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Not every farang would be at the Thai friend's bedside. I would for sure. But, please don't think we are in the majority. When the going gets tough, many get going really fast. I have seen many many Thai boys died in the hospital and their farang left them when things got rough. I have even had to help pay for a few of those hospital stays. So, while I know you may think you are right, I politely disagree.

GB, I am so sorry for your loss. I think I know the one you are talking about and he was a very nice young man. As for my situation, I support 2 boys full time and have for over 10 years. Both are great and wonderful to me and I choose to give them money every week and pay for school and all the other shit I do for them. When I am sick, one of them looks after me. The other one is a little shit and does only what I ask. But, I can look at both of them and say that if I were sick and dying that I hope that someone would not look at them and expect them to do more than they do. I pay them. It is a salary. I do this as I adore them. But, I would never expect them to be 24/7 caregivers for a long period of time. Most of the boys we are all with are country boys. They do not have good examples of what is the right thing in these situations. I would roll over in my grave if someone were upset with one of the 2 boys that I have truly loved and cared for for so many years based on the fact they didn't want to change my underwear or clean me or whatever. My life with them has been wonderful and that is the end of it. The rest is not important to me. And, I would not expect anything of them. That does not mean I don't think they won't be there. I think they will. But, only for what they can do and when they can do it. And, if my friends get upset with them based on what happens then, I'll be disappointed in them. But, I am a realist. I know what my money is good for and what it isn't and I'll be sure to have enough money to cover myself in my time of need. A good friend once owned a very successful escort service in NYC and he always told his clients, "never fall in love with a boy based on money as that will always be what the relationship is about." I am no fool. Anyone who think that the boys stay with someone 2 or 3 times their age because they like older men or someone out of shape because they like fat men, well, they are the fools. It is a relationship based on money. The end.

Not to be rude, but who wants to take care of someone in their dying days? Not many. I had an aunt died a few years back that was beloved by the entire family and only 3 out of 15 of us took time to help her in the last years of her life even though she helped every one of us. Many could not do it and it did not mean they didn't love her or she them. Some are just incapable of watching this happen to someone and I don't begrudge them what they had when they were livelier.

He never wrote for profit. But, look, your sites are not for free either. Yes, they are free to look at. But, they are selling services and other things and thus for profit. You may not make cash off of them, but your intent is for others to make cash. Your new site SGT is not a profile making site but it has been sold for thousands of dollars in the past in order to make a profit for someone. Your new partnership may enhance their ability to make a profile. Great. I applaud that. I have no problem with capitalism, socialism or communism. Mr. Briggs had a boyfriend who ran a local restaurant. I think a good gesture for his memory would be just giving him 20,000 baht. I know that would make Mr. Briggs happy!

Wow. It is so nice to see so many people log in to "like" other posts. I'll have to be bluntly honest more often. While I am in the minority, I do believe that if you owe a site you own the rights to the content forever and for someone to dig up old stuff to post is wrong. That said, since GayButton and Surfcrest are OK with it, I have started backing up their sites just in case they pass gently into the good night and that way, we will be able to save all those conversations forever. (just kidding guys, I would never do that)

For pay. They were young and cute in in boy bar area. I am old and fat and had money to spare. It was an easy transaction for both parties.

Yes, I do. But, I guess as I considered Allen a friend, I just hated to see someone do that to his information without his consent. Profit? Maybe hyperlinks to your sites? Is that not valuable for you? I counted 4 in the post above. But, I am sure you do all this for free and for fun. I have always been OK with links to other sites. But, I just found this particular post a bit distasteful.

Personally, I found his reports amazing. They were great and informative and truly a pioneer in the world of Gay Thailand message boards. I find it equally amazing that someone would revive a dead man's newsletters to profit from their republication. And, I assume without the permission of his heirs.

It will be 4-4 for a while. But, they are all old. What happens if one of them dies. Then, 4-3 and depending on who it is, again, another whirlwind. I do not like to speak ill of the dead, but my sister wrote to me this AM and said: "I'm sorry for your loss." with an attached photo of Scalia's grave and a dog pissing on it. This was in reference to a trip I took a few years back across the USA and I stopped in every state from California to South Carolina and went to a Chick-Fil-A and opened my door and pissed in their parking lot. I think she has high hopes for another round of fun.

