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How To Treat Your Fag Hag At Boy Toy, we talk a lot about how to deal with male escorts, how to suck cock, and ways to take it up the ass like a man without hurting yourself. That's all well and good and information you need to know. But, there is an aspect of gay life that doesn't involve dick at all! Even if you are the gayest gay in the village, women will be a part of your life. Everyone needs a fag hag, because sometimes you have to get away from your fuck buddies, and your straight male friends ain't going to set foot inside a Lady Ga Gay concert with you. But, having a fag hag isn't as simple as just hanging around with a gay-friendly girl. It's a relationship like any other, and needs to be nurtured. So, today we are going to give you some basic guidelines in fag hag maintenance. Don't worry - you won't have to change her oil or give her a lube job! The main job of dealing with your fag hag is drama minimization. If you think that your 20-year-old twink boytoy is dramarama, it's nothing compared to what you might have to deal with if you step on your fag hag's toes. You have to remember that having a fag hag is like any other relationship. You have to respect her feelings at all times, so that she doesn't get hurt or become overly emotional. So, this means you don't blow her off for weeks at a time when you have a new boyfriend. Trust me, she wants to hear all about him; so even if you don't have time to meet up for a Mai Tai, text her details about what's going on so she feels like she's being kept in the loop remember, you'll need her shoulder to cry on when/if he heads home with the head bartender! But while you want to keep her close, you can't keep her too close. It's easy for a fag hag to develop a crush on you, and she'll tell herself that you are a man who loves her for who she is and not simply because she has a vagina (like the straight men in her life). This means that even if you are on copious amounts of MDMA and start feeling like a mouth has no gender, you still can't let her make out with you or go down on you. It's crossing an important boundary and there will be emotional and dramatic repercussions down the line that you don't want to deal with. You also need to make sure that you don't make her feel bad about herself. If she's going through a dry spell picking up guys, then you don't need to brag to her about the three guys you hooked up with in the dark room of The Cock over the weekend. Because, then she'll start questioning why she isn't hooking up as much as you are and, do you really want to spend several days assuring her that there is a guy for her out there? That said, when she does hook up you need to listen to her. Yes, I know that hearing the down and dirty details of straight sex may not be your thing, but it's important to her to gush once in a while and she might feel that her female friends will judge her and that her straight male friends might get jealous, so you do have to listen to her. Just focus on the things that interest you. Ask what his dick was like, and then you can fantasize about it (without telling her, of course). And pick something out about the way he acted and tell her it was cute. Of course, you also need to give her a pat on the back it's all part of the process. On the other hand, it's a good idea to listen to her when she talks about dudes, and give her good advice. Girls often romanticize what guys do and put a lot of unrealistic expectations on them. But, you know what guys are really like. If she says things that are red flags to you that he may be a dickweed or in some other way taking advantage of her, you need to give her the straight advice so that she doesn't end up in a bad relationship. Hopefully, she'll do the same for you down the line. One of the main things to remember is that from time to time, she'll go to the gay bars and clubs with you. On these occasions, you really can't just pick up a guy and go home with him no matter how cute he is. It's dangerous for women to try to make their way home on their own, plus she'll feel blown off and hurt if you simply ditch her. Think of it this way - if you were out at her favorite bar, would you want her to ditch you there? It goes both ways. Another important thing is that her close friends and family members are off-limits. Yes, her brother who just came out of the closet might be super cute, and she may even encourage you to hook up with him - but don't do it. If a breakup happens, it will be messy and you'll be forcing her to chose sides. That's not fair to anyone. While on that subject, don't try to play matchmaker for her. You may be very well intentioned, but you don't want to get caught in a mess because if things go wrong, you'll be the one she blames. In dire situations, don't balk at playing her beau if she needs it. When you are out with her and a guy starts pestering her, you should step in and help her out of the situation. You can, of course, give her fashion advice when she needs it. You may be able to see how she could present herself better in order to attract more guys so that she has as many stories to share with you as you have with her. That said, you do need to stand your ground if she gets a boyfriend and starts blowing you off. What's good for the goose is good for the gander, and you need to set her straight if she starts to pull a disappearing act on you just because she's riding the cock fantastic for a couple of weeks. Keep all this stuff in mind, and you'll end up with a great shopping pal who is more than willing to listen to you when you are down and you'll always have someone to go to the Beyonce concert with. Fag hags are great to have around so treat them well, and you'll have a friend for life.

