Mavica

I've refrained from commenting on or responding to your hyper-active stalking and trolling of me on these forums, until now. Your behavior, including the repeated Ad hominem attacks on me clearly appear to violate the terms of your, mine and everyone else's participation on these forums. You have gotten away with your bad behavior for a log time. The site administrator / moderator likely has access to the history you claim I have here on this website. "A few years back"? Really? You are a liar. Repeating lies doesn't mean the lies are truth, factual. I invite readers to click on my Profile and follow the links to comments I've posted. The truth will set you free! My impression of your participation on the forums here is that you are hungry for positive responses. "Contrarian" viewpoints are a mainstay of social media, web forums. After all, these are discussions and few of us will share exactly the same viewpoints. Does a "contrarian viewpoint" equate to the maker of such views "disruptive"? Sometimes, yes. However, contrary viewpoints aren't necessarily malicious, they offer additional content which can and does provoke expanded discussion by participants. We learn from comments of others, even when we disagree with what they / we may have written. You post here solely to personally attack me, without adding anything meaningful to the discussion. Why? You falsely assert I post "constant negativity". Please back that up with facts. Site those instances since I've registered at this forum, participating for the first time by the way ... ever. Do that, or sit down and shut up. Better yet, apologize. When someone doesn't agree with a particular posting / comment of yours you get in a hissy fit. "Troll!" you exclaim. It obviously bothers you that not everyone agrees with you - or that there are a variance of opinions on a discussion topic. Yet, your responses are troll-like. Has that fact escaped you? Maybe not. Maybe the best "defense' is a good "offense". Are your own postings, your trip reports truthful? Maybe others can vouch for you, I don't know. Fantasy postings? I hope not. You obviously (to me) have your nylons in a knot because I've clicked on a down arrow at times when you've said things I disagree with. Well, this may come as news to you ... rather than post a written response, readers are given the opportunity (by the site owner / administrator) for us to simply click on an emoji to express our opinion / sentiment. It's an action almost everyone here undertakes. A simple check of how I personally use the emoji's will reveal I generously / appreciatively compliment more, substantially more comments than I disagree with; probably 95+% positive responses to what others have said. And you? I don't see you complimenting others very often; maybe I'm missing them. If someone here has access to the archives of the Gay Brazil website they will see my contributory postings pertaining to Rio de Janeiro, under the same screen name - Mavica. I've never been called a troll or disruptive. If someone here has access to the Cruising for Sex website, you can search the older Mexico discussion forums for my screen name ... which is what I use here and have only used on gay-themed forums for 20+ years. Although it was at a time when screen names and log-in was not required, I was an active participant at the Dreaded Ned's Thailand forum. Don't like me, don't like my comments? Fine. Get over it. Learn to live your own life instead of preaching how other should live theirs.

No "wars", just a personal opinion ... which each of us is entitled to express - within the guidelines established by the website owner / administrator / moderator. Like opinions, or not. 😁 The opinion I've expressed, by the way, is mild in comparison to the personal attacks and/or trolling taking place in this discussion thread. Maybe you've already spoken-out about that matter and I've missed mention of it.

When my PSA test result showed an unusual increase, not substantial, though, my primary care physician said there was a 53% chance I had Prostate Cancer ("PC"). I was fortunate that my physician was pro-active and on numerous occasions his advice protected me from various severe consequences. Unfortunately, I now live in Florida where, IMO, care for seniors is substandard ... which can result in life-threatening events. Sloan-Kettering, MD Anderson ... exemplary cancer diagnosis / treatment centers. My PC care was at Northwestern Memorial in Chicago ... an excellent teaching hospital. Some, maybe many biopsy's result in infections and, as in my case ... sepsis. I was fortunate to have slipped into shock while in my Urologist's office at the hospital where I was rushed into Intensive Care. I've read about SPC and the technology / methods it applies ... which is more advanced from that which I had available when diagnosed with PC. Surgical outcome is only as good as the surgeon and his/her procedures. I'm fortunate to have excellent employer-sponsored health care insurance when my prostate was removed. The "tab" for the procedure, etc., was US$66,000, but my insurance company negotiated that down to US$33,000. Out of pocket for me? Less than US$1,000. I've lived / worked in Canada. The wait for "elective" surgery can be long. For some, uncomfortably long. I don't know how cases of PC are classified. Long term, or short term wait for a procedure. Thank you for sharing your experiences.

My suggestion is that you not hijack the Beer Bar forum by peppering it with topics specifically related to Thailand, for which there is a dedicated forum where they appropriately belong ... in my opinion. And, instead of violating copyright regulations by posting the entirety of articles published and protected intellectual property ... simply post a link. If you have something to say about the topic of an article, comment on the content instead of merely copying and posting. Otherwise, what's the point? 😁 Thank you.

