Turned away

[Olddaddy]

My fault for not using live video chat on Grinder📹

A guy turns up at my hotel room , looking at least 10 years older than his pics ,in fact he is balding , 👴👴

His Grindr pics are a 25 yo cute guy , sure its  him.....15 years ago !

Cute pics actually,he was a stunner 15 years ago ...

He turns up balding and fattter double chin wearing a baseball cap , I said take it off , thinking bald patch and then i was right 

As soon as I saw him I knew he was close to 40 telling me he was 25

How the hell does he think he still passes for 25

Not even for free would I take him ,, looks like he on the 🧊🧊🧊🧊

To cut a long story short he demands 500 baht ,he said he had to get a motorcycle taxi here 🛵

I give him 200 baht , I could of argued but better to get rid of him.

200 wasted on a lying moron 😠and time wasted setting appointments 

Reminds me to use live video chat next time although I recall not every Grindr subscriber has it I believe 

Maybe use WhatsApp then 

Oh STFU ! 🖕🖕🖕and mind your own business 

Thanks for NOTHING!!! 

 

 

 

 

[mauRICE]

1 hour ago, Olddaddy said:

I give him 200 baht , I could of argued but better to get rid of him.

200 wasted on a lying moron 😠and time wasted setting appointments

You rewarded him with 200 Baht for lying to you?

Why didn't you try your little experiment as you did in the Jomtien hotels busy thread by doing the full monty in front of him? That would have scarred him for life and prevented him from lying and doing the same thing to others.

[Olddaddy]

I didn't want to argue with him 

Maybe that's his modoranden or whatever the word is ? ..to shout in the hotel corridors so you pay him 

Thanks for ruining my night ....ALL of you !!!! 

[mauRICE]

48 minutes ago, Olddaddy said:

Maybe that's his modoranden or whatever the word is ? ..to shout in the hotel corridors so you pay him

It's actually two words: modo randen. Origin: Swahili.

It's a good word to use Olddaddy; makes you sound sophisticated. Pong2 uses it often.

[Keithambrose]

3 minutes ago, mauRICE said:

It's two words: modo randen. Origin: Swahili.

Not Esperanto?

[a-447]

Modus operandi??

[mauRICE]

Just now, a-447 said:

Modus operandi??

🙄

[Keithambrose]

9 minutes ago, a-447 said:

Modus operandi??

It was a joke!

[floridarob]

4 hours ago, Olddaddy said:

Reminds me to use live video chat next time although I recall not every Grindr subscriber has it I believe 

Maybe use WhatsApp then 

That'll guarantee this problem from happening again, or anyone showing up as well.

[a-447]

11 hours ago, Keithambrose said:

It was a joke!

'Modo randen' was, but I was replying to Olddaddy.

[Olddaddy]

A few guys still not wanting to use the live video chat 

Had a guy from the Philippines 🇵🇭 wanting 1000 baht , said he was 23 , hesitant to use live video and when he did he was dressed as a ladyboy 🧝‍♂️🧝‍♂️lucky I didn't tell him to come over

[Londoner]

There can't be many of us who haven't experienced this phenomenon. Tempting as it may be to dismiss the guy angrily, my advice would be to do as OD did and close the appointment without anger.

Life is too short- particularly holiday- life in Thailand- to make enemies and although the "correct" thing to do is, as others have said, to express anger and discourage the offender from repeating his transgression, my advice, particularly to the elderly and less robust, is to be be neutral when turning him away. You do not want to encourage hostility from someone who may be "high" on Yaba or for that  matter desperate for  money.

We are, as Oscar Wilde said of his commercial friends, "feasting with panthers".

Did I say panthers? Nearly all of the many whom I met in my offing days were pussy-cats. And honest ones.

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[Olddaddy]

15 minutes ago, Londoner said:

There can't be many of us who haven't experienced this phenomenon. Tempting as it may be to dismiss the guy angrily, my advice would be to do as OD did and close the appointment without anger.

Life is too short- particularly holiday- life in Thailand- to make enemies and although the "correct" thing to do is, as others have said, to express anger and discourage the offender from repeating his transgression, my advice, particularly to the elderly and less robust, is to be be neutral when turning him away. You do not want to encourage hostility from someone who may be "high" on Yaba or for that  matter desperate for  money.

We are, as Oscar Wilde said of his commercial friends, "feasting with panthers".

Did I say panthers? Nearly all of the many whom I met in my offing days were pussy-cats. And honest ones.

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True advice for those who can't defend themselves and of course you should do your "due diligence" before telling them your location and that could mean video chat if your suspicious 

 

[spoon]

Wait, i thought you like older asian men?

[Olddaddy]

47 minutes ago, spoon said:

Wait, i thought you like older asian men?

I certainly do , but not for paid sex

[Londoner]

What is worse? the guy who "isn't" the guy you chose? Or the attractive one you offed in a bar who turned out to be a complete dud in the bedroom. I'm not sure, and I have experienced both in my career.

The worst in the second category - as handsome a young man  as I've ever encountered-  had no intention of performing in bed. My futile efforts to arouse him were interrupted by his phone.

"It's Mama," he said jumping out of the bed. Something of a passion-killer , not that there had been much of that  before Mama phoned. I called it a night.

But here's the relevance to the thread. Despite my irritation, I paid him for his twenty minutes, not generously but the minimum of what was the going-rate of that time. Even in those early days of my Pattaya Adventure, I understood that offing a guy isn't like buying a car; you are dealing with a human being in an intensely personal way which makes both parties vulnerable.

I count myself fortunate to  have experienced  nine years of such activities , the vast majority of which were profitable for both parties. If a few haven't been, well,  like Oscar Wilde I've  been "feasting with panthers".

And I'm still with one of them after twenty years.

[Olddaddy]

2 hours ago, Londoner said:

 I understood that offing a guy isn't like buying a car; you are dealing with a human being in an intensely personal way which makes both parties vulnerable.

I'm only interested in my self receiving the pleasure if I'm paying for it ....im a selfish bitch !

[floridarob]

13 hours ago, Olddaddy said:

hesitant to use live video and when he did he was dressed as a ladyboy 🧝‍♂️🧝‍♂️

You should dress up as ladyboy, see how they like it.... but send us pics first, to give you makeup advice.

[Olddaddy]

Just now, floridarob said:

You should dress up as ladyboy, see how they like it.... but send us pics first, to give you makeup advice.

Hey that's a thought lol 😁that would really shock them especially if I put a pink wig on.🧝‍♂️

Mind you with some of the hardened moneyboys they couldn't careless they would fuck any old hole  for the money 💲💰

[floridarob]

Just now, Olddaddy said:

Mind you with some of the hardened moneyboys they couldn't careless they would fuck any old hole  for the money 💲💰

you're speaking from experience no doubt.