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How To Prepare Your Boy Toy For His First Anal Invasion Let's face it - young guys are hot. Newly out of the closet, they want to get their gay on. They can fuck all night, their young bodies are beautiful to touch and look at, and it's fun to initiate them into the wonderful world of gay sex. These are just a few of the reasons why we love them so much. But, there can be one downside to picking up a fresh-faced new boy toy: If they are 18 or 19 (which, what a coincidence, is when many of them are at their most desirable), then they've probably done some experimenting in high school. They have certainly given some hand jobs, and most of them have given head. But, what many of them haven't done is gotten properly fucked up the ass yet. Sure, they may have tried, but their fellow high school friends probably didn't know what they were doing and things probably didn't get too far until they stopped before getting balls-deep in ass. Yet, you know you want to fuck him and you know that he needs to be fucked if he's going to be a proper boy toy and earn all those cocktails and nice dinners you buy him. So, it's your job as the sexperienced fag to teach him how to take it like a man right up his tight little puckered ass. This means that it's going to be your job to be his anal advisory. It's a hard job, but somebody has to do it. Plus, it's always fun to be the first to get inside. So, let's spend a little time today, my fabulous fags, talking about just how to break him in right. The first thing you are going to have to do is tell him that you aren't going to do it without wearing a condom. This may sound hard to believe for those of us in the older generation, but many young gays don't think they need to use protection. They didn't grow up with friends dying from HIV, so they don't think of it as a real threat. Therefore, they'll want to take it bare and while that's going to be tempting, you can't let them have it. The habits you teach them now will last a lifetime, so they need to get used to latex love. The second thing you are going to have to teach them about is prepping themselves for the actual sexperience. Many of them will not have thought through anal sex as much as they should have. This means that they won't know it's a good idea for them to clean themselves out before you stick it where the sun don't shine. So, buy some enemas and explain to them how they can use them to make things all nice and tidy. Along with this type of prep work, it's a good idea to buy a small dildo. You probably don't want the first thing to ever go up their ass to be your cock. Instead, during your make-out sessions, start using the dildo on their ass so they get used to having something up there. Spend at least three or four nights stimulating them this way before you move on to your pink torpedo. You'll also have to teach them about the benefits of lube. Remember, sexual education in America sucks right now, and many of them may have no idea that they need to get everything all slippery-slidey before tab A goes into slot B. You can train them in how to use lube when you are training them to accept the dildo. The advice I always give a new boy toy is, Imagine how much lube you think you need, and then double it! Now show them how to put a condom on a man. And make sure you tell them to always put the condom on the guy themselves because while you won't try to stealth them, other guys in the future will, and you want to look out for their best interests in the long term. Remember, each new generation is born HIV free; it's the older generation that passes it on to them. But with proper condom training, we can make this a thing of the past. Once your boy toy has mastered cleaning himself out, learned to take a dildo, knows about condoms and can lube himself up, it's time to get him prepared for the anal invasion. Again, advice that may seem obvious to you won't seem so obvious to him: Before the first time you do it, discuss the pros and cons of using poppers with him. While everything will probably go more smoothly with poppers, it has to be his choice whether or not he wants to be a little high when he loses his cherry. Give him the information, and then respect his decision. Then ask him if he wants you to rim him before you make first entry. Some younger guys may be squeamish about this, so it's their decision and not yours. You can always bring it up again in the future when they are more sexperienced. Make sure they know it's not going to be like porn, where your dick slides in in about two seconds. They should be prepared for it to be a time-consuming process. And, on your end, be prepared to stick your dick in very, very slowly to give them enough time to accommodate it. Now, tell them to take deep breaths as you start to move inside. Make them relax their body to accept the invader. The most important advice of all is to tell them to push out, while you push in. Yes, I know that we all know how to do that, but it's not an intuitive thing; it is something that needs to be explained if they are going to enjoy things. Once you get to the bottom (pun intended!) and your balls are resting on their ass, stop moving entirely. Tell them to take more deep breaths and let you know when they are ready for the actual fucking. Then, let them know that they will be in the lead. Start out with small strokes, and wait for them to encourage you to speed up. In no time at all, they will be used to the sinful sensation and ready for more. When you finish they are probably going to be a bit emotionally wiped out, so cuddle with them and let them know you care. Keep this advice in mind, and you'll own their ass in no time. cc boytoy.com 2013

Thank you docbr. Great information!

