June 16, 20251 yr Active Members I threw a big pool party for Flag Day (June 14th), and one of the hunkiest men there had plenty of tattoos. He was very friendly, and we got to talking, and I asked him about a number of tattoos, some of which were in foreign languages/scripts. He was very nice, and didn't seem to mind (in fact, he was just a tiny bit flirty, though, since my husband invited him, he knew I was taken). Are most men with tattoos OK with others asking about their tattoos at frolicking pool parties? I know that it does annoy me when people comment about my skin getting red in the sun, providing their opinion that they think I'm getting burnt, although I always wear strong sunblock (at least SPF 50, and was wearing SPF 100 that day), and my skin just gets red because of the temperature, and has nothing to do with getting burnt, which I don't when I wear sunblock. I'd especially like to hear from anyone who has tattoos. Do you mind when people ask you about them at very informal parties?
June 29, 20251 yr Active Members “HAVE FUN” tatt “TAKE FIVE” panties Is that a low estimate or is it a case of being stingy? And doesn’t he have access to the PUMP! nickers line where you are?
June 29, 20251 yr Active Members I might add that it would be entirely unreasonable to not converse about a cute tiny emoji tatt on a voluptuous bare rump.
June 29, 20251 yr I have no tats. However, on occasion I've asked guys with them, about them. Then again, when I lived in Chicago and rode the subway to/from work ... I'd ask an amputee sitting next to me about the loss of their limb(s). In both those situations, those I asked seemed appreciative with the question. I think the tone of voice makes a difference.
June 30, 20251 yr Author Active Members 19 hours ago, Mavica said: ...when I lived in Chicago and rode the subway to/from work . 4 hours ago, Riobard said: Windy City
August 8, 20251 yr Active Members On 6/29/2025 at 7:24 PM, Mavica said: I have no tats. However, on occasion I've asked guys with them, about them. Then again, when I lived in Chicago and rode the subway to/from work ... I'd ask an amputee sitting next to me about the loss of their limb(s). In both those situations, those I asked seemed appreciative with the question. I think the tone of voice makes a difference. Yeah because thalidomide survivors in particular love and live for strange subway riders being all up in their business. “Oh, I’ve noticed you are missing limbs. Do tell.” I think most of us might comment on a passenger’s nice shirt, not “I’ve noticed your shirt cuff rolled up to the boundary of your arm’s amputation juncture; what’s the story behind that?” Eeeesh.
August 10, 20251 yr Active Members I think that party conversation, should be like any other, starting by "reading the room" , And then perhaps start with an inquisitive "amuse bouche" to break the ice and take the situations "temperature"... You'll be able to tell by the questions recipient if it is being received well and in good spirit.... However, questions of COCK size should be held for a formal first date.
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