Yes, blame it on Indiana Jones.

A disappointing response at the box office, thus far. https://www.hollywoodreporter.com/movies/movie-news/bros-billy-eichner-homophobics-box-office-1235231561/

I've twice stayed in Catete. Although I'm a "walker" when in Rio ... covering a lot of ground exploring ... the Metro Station at Catete makes it easy and inexpensive to move around the city rapidly. City busses are also plentiful. My first visits to Rio, however, included stays at the Atlantico Copacabana.

Source: https://www.abc.net.au/triplej/programs/the-hook-up/ass-eating-rimming/11492332 I would never ask a pay for play guy to rim me (neither would I rim someone), nor would I knowingly hire an escort/moneyboy if I knew he engaged in what I consider a dangerous behavior.

Here are links to some informative articles/publications regarding Prostate Cancer in Gay men: https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC4770844/ https://www.smsna.org/patients/news/heteronormativity-and-prostate-cancer-in-gay-and-bisexual-men https://www.nbcnews.com/feature/nbc-out/when-it-comes-prostate-cancer-gay-men-are-erased-patients-n929686 https://prostatecancer.net/living-coping/gay-men

Thank you for your comments, Moses, and for sharing your experiences. Similar to you, I had regularly scheduled PSA tests; on a yearly basis. When my PSA number rose unexpectedly, my primary care physician scheduled a visit with a Urologist whose finger examination did not result in any concerns. However, as a precaution a biopsy was recommended. The day following the biopsy and before the results were available, I slid into septic shock and was in intensive care for several days. While still in the hospital the biopsy results came in and it was estimated that my prostate likely contained 12% cancer. Watchful waiting, radiation, removal (via Da Vinci surgery) ... were options presented to me by my Urologist. Right then and there I told the Urologist/Surgeon I wanted the prostate removed via Da Vinci robotic. For me, I made the right decision: the level of cancer was 25%, but had not migrated outside of the prostate. As with other surgeries, one patient's experience can be different than someone else. I experienced severe incontinence once the catheter was removed - which was 2 weeks post-op. I leaked like water shooting out of a garden hose. Lesser degrees of incontinence continue to this day, which is annoying. My primary care physician at the time believed the surgery was not completely successful and I might want a corrective procedure (something I have not acted on). My frequency and strength of erections has not returned to pre-op levels, which has had a negative impact on my sex life. Pre-op, I'd have described my sexual activity as 90% top. Post-op, it's 100% bottom. Such a change can be, and is, difficult to deal with - psychologically - for gay men. Thankfully, pre-op ... I'd had 30+ years of a very active sex life. Thanks for the memories! When I think about my health history and prostate cancer, I have no regrets deciding to have my prostate removed. I'm alive. For this I am grateful.

There's no one "Mexican food." It's a large country with regional variations in fare. You can be gluttonous eating every part of a cow or pig, or eat healthy. As for weather: September, October and early-November ... that's the core of the rainy season. Tropical storms, hurricanes, etc. Water quality along the beaches during these periods can be "stay away" classification.

Whether we be a top or a bottom, the prostate in gay men is hugely important to our sexual / social life. 14 years ago (when I was 59) I was diagnosed with prostate cancer ("PC"). Whenever we're told we have Cancer, we assume the worst; oftentimes, for good reason: the "end" is near!. My PC was diagnosed as consuming 12% of my prostate. Instead of "watchful waiting", I chose to have my prostate removed (it doesn't belong in me, get it out!). Anticipating the Urological Surgeon's caution that it was likely I'd lose some length and firmness/rigidity of my dick post-op (which turned out to be an accurate prediction), I postponed surgery for a month so that I could visit Rio de Janeiro ... and I could have fun in Rio de Janeiro (GP, and some women for hire). For most of my life I was a "top". Most importantly, I wanted to fuck as many stunningly handsome guys as I could before surrendering my erection to the surgeons. Post-OP, the removed prostate analysis revealed that it was 25% consumed by PC and had not, to the best of the knowledge of my Urologist, metastasized (thankfully). Very lucky me! So, it's not been easy post-op. I'm unattached, no partner. My focus on sexual satisfaction has changed. I enjoyed a spectacular period of time during pre-op which I enjoyed/excelled being a "top". Fantastic memories, thankfully. Any others on this forum who have had PC, and surgery? 😁

Stereotypes don't work well, in my opinion. You're "more into latin type". What does that tell us? There are Latins who are black, brown and light skinned. There are some areas in Brazil where the population speaks both Portuguese and Spanish. During my visits to Club 117, I've seen / been with / observed Garotos de Programa of all skin colors (well, not as white-skinned as me!). I've been with black, mixed, brown and white/light skinned. If I use a filter when deciding which guy to have sex with, it's body type and personality - not skin color. Click on this link below to learn more about Brazil's demographics: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Demographics_of_Brazil

We don't yet know if Russia sent the best elements of its military to fight in the Ukraine. But, if it has, I think we've learned how so inept that military is. Were it not for Russia having nuclear warfare capabilities, the "West" could have wiped-out much of Russia's military in very short order. My "gut" is telling me China's military is far superior, better equipped and trained than Russia's. If Putin is not 'taken out' by individuals close to him ... I don't doubt we will see Russia's use of limited theater nuclear weapons, and the West responding likewise. Indeed, this is a precarious point in history. 😟

You can say the same about nationals from just about every country.