We all have different things we look for when visiting a country or city. I look for many things including decent hotels, sometimes beaches, airfare, a sauna or two or at least a way to hook up. The rest usually works itself out. If I find that I don't feel safe in Salvador, I'll stay in my hotel, order room service and get a nice boy from the sauna to spend the weekend with me. I have been robbed at gun point 2 times in my life. Both were in Sao Paulo. But, I love the city and I keep going back. I love the hotels and I love Lagoa and Fragata. But, I also have friends there that look after me. I don't have that in Salvador but I'll try to find someone really quick.

Great video. Were these meant for men or women or both?

It is a free site. But, you are right, like most forums, it does require you to register in order to see the photos. The threads are still good and have good information if you want to travel to Brazil and you can easily view without registering.

Here are a few threads of years gone by that have some temple photos. Like BaoBao, I love this thread. Thanks Bob! http://www.gaythailand.com/forums/topic/8529-trip-report-isan-for-new-years-plus-wat-kham-pramong/?hl=temple http://www.gaythailand.com/forums/topic/8282-sanctuary-of-truth-in-pattaya-a-few-photos/?hl=temple http://www.gaythailand.com/forums/topic/7777-bangkoks-penis-shrine/?hl=temple&do=findComment&comment=56104 http://www.gaythailand.com/forums/topic/6662-chiang-mai-4-days-in-the-temple-for-young-boys/?hl=temple

A very interesting read: http://www.nytimes.com/2013/02/17/travel/rio-with-eyes-open.html?pagewanted=1&tntemail1=y&_r=1&emc=tnt&

Even the Thai boys agree!

Sorry about this experience. I have never had anything like that happen in my time in Thailand. Although if I did, I would think it would happen at Tawan or Jupiter2002. I hope you both are over this and OK!

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I have 2 Thai ladyboy friends that work at the Sister Center. They are great gals and the center does a great job of education in the city. Nice to see this article. It is sad to see the discrimination against the ladyboys but in Pattaya, they make the papers all the time. Why? There is much more money in the lady business and their bosses take care of that. IMHO

It is an interesting read for sure. It is not what I have been told of the prisons in Thailand. I have spoken to many that have been and they all said that sex with anyone in prison was taboo and when caught, they were punished severely.

With so many miles, you don't need any more so they turned you down. They only give these offers to those of us who can't fly around the world 10 times free.

Paris, I think all the cities in Brazil will have different character and I like seeing all of them. I don't just go to saunas. I like to see beaches, museums, and where the people of Brazil love to visit. IHPGUY, I only have 3 days there and was thinking of staying the entire time in the city as it is so short. But, I would be willing to consider one day away from the city. Not sure if it would be worth it for one day but as I only have 3 nights there, I just could not do much more on this trip. However, I am open.

I'll be in Sao Paulo in 2 weeks so I'll get to see first hand how much this place has declined.

I have to admit that I have been to UK about 20 times and each time, I am fascinated with the history and the former royalty of the country. I have been to many of the castles and palaces and am always in awe. Being from a very new country, the old homes and churches, etc. are a great selling point for me. On my first trip there I was 16 years old. The guy I was traveling with was an antiques dealer and they showed us some great places and I bought so many antiques that I had to hold them in my lap on the plane back to USA. It was such a joy and thrill. I also love the theater and no better place on earth than in London. IMHO (and Broadway too) I have really enjoyed reading all about this Richard III story in the press and seeing it on TV. It is fascinating!

LOL Again? I thought they did this once before and then closed and reopened?