The cost of living in Spain is very reasonable. The infrastructure is fantastic. The ease of going everywhere in the world is also easy. And, lastly, the boys are some of the hottest and sexiest I have ever seen. I think Firecat posted on here about his last Spain experience. Do a search for that and look at the photos. I have been there about 10 times and always wanted to stay longer than I booked. I love the people, the food and the atmosphere. Oh, and the boys are hot!

1. Thailand 2. Spain 3. Brazil 4. Netherlands 5. Vietnam

Republicans are all hypocrites. I forget the year, but in the 90's they had a convention in Philly. That weekend was the busiest weekend ever for NYC gay male escort services. We were sending boys down left and right all week long.

I personally, have never seen a gay monogamous relationship work. But, I'm a ho.

Reports have surfaced that he was arrested for being in a park that was frequented by gay hookers. And, other reports as well. http://www.thepoliticalinsider.com/bombshell-report-marco-rubios-gay-scandal-surfaces/

Nearly half of gay men have been in an open relationship. Myself included. Do the numbers in this study surprise you? Single men who have no experience of open relationships: 27% of these men think open relationships can be a good thing. 41% said they can be bad for relationships. 32% said they weren’t sure. 33% believe that ‘open relationships are not real relationships’. 53% said they’d rather be single than in an open relationship. 29% believe relationships end up open because gay men can’t be monogamous. 23% of the single men in our survey said they had some experience of open relationships. This is what they think: 37% of these men think open relationships can be a good thing. 28% said they can be bad for relationships. 35% said they weren’t sure. 24% believe that ‘open relationships are not real relationships’. 26% said they’d rather be single than in an open relationship. 22% believe relationships end up open because gay men can’t be monogamous. Of the men who are currently dating: When it came to men who are currently dating there wasn’t much difference in the stats in comparison to single gay men - both with/without experience of open relationships. Of the men who believe themselves to be in a monogamous relationship/marriage/civil partnership: 45% have been in a monogamous relationship/marriage/civil partnership for over three years. 20% have experience of being in an open relationship. Men, who believe themselves to be in a monogamous relationship/marriage/civil partnership, with NO experience of open relationships: 18% of these men think open relationships can be a good thing. 30% said they can be bad for relationships. 51% said they weren’t sure. 33% believe that ‘open relationships are not real relationships’. 54% said they’d rather be single than in an open relationship. 19% believe relationships end up open because gay men can’t be monogamous. Men, who believe themselves to be in a monogamous relationship/marriage/civil partnership, with SOME experience of open relationships: 50% of these men think open relationships can be a good thing. 12% said they can be bad for relationships. 38% said they weren’t sure. 18% believe that ‘open relationships are not real relationships’. 20% said they’d rather be single than in an open relationship. 15% believe relationships end up open because gay men can’t be monogamous. https://www.fsmag.org.uk/fs152-open-relationships-uncovered

Blake, you are adorable!

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Love the gender blending skirt wearing handsome young man who is breaking down barriers in the black community. Keep it up Jaden!

There is a difference in voicing an opinion and being a dick about someone's post. I guess it takes a bit of intelligence to figure that one out. wait. weren't you the one accusing someone else of being an idiot? pot. kettle.

Thanks everyone! This site has been a true gem since its inception. Crazy days in the beginning with lots of drama. Posters have come and gone over the years and I miss many of them, including my friend Lucky who was here to give me a hard time for a few years but always full of smart conversation. I have learned so much from many of you and can't believe it has been this long. Man, it is fun. This is my favorite forum in the world!

Actually, the poster seem to be asking if someone knew them and or hired them. If that were the case, and someone did, then they most likely would know if they were versatile or not. So, no, not a dumb question. And, Badboy, calling someone an idiot for asking a question tells me that you are an asshole. Like asking dumb questions, being a dick can be controlled unless your intent is to be a dick. just saying.

Lots of gloom and doom from here. Where is Fountainhall when we need him to shed some light on the good parts of the city?

Why?

You know the officer is going to get ribbed for yanking on his wanker?

I may be in Shanghai, China for 2 months at the end of 2016. I want to find cute guys, gay places and an active gay scene. Has anyone been there? Any experiences there? Any suggestions?