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Interesting that no place in Mass will take his body for burial. I have never heard of that happening in the USA. http://www.npr.org/2013/05/06/181678766/in-boston-a-rare-rejection-of-the-dead

Poppers are not exactly legal in the USA but people pay upwards of 25 USD for a bottle. I don't think 7 US per condom is a big stretch for many power bottoms. I'll be curious the testing and if this is safer and more comfortable than regular condoms.

If you also had to go to the home page and return that is a problem that has to be fixed. I thought it was just me.

Let's face it, for many people the classic latex condom is an unsensational product at best. And for nearly a century, no one really bothered to make that basic design any better. But now a small business called Origami Condoms says it is ready to reinvent the condom and make it more appealing to use by taking a design tip from the Japanese art of paper folding. The secret? An accordion-like design. "The latex condom was strictly protection. No one liked using it," Origami Condoms' creator and company founder, Danny Resnic, told The Huffington Post. "We are trying to create a condom that feels great and is much closer to the real deal to encourage people to use them." Traditional condom makers have long been trying to make the existing condom design more appealing with textures and even flavors. But Origami Condoms' breakthrough style -- which has condoms folded up rather than rolled up like its predecessors -- acts as a loose-fitting sheath when it's in use and moves with the natural movement of the body. That means both participants will experience a lot more sensation during sex, Resnic said. http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2013/04/08/origami-condoms_n_3020314.html http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VpfXJRq57v8

Wow. Now I have seen it all.

It works fine for me and I just tested in Firefox and IE and safari. but, if you don't see your name on the forum area, you may have to return to homepage of site and then click back on forum as you might have been logged out of forum. That happened to me a few days back.

Fanfuckingtastic! So glad you took him fast. You did the right thing. I hope you have a blast in Bangkok. Tell us about your trip if you have time.

I don't think that is a bad thing. Welcome. Smiles, I am sorry if I had my facts wrong about you posting there when Neal ran the site. I honestly thought you posted there but I don't check the boards that often and never keep up with the ins and outs of other boards. I thought you posted on all the boards but maybe I just got your screen name confused with all the smilie faces on all the sites.

I agree with RA1. Find a new doctor and see what the results are.

In his mind a "normal gay guy" is much different than what I would think it would be. I accept all kinds of things as normal from fem to bear to twink divine. But, before I came out, I would totally avoid anyone who I thought acted gay. I was so afraid of being labeled as one of the "gays." I look back and am ashamed but it was a part of who I am. I think for him a "normal gay guy" is someone who is not campy or overly flamboyant. For me, those are the ones that I prefer to hang out with.

Trick Here we have another genre-busting gay movie that proves not all queer cinema has to be about gay bashing, AIDS or ridiculous camp drag stuff. Really, any genre of film can be turned into a gay movie if writers and directors realize that gay people are just people. That the plot of the film is a gay guy figuring out that gays are not as weird as he thinks just drives this point home. Trick is, despite the title, simply a standard Hollywood romantic comedy where the plot is boy meets boy, boy loses boy, boy gets boy back. And instead of having the gay best friend of one of the characters providing quirky comedic lines, we get Tori Spelling providing quirky comedic lines. The movie focuses on Gabriel who, despite being a writer of musical theater songs, isn't a cliché gay at all. In fact, he's so turned off by the clichés of gay life that he doesn't feel like he's really gay or belongs. Camp, drag queens, political activism, gay pride - none of that stuff does it for him. He's just a normal guy who likes sucking dick. Because he doesn't feel any connection to the gay community at all, he doesn't even think about getting a boyfriend and instead just does random one-night stands whenever he's horny enough. One night after a three-month dry spell, he hits a local gay bar. He's hit on by every stereotypical type of gay dude possible and leaves disgusted. But he's followed out by a hunky dude who is one of the go-go boys at the bar. The go-go boy tries to pick him up and he figures, why not partially because he wants to find out if the boy's nickname, Beer Can, accurately reflects the size of his dick. When he takes the go-go boy home, however, his fag hag (Spelling) is at his place printing out a bunch of her resumés, and she just keeps talking and talking and not getting the message that she should leave so the two of them can bone. After she finally does go out the door, Gabriel's roommate turns up with his girlfriend (they share a studio apartment) and the roommate and his girlfriend start making out so erotically it totally turns off both Gabriel and the go-go boy. So, they decide to see if they can use one of Gabriel's friends' places to fuck in. They track the dude down and just as he's about to give them the keys to his place, his ex-boyfriend turns up, they make up and Gabriel and Go-Go Boy are out of luck. Next, they decide to hit a bar Go-Go Boy knows about where people can fuck in backrooms/dark corners. But this becomes a disaster too - first because there is a drag queen there whose persona is Tori Spelling's character on Beverly Hills 90210. Having a drag queen around who looks just like his fag hag turns Gabriel off a bit. Even more of a turn-off, however, is the fact that he quickly figures out that Go-Go Boy has literally fucked every single dude hanging out in the bar. This freaks Gabriel out so much that he just walks out of the bar without saying goodbye. He heads home, but Go-Go Boy follows him. They then try to go back to his apartment, figuring that his roommate and his girlfriend may have stopped fucking by now. They have, but when they arrive the girlfriend is still there naked and it turns out she's some weird new-age sex counselor who tries to first give them weird relationship advice and then tries to get Go-Go Boy interested in her. Gabriel reaches his breaking point and screams, I just want to get laid! At which point Go-Go Boy is like, Hey, I really like you. This isn't just about sex to me. I want to get to know you. If I'm just a pretty boy to fuck, fuck off, and storms out. Gabriel then runs after him and they decide to hit a diner. Of course, Fag Hag Spelling is there with about 10 of her friends all of whom run over and share the table with them. He wants her and her friends to take off because he's desperate to tell Go-Go Boy that, yeah, he does have feelings for him, but can't bring himself to say that for the first time in front of all of this comic relief (including Spelling screaming, I really like fish, maybe I'm a lesbian!). Finally the other characters leave and Gabriel and Go-Go Boy finally have some real alone time. They talk and both admit that they are totally into each other. They have their first kiss and it's electric. They realize they love each other and that while they both need to go home and crash, they will meet again the next night and have a real date, because they have the love bug. That's when the movie ends as it would with any romantic comedy. Gabriel, of course, realizes that he doesn't hate gay people really, just the shallow gay people he'd been hanging out with before. Now that he knows and is in love with a normal gay guy, he accepts himself for what he is, and it's clear there is going to be long-term romance with Beer Can in his future. The only unanswered question at the end of the film is, if you are dating a dude named Beer Can, exactly how much lube are you going to need to buy? I'm guessing he probably headed over to Wal-Mart and bought a family pack. Anyway, if you like romantic comedies but are tired of them always being about Meg Ryan falling for Tom Boring As All Hell Hanks, then Trick is for you. cc boytoy.com 2013

