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Riobard

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  1. The most alarming phenomenon at this juncture is the female support base’s pandemic of Stockholm syndrome, as if there’s no possible crossable line.
  2. The downvote (essentially a stand-in for thumbs down) is a comparatively ambiguous emoticon. Similarly ambiguous is being laughed at, versus laughing with, or props for humour. The downvote may benefit more from elaboration as it can be interpreted as flat out censorship when often the more appropriate or accurate response is disagreement as opposed to full discord. In civilized debate, there may be some degree of commonality of view albeit within polarization. Take student debate competitions for example. You wouldn’t see eye-rolling, nose-holding, or negative head-swivelling among the opponents. The position platform assignment is random. Agree to disagree yields no points. Even for ideologically based positions the written downvote signal comes across too much as a hostile level of antipathy. Its value is not commensurate with an upvote (ie, like); it’s more negative than a zero sum product. And its background is red, symbolically connoting inflamed bloodlust. That level of meta communication is too emphatic and, on its own, leaves the discussion hanging and the opponent (for lack of a better term) second-guessing. Pretty much a poorly designed piece of crap. Trolls characteristically and lazily ambush with downvotes. Why would you want to appropriate a symbol that may miscategorize you? Cue the downvote.
  3. Nailed it, all over this land, oh.
  4. I had travellers diarrhea like clockwork my first half dozen or so visits, in spite of Dukoral prophylaxis as prescribed at the get go. I did find Imodium could help, particularly if stranded without facilities, but at times I preferred to let all the matter pass through the GI system. Sometimes broad spectrum Cipro. Hydration+++ and pure psyllium husk from Gujarati, but you can buy psyllium in Brazil bulk bin stores. I don’t take Metamucil. Had to adapt to what can realistically transpire sexually at those times. Never really felt virally ill. At all times when douching, only purified water. Even then, boiled cooled and stored for use. A bit of salt for PH balance. Adult full brief diapers have occasionally saved my skin when without toilet access. In subsequent years I seem to be mostly spared the ‘revenge’ and my Depends panties make it back home with me. The connection between precaution and prevention may be specious but precaution is not that inconvenient or labour-intensive.
  5. Au contraire, that’s about all you can do, and do. You seem to want to consistently influence it a particular way and revel in it to boot, as if your identity is predicated on being contrarian, collective anonymity a type of shield within grenade-lobbing commentary. As if you alone reached the epitome of integrity preservation in sex trade contexts and you wish to underscore that you have obtained the optimal standard, emphasizing doing what works for you a flimsy coating of what actually seems to come across as contemptuous. We might consider the prerogative of our unique style as magnanimous when referenced, to the extent it has worth as a general principle depending on the source encouraging it, but for the undercurrent of disdain, Greek chorus style. Perhaps you already possess insight about this and have lock-stepped into crossfire between commentary directed to you and what, granted, is not so illegitimately retaliatory on your part. But the seemingly irreversible circulatory lacks true yield. Maybe I’m preaching to a sacrificial lamb bot diverting trollistic energies.
  6. Riiiiight. Politely and respectfully, not depersonalized, was definitely the impression you gave (see below). Say now, why is it again we need to read over and over again how you do you? Do you want us to tip our hat, reference you, whenever we describe our own, perhaps contrasting, experiences and approaches? Would you scale back incessantly describing the antithesis behind your own interaction? (Rhetorical) FullSizeRender.MOV
  7. How do you use this set of dynamics to your advantage? Let me count a few ways. The glaringly obvious but seemingly essentially overlooked phenomenon as far as influence potentiated upon negotiated transactional aspects is that some sexualized things can happen for free on the open floor, with the related absurd assumption that the buck spared stops there. It doesn’t. I don’t myself pursue that sex-lite PDA; patent foreplay and time-wasting outside of suites is not my aim or style. However, I have a decades-long history of getting off with stripper private dances at similar levels of interaction, even for many years when clandestine orgasms were accessible, with some practice and finesse, out in the open with table dances while clothed. Some of my best protracted shots, in fact. So we see the behavioural continuum ranges from 0 reais, for a range of play that many rightly believe shortchanges the put-upon GdeP manifesting impressive levels of forbearance and steering the loss to programa-level recovery, to 200-300 or whatever 3-figure reais for what is rigidly conceptualized as the only other possible option, as if it’s an unbendable binary. The suite alone inflexibly sets the upper limit? You are restricted to open floor PD foreplay, basically non-complete-sex for free, but the minute you book a key you are obligated to complete sex across the conventional sexual response cycle at a full rate? Poppycock. Balderdash. Sometimes the full prix fixe is what you want and agree on, other times the prerogative for selectivity across appetizer/ main/ dessert, satiated with not much beyond amuse bouche. The latter tasting more typifies lapdance equivalency labour. You may be surprised at what can happen for 100 reais while having ‘non-sex’ with a hot stud in a suite, and at his receptivity to compensation for activity that many soul-crushing skinflints expect for free. Myself, not taken aback by inevitably blowing my load each time. I can take or leave full sex, flexible about extracting the same qualitative degree of satisfaction. He is prostituting; his subjective genital pleasure is a myth and I don’t pay for what amounts to delusions. The thing is that for some punters different points on an arbitrary performative gradient are equally eroticizing and get the job done. The key is that I won’t dilute his functional capacity for earning potential after washing off. Pay commensurate with where on the continuum it all landed, the minutes part comparatively, in contrast, a more meaningful defining constant. Thus, I cannot easily describe a useful intelligible central tendency cost amount. This year I had more programas for 100 reais than 200 reais. Hires from ads an entirely different commodity, in their local, full sex. As such, a full sex tourism visit cost range of 100-500 renders an average rate depiction elusive. Ad hire defies the performative component continuum, for obvious reasons. You cannot superimpose a sub-sexual strip club performative labour playbook onto community escort hiring in the same way that kind of flexibility can be applied in curated GdeP club settings. Do I care if you all get it? A hard no. Most of the providers quickly grasp the formula and the ask and it takes a few minutes and a few simple sentences to get them to yes. We don’t get caught up in it pendantically. He wants cash and I want an orgasm. My lengthy outline above is merely to elaborate the principles, for the interested reader, behind what experientially turns out to be quite simple.
