4 minutes ago, PeterRS said:

I am sure he has pockets in his pants and you can have a bit of fun as you try to find something in one.

for me shirt without pocket is like church without God

2 minutes ago, vinapu said:

for me shirt without pocket is like church without God

Ha! I thought you are not a church-goer.

3 hours ago, vinapu said:

I don't like that shirt as it has no pocket but guy in her is suuuuper handsome

The Mickey T-shirt has a pocket. The other was not an exact duplicate of the rainbow shirt I wore. I agree with you--I never wear shirts without pockets. Not even tank tops!

On 9/28/2025 at 8:29 PM, PeterRS said:

I do not go around with a banner on my back stating "I am gay!" as it seems so many in LA do. But if anyone asks, I tell them. I do not lie. I do not make excuses.

That is pretty much how I have lived my life since my mid-30's.  I certainly didn't send out engraved announcements to everyone I had ever met or associated with during those first 30-something years, and I didn't start wearing a sign.  But, I also don't hide it.  I live my life how I want to...on my terms.  If someone asks, I have no problem telling them.  When I was in a relationship, my partner would attend family functions and nobody said a word.  Same as get togethers with friends and co-workers.  Basically, it was a non-issue.  For those who had a problem with it...that was their problem, not mine.  

While I don't generally make statements announcing my sexual orientation, there have been a few exceptions in my life: my parents and my siblings. Of course, I'm always with my husband, so it's similar to coming out more explicitly when I correct strangers: "That's not my son. That's my husband!" 😉.

On the subject of fake heterosexuals (no one here), we spent the day at Disneyland and my husband noticed a man eyeballing him while the man was making out with his girlfriend! 😄