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spoon

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  1. spoon replied to 12is12's topic in Gay Bangkok
    I wouldnt count my own drink as part of the cost as thats considered ticket for the show. 3500 is a bit steep but cosider the hour you get to spend with the guy, in bar (groping and kissing) and back in hotel ( can be as short as 30min or as long as 2-3 hours) Bar fun with guy will be the price of his drink 500, and off fee wouldve been part of his tip if you didnt off him. Massage are restricted to the paid time, usually 1 hour, and even then sometimes it can still end earlier. Another personal consideration of mine, easiness to get a long time deal. Not so easy to get it from massage guy, they work all day and would prefer to sleep at night. Much better deal as well for overnight.
  2. Could it be he was ordering for you to eat as well? I know some boys are doing that and have to say to him only order for yourself when i order. This was the case with one of my regular before, because he thought i would eat as well so he took around half, expecting me to finish the other half.
  3. The Math: 2.5 Bottles of Soju is a Massive Amount of Alcohol People often view soju as a "light" drink because it is lower in alcohol than whiskey, but they forget to look at the total volume consumed. • The Soju Intake: A standard bottle of Jinro Chamisul Fresh is 360ml at 16% ABV. Drinking 2.5 bottles means your friend consumed 900ml of liquid at 16% ABV. • The Whiskey Equivalent: That total volume is equal to roughly 11 to 12 standard shots of 40% whiskey. • The Cocktail Comparison: Most standard bars put 1 to 1.5 shots of whiskey in a single cocktail. Therefore, your friend drank the equivalent of 8 to 12 whiskey cocktails over the course of the night. If they don't usually drink that many cocktails in one sitting, they simply went way past their actual limit. Asked gemini to do the math. No wonder cam passed out
  4. I will miss out of this since i cant stand the smell of cigs lol
  5. Even after reduced tip last session, he still wants you (or your wallet). If its not because of you not felling well, would he land another off, i wonder? Hehe
  6. Things are getting serious now if the brother is asking you that direct question. I have no clue about cam's history with relationship and bringing someone meeting family is definitely viewed as something serious. Glad that cam is on the same page with his family and with you.
  7. Two guys in a day. Not slowing down at all hehe
  8. Definitely new. Havent seen the label before. And it also confirm my preference to meet guys in person than pictures. Couple of them i swear gave me gay vibes but turn out str8 and vice versa lol
  9. Never took any of them. But first guy have been coming to KL few times and asking rm600 for a session. Last guy on the list ive seem him in grindr around silom few times.
  10. spoon replied to MarkNY's topic in Gay Bangkok
    Yes, kissing and discreet fondling is ok as far as i know. But that doesnt mean it happens often. Even rarer for me lol.
  11. spoon replied to MarkNY's topic in Gay Bangkok
    If you already aim at one guy, yes. But if you want to screen through 10 guys on stage, itll be an expensive night having each of them sit with you for interviews.
  12. spoon replied to MarkNY's topic in Gay Bangkok
    I guess if you are comparing western type strip bar, it is not the same. And in most western strip bar, strippers is not prostitute. I can say bars like Gass is more of that concept, inviting famous gogo dancer to perform in the bar for the masses Most of the bars we talk here are a front for a brothel in western countries, where you literally can ask the mamasan what do the guys do and dont and size of cock, etc. you pay off fee to the bar to take them off to your hotel or short time room nearby. Yes 100 tip is 3 times higher than 1 dollar u dispense at strip bar. But my 100 baht goes to a guy i might want to take home later. It shows my interest, and i can also check if he returns the interest. I can also do more with a drink, which will cost more but he will sit with me shirtless for a while until he finish his drink. But for a quick check, 100 is worth the investment for me. And if i buy them a drink, it can be as simple as just talking to know each other, to dealing with a short or longtime arrangement, and/or having fun in the bar. Usually nothing obscene, just discreet fun, kissing, hands roaming undershirt/short etc. nothing exposed Also strip bar, private dance will cost you 30-50 bucks for one song. Short time (30min-2hour) is 2k-2.5k here.
  13. Here its HJ, BJ, FK, FS. In Indonesia, its pijat plus, and plus plus lol
  14. Is this also the coveted thai ways of taking care that westerners are coming to thailand to find as well?🤔
  15. If you already have grindr installed in your phone, no issue to access it. Yes can also use vpn but i dont use vpn but can access it with only minor dns setting. But yes, u cant find grindr app in malaysia's apple store or google play store anymore. So grindr user here has seen a steady drop. There is a workaround that work for apple phone before but i havent pay attention much since im not using apple phone
  16. Previously, resetting the phone to factory setting works. Of course you will need to backup you phone before doing this.
  17. Hah, the yolk is literally chicken ovum. Hehe.
  18. Do you eat chicken egg?
  19. Your tenacity with the life in rural cambodia is commendable. I for one would have been miserable. Glad you are taking a rest now in siem reap but also glad you survive and seems to be able to live in the farm house without internet. Wanted to comment on the request to contribute for the parent, but honestly I have no idea how it is in cambodia and their culture for the holiday pchum ben. I can share my own experience in malaysia but it might not be the same. Anyway, i used google ai to ask about it and the answer seems to fit what Cam is giving and what is expected from foreign boyfriend. Usd200. The same amount expected from child who work overseas. As a comparison, asked the same about a holiday in malaysia and AI answer is lower than what i usually gave my parents. So its really not helping lol
  20. When i was with a regular guy that came close to this, I would imagine a life with him in the future. Yes, relocation was an option, mostly seeing if i can bring him here instead of me living in his country as Im still working full time. Alas it didnt go further than that. It would be a different story if im retired or close to retiring though. I consider myself very picky even when it comes to hiring from bar. Those who pass the test to be a regular are a few, and those who i want to spend time more than the night are even less. But I still enjoy the chase just not as often and would always prefer tried and tested guys over new ones unless they are "ideal" type. It work well in Thailand, especially Bangkok, where my Ideal type are sufficiently available. Back home, there are fewer and much more expensive...
  21. Thanks for the heads up! Alas its been a while since ive been to pattaya so i havent meet him for a while, and he is now attached lol
  22. Not to pry but would the local guy who you are down to date with will factor in your decision between the two? No need to answer if you dont want to.
  23. Ah, then there might be a "hoping" that this short term fling might turn long term once you are here, fully settled in retirement?
  24. No need to say sorry at all. You are enjoying a hot guy in your room, twice. How is that boring? Lol. And it seems that your first round lasted until near sunset? Wow.

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