Thailand, long a front-leader as a destination for retirees, is now facing stiff competition for the gray dollar from other Asian destinations. In a recent survey by International Living, Malaysia was the only Asian country to appear in the top five havens for foreign retirees, pushing Thailand into ninth place. Malaysias attractions were said to be its balmy climate, quality medical care, widely-spoken English and the low cost of living. Although Thailand issues far more annual retirement visas than Malaysia 35,000 compared with 3,000 at the last count Malaysia is actively recruiting foreigners who do not insist on a cosmopolitan nightclub scene. Their Second Home Programme, launched a decade ago, includes a ten-year multi-entry visa, tax exemption for remittance of offshore pension funds, the right to open a business and work for 20 hours a week, tax-free purchase of locally-made cars and ownership of freehold property subject to some restrictions. However, an initial deposit must be made in a local bank, typically US $50,000. The one-year retirement visa issued by Thailand is easy to obtain but has no similar perks. In Thailand, a local bank account must contain 800,000 baht or evidence shown of yearly foreign income to the same amount. Although pension income must be confirmed by the applicants embassy or consulate, it is well known that many diplomatic posts make no check whatsoever. The downside of the Thai retirement visa is that working is strictly forbidden and there are penalties and inconvenience for those forgetting to obtain a re-entry permit for foreign travel or omitting to report their address every three months. The minimum age is 50, somewhat higher than the regulations in several other countries. Some other ASEAN countries also are promoting themselves as retirement havens. The Philippines, the only other Asian country to appear in International Livings table of the top 22 destinations, has a special retirees resident visa which is proving popular with Chinese and Japanese as well as Americans. Financial requirements are a time-deposit of US $10,000 and a monthly pension of at least US $800, whilst wives and dependants can follow with a minimum of bureaucratic fuss. Laos, Cambodia and Vietnam do not yet have an extended visa programme for retirees, although it is possible to live there without regular departures. Cambodia is not strict about issuing multiple-entry, one-year business visas which can be renewed even if no business has been transacted. In Laos, long-stay foreigners often volunteer with an NGO-sponsored organization, and Vietnamese embassies abroad can issue one-year visas which may be extended. Indonesia requires that retirees rent a dwelling and employ at least one local as a maid or driver. Singapore is too expensive for most pensioners and a five-year permit requires a high income as well as purchase of a residence in certain permitted zones. The Myanmar embassy in Bangkok told Pattaya Today that its visa regulations were currently under review. Author Peter Cox, who is researching a book on retirement, said that the onset of the ASEAN Economic Community in 2015 will have many consequences for the retirement market. He predicted that many retirees would seek a long-term visa in more than one country to take advantage of the easing of regional travel restrictions in the medium term. Cox also cautioned that Thailand needed to re-examine its policy on retirement visas by reducing the age limit and offering incentives such as those pioneered by Malaysia. The International Living report suggests that the best country of all in which to retire is Ecuador, quoting its low living costs. A beer costs 85 cents (28 baht) and a doctors visit is about US $25, not to mention the special benefits for retirees which include half-price entertainment and local transport, discounted airfares and refunds of sales tax. It is, however, suggested that you learn some Spanish before taking up residence in Ecuador or you may risk many lonely evenings. http://pattayatoday.net/news/latest-edition/retirement-options-are-expanding/

This has made national news around the world and IMHO, the guy should be fire. However, he has the support of his school and his community. It will be interesting to see what the school board does in the case. They could just let it go but to do so makes it look like Alabama hasn't changed in the last 50 years. In many cases that is right as you can see just from listening to the tape. The guy Bob Grisham is a nasty bigot.

TW, have you ever been to Barcelona? If so, you should love anything Spanish.

Corner Bar has great potential and the location couldn't be better. At one time, I was close to buying the bar, (before Gary) but glad I didn't. Since that brain fart, I have not considered the idea of owning another bar as too much hassle and too many issues. But, the bar can be fantastic if run right! I wish the new owners great success.

If I thought for one moment that I would be able to do it, I would spend a few months doing it. I know of several friends who went to the school in Bangkok mentioned and enjoyed it. Months later, it was all forgotten. I think I would be a failure in learning the language as some of us are just not good with our own language and it would be harder for us to learn another one.

I love Tappas and will try this place on my next trip. I love Spanish food and boys! Has anyone eaten here yet?

