If you have a boy for sex, you want to have anal sex or just oral sex? If you have anal sex, are you top and do you use lubricant and how do you clean boy's ass?

 

Curious.

 

I like myself anal sex as a top, use Boybutter and boy should clean his ass at least by showering the asshole.

I'm top and bottom. Depends on what mood I'm in. Sometimes I do both in one session.

 

I use KY.

 

I've never had a problem regarding cleanliness with a guy who bottoms. They know a cock is going up there and so clean themselves accordingly. Having a shower is not sufficient ; that's where the bum hose comes in handy.

I am versatile, but bottom only with not too big cocks ;-)

I use lub, and my preferred position is me riding on the cock, my partner laying on his back. So, I control the penetration… and the pleasure of the guy fucking me...

I'm versatile but when I'm with the Thai massage guys I like to bottom and I usually take my own condoms and gel that I buy before heading to LOS

100% into anal (as top)

If you have a boy for sex, you want to have anal sex or just oral sex?

 

oral is not real sex - just ask Clinton (not her, the other one - maybe before your time)

 

and using sex toys is not real sex either - just ask Clinton (again not her, the other one: "Monica I am never going to be able to get this thing to light now")

 

and email is not like anal sex even if it does turn out to be a pain in the ass - just ask Clinton (this time her, not the other one)

 

then bypassing anal or oral altogether there is the old Turkish proverb - "A woman for duty, a boy for pleasure, but a melon for ecstasy", though I am sure Portnoy would complain about the fruit choice

 

bkkguy

100% in to Anal as (95% bottom and 5% top)

Anal sex is cultural imperialism by the porn industry. I do a lot of wanking with boys (some people claim wanking is no sex, can do that alone at home), and the one or other fuck, top or bottom. I know people who don't do anal at all and are happy.

 

I'm more top, use lube and don't know how the boy cleans his ass. Had only one surprise in a sauna, it was quite dark so I didn't see it, but when taking off condom I noticed some matter on condom and on my finger, after some seconds of wondering it dawned on me, then I had to walk with it (condom and dirty hand) to a bathroom.

Anal sex is cultural imperialism by the porn industry.

 

I am used to reading in the straight press about the porn industry degrading women, and now this for balance ...  all I am waiting for now is an analysis of who exactly  is being exploited in porn depicting pre-op ladyboys fucking straight guys

 

and did you hear about the retired gay porn star that was sacked from his job at a gas station? every time he was pumping gas and the customer's tank was almost full he would pull the hose out and spray gasoline all over the car!

 

bkkguy

I am versatile when it comes to anal sex although tending towards being bottom during my recent trips to Pattaya. Strangely taking a cock seems to be getting easier. Cleaning around the asshole is obviously important and I pleased when the boy spends a good amount of time in the shower and I do myself, as I very much enjoy being rimmed.

However for me anal is not the be all and end all of gay sex. I also like prolonged kissing and nipple play, but not as much oral as I used indulge in.

I pretty much do a lot of inventive stuff but usually

avoid any anal. The boy would have to be pretty

Small. Plus I am unable to maintain erection from

Lack of sensation from the condom. I use condoms

For 69 etc. But must remove and wank for the finals.

Have found a lot of fun despite this handicap

Anal sex is cultural imperialism by the porn industry.

I like  your new invention !

 I usually take my own condoms and gel that I buy before heading to LOS

 

I can't get it into the plane.  Tried to take it with me once, but it was taken out. You can only have 100 ml max. Most lube bottles are over 100 ml.

Anal sex is cultural imperialism by the porn industry. 

 

This is true. I read a survey ones and it appears most gay couples rarely have anal sex. I like it as a top. I did bottom a few times, but I don't see the fun or pleasure when you bottom. All the time I have the feeling I need to shit (body thinks because anus opens you need to shit and it sends a shit signal to your brain; while in reality you do not need to shit at all). Also there is no real pleasure.

 

Are true bottoms wired differently? They have a pleasure spot in their anus which is triggered when they are fucked? They don't have the feeling during the whole fuck they need to shit? 

I can't get it into the plane.  Tried to take it with me once, but it was taken out. You can only have 100 ml max. Most lube bottles are over 100 ml.

one can easily buy everything in Thailand anyway. Unnecessary extra baggage....

