HornyOne

Yes Rob, I would have been anticipating sex and speculating as to the forthcoming experience. I think it would be rather different from my activities with the Laos boys i offed from the Complex bars. 

I had a long chat with an older Thai guy when I was seated in a gay section of the Dongtan Beach. During my 18 day stay at the Agate in the Complex I made regular early afternoon visits to the Jomtien Gym on Beach Road and afterwards walking each time to a particular section arriving about 3pm to spend a couple of hours relaxing, sometimes reading and on a couple of occasions chatting to other farangs. On this occasion there were few customers and by 4:30 I was nearly on my own and had dozed off. When I opened my eyes I spotted an 40’s Asian guy stood near the sea. He was rather good looking - slim, brown and rather wiry and was dressed in loose briefs. He saw me looking at him and started strolling slowly along the waters edge but then deviated away from the sea and turned to take a path up the line of chairs to where I was seated, taking uninvited  the next one. The section boss appeared but I said “no problem”. We chatted for about 20 minutes cumulating in a proposal from him for us to return to my hotel for sex, mentioning he was versatile and indicating his erect cock under his briefs. Discretion took the better of me and I declined. He just got up and walked away to an adjoining section leaving me to settle my bill and walk back to the Complex, wondering what would have transpired.

If you use Grindr, do a geographic and age filter. Quite a few pop up.

No idea where you can meet them but broadly speaking, if they're financially independent, they'll be looking for younger Thai guys in their twenties. A friend of mine, 45, who's American partner passed away of old age three months ago and left him a significant amount of money, has found himself a sweet young thang of 21 from Isaan and is supporting him. I've seen this time and time again and sometimes they don't even wait for their farang partners to die!
So you might be in luck if you're a SYT yourself!
Incidentally, I noticed you posed a similar question in November last year. Is this a yearly ritual?
 

@Olddaddy is the expert on this ...

Yes Sansuk Sauna does have a large clientele of older men but what they are looking for is unknown to me, it would be a good place to begin your search.

Sansuk sauna has a lot of older Thai /Asian guys as customers 
 

I assume so, if you check in advance, to make sure that the two masseurs  will be happy with that, and agree an appropriate  tip!

The way I look at it as I get older and my life expectancy gets less....is to have a bloody good time whilst you can !
Sure I moderate my drinking 🍒🍷
But ..i do drink in Thailand a lot mostly red red wine 🍷 
I don't take illegal  drugs of any kind and I don't smoke 
I did use the poppers my last visit which my doctor warned against but not all the time 
Grow old disgracefully! 😅

That’s a superb reply, thank you. I’ll be there in 3 weeks so definitely giving it a try. 

In answer to your ordinal question HornOne.
Lock everything in the locker they allocate you…especially money, phones, watches etc. And use the tab they give you to put they locker key around your wrist.
If you want to buy anything, like drinks or food, they they ask for your key number and you then pay for everything on checkout. You won’t need any money whilst in the sauna.
As well as the key to a numbered locker they will give you a towel which practically everyone wears around the waist. I also make sure I wear sandals  when I visit which I can also wear walking around the place. 

@HornyOne
I realise your anxiety as a new guy to the Sauna.....we have all been newbies at some time.
I'm in Jomtien right now and went to Sansuk last night. It was very very busy with Falangs, older Asian, Younger Asian etc etc.
Generally in the open areas I'd say 80% of guys wear underwear or a towel and quietly observe the surroundings, having a drink etc
However, something  I've never seen before until last night was  in the open area ( near the Jacuzzi) where an older guy maybe 75 yrs was on his bed  giving another guy a BJ 🤪
Many people shower in full view of others ( some showering  with erections ) but I always shower with swimwear on.
When you want to go and explore the steam room, sauna or dark room, many guys hang up their towel upon entering and walk around naked but some leave their towel around.
It's entirely down to you. No set rules. Just do what you feel is comfortable but rest assured you will not be judged in any way.
It's a great relaxing evening.
Go and enjoy 👍👌😎

So do you walk around naked or wrapped in a towel for example?

If you're a newbie you should be aware that Thai attitudes to nudity are, on the whole, very different to those in the west or even other Asian countries. Thai guys at saunas take their towels off only for showers and in the privacy of a cubicle, though I recall  occasionally  meeting some naked guys in the (very) dark rooms at Babylon. (Happy times!) I've seen falangs walk around Babylon naked but very rarely. Somehow, it looks "wrong" because I know it offends Thai cultural beliefs.
Don't be misled by the apparent freedom of the Bangkok sex-show. Even the most experienced mb will probably undress in your room with a towel around his waist. Of course, it will be removed for the fun but there is usually a shyness which demands modesty until the right moment arrives.
 

Saunas provide lockers and you can put the key around your wrist or ankle.

Exactly what @Floridarob said 👌

Thank you and really appreciate your input. 
 

100%. You never met this person in real life. Chemistry is hit and miss…

That's a good price
But you will have to negotiate a "agreement" on what you both require over that week period .
 
 

Thank you and really appreciate your input. 
 

I would say that this is a very good price - because they often quote from 1,500 to 2,000 for a ST session. So, 2,000 + 300 = 2,300 baht for the entire day is very reasonable.
I paid 4.000 per day to import a very sexy muscle guy from Bangkok to stay with me in my condo here in Pattaya for 4 days.
 

Spending that much time with someone could be great....could also be a disaster.

You'll be taking a gamble, remember that. Then it's not only the daily fee, it's the food, drinking, maybe entertainment/tours.

If you've never met in person, I'd say try 1 day at a time, don't lock yourself in and be clear about sex, otherwise you might be paying someone to just hang out with you....

Plans like this sound good on paper but in reality turn into something else, I'm speaking from my own experience and from what others have written here over the years.

This map should help. https://shamelessmacktwo.travel.blog/2023/12/14/map-of-pattayaland-area-december-2023/

@Londoner & @HornyOne they're remodeling the reception and supposedly going to re-open the coffee shop, so they have a sign saying excuse the noise and appearance until Nov 7th.

Not sure who Dom is but no real long timers working here, except maybe some of  housekeeping.

I Still like this hotel, comfortable bed, clean sheets/towels, cold a/c, location and price ranges from small cheap to roof suites. I paid $25usd net per night.

Last night Boyztown was pretty dead, I went to Dreamboys and the mamasan outside said they only had 7 boys ....Xboys didn't look much better, so I went to Toy Boys.

There was a papasan that says he's worked there 20 yrs Joe, but don't remember ever seeing him, was super nice and helpful. There were about 6 guys that I liked there, they had at least 20 guys working. He helped me eliminate a few by going over my preferences, but laughingly told me there are no big cocks there, lol

I told him as long as it's hard and have power, that's ok too 🙄

The one he was recommending the most, got called over by a customer, and ultimately offed ...typical story.

SO I took a guy from Cambodia, although his English was very limited he was good, although will  not be a repeat for me....no chemistry.

Soda 240thb
Off fee 500 thb
Min fee 1500 thb
Tip papasan 200 thb

$72usd, was worth it...we went to a bar between the sois and he had a beer there, was cheap.  @vinapu you know the place where arm from dreamboys likes to hang out, he's out of town btw.

But back to the room, I go to sleep pretty late so  noise doesn't bother me and I can't imagine there being much noise with as dead as it is out here, maybe that will change over the weekend or by the time you come.

I’ll be staying in the Ambiance at the start of December so would love to hear what you think of it this year. I can always stay elsewhere if it’s not good. 
thanks.