Remember beauty is in the eye of the beholder. We never know what someone sees when they look in the mirror. What we perceive as horrible may be beauty in their eyes. I am always happy when I look into the mirror and see Robert Redford staring back. (his photo is on the top right corner of the mirror) Trey is a sweetheart and I always thought he was beautiful and needed no work. But, he must have done this for himself. For those of you who have not read Bangkok 8 by John Burdett give it a read. It relates to this topic and it was the first thing I thought of when I saw those photos.

I believe that that photo is the end. Deb puts Dexter in the same position he has put so many in and thus the cycle will continue with her.

Well, when one buys a board the owner does not try to push out an active poster even if he was the past owner. Message boards exist for all to enjoy. I am sure the new owner will do a great job there but the past owners all seem to participate there don't they? That is a good thing IMHO but I am a bit prejudiced in this matter.

Christian will have to answer this reasons for this but when I lived in Bangkok for a year, I loved it and love the many things about the city. But, it was nice to get off to Pattaya to visit friends and the bars. I loved the gogo bars in Pattaya so much more than any of them in Bangkok. When I was in Bangkok, I found I spent more time in the massage houses and not as much in the saunas as I hated the price of drinks, the pushy mamasans and the cost of it all. Pattaya was always a great place to visit, enjoy and have sex. Plus, there were more farangs that I grew to know over the years in Pattaya and I always enjoy catching up with them.

Kittyboy brought up the fact that he lives in China in Christian's thread. I didn't want to derail it but I hope he or others will give some information about living in China. I have been fascinated with China mainly due to the posters on this board and their visits to the country. However, it is not a place that I would consider moving permanently. What makes China better or worst than Thailand? Is it easier to live there? Do you find the laws more constricting? Is the cost of living similar? For retirement, I have really only considered Thailand and Brazil but I would be very curious to know what others that have moved to China experience.

I totally agree.

I have no desire to break the board rules and call you an idiot or a douche. That said, welcome to the board. I am so glad you have so much passion about this topic.

Well, if you have to ask that question, I might have to judge you as not being able to read between the lines. No matter how much you are judged here based on your postings on an anonymous message board, that does not represent the true you. You may be that way in person but you may be the opposite. And for a person who this thread is about, both his real name and his online persona is brought into question. They were not the same. He was a very kind and funny man and indeed a true gentleman. Your thoughts about his online persona is shared by many. I understand it. I just don't think those that didn't know him personally should make those judgements in his obit. IMHO

Yes, I do have more sympathy for someone who dies of cancer than I have for one who made a decision to end their life on their own terms. You are right, that is what I believe. I did not say that the friends and family of both individuals did not suffer the same. Death is hard to deal with in ANY situation. Young, old, rich, poor it doesn't matter. The family will suffer no matter the way someone dies. I do think that families of those that commit suicide have a lot more going on in their minds thinking about "could I have done something" "should I have spent more time with them." etc. But, sorry for the individual person who dies, I do have more sympathy for someone who dies of cancer than someone who takes their own life. That may make me a prick to some but it is the way I feel.

Oh my. I did not mean to say that I disdained someone that commits suicide. I do not. I just believe that they made that choice themselves and that is a right they have. It is a choice I respect and have no problem with anyone making that choice. But, I do believe it is a choice. If someone has cancer and commits suicide then they made that choice didn't they? Again, I have no problem with that at all and I would completely understand that choice. I am watching this season of The Big C. I have watched every season. If you watch this show and have not seen this weeks episode, SPOILER ALERT The main character decides that she wants to live life without chemo or radiation and enjoy what time she has left in a dignified manner. Having been the caregiver of many who have died of cancer, this is something I completely understand and something I may even choose for myself when the time comes. But, I hope I can always make decisions about my body and my life and my death. Many do not have that choice. Some do and I envy those people and I do not hold them in contempt.

Great. Can I judge a new poster who just joined the board less than one week ago and admits he did not know the man in question by calling the new poster an asshole or a douche-bag or an idiot if his behavior shows that? I mean, you do say we should judge right?

ha too funny dude. My favorite post in a long time.

Sounds good. Tell us more about yourself Kittyboy. Give us your life story and bio. We are all excited to hear about it and once done, we will be sure to tell more truth when you go into the great hereafter. I think that we could all learn from you and you may inspire us to better behavior. So, sit down and tell us all about yourself.

Great post christianPFC. Thank you. I do not think this has been a failure at all. It is a learning curve and you seem to be ahead of the curve. That is great. The other things that you desire will find their way into your life when you least expect it. But, I bet it is still an amazing fucking journey!