 

This is true. I read a survey ones and it appears most gay couples rarely have anal sex. I like it as a top. I did bottom a few times, but I don't see the fun or pleasure when you bottom. All the time I have the feeling I need to shit (body thinks because anus opens you need to shit and it sends a shit signal to your brain; while in reality you do not need to shit at all). Also there is no real pleasure.

 

Are true bottoms wired differently? They have a pleasure spot in their anus which is triggered when they are fucked? They don't have the feeling during the whole fuck they need to shit? 

interesting, never heard about the feeling the need to shit before. Goes to show everyone is indeed very different! Yes, bottoms seem to be wired differently, no such feeling at all. There are actually 2 pleasure spots when fucked, one is the anus itself, same area experiencing pleasure when rimmed (out of interest in this context: you like to be rimmed, abidismaili?) and the prostrate.

one can easily buy everything in Thailand anyway. Unnecessary extra baggage....

 

interesting, never heard about the feeling the need to shit before. Goes to show everyone is indeed very different! Yes, bottoms seem to be wired differently, no such feeling at all. There are actually 2 pleasure spots when fucked, one is the anus itself, same area experiencing pleasure when rimmed (out of interest in this context: you like to be rimmed, abidismaili?) and the prostrate.

 

I am top as said. The few times I did bottom I felt I had to shit during to whole fuck and I felt no particular pleasure. Never did any rimming. I do feel pleasure when I am the one who is doing the fucking. I think my body is wired differently.

I read a survey ones and it appears most gay couples rarely have anal sex

 

I read two surveys recently, one said straight couples have anal sex regularly, the other said most surveys are poorly designed and do not produce reliable results - the first one I think was from Playboy magazine,  the second was if I remember correctly from the National Institute for Statistical Sciences

 

large packets of salt are available cheaply so there is no need to be parsimonious with the grains while doing one's daily "news" read

 

bkkguy

I can't get it into the plane.  Tried to take it with me once, but it was taken out. You can only have 100 ml max. Most lube bottles are over 100 ml.

Put in your checked luggage?  I often bring boxes of condoms for a "big" friend which are cheaper and better than in Thailand, oh, and bigger.

Put in your checked luggage?  I often bring boxes of condoms for a "big" friend which are cheaper and better than in Thailand, oh, and bigger.

 

No. I never travel with checked luggage. I go only one week each time, and everything fits in my carry-on luggage. Saves me waiting for the luggage each time I land. And it saves me from the thought "I hope my luggage arrived and didn't get lost".  Much more relaxing travelling without it.

I did bottom a few times, but I don't see the fun or pleasure when you bottom. All the time I have the feeling I need to shit (body thinks because anus opens you need to shit and it sends a shit signal to your brain; while in reality you do not need to shit at all). Also there is no real pleasure.

 

Are true bottoms wired differently? They have a pleasure spot in their anus which is triggered when they are fucked? They don't have the feeling during the whole fuck they need to shit? 

 

That's interesting, I feel similar. Bottoming doesn't give me much pleasure, I do it only with boys I like who are top only, but wouldn't pay anyone to fuck me. When lying flat on my stomach, I feel like needing to piss (but not in other positions).

 

True bottoms are probably wired differently.

True bottoms are probably wired differently.

 

Yes, it is either that, or it is a skill / pleasure that must be acquired.

 

I tried it once and it didn't work for me.  I think I'll leave the cultivation of bottoming for my next life.

There is some discomfort at the start of bottoming, and I try to get around it by sitting on my partner and easing in his appendage slowly into me...after a few rides, we should be able to try out any position.

Thats a good bit of advice. Also I would say dont rush things if you are not used to be a bottom. The top should ease his cock up very slowly and pause at intervals. This applies particulary the first few times.

Doesn't it go easier at the start if you sit on it easing it in yourself

than them easing it in?

Doesn't it go easier at the start if you sit on it easing it in yourself

than them easing it in?

Really depends on how good the top is, and how considerate. If a top is willing to spend a bit of time prepping a bottom, it really shouldn't hurt. Problem is that a lot of tops are only interested in their own pleasure and getting their cock in as fast as possible is the first step. That's goIng to hurt any way up.