ChristianPFC

I used to have a signature, but that has been gone for some weeks or months without notice, so I assume signature has been disabled in forum software.

A boy I met in 2010 or 11 told me: "My friend has (I can't make out the word)". Your friend has what? "My friend has (I can't make out the word)". Then I asked him to write the word on my phone: pormbel. I understand written, even if mangled, much better than spoken and instantly understood: problem.

First: how well do you know and and does he want to go? Second: does he know his way around (I mean do not expect him to organize everything; some can, others can't and will be a burden). I would start negotiations with 1500 THB per night. If he wants more that a means either he is not interested in the place or in me or is greedy, all good reasons for me to forego this boy.

Tipping, the perennial favorite! I would not have tipped anyone, as I don't need any advice from mamasan; and from waiter I only want him to bring my drink, which he is paid for by his employer. Either a reputation as cheapskate precedes me, or I look like a non-tipper, or I immediately forget such incidents, but I don't remember such problem. If someone asks for a tip, he will get a "no" and if he asks again, another "no" and the next person from that bar or elsewhere "no". I'm immune to those requests/demands/expectations, they run off my skin like water on a lotus leaf. When the big cock or fuck show performers roam the audience, I keep my hands on my lap and just smile and say "thank you" when they come to me. Being a single child and having lived alone might help for this: I do not do what others expect/demand/request I do, I do what I think feel doing.

Not at all! There are few in touristy areas, but I have seen many, and used some, all over Bangkok (where it would take too long, and return fare for taxi would cost similar as the ST room, to take a boy to my room). In the provinces they are mostly resorts out of town, unsuitable for my needs (I don't have a car, and I have a hotel room in town). https://christianpfc.blogspot.com/2014/12/short-time-hotels-in-bangkok.html

Except for gay saunas (no entry to women), discrimination against men seems to be much more common than against women. I remember in 2013, I saw a line of cute boys dressed similarly walk along Surawang, and could not contain my curiosity and followed them to find them all going into a back door. There was a kind of doorman, so I asked him where this lead and he told me a bar for ladies only. So there are bars staffed with cute boys, that do not allow entry to male customers! I couldn't make out where the main entrance is.

Thanks for your report. I would sit through an all-male show once to see if there is something new, but if it's all ladyboys and lipsync, I have to schedule my visit so I'm done when the show starts. Similar for smoking, if it's too much, don't go in.

Some weeks ago, I passed in the afternoon. Super A had signs of life and staff invited me to come in for a drink, but there were no boys. Golden Cock was open but there were only few boys, fully dressed. Nature Boys was closed and it looked like it would open at night, meaning no note or no sign of permanent closure.

(Agree with "premium prices" meaning being outrageously expensive, and I take most of my business online or to Pattaya for that reason, but that's not the reason for my comment.) Gay bars and straight bars have different business models. In gay bars in Patpong, average prices are 350 drink, 500 off fee, 2000 short time; in straight bars 150-200 drink, 1000 off fee, 3-5000 short time. Correct me if I'm wrong (limited experience with gay bars there and zero experience with straight bars).

My experience opposite. I logged in years, didn't tick any boxes, and remain logged in (only during change of web address did I have to log in again). Firefox and Windows 7.

Everywhere in Thailand. Or if you refer to (The various apps have been compared recently. See my comments there fore details.) I don't remember if it was this forum or another.

I reward performance (not by high tips, but by repeat custom), not cuteness. I have reached a point where performance is more important than cuteness, and I had boys who were just so-so looks-wise and who I would instantly dismiss as "too fat" if I had seen them naked before meeting, but somehow they turned me on in bed.

I'm quite happy with blued in Thailand. (The various apps have been compared recently. See my comments there fore details.)

Massage and extras were perfunctory, and a ten minutes break which I find unacceptable, and on top of the (by my standards outrageous minimum tip) 2000 you gave an extra 300? I don't get it. Why did you have a driver waiting? There are taxi everywhere, on the road or online.

Do I read that right that Dream Boys Paradiso has a drink price of 350 THB, down from 500 or whatever they used to charge at Dream Boys / Boys Bangkok in Soi Twilight? Then there would be no more reason for me to blacklist them for being the most expensive bar, and I can go and have a (one, for research purposes) look some day.

