Everything posted by Tomcal
-
Moving to Florida
So the past 4 days i have been in Fort Lauderdale Florida looking for a house. A couple reasons I’m looking here is because 1) it’s No Income Tax State 2) it is only a 1-1/2 hours from my home in Merida Mexico 3) Is is about a 5 hour shorter flight to Rio/São Paulo then Los Angeles. 4) i am finally retiring and 5) I have a lot of friends here in the FTL area!( and there are 50,000 Brazilians living in FTL/Pompano beach area)! one problem is the So. Florida market, like the SoCal market is overheated right now with most home receiving multiple offers their first day on the market! Yesterday i was with 2 friends both residents here, and we went to look at a home and as we were walking out a car pulled in the driveway and the guy yells out “i can tell this will be a party house!” I thought who is that? It turns out it was a good friend of mine from San Diego who as also looking at homes as he is moving here too! (he ended up putting a offer in on that house!) We then went to another friends hone who invited us over for cocktails, who has a incredible 4,000+sq ft house on the Beach just south of FTL! The 5 of us sat there on his rooftop deck and i was really starting to fall in love with the area! I found a house i like a lot but there is a number of logistics to work out yet but i am hoping it works out because i really do like the house! So the reason i put this on the Latin American board is because of the various bars/strip clubs we went to, a majority of the guys working there are Latins! Many Brazilians, El Salvadorans, Puerto Rican’s, etc. the best place with the most guys is Johnson’s in Wilton Manors! Years ago i used to go to the Boardwalk a lot!(the last tine i was there was 2013 with OZ!) it is a shadow of its former self, IMO!! most of the strippers should have retired 20 years ago! there was one hot latin guy about 22 and the rest could have been his father! they still have the restaurant which was ok, but we stated at the club maybe 15 minutes so to be fair maybe more guys arrived later? l
-
20 years of Memories
For the reasons Floridarob gives as well as Cancun/Plays del Carmen/Tullum have a younger overall age group and much more rampid drug use vs Merida!. there is a reason that Merida is considered the safest city in The Americas and Cancun not so much!
-
20 years of Memories
- 20 years of Memories
I have been to Brazil 3 times and mexico twice in the last year and feit as safe is i did in SoCal with the precautions being taken in both countries! although i was probably most nervous in Cancun(not in Merida)!- 20 years of Memories
It’s a ongoing thing! Heck He calls every evening to me and never say never, but i think the chances of getting back together are less then 10%- 20 years of Memories
:-) What can i say? i love Brazll!! My next trip there will be in August!- 20 years of Memories
Initially i didn’t think sauna life would last this long as i started going to the saunas just when places like the Gaiety and Stellas in NTC and Numbers in LA were slowing down, but culturally Brazil was different how they viewed them! they were busy and in fact had 6 saunas in Rio around 2005/6. today both Rio and São Paulo each have 2 to service a metro area of 9 million and 23 Million respectfully! Economics certainly are playing a big part, so the short answer i see them surviving for the next 5 years just because of economics! there are and will continue to be a lot of young Brazilians out of work! Actually cities a lot smaller then Rio or SP have 2 saunas!(Porto Alegre, Belo Horzonte, , Salvador are 3 examples). As far as quality goes that is “in the eye of the beholder”! Certainly Lagoa would multiple Gorgeus guys on any night 15 years ago(and some are still there just more wrinkles)but there are still stunning guys to be found! if i could have shown the faces on the photos i posted i think you would agree! This trip i just got back from i found a stunning guy at Pointe and was told by the owner that was his first night working and he was amazing! I admit that 5 of the guys i currently see there do not work the saunas or online. They have regular jobs and see me when they have free time to meet up and they do cost about $50,r more then the sauna guys, but to me they are worth it! Sorry for the long reply!- 20 years of Memories
Yes i really fell for the dentist i mentioned and it does get complicated for several reasons! He had gone to my home in Mexico 6 times with me over the last 2 years and we actually talked about getting married but i broke up with him 2 weeks ago after getting back from my latest trip to Rio! it was hard but for the best and i do wish him much happiness! Everyone is different and for me the best thing i can do is not being in a long term relationship but rather enjoy the great time Brazil provides! About 2/3 of the guys i see on a given trip are guys i know from previous visits and the majority don’t work in the sauna anymore, so it is more like dates with them! As an example this last trip i was with 21 guy of which 13 were guys i knew from previous trips!- 20 years of Memories
