Members unicorn Posted June 16 Members Posted June 16 I threw a big pool party for Flag Day (June 14th), and one of the hunkiest men there had plenty of tattoos. He was very friendly, and we got to talking, and I asked him about a number of tattoos, some of which were in foreign languages/scripts. He was very nice, and didn't seem to mind (in fact, he was just a tiny bit flirty, though, since my husband invited him, he knew I was taken). Are most men with tattoos OK with others asking about their tattoos at frolicking pool parties? I know that it does annoy me when people comment about my skin getting red in the sun, providing their opinion that they think I'm getting burnt, although I always wear strong sunblock (at least SPF 50, and was wearing SPF 100 that day), and my skin just gets red because of the temperature, and has nothing to do with getting burnt, which I don't when I wear sunblock. I'd especially like to hear from anyone who has tattoos. Do you mind when people ask you about them at very informal parties? Riobard 1 Quote
Members unicorn Posted June 17 Author Members Posted June 17 Just in case anyone's wondering what he looks like... Ruthrieston 1 Quote
Members Riobard Posted June 29 Members Posted June 29 “HAVE FUN” tatt “TAKE FIVE” panties Is that a low estimate or is it a case of being stingy? And doesn’t he have access to the PUMP! nickers line where you are? Quote
Members Riobard Posted June 29 Members Posted June 29 I might add that it would be entirely unreasonable to not converse about a cute tiny emoji tatt on a voluptuous bare rump. Quote
Mavica Posted June 29 Posted June 29 I have no tats. However, on occasion I've asked guys with them, about them. Then again, when I lived in Chicago and rode the subway to/from work ... I'd ask an amputee sitting next to me about the loss of their limb(s). In both those situations, those I asked seemed appreciative with the question. I think the tone of voice makes a difference. Riobard and floridarob 1 1 Quote
Members unicorn Posted June 30 Author Members Posted June 30 19 hours ago, Mavica said: ...when I lived in Chicago and rode the subway to/from work . 4 hours ago, Riobard said: Windy City vinapu and Mavica 2 Quote
Members Riobard Posted August 8 Members Posted August 8 On 6/29/2025 at 7:24 PM, Mavica said: I have no tats. However, on occasion I've asked guys with them, about them. Then again, when I lived in Chicago and rode the subway to/from work ... I'd ask an amputee sitting next to me about the loss of their limb(s). In both those situations, those I asked seemed appreciative with the question. I think the tone of voice makes a difference. Yeah because thalidomide survivors in particular love and live for strange subway riders being all up in their business. “Oh, I’ve noticed you are missing limbs. Do tell.” I think most of us might comment on a passenger’s nice shirt, not “I’ve noticed your shirt cuff rolled up to the boundary of your arm’s amputation juncture; what’s the story behind that?” Eeeesh. PeterRS and floridarob 2 Quote
Members Suckrates Posted August 10 Members Posted August 10 I think that party conversation, should be like any other, starting by "reading the room" , And then perhaps start with an inquisitive "amuse bouche" to break the ice and take the situations "temperature"... You'll be able to tell by the questions recipient if it is being received well and in good spirit.... However, questions of COCK size should be held for a formal first date. floridarob and vinapu 2 Quote