I, too, eschew Facebook, twitter, tik tok, etc. Someone somewhere already knows too much about me ... without my providing additional personal information. 😀

Maybe I've overlooked it, but there is no link to survey results, methodology, details, etc. Lacking more information, it's an article/survey self-promotion and irrelevant. If I'm mistaken, someone please point it out. Providing a link to articles that are posted here instead of just copying/pasting texts will be appreciated. Thank you.

In the 1970s a favored travel destination of mine was San Juan, Puerto Rico. Wonderful memories, great sex. Awesome. It was a time of civil unrest in Puerto Rico and I'd stay at the Fiesta Americana Hotel where, on the beach, national guard or other military-style police patrolled on horseback holding automatic rifles as we lay on the beach; it was a bit daunting. It didn't stop me from enjoying myself, though. Cautious at times, yes. During one of my trips to Rio when I was relaxing on the beach in Ipanema ... I heard a roar growing in intensity. Young men from a Favela where running in the area attacking many people with baseball-type bats/clubs and stealing day packs, etc. A young man renting the chairs and doing beer and food runs for the section grabbed me from behind as I sat in my chair and dragged me back towards Ave. Vieira Souto. Many people were hurt on the beach that day, but not me; thankfully. Another time, when standing at a bus stop on Av. Nossa Sra. de Copacabana with a much older then me friend and a Brazilian man we didn't know - 4 young men showed up and beat the shit out of the Brazilian ... leaving us alone. The bus arrived as this was happening and when the attack was underway. The bus driver told me and my friend to sit in the seats behind him ... as the guys who beat the Brazilian also got on the bus and moved to the rear. During another visit, I intended to visit Santa Teresa via the tram when I learned that tourists waiting for the tram were being beaten/robbed. I chose to visit someplace else. So, yes ... there are risks. In Rio, in Mexico City ... in Chicago. Crimes of opportunity. But I do a risk assessment when traveling, and try to prepare myself for what I may encounter. All of this having been said, in addition to frequenting saunas in Rio ... I'm an explorer. I've walked/explored many neighborhoods there, solo, without valuables (just enough to 'give it up' if robbed). I've trusted my 'street smarts' and 'gut feeling'. I've traveled on foot, on the subway, on city busses, the ferry to and around Niteroi. I've visited one of the Favelas. Yes, I've been lucky - but also cautious. When I lived in Mexico City, I was the victim of street crimes a half dozen times. One of my apartments was broken into and robbed, twice. Full disclosure: I was never victimized in BKK. 😀

LOL! Sorry for not spelling out "GP". Garotos de Programa is what I was referring to. However, one might consider such talented individuals as General Practitioners ... though I prefer to consider each a specific practitioner of his talents!

Yes, in Rio as an example ... street crime is a concern for all - which doesn't seem to be an issue in BKK. Using today's exchange rate, 4,000 Bht = US$106. $106 strikes me as being higher than what it costs to collectively enter Club 117 in Rio (or another Rio sauna with GP), make a selection from many very goodlooking guys, pay for a room and have a drink or two. Which destination is "better" than the other (BKK vs. Rio) is, obviously, determined subjectively. Which is easier / less expensive to get to? Which offers more of the body/personality types of guys we find interesting? Etc. Let's keep in mind that most / many of us confine our visits to touristy sections of the destinations where everything costs more ... particularly if we are not conversant in the local language.

I'm a fan of AC. Would love to bed him.

Overall, a good looking group of young men in the Navy-theme video. I see several I'd likely off, if possible. Thanks for posting.

Yes. It was considered at the time, the standard by which all gay baths were judged by.

"Slurp Ramps", I think they're called. I'd visit Steamworks when I lived in Chicago. Cock, for days! Maybe 30 "holes' guys would stick cocks into. If you couldn't get blown, or blow ... there was something wrong with you. There are other slurp ramps in that baths, but the one where wanna-be recipients of blow jobs are on an elevated platform ... is unusual for gay baths, from my experience. Although no slurp ramps, when I speak of gay baths I'm always drawn to fond memories of Babylon Baths in Bangkok ... years ago. Visiting Babylon was a joyous experience!

Similar to Steamworks Baths in Chicago. https://www.steamworksbaths.com/chicago-home