This year 2021 marks 20 years of going to Brazil, usually 4 times a year, sometimes 5. I wanted to write about some of the friends i have made. this is about “boys” i have met that are now men in successful careers! i have stayed in touch with them . 1) A.F. was a guy who at 19 ended up in Rio from the small town a 100 miles from São Paulo. He is gay and became the boyfriend of one of the sauna owners and a year after that ended, worked in the sauna as a “boy” for about a year and then moved to Paris to be a gogo boy with 2 other sauna guys. about a year after arriving in Paris he could speak conversational French and enrolled in college and 1 year ago graduated with a accounting degree, and looks physically like a beautiful muscle god! 2) in 2013 the manager of Mezziniu sauna in Porto Alegre approached me and asked if i would be interested in a friend of his that was Not a sauna guy but needed to make some extra money that weekend? i told him no that usually guys doing it the first tine are not that good or that much fun! then he said why don’t you just talk to him? He is sitting at the bar in street clothes! He was handsome 21 and attending law school the following year! i saw him every trip i made to Porto Alegre! He became a lawyer 2 years ago, i saw him last a year ago, i remember it well because we were drinking and we had sex 4 times that night, the most ever with one guy in one night! 3) 12 years ago i was in Rio and met who i thought was one of the most handsome guys i had met, he was in his early 20’s and told me he was in college and going to go to med school. It turns out he didn’t go to med school but Dental school and is now a dentist in Rio! Dentists are allowed to give Botox in Brazil and when i was there 3 weeks ago he did a session on me and i have to say he did a great job! I met what was and still is one f the nicest guys ever! a year later he joined the French Foreign legion. At the time he was already a black belt in Brazilian JuJitsu and has been living in the FFL base in Corsica and traveling the world with them! he messaged me yesterday messages me that he has put his 4 years in and is getting out finishing his degree in 1-1/2 years and opening a Brazilian JuJitsu school in France! He is going to a international competition in Mexico next year! there are more stories but these mare my top 4 who i have kept in contact with! here are non face photos of the 4- Does brazil follow the 6 month passport rule?
YES!- latest trip to Brazil
This is where it is good do you have friends in high places!! i took my Corona CPR test Friday at the clinic in Copa, and they assured me i would have the results so i could fly back to the states Sunday night! at 11:30am on Saturday morning No results in my email. one reason i picked this clinic is because of its reputation and its profile says it is open 24/7 7 days a week! when i called there i got a voice recorder, so i decided to take a uber and get my results rather then depending on email, i got there at at 2:00 and they are closed! i wasn’t panicking yet as i wasn’t leaving Rio for SP until 3:00pm Sunday but that was just 24 hours away! i tried every number i had for them including a fax but no one responded! Now it is this morning and i drive their again and same result! So i did something i rarely do and called my friend of 20 years Luis, wgmho was the first guy i met in Rio 20 years ago! he was the former BF of Junior at Pointe and most importantly a federal district attorney for the state of Rio de janeiro! Long story short... it took Luis 5 minutes to have my paperwork emailed to me! We had just gone out to a amazing restaurant in Leme two nights ago before all this happened! So i am flying to SP and going to stop in at Lagoa for 2 hours before catching my flight home! As a side note i went to Pointe last night for 2 hours before heading out to dinner with friends and while there were only about a dozen guys there, there was a new guy that was absolutely stunning! we talked for only about 10 minutes before i had to say “let’s go to a room”!! he has a “Gleem Smile”’ nice toned body and a really nice guy with Zero attitude! Afterwards we exchanged instagram numbers and i am definitely seeing him next trip’. Just goes to show you that a Slow night can still be amazing!!- latest trip to Brazil
mBack to my trip to Brazil! Wednesday was a great night at pointe! lots of guys and fun atmosphere! Everyday the Brazilian JuJitsu fighter shows up at 1:00 and have a great 2 hours together but today had to cut a little short, because i was meeting a guy at Pointe at 3:00- latest trip to Brazil
J hi ly is the only month i haven’t been to Brazil, i have avoided it because 1) it has always been the month when schools were closed and families took vacations and 2) it is the middle of Brazil’s winter! but that is variable you can have nice warm days but you can get a cold front rolling in(still it is usually above 60) some of the posters on here may be better able to address this! i was there one year in the middle of August and had Great weather!- latest trip to Brazil
I am at a new apartment as the one i have been at the past 10 years was occupied by the owner during Covid, the new apt is just 2 blocks down the street just before Fame de Amado!(the building that “Smart Fitness” is in, very nice place modern and has two guards at the entrance but no problem with bringing guys back! Wednesday night at Pointe it was packed! i would guess 40% clients and 60% working guys! Thursday night pointe was somewhat filled with guys looking for work! i would estimate about 25-30 maybe a few more- latest trip to Brazil
For those who are coming to Brazil here is where i go for my Covid PCR test to return to the states. there are a number of places you can go, this place has English speakers and you can phone in for a appointment and have the results emailed to you 4 hours later! easy location to get to in Copacabana!- latest trip to Brazil
or it could have been bad sushi which it was as 2 of us came down with the same symptoms on tuesday after our Monday night dinner!- latest trip to Brazil