I enjoy this area for the guy watching. There are always tons of cute guys around and I like the waiters as well. I have never been fond of the food here or the one across the street but I don't think people go for the food. Do they?

I have eaten here about 100 times over the years and always enjoyed the meal. Also, the Thai boys I take seem to enjoy the meal. It is a very short walk to all the gay bars and the place is very relaxing and fun. Sometimes you may need a reservation as it has gotten more popular over the year as sometimes tour buses stop by with loads of customers. Overall, it is one of my favorite places to eat in Bangkok.

Sugar bowl is a restaurant you will never forget, You will have an amazing dinner in this small cozy and comfortable restaurant that will make you feel like you are in your own home. You can start your meal with a Lychee Martini or a Cosmo and I'm sure you will be very satisfied with the amount of alcohol that you will have in your drink. After that you can try the Sugar Bowl Calamari appetizer, spaghetti ,Massaman Home Style BBQ Pork Ribs as a main course. Whatever you try your mouth will be enjoying the exotic flavors of the chefs at this restaurant. Please remember to tell us your experiences at this unusual restaurant? Address: 76 Silom Soi 4, Silom Street, Bangkok, Thailand 10500/ 10400 Phone: +66 2 632 8252 open Hour: Mon - Sun: 6:00 pm - 1:30 am Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/pages/SugarBowl-Bangkok/184075308281948 Google coordinate: https://maps.google....2943&hl=en&z=16

Spanish on 4 is the new sister restaurant of the ever popular Tapas Cafe in Sukhumvit Soi 11. Located in lively Silom Soi 4, the new restaurant has a striking black terazzo bar that dominates the downstairs dining room. At the back end of the bar are food displays with some of the days's tapas dishes on display and Spanish cured hams hanging overhead. There are open kitchens both downstairs at the end of the bar and upstairs at the back of the main dining room. We specialize in Spanish tapas - small dishes from Spain for sharing among friends - and pride ourselves on serving food with a very authentic European taste. Tapas is eaten in Spain as a snack to accompany drinks - much like "Kap Klaem" in Thailand. Outside Spain, most tapas restaurants cater for diners who want a wide variety of food to share for their main dinner, or lunch. At Spanish on 4, you are welcome to drop in for a quick snack and a drink, or to join us for a full meal. Tapas Cafe, Bangkok's First Spanish Tapas Bar and Restaurant. It is not a Spanish theme bar, but a modern innovative tapas bar serving both traditional and modern tapas dishes. There are no upturned sherry barrels and no bullfight posters on the walls. The interior is strikingly modern with exposed concrete beams, a light airy feel and comfortable informal furniture. Music is an eclectic mix of Spanish flamenco, Brazilian and Spanish jazz, world music of all types and a huge range of Cuban salsa and timba. Since opening in late 2006, Tapas Cafe is already proving a popular alternative to the more familiar international pubs and restaurants. There has been great feedback on the food and ambience and repeat customers are returning for more! It has already become somewhat of a meeting place for Bangkok’s small Spanish community. The food is the main draw, but the music and availability of Spanish newspapers and magazines is a definite plus. Spanish on 4 78, 80 Silom Soi 4 Bangkok 10500 http://www.spanishon4.com/

We welcome you to a friendly, cosy and classy and bar and restaurant located in the centre of Bangkok’s busy nightlife scene in Silom and Surawong near Pat Pong. Maxis is a great place to relax on a special night and enjoy a wide range of food and drink from 6.00pm until 2.00am. Special Thai food and Western food by trained chefs with friendly waiters and bar service. Maxis is a great place to sit inside in the cool or outside and watch the constant parade of the lavender people (purple if you are Thai) in search of a good time. Here in Soi Pratuchai (formerly Soi Twilight) you will find the best of the go-go boy bars. Just pass under the Arch into a world of lights, sound and action. If you are looking for a place to eat or just to sit and drink to watch the parade of boys and tourists then Maxis is a good start. Just sit and relax and be served by our attentive staff who can tell you everything about this Soi and other gay attractions. Get away from the hustle and bustle and enjoy a comfortable place inside in the cool and great service from our bar staff. You want a private dinner, no problem we have a special dining place for you with a balcony that looks over the Soi and keeps you nicely cool and comfortable. Maybe a private function or party for a larger group, yes we have a function room just for you and your friends. http://www.maxisbar.com MAXISBAR AND RESTAURANT 38/1-2 SOI PRATUCHAI SURAWONG 4 RD. BANGKOK. 10500

