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What To Do If Your Boy Toy Wants A Ring At Boy Toy, we are excited that so many states in America are joining the 21st century by legalizing gay marriage. Of course, we believe that people have the right to love anyone they want and should be able to take advantage of the same legal advantages as straight people. But, we also know that with the normalization of gay marriage there can be problems for some of us in the gay community. After all, marriage isn't for everyone. As one of my friends said to me the other day, Shit, my boy toy wants a ring. I just want to have fun. What the fuck am I supposed to do to avoid this and not hurt him? It's a good question particularly if you are in a relationship with a boy toy. You know that in a year or two you'll want to trade him in for a younger model (since all boy toys come with an expiration date), but telling him that might cause you to lose access before you are ready to let him go. So, what's a daddy to do to keep his boy toy around and not get pressured into making a lifelong commitment to your cock of the month? Well, it's not easy, but we do want to help all our wonderful fags here. So we've put together some tips that can help you avoid the marriage problem without pissing off the guy who gets you off. And, don't think that by avoiding marriage you are being bad to your boy. If he's young, he probably doesn't understand how big a commitment marriage is, and you'll simply doing him a good deed by helping him put it off until he's older and more able to handle a lifelong relationship. You can start off simply by telling him you don't think it would be fair for the two of you to get married until everyone in America has the right to gay marriage. Say that you want to show solidarity to the gay community in less enlightened areas. This is a safe bet, because the odds of Alabama every making gay marriage legal are slim to none. If that doesn't work, then you can try to explain to him that you are against the idea of marriage in principle. Many younger gays are very politically correct. Play on that. Tell him that marriage is a tool of the oppressive heterosexual patriarchy. It's a sentence that means nothing at all, but will sound cool and is hard to argue against, since it was originally a patriarchal institution. Another good tactic is to point out how much weddings cost, and tell him what other fun things you could do with that money. Promise him an expensive vacation instead, and point out that this wouldn't be possible if you blew the cash on a big wedding. If he points out that you don't have to spend a lot of money on a wedding, start crying and tell him that you've always fantasized about your dream wedding and can't believe he doesn't respect your long-term romantic desires. Should you not want to go down that route, you could always scare him a bit with the reality of marriage. Have your lawyer draw up the most ridiculous pre-nup you can think of. The crazier the better. Make it something that he'd never be willing to sign in a million years. Then, if he won't sign it, tell him that you can't take his proposal seriously if he's not willing to make that huge of a legal commitment. Speaking of the reality of marriage, I know that many of you dudes like to have threesomes with your boy toy and other guys. And, your boy toy probably enjoys them as well. If that's the case, then tell him that if you got married you'd expect that to stop and only have sex with each other. If he really likes having strange dick to play with, this should shut him up for a while at least. Another way to scare him off the idea is to act like you are interested in getting married, and then start talking about how you can then adopt a kid together or use a surrogate to have a child. The average 22-year-old boy toy may be into the idea of locking you into a relationship, but he isn't going to want to change diapers. He may never mention marriage to you ever again. You could also try a more subtle approach. We all know married couples whose relationship is an absolute nightmare. It's as common and American as apple pie. Why not start spending a lot of time around that couple? Then constantly tell your boy toy that you think they have the ideal relationship. Let him worry about what marriage to you would actually be like in the real world as opposed to the abstract. If you want to be less devious, you could also start talking to him about the realities of marriage. Point out that nearly half of all straight marriages fail, and ask him why he thinks gay marriages would be any different. You can also point out how sex often dies away when people get married. Which makes sense, because sex is generally hotter when it is somewhat transgressive that's probably one the things you like about gay sex. Point out that once you two are street legal between the sheets, the spark might go away fast. Then, show him just how much a divorce costs and ask him if he'd be willing to spend several thousand dollars on lawyer's fees should you ever have a falling out. There are a million statistics available out there on just how miserable marriage is, so just keep showing them to him until the idea of getting married seems about as fun to him as going down on one of his fag hags. No matter what tactic you take, during any and all discussions let him know you love him (even if you really just love his ass) because a young dude looking to get married is really just trying to tell you he wants to feel some emotional security. Making him feel loved and cared for will make the idea of getting married seem much less important to him. When done right, this advice should keep you from having to register at Barney's or take a trip to Tiffany's for years to cum! cc boytoy.com 2013

It would be great to see this but holding hearings is not going to help too much. Isn't the current party in power the ones who more anti gay?

LOL Something is going on here that we don't know about. Conspiracy theories?

To my knowledge this board has never banned based on other boards. I think the OP has this board confused with another board. I agree with TW that this is of no relevance here.

I don't disagree with you. But, as one who almost became a minister (LOL) I still have a great many friends in religion jobs. Some are trying to enact changes within their churches. When asked, I still help them. This friend who asked me today has been a friend for over 30 years. A long long time ago.

Eloquent and beautiful sir! Thank you.

