someone you are already comfortable with, and have hired few times overnight or have taken a short trip once or twice before. And be clear with your expectation when hiring him longer term. And on the price, if both of you cant arrived to the same agreement, move on. He clearly did. I know we want the boys to understand our logic of bulk discount but im sure he also has some doubts that there will be all smooth sailing for the whole 30 days so that 75k you consider as guaranteed income, for him, might not be guaranteed as he only knows you for merely 1 night and one short time before.
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