The Mango Tree is NOT a gay restaurant but it is a short walk from the gay bars and many gay men go there for a nice dinner. It is down the same soi as Tawan Bar. It is great food at reasonable prices. Mango Tree has served Thai dishes for over Twenty years. With the inspiration and belief that every guest should be treated as if they were coming into your own home. The owner does this with every guest through his passion for photography and a large display of cameras spanning many eras that can be seen as you enter the restaurant. It is like you are entering into his home and he wants to treat you like a special invited house guest. The restaurant building itself is in a Thai-style home from King Rama VI, located in the heart of Silom Road area, with a big mango tree standing in the front yard, from which the name of restaurant originated. The restaurant, decorated with wooden furniture and fresh flowers, gives a cozy atmosphere, like dining at home. The courtyard outside is shady, breezy and pleasant, especially with evening live classical Thai music and beautiful dancing performances. Mango Tree 37 Soi Tantawan, Surawongse Rd., Bangkok 10500 Tel. 0 2236 2820, 0 2236 1681 Fax. 0 2238 2649 E-mail : mangotree@coca.com Open Daily : 11.30 a.m. - 12.00 p.m. http://www.coca.com/mangotree/index.php

Coffee Society Coffee Society is Thailand's most gay-friendly coffee shop & café in the heart of Bangkok on Silom, open 24 hours a day with free WiFi, and just a very short walk from the Saladaeng BTS Sky Train station. The clientele range from local Thais to tourists from around the world and expats working in Thailand—and many people come from outside the Silom area to enjoy the surroundings of Coffee Society. With Silom Soi 2 (home of DJ Station) and 4 (Balcony, Telephone Bar, Bearbie, Sphinx) nearby, Coffee Society is very popular with the local and international gay community who are very welcome. 12/3 Silom Road | Suriyawong, Bangrak, Bangkok, Thailand http://www.facebook.com/CoffeeSociety http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=e3xS8kUNtqM

The Bug and Bee is a restaurant located near Sillom 2. It is not exclusively gay but it is very gay friendly as it is so close to the gay scene. As there was very little information on their website, any reviews or comments would be appreciated. http://www.bugandbee.com Address: no. 18 Silom Road

I have never been in love with beachlover. I have always been in love with any posters ability to post on message boards unless rules are broken. Some may disagree with the rules being broken bit. But, I have never seen the need to ban or remove posters from websites. And, that does mean beachlover and LMTU. If I didn't like their posts, I didn't read them. But, I have never seen the point to banning anyone. Sorry, that for you means I am plastic?

He is adorable and my favorite on the show. I also like Tyler.

LOL Thanks lookin. Too funny!

I don't know who you mean, either.

Love it. Love it. Love it. And, I also love my football. Roll Tide Roll! But, I'll take any of the guys in the photos above and stay home from the game!

Of course you don't. But, I bet you will be one of the first ones to whine like a little girl when he returns. :cray: Sorry, I didn't mean anything by that either. Just a random thought. Very nice pictures, Z.

RA1, I have been in touch with the people that make the forum. I can't do much as they can't see it either. But, if you know how to do a screen capture video and send that to me, I'll get it to them so they can see exactly what they are talking about. Again, I am so sorry this is a pain in the ass for you!

LOL I am pretty fucking liberated. I never said I had an unhappy childhood. I said I was bullied a little BUT and this is a big but, my family and friends stood up for me and fought back when I didn't want to. My childhood was spurts of great fun and joy mixed with feelings that I was missing out on a part of who I was. Dating girls did not feel false at the time. It felt lacking. I still have sex with women on occasion and do not feel that is false either. It is just what I want at the time. My mom did tell her friends. You must have been so sad growing up that it pains you to see someone live a good life and be happy with the decisions they have made and have a family that supports him. I am sorry you did not get to experience this. But, that does not mean that others who had different experiences are false.

hitoallusa, I love your positive attitude. I still disagree. Things that this man does impacts us greatly. There are 2 petitions on moveon.org about this. One was created days ago and is trying to get him fired. The other was was created much more recent and has about the same number of signatures. That tells you where the hearts and minds of the people is his red neck, hillbilly, backward ass, racist town stand! Fuck Bob Grisham and fuck the people that support that asshole. I hope they all rot in hell!