it is Wednesday morning and yesterday i never got out of bed! i woke up at 6:00am feeling sick! Several of the guys called me and when i told them the symptoms they came over to the apartment with medicine and it worked! about 2 hours later i was feeling like normal again! by 10:00 last night i was feeling fine although i still went to bed and slept a full 8 hours. one of the guys who i have known a couple years offered to stay with me to make sure i was alright i told him that wasn’t necessary but i went to bed and he stayed here and watched TV until 1:00am when he left(he left a note saying i was sound a sleep so he thought it was ok to leave). he left a note with the concierge to call him if i woke up and got sick again! The core group of guys i hang with are really good guys! So that’s why i don’t have anything to report on for Tuesday night at 117 which is their best night! Tonight i am going to Pointe as Weds are their best night! The weather here has been perfect, sunny days and temps in the mid 70’s- latest trip to Brazil
I had one encounter with a friend of his and then ran into thema couple day’s later in the grocery store! one thing led to the next and he offered me his phone number, that.was 2 years ago and we see each other usually 3 or times the 2 weeks i am there ! he is very toned with a 6 pac and muscular arms and legs ...did i mention the big dick he has? LOL- latest trip to Brazil
On October 21st it will be my 20th anniversary of going to brazil the first time! Usually i go 4 or 5 times a year! i think this is around my 92nd or 93rd trip here.- latest trip to Brazil
I got to São Paulo last friday! i couldn’t get the place i usually stay at but found another single family home in the same area which i really like for the many restaurants in the neighborhood as well as the upscale area it is. very close to CGH airport. as well. i got to Fragata at 4:30 , and the new facility is really nice if only people would go there! i stayed until 5:15 and during that time i appeared to be the only client(for sure the only one in the bar and pool area!) I left and went to lagoa less then about 12 minutes away by Uber. and it was Packed! as soon as i got there a blondish/brown haired guy who i met before came up to me. he has a very athletic muscular body and we wasted no time getting to a room. then when i came down a guy who doesn’t work at the sauna but knows me got there, he is another tall muscular guy, i told him that the 6’1”.black muscular stud who i have known for a couple years was coming to meet me and stay at my house that night and would he like to join us?(i knew he would! we left and got back to the house and he showed up about 5 minutes later! it was a instant love connection between the 2 of them! the next morning we got up at 9:00 and they left with the promise that we would all meet again this coming weekend(i go back to SP this coming Friday!). Saturday night i was back at lagoa which on Saturdays it is allowed to stay open 1 hour longer to 9:00 pm , i went for a massage first but it rapidly turned into sex a 1/3 of the way through! when i got back downstairs i saw a absolutely stunning guy, beautiful face, slightly worked out body (gym twice a week type but in good shape since he was only 24! we went up to a room and when he took off his towel i was surprised by his large hard straight as a arrow Dick! it was 9” and thick! the only down side is this guy did not have much of a personality...gee i wonder why? :-). i stayed until 9:00 and then left because on of the guys i had taken to mexico a few years ago was coming to spend the night. Sunday i caught a noon flight to Rio and i was going to go to Pointe when i remembered it is closed on sunday! So i went to 117, i wouldn’t recommend it for. someone as there were only about a dozen guys working although i did find a 25 year old from Bahia who i ended going up to a suite with. i got back to the apartment in Ipanema and there was a message for me that another guy i know that doesn’t work in the saunas but who i was with 1/2 dozen times on previous visits was going to be in ipanema that evening and wanted to know if i wanted to meet! this is one guy i could seriously fall in love with! he is 23 black belt and is at the police academy! and he probably is one of the nicest guys you could ever want to meet! he has a very toned body with a 6 pac, is 6’ tall, and i almost forgot a. 8-1/2” dick! amazing kisser, just a all around nice guy!(he is going to mexico with me on the fall! Today(Monday)i had this guy over that i met a year ago at pointe, it was his first night working and seemed shy! he was but not in bed! he has a incredible body but is very short, but very cute! he came to the apartment this afternoon and we really had a lot of fun! tonight is pointe’s night as 117 is closed- Lagoa last night
I am back in Brazil next Friday for 11 days! it will be my 3rd trip since December. I was going to be in Rio, São Paulo and Porto Alegre but now will skipping POA as it is too difficult to get flights in and out back to Rio or SP without spending 5+ hours for a connection for a 1-1/2 flight! I really wanted to go as i had 5 guys i wanted to see as they have been sending me Videos every week for the last month! i will be in SP the first weekend and the last weekend and in Rio between the 2 weekends.- Sauna 555(old Fragsta)Video
It was re-opened last Friday after being closed down several weeks after their Grand opening over a year ago! This video shows what it looks like now! IMG_1752.MP4- Sauna 555(old Fragsta)Video
It was re-opened last Friday after being closed down several weeks after their Grand opening over a year ago! This video shows what it looks like now! IMG_1752.MP4- Mostrando el Paquete
he is Brazilian, lives in London but travels frequently(in First Class)and is available at a high price!- today in Ipanema
the person that sent it to me is a worker at Pointe, i guess they have fake news ! - 20 years of Memories