South America is beautiful and one of my favorite destinations. Take a look at the guys in this thread: http://www.boytoy.com/forums/index.php?/topic/12887-the-sexiest-guy-i-ever-met-in-rio/ and this one: http://www.boytoy.com/forums/index.php?/topic/13111-favorite-photos-of-a-favorite-rio-guy/ here is a thread on the trip a friend of mine took to Rio last year: http://www.boytoy.com/forums/index.php?/topic/8905-rio-january-2012/ and lastly my thread on my trip to Brazil on a budget: http://www.boytoy.com/forums/index.php?/topic/5429-brazil-on-a-budget-a-nutty-totallyoz-adventure/ I am currently in the planning stages for my trip in less than 2 weeks to Brazil again for one month. I have 10 days in Sao Paulo 4 days in Fortaleza 3 days in Salvador 4 days in Porto Alegre 9 days in Rio (I have used points for every city except Salvador and will stay in all hotels for free. Another reason I am a point whore) and I may add on 5 days in Belo Horizente at the end of the trip depending on how tired I am. I'll be traveling with my friend tomcal who posted the first 3 thread above. He is a bit of a sauna slut and last trip I was there with him, I could not really keep up and was so tired at the end of my week with him that I needed a week's vacation to recover from my vacation. In summary Abang, you MUST make some time and go to Brazil. It really is paradise and it one of my favorite places on earth.

I think both of those apply for most airline deals. I had friends that didn't get that promotion email click and they were entered as well. But, they all travel with Delta. If you are not a regular Delta customer, I am not sure any of these miles deals are worthwhile but for me they are. I have one friend that would go Business Class to Hong Kong 2 times a year to maintain his Platinum Status when they offered the fares cheap. He flew over for one day and then back. For some people who do watch their points and miles, these deals really can be worthwhile. As for the cheapest tickets, that is very common. If you purchase with Delta.com it should qualify. I have not booked with any airline directly that did not give you their miles. If you purchase from a consolidator, then it may not. I only ran into this once when I book a business fare from a consolidator for about 70 percent of what the airline charged. It was worth it for me but it did not accrue any miles. I also know that some Expedia fares work and some do not. Same for other sites like that. I guess it just depends on which is more important to someone, booking the cheapest ticket and saving 100 dollars or getting the miles. On a recent trip I am taking in Brazil, I'll fly into Sao Paulo on Delta and out from Rio. While inside the country I wanted to visit a few other cities and so I used Delta's partner GOL. It was a real PITA as they website doesn't work well and often you have to call to book the tickets. But, I spent a day doing this as I wanted my miles while traveling in that country. I booked Sao Paulo to Fortaleza and then to Salvador and then to Porto Alegre and then to Rio. So, I'll do 3 other cities other than Sao Paulo and Rio De Janeiro. The country is vast and I saw no need to book with TAM airline even though it was about 150 USD cheaper and not get points. Plus, as a priority member, I get good seats and first pick on the seats, extra luggage allowance and priority boarding. This is not important for some people that travel lightly but I'll have 3 suitcases with me and I want to be sure I get them all covered with my ticket. If I had not traveled with GOL, I would have to pay for excess which would be higher than the savings. Often when traveling, you need to look at all these little things and determine what is best for you.

It looks to me like India is undervalued. That is NOT accurate. I could not get a good Big Mac in India. That is not a fair comparison. I have used the Big Mac Escort Tip Index for years. With that, an escort in the USA often gets a 100 dollar tip. That is roughly 30 Big Macs. Do Thai escorts get the same? (Tip I am referring to and not the base pay)

Great way to earn more points if you fly Delta! http://dmn.delta.com/ace_plrs/DoubleMilesToAsia/?MkCpgn=EMSPOPAA002953021513094841-A01A-A

I have been to the Black Party more times than I care to remember and I always had fun. The shows are great and wild. The music is amazing. I did go inside the "dark room" but I was with a BF and he and I played together and not with others. I have no problem with anyone wanting sex in a dark room. Adults should be able to make their own decisions. I have yet to see any show on earth that has amazing porn stars fucking on stage and having a blast. If I were in NYC, I'd go. But, I use to live only a 5 min walk from Roseland so it was easy back in my youth.

Well, I like Nicki. I didn't at first as she is a bit much to take. But, she is funny and with the ones she likes, she is helpful.

I miss the Preppy Handbook Days!

I really enjoyed Jekyl and Hyde on Broadway. I saw this with Linda Eder and Emily Skinner. I thought the show was fun and the music was enjoyable. I loved Linda Eder!