OK. A very odd question and many may not want to answer but a friend of mine from my childhood days is a preacher. He is also a friend and we have had many communications about being gay. He is always supportive of me but now he wants to bring this to his church and preach about Homosexuality in a more positive light. He feels this may get him fired but he is going to do this anyway. It is a very conservative Baptist Church in the South. He asked me for my thoughts and I'd appreciate anyone chiming in. He asked: I plan to implement some thoughts on the homosexual community and how the church views and treats them as opposed to how we should treat them. I would like you to write me back all of your thoughts on homosexuality and the church.

OK. A very odd question and many may not want to answer but a friend of mine from my childhood days is a preacher. He is also a friend and we have had many communications about being gay. He is always supportive of me but now he wants to bring this to his church and preach about Homosexuality in a more positive light. He feels this may get him fired but he is going to do this anyway. It is a very conservative Baptist Church in the South. He asked me for my thoughts and I'd appreciate anyone chiming in. He asked: I plan to implement some thoughts on the homosexual community and how the church views and treats them as opposed to how we should treat them. I would like you to write me back all of your thoughts on homosexuality and the church.

Is there a link to find this?

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I can't wait to see the Beebs host Saturday Night Live tonight!

LOL Of course I did. I have watch this thread go from one about praying and godly things, to licking and liking. Sinners all of you!

I have had drinks in this bar many times and it was very comfortable and relaxing and the staff were extremely friendly and fun to chat with. I did have my BF with me but that did not stop the flirting.

Dream Boys is one of the best gogo bars in Thailand. It is full of stunning guys, a great show and it is decorated beautifully and very comfortable. My only complaint with it is the prices for the drinks. It seems to me the last time I went, the drink were near 400 baht. That is a high price for a drink and the off fees were through the roof. That said, for anyone visiting Thailand or Bangkok for the first time, this place is a must see. You will find some of the hottest guys on earth in this place. There are other bars that I prefer for a regular visit but I still try to get to this bar once per visit but when I lived in Bangkok for one year, I think I went to the bar 2 times.

The Patio is a gay bar in the Silom 2 area of Bangkok. The interior is beautiful and this is a great bar to stop by and have a nice drink with some of the hottest guys in Thailand. Silom Soi 2, Silom Rd, Bang Rak, Bangkok 10500 Sala Daeng BTS / Silom MRT http://www.dj-station.com/patio.html

One Night Only (ONO) has three areas, which one area is outside and two areas inside. It comes with live DJ, seating area and small bar at first floor and big bar and lounge for private and exclusive time at second floor. The whole pub is high-end feeling with local and international guests as well as international drinks and liqueurs. Come and experience a new pub generation with high-end entertainment and an unique concept as well as a surprise every night - make every night One Night Only! http://www.ono-bkk.com/ http://www.facebook.com/ono.bkk

Expresso is as its name implies, a coffee shop/bar in the same area as DJ Station. If you need a pick me up before or after a night of partying, Expresso is the place to go. http://www.dj-station.com/expresso.html

This is not really a disco but it does play great music and many people dance. It is a great place to drop by when you are in the Silom Soi 2 area. Please add photos, videos, reviews and comments. http://www.dj-station.com/discodisco.html

Great venue along this trendy Soi that houses DJ Station club. It boasts "a little Morrocco in big Bangkok" which is exactly as it says on the tin. This is a great place to relax and drink before heading to DJ station. http://www.dj-station.com/clubcafe.html Silom Road, Soi 2 10500 Silom Bangkok Thailand

Bearbie is a bar and karaoke for Chubbies, Chasers, Bears and all who love them.. Please be our guest – you are already invited ! The Bearbie bar and Karaoke is said to be the only place for Chubby & Chasers in Bangkok. It was established by a group of Thai Chub and Chaser friends who love hanging out, singing and meeting new people. Address: 2nd Floor, 82 Silom Soi 4, Bangrak, Bangkok 10500 http://www.facebook.com/pages/Bearbie-Bar/110474382356640 https://foursquare.com/v/bearbie-bar/4c24dc74c11dc9b62f252624

Friendly cocktail bar located almost at the end of Soi 4 on the left hand side. Silom Road, Soi 4 10500 Silom Bangkok Thailand http://www.facebook.com/Bas.Silom4

4 Sports is the place to follow your favorite football team. All available LIVE SPORTS will be shown: Football :: Formula 1 :: Moto Sports :: Tennis :: Golf etc. Play your favorite music from our extensive library in our newly designed bar. Silom Road, Silom Soi 4, Bangkok, Thailand http://www.facebook.com/pages/4-sports-bar/126071200773255

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Who didn't know this was coming? IMHO, any gay man who thinks praying to take away their gay should be sent to a gay sauna for one week with hot guys. If they can resist the temptation for that week, they are cured (for that week). If not, they are gay. http://www.addictinginfo.org/2013/02/06/ex-gay-crusader-who-publicly-bragged-about-being-cured-caught-trolling-for-men/

LOL Who didn't know this was coming? http://www.addictinginfo.org/2013/02/06/ex-gay-crusader-who-publicly-bragged-about-being-cured-caught-trolling-for-men/