Funny stories with the towels (ColmX), fridge and bathrobe (PeterRS). Those bottles have a cap that that shows if the bottle is sealed or was opened. And it's possible to check without damaging the seal. I would rather think that guests eat/drink from the room bar, and then refill it from 7-11 (solution would be the hotel puts sticker on it). I don't stay in such expensive places, where I stay in the provinces for average 500 THB per night, such problems wouldn't arise. But my pet peeve is a key deposit. It implies two things: 1 The guest is unable to look after his key. 2 The guest would not pay for the loss of the key. Even if this is true for 1% of the guests, it's unfair to hassle the other 99%. The hotel can easily bear the cost of replacing one key for 100 guests. Or am I applying Western thinking and such things happen so often, that the hotel has indeed to take such measures? Compare mobile phones. In 19 years of using mobile phones, I dropped one once, but I didn't damage it. Whereas the Thai seem to drop (cracking the screen) and lose mobile phone all the time. Unfortunately, key deposit is spreading, and location and price of hotel is more important to me than avoiding places with key deposit.

I don't care what people expect. They can expect to die some day, with that expectation they won't be disappointed. For various reasons, I don't tip. And if someone ASKS me for a tip, I wish we were still living in times where it was socially acceptable to slap servants.

My way of thinking! I rarely to go massage, but when I do it's looking for happy ending as well, and when the question of tip comes up, I offer 800 THB: 300 tip for massage and 500 for happy ending (getting my hands all over my masseur's naked body, mutual wanking). I have boys from the apps coming to my room for 1000 THB, and we do everything to my full satisfaction. I can't justify going to a massage shop, paying 400-500 THB for the shop (some even more, but I don't go to these) and then paying the masseur 1000. These places in Thailand make a killing from tourists who compare the prices in Thailand to prices in their home country, rather than to prices in Thailand. As you (z909) points out, some services are even more expensive in Thailand than in Europe. Absurd! I would say, worldwide prostitution costs on average 1 or 2 average daily wages. The prostitution scene for tourists in Thailand is way over that. A friend in Austria gets boys for 50 to 100 EUR. Do others have numbers from elsewhere in Europe to support my estimation? I'm not asking for escort/model/agencies, but the average pay-for-play encounter arranged on the apps or in a bar. AFAIK, most money boys in Europe are from Eastern Europe, not unsimilar to Thailand where many come from neighboring countries (except Malaysia)

For the same reasons, it's my least favorite disco in Bangkok. I haven't been for years, and while I can tolerate loud music (earplugs), smoking is intolerable. There are various shopping malls on the Western side of the river, but Icon Siam is the only of interest to tourists.

Details and pricing of Sauna Mania here: https://christianpfc.blogspot.com/2019/04/gay-activities-mar-2019.html

Those numbers do not encourage me to visit. But I will location and drink prices; until now I didn't know that there are boy bars in Patpong 1.

Chakran can be reached by BTS and walk. For Sauna Mania, I wrote details here: https://christianpfc.blogspot.com/2019/04/gay-activities-mar-2019.html

Glad to hear you are fine. In times of cheap air travel, "other side of the planet" is no excuse. Your sudden disappearance was distressing, and if you get your blog online again, please let us know. I made a collection of fragments of your blog that I had saved or others provided: https://christianpfc.blogspot.com/2013/10/shameless-mack-fragment-found.html

Now it becomes clearer. I had the idea of "Look kokopelli, I bought you a ticket to (place) on (time)." But still, I want to have full control, that means day and time of departure and return. The only acceptable way for me would be that I select and buy the ticket myself and the gifter refunds me the money.

Not at all. It's just that my attitude changed. When I was young, I was embarrassed being naked, even around family members, and now I poke fun at people in who change under a towel in gay sauna locker rooms, short of wiggling my willy at them. When I was young (gay in the closet), talk about sex by adult family members was embarrassing for me (for fear of being asked to contribute, or being exposed). Now THEY are embarrassed when I talk about my sexual adventures in Thailand and ask me to stop. It's so liberating not to have anything to hide!