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TotallyOz

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  1. For me, it is pretty simple. They don't want the boys that are friends with their falang who is paying them for long term BF situation to know they are going off with customers.
  2. TotallyOz replied to Alizizou's topic in Gay Thailand
    Great photos. Thanks.
  3. I have never understood this myself. I like all types but do prefer the masculine guys most of the time. However, when others comment that they don't like a photo or a guy posted, it does not contribute to the conversation in the least. It is one of those areas where you may just need to keep your opinions to yourself.
  4. TotallyOz replied to paulsf's topic in Gay Asia
    Beautiful reports. You seem to be relaxing and enjoying the trip a great deal. I did love the photo of the boy sleeping in business class. He fit right in. I know what a big difference you have made in his life. Do you have things you have missed on this trip that you plan to get done on your last week or two?
  5. I stayed at the Intercontinental Hotel and loved it. It was easy to get guests to my room. The area was nice with lots of things nearby.
  6. I am not sure why you even posted this. It is rude and unnecessary. You are hereby suspended for 10 days. Your account will be unlocked then. Until then, take this time out as a way to try to come to grips as to why you find the need to constantly post this drivel. I hope your skin is thicker than that. It is sad that you would let one person who posts something a bit queenie deter you from posting about your trip. However, that is your call. We all hope you reconsider.
  7. PLEASE!!!! I was Fierce in drag!
  8. Slightly off topic I would say. I love all men. I've had some of the most manly men around as lovers (both paid and unpaid). I've had some of the most feminine of men as lovers (drag queens and ladyboys). I have friends who are the entire spectrum. I just love all types and don't discriminate based on what their masculinity or femininity. Before my first trip to Thailand, I had a boyfriend for 5 years who was Filipino. Firecat can tell you that even he didn't know if he was a boy or girl at times as when he first me me, this lad had been the apple of my eye and while he was androgynous, he was a true joy to be it. The one before that was typical Latin/Brazilian and totally masculine. I went from one extreme to the other and both of them were with me for 5 years. Some of my best friends in NYC were drag queens and I even ventured out in drag with them a time or two. While not for me, I did enjoy letting them "make" me up for the evening. The older I get, I find my lovers are more masculine. But, I still leave myself open for a bit of wiggle room should that perfect ladyboy walk into my life.
  9. TotallyOz replied to a post in a topic in The Beer Bar
    A few shots of what?
  10. TotallyOz replied to a post in a topic in The Beer Bar
    It is not the same since Hoo died and with fake reviews being written by the admins, I fail to understand why anyone would believe all that shit. But, hey, they do get the reviews and that brings the escorts. It would be easy to just write 5 reviews each day and post them, but how helpful would that be to anyone? I just don't get it.
  11. Actually you said that those groups might use the word, but if they did, they were not men. That is demeaning and I doubt that is what you meant. But, it is what you said. That said, I am a bit jealous that Firecat invited you to dinner. I guess he prefers the older more feminine guys to the burly bear chubs like me. Oh well, I can't win them all. And, on that note, can't we all just hold hands and make peace? Kumbaya
  12. While I totally and utterly 100 percent disagree (perhaps biased as I love the word), I have to admit this post truly made me laugh out loud. Even in disagreement, this was fucking funny. (sorry everyone, I used the F word again) Don't be so harsh Firecat. Willie is part of that group that like manly men only. While I do also love me a manly man, I also have many friends who are more feminine than I am (hard to believe right?). But, having spent so much time in the drag culture of NYC, I grew to love those that were a bit queenie and out there.
  13. TotallyOz replied to a post in a topic in Comments and Suggestions
    Yes, you do. But, I show you as a Free member. Can you tell me what provider you used to upgrade to Silver?
  14. For me, I was lucky. There is a park in Sao Paulo, Brazil that is known for gays and I use to go there often. I met a wild and crazy guy and we got inside his car to mess around. No cops. But, his BF walked up and needless to say, I either left a bit afraid or it ended up in a fabulous 3 way. Hint: I didn't go back to the place for many years.
  15. Sorry Vinapu, but it sounds like you may know this from first hand experience. Can you share the story with us?
  16. What am I missing in that link? All is shows for me is google ads.
  17. TotallyOz replied to a post in a topic in The Beer Bar
    Nice profile and sexy photos! http://www.boytoy.com/boytoy-profile/XXXKingXXX/
  18. Joey Arias. That is a name from the past. I saw it with him also. But, I use to frequent Bar D'O in the Village when he ran it with female impersonators. It was a fun time!
  19. I have been to Turkey 6 times. Each time has been great and I love the country, the people and the guys. I have always had plenty of sex and no issue with meeting guys online. As for Malaysia, the same is true. I have had great experiences there. Z, why is Sweden so intolerant?
  20. 1. No, he does not have that right. 2. No, it is not protected. 3. I have made a full back up of Alen's old site. It took me less than 2 minutes per issue. I'll be posting it here soon. If you want, I give you permission to them take it and use it as neither of us have the right to do that.
  21. If it is used in this way, is that OK?
  22. I disagree. But, I like the word. I have no issue with it.
  23. I am glad these charges were dropped. I hope they also decide to drop things against Jeffrey.
  24. I remember my first trip to Thailand and I took a boy from Future Boys to Pattaya and Chiang Mai with me. I met him at the bar and I paid his off for each day of my vacation. But, (newcomer stupidity) I paid the off to him to give to the bar so he would not get in trouble. This is what I thought I should do. Whether or not he paid the bar for the time was totally up to him. There have been many times when I have taken a boy from a bar to live with me for a long period of time and I paid the off for 10 days and then stopped. I figured they introduced me and they deserved some fee for this. But, I have not done that in years as I found out that often when I paid those fees that the manasan would keep the money and not even give to the bar. So, I have learned some things over the years. Today, if I met someone from a bar and saw them in the afternoon or even or even for a long time, I always give them enough money to say, if you like your bar and want to give them the off fee that is fine, but up to you and I tip them enough to cover that cost. This way, they can make the decision as to pay the bar, go in that night, take a night off, or whatever. I have become less worried about the bar getting their share as they often screw over the boys any chance they get anyway.

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