  8. Laughing my ass off. In Canadian strip clubs I’ve seen rude customers get ambushed by the entire inventory. The first bluntly discourteously rejected dancer simply doing his job spreads the word about having been harshly dismissed and said customer faces a queue of other unsolicited dancers approaching for exchange. Good for them on that backfire.
  9. That was bold of him. I have used Gloria station hundreds of times. For free travel I show senior ID to an attendant or sometimes the station cop that may be in the turnstile zone or I hail him (usually male) from the glass enclosed office to come and scan me through. There is always a monitor, with some degree of vigilance, maintaining order. Here’s another little tip: if the final stop is Botafogo/Coca-Cola you may as well embark. Often such a train has much capacity while a subsequent train going right thru past Leblon is packed. You can get off at Botafogo and hop on the next train to Copacabana, same platform. You will see many locals doing this. The long haul train may empty out somewhat at Botafogo or your ride in a saturated train will be shortened over the remainder of your ride. But from 117 of an evening the one thing impacting volume most is likely Maracana fandom.
  10. Sounds like erection day restrictions.
  11. 500 ST like the Polynesian lei idea; 1,000 LT turning the lei over. Wreath for the stars but try not missing your flight.
  12. Very few get fed his snacks. FullSizeRender.MOV
  13. Dead ringers, cuz at 1st glance appear as matched in heaven but a week later one is WhatsApp ghosting the other. 😂
  14. Am I right that you stayed in São Paulo and ditched the Recife excursion plan?
  15. Either your usual suspect cheap cow or missed the memo the venue code vibe is PrEP sweat douche, not preppie sweaterdouche.
  16. Great thread on Tawan. One guy dicked down a watermelon? Now that level of seedy is worth the price of emission. Can elope or can’t elope?
  17. Do you lure your guy from the night before, aka Brush with Heaven, out of bed with day-old Brioche From Heaven to kick him out the door at crack of dawn? What’s the smooth pay-to-leave protocol for offing whilst due for an earlybird train? 🤔 (Kidding; I don’t do overnights)
  18. Best wishes for both HOME runs.
  19. And yet another tired perseverative boilerplate obsession spout off. Not to mention the sad two peas in a pod trollmance meet cute.
  20. Tip appreciated. Given the rules of discretion and the oversight by management regarding the club’s profit margins, would it be risky to provide your phone number (ie, Line; WhatsApp), say folded into a cash gratuity, to a Tawan performer? Should you clear it verbally with the performer first? Let’s say a language barrier prompted you to provide your contact info to a specific performer for subsequent text exchanges. Is it possible he might report you for apparently initiating what would be off-site negotiating? I realize that this sounds like I am overthinking it, but I want to fully grasp the protocol. Finally, unrelated to the hooking-up off-site, I understand that there may be some potential for low level erotic play where you sit with your beverage. Is there a private lap dance feature at Tawan?
  21. Thanks. I spent a few minutes researching after coming home from the gym. I have some good purchased guidebooks. Counterintuitively, train may be the least viable. I might take a bus on DIY basis or maybe even a group tour. Commercial sex is not my agenda for such an excursion. It’s just to take in something farther afield from Bangkok. There appears to be a good half dozen options, as antidote to sensory overload, within 100 miles.
  22. Not as well vers as I prefer. Je me dirige vers vers.
  23. Rarely, but sometimes, I possess penetrating insight.
  24. Everything I write makes sense. I thought you knew that!
  25. Somatotype can be so nuanced. A very cute “muscle pup”, obviously in the 20+ age range, on track or pre-track with respect to physique competing, could do it for me. Those fellows may run with the more massive ones due to common gym affiliation. As I will have a few weeks, here’s hoping I can get crackin’ without Kraken. Tawan as the springboard may be enough.
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